#but i dont get it :(

[reallyneedsalife]

maybe I'm just being really fucking stupid (high possibility) but why is comphet considered to be an exclusively lesbian thing?

I get why its considered a lesbian thing, but surely other people can experience it too its not an exclusively lesbian experience?

like gay men can experience forcing themselves into relationships with women (comphet)

aro people can experience forcing themselves into romantic relationships (comphet)

ace people can experience forcing themselves into sexual relationships (comphet)

Compulsory Heterosexuality (and implied compulsory allosexuality) impacts a lot of querr people? doesn't it?

I get why its not a bi experience or a pan experience but why is it considered exclusively a lesbian thing?

because while it is partially a patriarchal assumption that all women must love men, and that women are measured by the relationship to met, but that's also a amatonormative assumption and pressure too? the whole "my relationship must be what they consider 'normal' so I'll date men/date women/date and not even let myself consider the possibility I'm queer."

this is a genuine question, by the way, I'm not trying to be antagonistic

[loumandforyou]

I really want to know Netflix's logic though. Why would anyone start a new tv show if chances are that it's going to get cancelled and leave the story unfinished? Have they thought that maybe viewership would be increased (if that's the problem here) if people weren't afraid of getting invested on a show that has no future?

[pinkdiamonddd]

selfshipping is confusing

like. I see people talk about their f/o like they're real and it confuses my autistic ass sm .

please guys is there something I'm missing out on . what do you mean by "we've had ups and downs" what what what w???h? help

[spookytreecoppie-blog]

Heres the thing about these relationships that the creators claim are "just friends." I have close friends! And never do I make the claims these so called "best friends" make. I don't touch like that, or know them like that. There are no earnest declarations! And if there are, its because ONE OF US WAS GENUINELY IN LOVE WITH THE OTHER.

My closest platonic bond is my sister and we aren't about to rest our foreheads together as we die!! I completely support platonic friendships, but when I apply these interpretations of a platonic friendship to my life?! It doesn't make sense. And there are SO MANY COUPLES I COULD TAG THIS AS.

If you want a platonic friendship, write one! There can be platonic friendships that are super important in media! And there are! But these touches, gazing into someone's eyes and saying "my place was always here with you" and, "only you could show me this," or sacrificing my life for them? Like MAYBE I would, but not happily. Not with a tender expression of acceptance and love on my face. SORRY but I want to live.

Like seriously, take an aspect of Jayce and Viktors life and applying it to mine it's like yeah ok if I acted like that it's cause it's NOT JUST FRIENDSHIP.

[picklesaremyenemies]

Why does percy have to pass his SATs for roman college?

Like most all of the kids going there are roman demigods/legacies, and they have to serve in the legion before that, so they probably don't go to school? Or do they? How are they gonna pass the SATs?

[minty-cups]

i dont get the hype for chappell roan

[carracerbarbie]

Someone please explain why everyone boos that one guy when he has the ball

[gaytobymeres]

literally do not understand finance/banking terms at all no matter how hard i try 😭

[npdlangley]

why didn't my dad let me go too i don't understand

[bananonbinary]

Oh look.....another hacker to report to the police in her area.....stay the fuck off my computer and my cellphone and my Microsoft word and my word pad and get your ideas elsewhere!

what

is this some sort of copypasta im unaware of or are you genuinely accusing me of being a hacker when i dont even know how to fix my phone half the time

[abrahamshipwreck]

Unpopular opinion bit Astarion physically repulses me. Even before I heard his voice, he does the opposite of what he does to some of yall.

[hauntingrabbits]

comic

[kochei0]

I turn to Ares.

Thanks to Tyler Miles Lockett who allowed me to draw inspiration from his ARES piece for page 2! Look at his etsy page it's SICK

⚔️ If you want to read some queer retelling of arturian legends have a look at my webtoon

[oncorhynchus-nerka]

VERY IMPORTANT a dam in the Netherlands, the weerdsluis lock, is directly on a migratory path for spawning fish. They have a worker stationed there to open the door for the fish, but they can take a while to open it. So to keep the fish from getting preyed on by birds they installed a doorbell. Only, the fish don't have hands to ring the doorbell. If you go to their website, they have a LIVE CAMERA AND A DOORBELL that YOU RING FOR THE FISH when they're waiting, and then the dam worker opens the door for them! I can't express how obsessed I am with this. look at this shit. oh my god.

Please check on the fish doorbell once in a while :)

[sleepygaymerdisease]