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[seekingventurephoto]

Jumping for love, Ambrosia & Chris leapt into the Big Sur river as part of their celebration for an extraordinary elopement day! This unique activity really showcased their characters and made for some special imagery. They are my first couple to ever jump into a river, but hopefully not the last! Are you considering doing something *wild* for your elopement? You can be brave like them and have these photos inspire you 🙌 I still have so many images I would love to share from the incredible time I spent with this couple, but this deserved a separate post 💛

[wuxinniao]

first come to tumblr, hope find more friends and love things

[onlycosmere]

Writing Styles

Would Nabokov’s writing be considered “purple prose” in today’s writing climate? by meadowillow_ 

meadowillow_ : Vladimir Nabokov is praised as one of the most gifted writers of the ornate style. Interestingly, somebody wrote an article—its title eludes me—about sending a sample of Nabokov’s writing for review. This sample was sent under a pseudonym. The advice was to make the writing simple and economical.

That made me wonder. How much of our judgements about ornate writing are post-hoc rationalisations? Do we fish for reasons to judge the writing as good because we know the author is a masterful stylist? Would we judge their writing the same if it were written by a nameless, faceless stranger on the internet?

I’m denying neither that Nabokov is an excellent writer nor that his work is immune from criticism. I just wonder how much established authors fairly evade and unknown authors bear the brunt of a certain type of criticism.

With all of this in mind:

Do you think that Nabokov’s writing would be well-received if he were an unknown author in 2024?

[I’d like to keep the focus on his writing style not on the controversial nature of some of his books.]

Great_Ad_5561:  I used an alt account to post an excerpt from an award-winning novel in r/writers, and it was torn apart. I think people these days don't appreciate anything that isn't straightforward. Of course, there are those who still enjoy it, but for the most part, lives are busier now than they were then, and to some, it is easier to read straightforward books.

Bridalhat:  Also, judging by the types of work most commonly posted here, r/writers and r/writing is not full of literary scholars, writers, or readers. Which is fine! But there’s probably more people here who like Sanderson’s prose than who have read Nabokov period, maybe excluding Lolita. 

SizeableDuck: I'm not a fan of this trend at all, though everyone's obviously entitled to their opinion.

I read Lolita recently and absolutely loved it mainly because of how witty and poetic the prose was - completely unlike anything published nowadays, not to mention its subject matter. It's clear from the first page that Nabakov was a genius.

Tried Way of Kings for the first time shortly afterwards and found it to be the driest, most watered-down thing I've ever read by comparison. The only thing about it that challenged me was reaching the final page.

I get that Sanderson has a different style and his writing is -meant- to be completely lacking in spice, style and charm in order to make his stories more palatable for the average fantasy fan nowadays, but look me in the eye and tell me you've ever laughed at the constant, god-awful wordplay in those books.

He just describes exactly what's happening in the plot and the character's heads. There's no poetry and it makes me a little bit sad to see so many people praising him as an amazing fantasy writer purely because of his plots.

You can find a ton of writers nowadays that're like Sanderson, but you can't find any closer to Nabakov.

Brandon Sanderson:  While I agree that taste is completely subjective--and it's never offensive for someone to simply not like a book--I think you're spreading some misinformation here.

Those of us trying for clean, striking prose aren't doing it to make "stories more palatable for the average fantasy fan nowadays." We do it because we like this style, and would rather the ideas--and not the method by which they are expressed--be the challenging part of a story. I find it insulting that you'd imply prose choice is anything but a literary decision made for the merits of the narrative.

This division isn't new. George Orwell was advocating for clean, crisp prose in the 40s, a full decade before Lolita was written. This push and pull between clarity and ornament stretches back to Shakespeare, whose contemporaries would lambast his flourishes as incomprehensible. (Not that I mind, obviously, literary genius being in the ornaments. It's only that I find multiple kinds of writing worthwhile.)

Moreover, you can absolutely find writers closer to Nabakov today. Guy Gavriel Kay is still writing, and is one of my favorites. (Try Under Heaven.) Hal Duncan is still writing, and is amazing, though rarely releases anything. And, of course, there's N. K. Jemisin--not the same, but most certainly "closer to Nabakov." Even the majority of the writers in the New Weird experimented with style in the same ways as I think you'd like.

Many varieties of writing are valuable to the craft, and I suggest new writers (many of whom frequent this subreddit) practice multiple styles to find the ones that appeal to them and match their narrative goals. It's totally fine to prefer one over another, but I find abundant "spice, style, and charm" in something crisp like Harrison Bergeron--indeed, I find just as much of it as I do in something like Lolita, if for different reasons.

