#but if like 10% of my followers can go through my carrd and click a few links then the whole thing would be covered

[cherry-bomb-ships]

Lmao uhhhh anyone here wanna go thru my Carrd and see if all my links are still working 💀

[tr4umaborn]

TR4UMABORN -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- indie. private. mutually exclusive multimuse

** MUSES -- primary: thomas james hammond. political animals. thomas doherty. prev: @tjhmnd. wyll ravengard. baldur's gate 3. jacob anderson. gale dekarios. baldur's gate 3. live action fc tbd. nadia godfrey. hemlock grove. milly alock. caius. the twilight saga. sam reid. natalie scatorccio. yellowjackets. sophie thatcher. prev: @natal7e felix catton. saltburn. jacob elordi. mike warren. graceland. aaron tveit. -- by request: ianto jones. torchwood. jonathan bailey. louis de pointe du lac. the vampire chronicles (mixed canon). jacob anderson. bucky barnes. marvel. jonathan bailey. bode akuna. jedi: survivor. no live action fc. abigail hobbs. hannibal. kacey rohl. eliot waugh. the magicians. hale appleman.

written by bee. tumblr elder. 21+ to follow and interact. heavily triggering themes likely present. all muses are canon divergent. mostly written in 1st person and therefore in the frame of mind of the muse. please see posts linked in name for each character on important details. carrd u/c. rules under the cut. promo. ask. memes.

affiliated with: @t1meaway. @maramcna.

ONE . The first rule of my blogs will literally always be don’t be a dick. I don’t have time for it. You don’t have time for it. Just don’t do it.

TWO . I don't have any triggers, but if you do please let me know!! this blog will contain a boat load of triggering content including but not limited to gore, violence, and mature situations. I generally don't tag triggers unless I'm asked, but I tag things with NSFW when it needs to be.

THREE . I do practice mains and exclusives, because sometimes you just click with people and that's ok! I will follow duplicates of MY muse, but unless it's a friend, I generally won't follow duplicates of exclusive muses.

FOUR . This blog is limited to interactions with mutuals. i always follow back / follow first if i feel like we can write together. if i haven't followed you back after a few days, it probably means i won't be following back to write. for the sake of my profession (i'm a high school age educator) i will not be following back anyone younger than 21.

FOUR CONT. While i do not follow back younger than 21 because i feel icky if you're young enough to be my student, my messages are always open if you ever need anything! if you need an adultier adult to talk to about something i can always try to be that for anyone. i know how important trusted adults are.

FIVE . This blog will be mostly private. I'm here for a good time not a long time. If you want to write with me, the best way is to DM me and say yo bitch let's RP.

SIX . My name is bee. i'm 32 years old. i've been writing on tumblr for like 10 years and rping in general for over half my life. i met my significant other through rp. we just moved across the country so i could go to rabbinical school. obviously i'm super busy but i love making friends!

CREDITS . psd is a combo of two by supersources. all graphics made by me unless otherwise stated.

[monriatitans]

Ta-Da! List: Saturday, June 29th

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Ta-Da! List

✧ throughout the day: - kept emails manageable - loaded the dishwasher - filled out today’s TDL

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ✧ on the mobile phone: - Hive: shared today’s ASO

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ✧ on the bedroom setup: - Movies: watched “The Nightmare Before Christmas”

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ✧ on the office setup: - WGS: gave a human artist, Jordan Lucchino, a shout-out by sharing it on O&T, Tumblr, and other social media; in the WGS Carrd, changed “neurodivergent” to “ADtistic (ADHD + Autistic)”; prepared the ASO for tomorrow, Jun. 30th; on Twitch, changed the “Artist Shout-Out Criteria” link from O&T’s to the ASO Ko-fi’s - O&T: created a new pinned message on Threads - Design: in Canva, went through templates and changed “Feature Image” to “Header”; added dates to the “COTMQs Post Headers” and “Monthly Wrap-Up Annc. Headers” templates - Gaming: played “Final Fantasy XIV” - YouTube: watched, listened to, and/or started: 1. Jim Sterling’s videos “Creepy Activision Wants To Know All About Their Employees’ Pregnancies”, “Idiotic Bill Proposes 10% ‘Sin Tax’ On Violent Videogames To Stop School Shootings”, “Corporate Parasites: Activision Pays Zero Income Tax, Gets A Refund Anyway”, “Net Neutrality: ISPs Can Throttle And Block Content So Long As They Admit It”, “EU Votes In Favor Of Article 13, Giving Copyright Holders Undue Power Over Internet Platforms”, “Should Activision Blizzard Be Hiring For Community Managers After Laying Off Community Managers?”, “Report: Epic Abusing Workers With Obscene Crunch Periods To Maintain Fortnite’s Success”, “Take-Two CEO Gets A Massive Bonus If People Spend Loads Of Money On Microtransactions”, “Pity Poor Waluigi”, “Switch Online Makes Nintendo Look Weak”, “How Fighting Games Are Carved Up To Extract Your Cash”, “Solo: A Single-Player Success Story”, “Nintendo, The Industry, And The Attack On Emulators”, “The Xbox One Is A Bit Shit”, “Harry Potter And The Crock Of Shit”, “Maybe The Wizard Game Just Wasn’t Very Good”, “The Game Awards Will Never Do Better”, “Sony Took Down A Shameless Rip-Off Of The Last Of Us On The Switch?”, and 2. Kasia Baba’s video “The Harmful Ideology of Radical Unschooling” 3. Sydney Watson’s video “Rage Bait: Influencers are making you mad ON PURPOSE”

