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[kaahgyuya]

hello! uh can i request fem!reader who is in a secret relationship with Kinich and was hanging out with the natlan girls plus lumine and paimon practically taking her attention away from kinich making him jealous. No angst just pure fluff. thank you^^

Jelly . ! (FLUFF)

. synopsis ; kinich gets jealous!

. warnings/notes ; fem!reader, Kinich might be ooc... secret relationship, he gets jealous, pet names oneshot, and reader in this might not be a liking for you! (Reqs are open, so feel free to recommend some stuff of your own!)

rahhh!!! Thank you for being one of my first requests after awhile of not posting on Tumblr! Forgive me for not posting a lot last year, but I'll be sure to post regularly. Thank you anonymous for this request! (My apologies if this is not how you like it 🙏)

REQS. are open!!! (Open until 10/3)

Kinich and you started dating around 5 months ago, and ever since then, you wanted to keep it a secret because you didn't know how to explain it to the others.

Its been 5 months though, when will you tell the others?

Besides, Kinich has offered to tell them for you, but you just felt too embarrassed to do so, so he might as well leave it be until you're comfortable. After all, you're his partner.

Lately, Kinich has noticed you haven't been paying much attention to him, so everytime whenever he can't spread his love for you, he gets a little annoyed.

"Cmon, Kinich— you're so pathetic! Stop sulking before ya'lose all of your balls!"

"Shut up, Ajaw." With a snap of his fingers, Ajaw gets sent to the sky, being sent to his timeout.

Kinich sighs as he finishes off his commission and walks off.

He finally sees you, walking to his tribe while humming softly with your hands behind your back, however, they're in public so he can't help but feel a little sting in his chest.

"Y/N." Kinich called out for you, you turned around and waved enthusiastically.

"Hi Kinich! I was just about to look for you." You say as he approaches you.

He walks beside you as you yap your mouth off to him. He wants to hold your hand so badly, he just brushes his hand against yours.

As you and Kinich make it to the top, you still talk to Kinich as he listens to you carefully.

"Is that Y/N? Y/NNN!!!" You heard an eager voice call your name, and you turn around to see Paimon, Lumine, Mualani, and Kachina.

"Huh? Oh hey guys!" You run over to them immediately leaving Kinich on his own. He couldn't help but feel that same sting clench his chest again.

"Hi Mualani! Long time no see huh?" You asked her, she eagerly agreed too as you guys had girl talk... and then there's Kinich.

Kinich noticed that recently whenever he was with you, or about to give you a small kiss, someone always had to come and interrupt you guys. Whether it'd be a friend of yours, or a stranger.

He couldn't help but just stand there for awhile and contemplate. He couldn't help but feel that stinging feeling come back.

Was he jealous? No, no, of course not. The calm and collected Kinich would never, he would never let this stupid emotion take over him right here, right now. He's much more mature than this, he would nev—

"Oh? We should visit by sometim—" you were cut off as you felt arms wrap around your waist tightly, and nuzzling their head in the crook of your neck.

"Huh?"

"Eh?"

There was a long silence.

Kinich pressed a soft kiss on your neck as he kept his head hidden in your neck.

"My love," Kinich mumbled in a low voice."

"Wait— you're dating Kinich?!" Mualani was the first to yell that out loudly as some people nearby looked at them.

Lumine covered Kachina's eyes as she asked, "wait huh? What happened?"

"SHES DATING HIM??" Paimon screeched.

"Hold on, we never knew you guys were dating! How long have you..." Mualani paused and noticed your face was bright red and completely frozen.

Kinich looked up at them and answered her question. "We've been dating for about 5 months." Kinich couldn't help but feel a little guilty after breaking his promise with you, he felt bad because his jealousy took over.

He continued to leave his head nesting in the crook of your neck.

"M'sorry, my love." Kinich mumbled in a low voice.

Paimon waved a hand in front of your face, yet you showed no response.

"I—I, uh... um." The tips of your hands felt shaky and a wave of embarrassment washed over.

"How come you never told us, Y/N?" Mualani asked with a worried smile, you were so red you looked like you had a fever.

"It— I uh, I didn't know how to say it." The redness still bloomed all over your face.

"Trust me, it's easy." Kinich said.

"wh—wait hold on!" Kachina removed Lumine's hands from her face and saw them being all cuddly and close.

"If you guys are dating for real, then kiss!" Kachina immediately blurted out then covered her mouth.

"Sorry!.." She mumbled.

"Cmon, let's go." Kinich immediately scooped you up bridal way and then took his way off.

