#but nooooooo i’m just being craaaaaaazy… | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

starbuck · 3 days ago

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personally, i don’t think anyone should be physically injuring themselves or not taking a single day off in three years in order to care for someone else, but apparently my family knows something i don’t!!!!!!

#the first one isn’t even this side of the family… 😭😭 everyone is like this #like. of course i can HELP… always down to help!#but i’m not comfortable with EVERYTHING being on me #because i’ve seen what that does to people and it’s… bad!#i just don’t get it… why would you put yourself in that position????#and why would you not plan ahead for something like this?#we just can’t reasonably expect to be able to do everything by ourselves #that’s not fair to us or to the people we’re caring for #i probably shouldn’t have but i called them out directly for seeing suffering as a form of love tonight #and they had NO idea what i was talking about #which is honestly hilarious #we are living on different planets #they both refuse to ask for ANY help unless they ABSOLUTELY have to and grind themselves into the ground for no reason #other than that doing everything themselves at any cost in order to not inconvenience the other person is how they show love #but nooooooo i’m just being craaaaaaazy…

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