#btw if its an eye for an eye situation yall probably shouldnt be together now if its something they did that hurt you

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I fully believe in:

Is a woman acting crazy or are you treating her so badly and the way she's reacting is not what you like because you thought it was okay to abuse her with no repercussion?

Are you anxiously attached? Or have they not been honest with you or given you the proper reassurance you deserve?

Are you being hot and cold/hesitant to put more effort towards someone? Or have they let themselves be warm all the time while they left you out in the cold?

Because both growing up and with partners, I was told I was a rebel and had anger issues.

And then it turned out I was literally living in households trying not to get killed. Which is a very harsh example but it's true.

Are you bad? Or have you been getting treated badly that even going against that treatment has framed you to be the one who's guilty,wrong,overreacting,toxic or crazy?

Lastly:

In long-term relationships, you're bound to make mistakes and hurt each other, but what have they/you done differently since that? If you're not having disagreements with your partner because "you don't want/like to fight," then you don't know how to communicate with your partner. And you need to have that for a long-term partner. You need communication,emotional intelligence, understanding, taking accountability, the ability to work out the faults, change, etc.

I deserve to be treated good and not worry about my partner liking other people. I think that's okay, that's the bare minimum actually.