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ✧ chores and miscellaneous: - Food: had coffee, water, and grapes for breakfast; had grapes and Oreos for lunch; went to family dinner and had ice cream for dessert; had Pizza Goldfish as a snack - Chores: checked the mail

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Well, these are all the updates I had for today! Thank you for reading!

May every decision you make be *in the spirit of fairness* and may the rest of your day *NOT go to $#!7*!

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[olderthannetfic]

See like- DNIs I think are rather dumb, BYF (what DNIs used to be before the reblog banners started being a thing and Those have an unhinged bullshit history you would NOT believe I could unload but back on topic) is a great choice for stating boundaries & blockable offenses & stances without being like 'if you dont stalk my blog to the most unreadable carrd known to man hidden in an unmarked hyperlink to see if your on it Im Allowed to harass you'. DNIs... Well I gotten passive aggressively bitched at before for not going on desktop and clicking through someones unmarked hyperlink about pages to read their DNI (not even the hovertext bio, UNMARKED desktop about link that didnt show up on mobile) before reblogging to an aesthetic blog that they wouldnt know I was on their DNI for unless they stalked MY blog for reblogging a post with hundereds of notes. Thats the real purpose of a DNI over a BYF in 9/10 cases- to have permission by social cred to harass anyone liking/reblogging their posts for 'violating their dni' because they didnt stalk the blogs of every post they liked or reblogged.

Like a BYF does everything all the people claim a DNI does, and like most of the people on a DNI are NEVER gonna respect a DNI or think the DNI doesnt apply to them so its really only useful for the excuse to entrap someone in a callout(which is shitty) or as a way to signal to potential new followers what your disk horse opinions are(what a BYF can serve as).

Like 'please dont send asks about x or follow if you are y' are reasonable boundaries, but 'dont touch my posts if you are a freak' (which is like 50% of dnis at this point) is.... not a concrete or reasonable boundary.

If (general)you need to have a DNI for trigger reasons, get xkit and disable avatars, then blacklist a bunch of stuff. If you still cant be safe with that, it might be best to just. Not have a tumblr.

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I find BYF kind of dumb as a term too. I'll state what my blog is like, but you following or not following, reading or not reading is up to you, not me.

I can ask people not to send asks on topic X, but there's no guarantee they'll even see that. It's far easier to just ignore asks one isn't interested in or to block people one doesn't want to talk to.

[cyberdykes]

this is the most insane shit in the world its just like “ok here are each of the issues you should care about don’t worry about research just share this and you’ll have done your civic duty” or something. My dad and i were just talking about how my generation is so exposed to every atrocity known to man constantly and we’re supposed to absorb it all Which is true and horrifying but also there is so much posturing done of like look i shared this instagram graphic look i shared this carrd this is me helping the brutalized people of these countries thousands of miles away from me when in reality the best thing you could do to help suffering people is to increase your understanding of capitalism and imperialism and the alternatives. Building dual power is the most important thing you can do to help workers everywhere and you posting a carrd to your twitter followers who have seen the same shit one thousand times... all that does is make you feel a little better and assuage that guilt. this is nothing this is bs. I’m not saying don’t raise awareness and i’m not saying don’t donate to the charities listed here (as long as you’ve made sure the money is going to the right places) but this “link to various carrds” is batshit insane. Oh look i’m helping. no you’re not!!!! Honestly this is probably more harmful than saying nothing because this kind of thing is so overwhelming and easy to scroll past. Pick one fucking issue yall you can’t help everyone. Build your dual power that is your homework from this post. And im not saying none of these have useful information but 9/10 no one is clicking through them they’re just blindly sharing. Also i am guilty of doing the same of sharing shit without 100% getting it or whatever and sometimes i post because i feel guilty about not posting. But posting is not doing the work. i’m begging you to read theory lol.