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hallwyeoo · 1 year

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Bingge is such a child. He’s so reactive and angry and he chases after things he THINKS will make him happy, instead of actually resolving his issues. He’s unable to take criticism, constantly writhing and clawing for love, but refuses to make himself better for other people. He refuses to trust and genuinely connect with others and then he acts all scorned and wronged when no one actually likes him. Someone give him a Shen Yuan but also is that fair to Shen Yuan??? Does someone have to allow themselves to suffer disrespect and abuse to alleviate his pain??? Do they have to let him be increasingly horrible to them to “test” their love or whatever?? Luo Bingge wants love, but thinks that love is only attainable with power. He refuses to be vulnerable. God I love him but he’s so fucked up. Him and Shen Jiu are the same. They’re so different. They both deserved better. They both suffered.

#I don’t personally LOVE the idea that sy as a character is the fix all for every Binghe #and I also don’t love the idea that sy should be forced with bingge to ‘fix him’#like. relationships can create very real and positive change #and having someone to challenge you while also loving you and creating a supportive safe environment is HUGE #but it’s not fair to rely solely on that and solely on one person for that #to be clear #I’m not a binggeyuan hater #I just also think that bingge healing shouldn’t be at the expense of others #and for him to heal and actually be in a healthy relationship he also has to confront what he’s become and how he’s hurt people #and I think for any Binghe that’s difficult #but bingge especially built himself around being justified and right and powerful etc etc #svsss #luo binghe #mxtx svsss #text post #shen yuan #shen qingqiu #scumbag self saving system #mxtx #meta analysis #pidw #proud immortal demon way #luo bingge #character analysis #I’ll have to dedicate another post to bingges relationship to sex and consent #in the sense that he probably didn’t properly consent in the immortal alliance conference #and then went on to put others in that situation while the world itself justified it with ‘they’ll die and only your dick can save them’#this bad boy can fit so much trauma

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