"Kinich— put me down!" You tried tackling him off but he didn't bother as he still walked off.

Mualani and the others heard you from a distance as you guys got more and more faint.

"Kachina, let's talk about this later." Mualani says with a somewhat concerned smile.

"What just happened?" Lumine and paimon ask.

"Dunno, but I can't help but feel happy for them. At the same time, a little upset because they never told us." Mualani said while putting a hand on her hip.

"Wanna take a bet on who confessed first?" Lumine asked while chuckling.

"I bet Y/N!" Kachina said.

"No way, I think Kinich." Mualani immediately said.

Kinich and you are both somewhere secluded as he put you on top of some boxes.

"M'sorry." Kinich immediately leaned his head on your chest and huffed.

You can suddenly hear the guilt in his voice.

"I was.." He paused.

"I was jealous because lately you haven't been paying much attention to me, so it built up over time and..." He paused again.

"I'm sorry, Y/N." Kinich mumbled as he hugged you tightly again.

"It's fine. I was planning to tell them soon anyways, but the way you did it was so embarrassing." You grumbled.

"Mind if I do it differently then?"

"What do you mean?" You asked.

"What if I just kissed you in front of them instead?" He chuckled while lifting his head up to look at you.

"No!"

@kaahgyuya 9/30/24 6:50 pm

A/n : sorry if there's any sloppy writing or anything like that, I hope you enjoyed reading though! <3

[rin-and-jade]

First of all, thank you for making this a safe and well-known space for systems to ask for guidance. I was thinking of places I could ask this question, and your blog was one of my first ideas.

For some background, we achieved system discovery back in May of 2021 while dating someone who was eventually diagnosed with DID. This relationship wasn't great and it very slowly fell apart. After this, we've noticed a pattern where whenever we're single, our front is utterly fucked and constantly blurry. Then, we start dating someone, split a host that more or less fits their needs, and our front stabilizes.

Just under a week ago, we finally broke up with a relationship that was very toxic and unhealthy, and we're firmly staying single for at least a year to prioritize ourselves. However, we've once again lost control of the front, and our host is struggling to maintain order. We need to break this cycle and heal whatever is causing us to rely on outside influence to have healthy switches, but we have no idea where to start or what resources would work best. Any thoughts or advice is greatly appreciated 🙏

Oh man i appreciate the comment, although im unsure if people would remember my blog as a place for guidance as it has been silent for a few months (i've been working a side job for 6 months,,, and geez im super relieved the contract's over by today. More time for blog!) I want to work on some unfinished ideas i have for tumblr though, maybe i'll get back to them..!

Also, im very sorry that your previous partner has been really toxic, my DMs are open if you need someone to talk to.

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Have you considered the idea that you feel more stability around people? Being alone and sitting with your own feelings or even acknowledging your existence can be one tough job to some since they're confronted with negative feelings, it can be something as mild as feeling uncomfortable or as severe as experiencing debilitating thoughts of it.

Let's do some checking first--do you feel less blurry when you're with your friends/family/group or communities you actively participate in? I know it won't be as obvious when you have a partner, if there's a chance that being around people, even if its platonic, caused your front to feel a bit more steady,,, we should pay attention to that detail.

How do you feel if you're alone, even if its a few hours and nobody's talking to you? Do you often place your focus on other people more than yourself, wether you did it purposely or not? Would you let me know if there was a deeper reason that you feel better around partners so far? If you could answer this, it'll help me understand the situation better,, for now i wish to hear a few more details from your struggles to ensure we're on the same page.

Now, from your current clues you've provided, it sounds like you regulate yourself better when you have someone else to act as a focal point of your wellbeing. I deduce--not an immediate fact yet--that you need the other person to feel okay, so you feel okay too. Especially if they're sad, then you're also feeling sad.

The possibility of learning dependency happens often in household settings where the older guardian could not self regulate properly, and so to ensure safety--you need to ensure they're emotionally well too. Because, if they're not,, then there's going to be fire everywhere. This means you're forced to learn to focus on the other person's wellbeing whilst neglecting your own,, meaning, you mirror theirs.

Please let me know if these words resonate with you! And feel free to answer (not forced, you could answer some of them if you don't want to disclose all of them) so i could think of solutions that fit with your needs,, either with a new ask or via DMs, any you're comfortable with. We're gonna have to talk back and forth since one ask cannot be relied on to properly assess your issues.

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So yes, i answered this ask by bringing awareness of a pattern you might be having first, there is no proper answers to solutions yet since the context is still vague. I hope this still can provide insights to those who deal with similar situations about their own patterns.

- c