#brunetteproblems

[prov31lioness]

Happy Sunday, all! I brightened my hair last night so now I'm sporting a deep magenta mop. Now I'm off to church to fill my cup for another week! #thelordismylight #christianwife #christianmom #christianparent #praiseJesus #summerhair #flatironandbraids #brunetteproblems #thishumiditytho #smirk #imissmylordling #imissmyspartan (at Saint Cloud, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BzDWcThhEH7/?igshid=174nb8bh13axf

[ladygunnell]

Wear my hair down and it’s “insta-goth chick” for the day 😅 #brunetteproblems #gothychickforlife #witchywoman #canthelpit https://www.instagram.com/ladygunnell/p/BsWC3konaJ5/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=rxdif2qx7ez1

[freakflagbyiana]

↪ Reverse Balayage ↩ matched her natural brunette root that had grown out an inch with allover solid red. #reversebalayage means hand painting the color to blend in the root and leaving (or refreshing) the color at the ends. ☕ #brunetteproblems #brunettebalayage #tintback #colorcorrection #cinnamonhair #redhair #redhighlight #atxsalon #atxhair #atxbeauty #austinbalayage (at Freakflag by iana)

[lisapeo]

Little miracle worker ⭐️ #hidethegrey #touchup #coverup #brunetteproblems 👵🏼➡️👩🏻

[boriquax3world]

🤔Hmm..How would I look as a blond???🤔 #funwithperfect365 #brunetteproblems #Doblondsreallyhavemorefun

[mountainsandmusings]

So much changes in such a short amount of time.

It’s been 8.5 months since the day he moved out. 4.5 months since the day our divorce was finalized.

In the early days, before he left and right after, I spent a lot of time envisioning what I wanted my new life to look like. What I wanted myself to look like.

This isn’t a new thing...envisioning how you want your life. I’ve done it over and over again.

But this time, it actually worked.

The list included a lot of material and physical things, simply because I never bought things for myself or put the proper amount of energy into making myself happy. It was always about him and about us and I fell by the wayside.

I wanted to finally get a new car, to replace the one that was on the verge of dying. I could never afford one because his car was worse than mine and we couldn’t afford a car payment anyway. I wanted a new phone, because mine was 4 years old and glitchy. But I felt guilty spending the money. I wanted better cell service because ours never worked, but he wouldn’t allow me to switch carriers. I wanted to dye my hair a crazy color but was afraid he wouldn’t like it. There were countless things that I wanted but never bought out of guilt, even when they were necessary. A new bra? Forget it. New shoes to replace ones that were falling apart? Not till I couldn’t wear them anymore.

It’s been 8 months. I have that new car, and I fucking love it. It takes me to far away places without the fear of it breaking down. For the first time ever, I bought a brand new phone and an iPhone at that. I switched to Verizon so halle-fucking-lujah my phone actually WORKS. I just bought myself a pair of designer shoes for no reason other than the fact that I COULD. I’ve wanted them for years, so I decided to make it a reality. I tried to dye my hair pink, but #brunetteproblems the dye didn’t stick. Better luck next time. I still did it, so I’m counting it.

I’m out in the mountains hiking all the time. Casey and I went hiking for the first time 6 years ago and I fell in love. I told him I wanted to go more. I begged him to go. He said no. So I didn’t go. But in the last 10 or so months... I’ve hiked over a hundred miles. Last weekend I finally went to a place that’s been on my list for 6 years, and It. Was. Glorious. It was everything I’ve been dreaming of.

I’m also in the gym and eating better because it’s just so much easier now that he’s gone and I’m alone.

I want to cry just thinking about how peaceful my life is now.

I do cry over thinking about the girl I was a year ago, begging for someone to stay in her life. The girl who didn’t think she could survive this. The girl who didn’t have an earthly idea how to rebuild her life. The girl who was terrified to have the freedom of making her own choices.

I think this is what making it feels like.

I’m there.

I’ve arrived and I ain’t ever leaving.

[colleenkranz]

Oh hay #roots... Can I get away with calling this #ombre? Prob not... #hairproblems #hair #haircolor #hairofinstagram #brunetteproblems #brunettesofinstagram

[claireofluxembourg]

When I googled my blog, this is one of the very first pics to appear. If this tells you nothing about my personality, then I don't know whay else will. #BrunetteProblems #Henry #PrinceHarry #seriouslytho #AristoBlondeftw

[oriiandi]

Summer is not here yet and im already tanned... ofcours my bright as orange glasses aren't helping" ha! Brown ppl problems or is it just my problem? Oh well.. ✌😁👓🌞🌼 #SunsOut #Tann #BrunetteProblems #SquareInstaPic @studio8apps

[despairjunko71]

I need blonde hair for a junko closet cosplay

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the problems of being a brunette is real 

[backwoods-beautyqueen94]

Seriously why!!!?

Why does every country music video have a blond chick?!

[painesofglass-blog]

Painesofglass

I've always wanted to have blonde hair but my eyebrows are black and seriously Legolas is just not a good look for me

[angiemar89]

Been slacking my roots need a touch up bad #brunetteproblems #Ishouldhavebeenablonde #revlon #03ultralightsunblonde #DIY #lovetocolormyownhair

[skellyfarts]

is no one attracted to brunettes anymore?!