#but still what kind of ship name is b*mmy

[buddiebeginz]

Will never not find it funny that that ship has like 12 different ship names and not a single one of them is good. Not to mention none of them compare to Buddie it's like one of the best ship names ever. Plus like our ship name was literally picked out by one part of the ship which automatically makes it better.

[buddiebeginz]

Everytime I see a B*mmy edit where they're comparing that ship to the gay couple from s2 I want to scream. Like tell me you have zero media literacy without telling me. All of the scenes with that couple are about what it means to build a life with someone. To love and support and be there through the good and bad times. To see someone for who they truly are and love them anyway. Which is exactly what Buddie have done for years. They are the couple that have been building a life together.

How anyone can compare Buck and T*mmy to any of that is beyond me. Not only have B/T had barely any screen time together what they have had has repeatedly shown how very not compatible as a couple they actually are. T*mmy doesn't seem to get or even care really about who Buck is as person, right down even to the name he uses for him. Almost every single scene with them has examples of T*mmy being dismissive and or patronizing in some way to Buck.

I know that Buddie fandom has a lot of headcanons and some of what we talk about isn't stuff that's actually happened on the show, still our headcanons usually have some connection back to the actual history of the characters. The ship that B*mmy's talk about feels like it's been made up entirely in their heads way more than anything we've seen on screen. I get that they like T*mmy and I get that they like Buck and T*mmy together but they talk about them has having this great soulmate kind of love and there's literally nothing to back that up. Yet they continually try and downplay Buddie and call us delusional when we have six going on seven years of Buddie canonically being written to parallel the main romantic couples of the show.

[buddiebeginz]

Uhm you all are the ones who came up with b*mmy that's where I even saw the ship name floating around when your fandom was trying to figure out what to call your ship. Which you still haven't agreed on a consensus on btw since some parts call it one thing some another.

Also am I missing something here? How is the name b*mmy close to being a slur? It'd really be nice if your fandom would stop resorting to things like calling people homophobic because we don't like your ship or a scene your ship was in. Calling us ableist because some of you see T*mmy as neurodivergent (yes I've seen posts like this) and now apparently I'm using some kind of slur for using one your own ship names.

You realize homophobia is a huge deal and problem therefore calling someone out for being homophobic should be taken seriously. The more you throw out these kinds of terms just because you disagree with someone or don't like something they said the more you trivialize the importance of them. As a queer person myself I'm begging you all to stop talking like this.