#btw all of this was prompted my my textbook saying that trans ppl being forced to stay as their agab often causes dysphoria
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I’ve said it before I think but. The argument about whether you need dysphoria to be trans is mainly just an argument about the definition of the word dysphoria. People who say you Do need dysphoria to be trans tend to define it as just a state of your gender identity not matching what you were assigned at birth, or just some kind of internal sense that you are trans. People who say you Don’t need dysphoria to be trans tend to define it as self hatred, extreme discomfort with one’s appearance and genitalia, being miserable with life etc.
No room for any in between or for individuals to have personal experience w what dysphoria means for them. Which leads to a whole lot of putting words into people’s mouths and assigning beliefs to people and making up a guy to get mad at and creating mortal enemy Teams about it when there’s really a lot more agreement than we acknowledge. There will never be one universal definition of dysphoria or transness, and I think it would be beneficial if more people approached it with more nuance
#I’ve said things like this irl and people i usually agree with will look at me w visible disappointment#or like feel a need to make sure I haven’t secretly been a Bad Person all this time#and im like that is exactly what I mean#hearing statements like this and jumping right to ‘so u think all trans ppl have to be sad forever’ is crazy#I’m not even saying u need some sort of dysphoria bro im saying I Don’t Know bc no one can actually tell me what they’re asking#if ur asking ‘do all trans ppl viscerally hate their junk’ obviously no. I don’t think many ppl think that#but if ur asking ‘are trans people real or is it all just dress up’ that’s different and u know it!!#anyways I think it’s all just a stupid nothing argument and we should all go outside#it’s certainly a discussion that will get people to show their transphobia real fast#btw all of this was prompted my my textbook saying that trans ppl being forced to stay as their agab often causes dysphoria#the fact that some ppl would say that’s a bigoted statement is absolutely wild yall need trans 101 before u post#mine#txt#trans#transexual
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