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devotedlystrangewizard · 5 months

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using it/its is mostly just hearing "she... he... it????" and thinking "wow i should probably mention thats disrespectful to most trans people" but not saying anything because no actually call me it more often i love it

#ramblings #@ my dad #he sometimes calls me 'it' but hes only aware of me using he/him #so OFFICIALLY its disrespectful #but also my dad is a cishet white man in his mid forties who just barely escaped the real transphobia #like hes transphobic in the sense that. hes disrespectful TO trans people if they annoy him #v much 'everything would be fine if everyone just shut the fuck up and fit in' mentality #and he TRIES to use he/him for me #like he could do better w trans people but he could also do a LOT worse #ANYWAY #i dont think he'd comprehend my actual serious it/its usage #and thats fine honestly #im just glad he respects my identity as not only a transmasc person but a NONBIMARY PERSON #my dad is the embodiment of the 'gay people i respect/gay people i dont respect' meme actually

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