#but as SOON as its a trans man. “gotta man up! tough it out!”
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No. Google. I'm actually looking specifically for trans MEN. I know a lot of articles talk about trans women. But I'm specifically looking for stuff about my subset of the trans community. Why the fuck are trans men so hyper-invisible.
#this is like the fifth different wording in the search and it all pulls up articles about trans WOMEN who have died#and that needs to be talked about!!!!!!!! IM JUST LOOKING FOR SOMETHING ELSE THO SO LIKE CAN THIS FUCKING SEARCH ENGINE WORK???#hyper-visibiliy and hyper-invisibility make it a nightmare to search for certain info#like 90% of the time things arent fucking recorded as a hatecrime when against a trans man. he gets buried under his dead name#and the silence echoes. never added to the numbers. never fucking seen.#then theres the guys who are just trying to push thru. even if you wanna talk about whats happened to you why? why would you?#its just taking attention away from (everyone else) people who need it#why talk about your issues when ur supposed to just “be a man” and bottle it up#we talk all the time about how men need to talk about their shit and need to be in touch with emotions and go to therapy and all that shit#but as SOON as its a trans man. “gotta man up! tough it out!”#and man you can see that shit in the statistics#yeah i know part of this is just google turning into AI infested garbage but still
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About the world: Takes place in a fictional European/Canadian/American country called "Koche" (pronounced Ka-ch-eh). The planet is Earth adjacent, some of the same rules we have here but others have a magical realism twist to them. You’ve gotta role with the punches.
Kelsa Juniper:
Nicknames: Kellie, Sa, Tomato (siblings only, she blushes easily)
Has 7 siblings (brothers and enby siblings)
Kendrick (Bold Ruler): Cishet man, He/Him, oldest, volunteered to join the war effort to stop Kestrel from having to go, very rigid about rules and has issues relaxing, autistic, PTSD, siblings call him “Ricky” when trying to get a rise out of him
Kenwood "Woody" (Royal Guardian): Genderfluid, Bi, He/She/ It, second oldest, first to be drafted in the war due to his nursing prowess, saw a lot of gore as a result, she used to be a bit of a daredevil who enjoyed its scars as each reminded her of an adventure he went on but now gets sick at the sight of blood, autistic/ADHD, PTSD
Kasani (Chicory, which is said to make the user invisible allowing them to sneak up on people like me lol): Trans man, He/Him siblings helped choose his name since it fit so well, BPD, ran away at the start of the war to avoid being drafted (siblings have a bit of a rift towards him due to this. Not on purpose but… it’s a bit hard to trust someone who abandoned you when times get tough)
Kemp (Fighter, Champion): Cis gay man, He/Him, experiences mania and psychosis, huge insomniac, depression, wasn’t drafted due to his mental health issues (which he beats himself up for), Kelsa is his favorite
Kestrel (Small, Colorful Falcon): Cishet man, like his namesake is very small and fragile, low muscle tone and arthritic, was drafted when the war went into a more desperate drafting period, lots of guilt of Kendrick having to go to war to protect him, self harm tendencies, also an insomniac
Keene (Wise): He/Him?, The youngest (and kind of an accident baby but no one mentions it), Cishet man (or so he thinks ;)), self destructive tendencies, too young to have been drafted, middle child syndrome but isn’t the middle child (or ignored, just has feelings of inadequacy), ironically not very wise makes a lot of decisions and has beliefs towards himself that lack common sense.
Khaleel (Friendly): More on him in his own profile
Butch Queer woman, She/Her
Soon to be in a polyam relationship with Derwyn and Priyanka (already dating Derwyn)
Is the only one of her siblings in therapy currently, but she’s gonna force them into it sooner or later
Loves her family
Drafted in the war, fought as a soldier. Loses a lot of sleep over it
PTSD, depression, anxiety, anger issues (she's working on it)
Parents no longer live at home as the country holds to many memories, but they talk often
Abandonment issues
Peregrine Olivewood:
Nicknames: Perri, Grin, Starlight (Kelsa’s the only one who uses this one)
They/Them, Love/Loves, Nov/Nova, Stargender, Lovegender, Pansexual
Polyam relationship with Derwyn and Kesla (hasn’t officially started dating them yet)
Her father is awful, he sold her to the enemy side to save his own skin.
Her house is now just one big bad memory. Mother died when she was a child in a lab accident
C-PTSD from childhood and PTSD from being a POW (fun!). MADD/frequent disassociation
Has a big heart but trust issues cause her difficulties in loving new people
Only child so loves the Juniper household and its chaos
Derwyn Hughes:
Nicknames: Winnie, Glasses (friendly teasing used by the main group)
Autistic and ADHD, APD
Special Interests: War history, Mathematics (especially word problems), Stuffed animals, geology
Current Hyperfixation: The archeology project on old War battlefields that he runs a blog on that updates regularly on their new findings
He/Him They/Them (?)
Sexuality: ??? (he’s still figuring it out but loves Kelsa very much)
Lack of object permanence makes him “lose” his glasses a lot
Always cold, always wears at least two layers
Like a big cat, can often be found laying in the sun
Claustrophobic
Wasn’t drafted but is hyper empathetic so he’s very anxious around the Junipers when they’re upset. Usually leaves the room when emotions get too high
Many stim toys always on his person, mainly things to do with his hands
Trichtillomania
Priyanka Wilkins:
Nicknames: Pri, Ms. Fashion degree (used mainly by Kelsa)
They/She, Demiromantic, (comphet bisexual, we’re working on it ;) )
More fashionable than you’ll ever be
Veils and dresses modestly
Autistic (very big on black and white thinking), germaphobic (has obsessive compulsions about contamination)
Special Interests: Fashion throughout the ages (main focus on victorian and Japanese streetwear), Religion, Ancient Civilizations
Bookworm
Professional Boxer
Freelance fashion designer
Khaleel Higbee:
He doesn’t like nicknames (Party Pooper :(, Kelsa makes up nicknames for him anyway cause she’s a stinker :p )
Any Pronouns, Bisexual (has a hard time with his feelings for men but is trying)
Dyes hair all the time but it somehow never gets damaged (the real magic here lol)
Parental issues
BPD, Anxiety, Abandonment Issues, Spoonie (in denial)
Has a difficult time getting out of his own head, very susceptible to negative self talk
Came from immigrant parents and has a hard time opening up about his feelings and using healthy coping mechanisms. He’s working on it
Tentative relationship with Priyanka
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