#but from my opinion it’s really enhanced in gay relationships because you are comparing yourself to someone who is the same as you

[the-sappho-of-lesbos]

Was talking to my gf today about how female socialisation and homosexuality collide (when two worlds collide~ ✨) in a lesbian relationship. Because I , who I think is pretty objectively ugly, looks at my gf, who is objectively very attractive (like she grew up with sooooo many people telling her to became a model ) I get hit with the homosexuality like : oh my GOD you are hot 😍♥️ , and then hit with the female socialisation like: I’m going to hyper analyse everything about your appearance and compare it against my own and feel like utter shit about myself and feel self conscious walking next to you or taking a photo with you because being next to your beauty highlights how ugly I am.