SizeableDuck:  Much more level-headed and correct than what I was typing last night. Thanks for the recommendations, too.

Edit: Just realised you are the man himself. I take everything back.

Edit 2: By this I mean I take back my previous rudeness twofold. I had a think about it this morning when I read his reply and realised that the creatives I love to shit on have, in most cases, accomplished more than I could hope to. And in addition, probably know more about the topics I'm criticising than I do.

[auralynne]

Do you like the roses lining this hat?  I made them.  It’s a cool technique with no sewing required that I might post a tutorial on sometime.  I’d have to experiment with this, but I think it would also be possible to make them from strips of fabric!

[highhatcouture]

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[tomokotahara]

#wedding costume inspiration. Collaboration project for open studio event #westofmainartwalk. Tomoko Tahara will be at 214 West 11th. Hat: @_laboratory_ Foliage & styling : @the_wildbunch Hair : @matters_of_the_head Hat lady : @seandree3000 . . . #wedding #forestwedding #bridalhair #bridalhat #botanicalart #botanical #plants #summerwedding #yvr #hatabouttown

[newwaytoplanyourwedding-blog]

The feathery plumes of pampas grass took over the pages of GWS last year (and th… The feathery plumes of pampas grass took over the pages of GWS final 12 months (and there’s no signal of the pattern stopping anytime quickly!).

[imperialfiddlesticks]

Here is a little something I have been working with lately. It's a lovely white/ivory mini wonky top hat with lace overlay, turquoise band, feathers and clear crystals set in gold settings. It will be worn by the client at her wedding this month! #minihat #minitophat #tophat #wonky #white #ivory #lace #turquoise #gold #feathers #bridal #wedding #bridalhat #handmade #oneofakind #commission #etsyseller #customhat (på/i Välljärnsgatan)

[looklikeamodel]

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[emporium32]

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[gemmavernohats]

@sharrapagano black jewels on my white aviator hat 🕷 Servizio: @chiccacanovi • #whitesposa #whitemagazine #bridalpieces #bridalhats #handmadeinitaly #weddingdress #weddingplanner #milliner #modista #cappelli #chapeaux #gemmavernohats #sharrapagano

[merakibridalco]

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[veildesigner]

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Here’s a the companion video to my previous post about the millinery workshop in Paris with @chapeausurmesureparis ⁣ ⚜️⁣ Take a peek into the process of creating pieces by hand. ✨👍🏽🧵✨⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣⁣ #julieharrisdesigns #estelleramousse #millinery #milliner #millinerycouture #fascinator #fabricflowers #bridalheadpiece ⁣ #oneofakind ⁣ #handmadebridalaccessories⁣ #handmadeisbetter #bridalinspiration⁣ #bridalhat #bespokedesigns #handmadebridalaccessories #handsewing #couture #couturesewingtechniques #designerlife #frenchlace #losangelesbridalveilexpert⁣ #thecreativitybehindtheveil #designstudio #weddingseason #headpiece ⁣ #hairaccessory #weddingaccessories #headpiece #bridalheadpiece⁣ #hairaccessory #weddingaccessories #iloveparis (at chapeausurmesure -Paris-) https://www.instagram.com/p/BxaiA04jGZj/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=20ghgp9fsswy

[auralynne]

“Summer Dreams”

[highhatcouture]

Two hats for the price of one! Just listed this morning classic 1950s style. Black and white. 🖤🤍🖤 HighHatCouture.com . . . . . . . . . . #1950s #1950sfashion #1950svintage #1950svintage #50sfashion #50sstyle #50svintage #blackhat #vintagebride #bridalhat #whitehat #millinery #chapeaux #chapeau #womenwhowearhats #hatlover #hataddict #hats #vintagehats #vintagelove #vintagefashion #pinuofashion #rockabillystyle #classicstyle https://www.instagram.com/p/CHIfwb4Aofj/?igshid=1vyd3ye5otycg

[matrimoniofaidate-blog]

Il cappello sposa: come indossarlo #Consiglio14

Il cappello è un accessorio molto raffinato (prova ne è il suo protagonismo nelle occasioni più importanti delle famiglie reali), è tornato ad essere di tendenza nell’ultimo anno, conferisce eleganza e originalità a chi lo indossa ma “bisogna saperlo indossare” (non banalizzarlo) e per farlo è necessario seguire alcune regole.

La regola generale è quella di indossare il cappello solo se l'evento si svolge di giorno perché si tratta di un accessorio legato al bisogno di ripararsi dal sole, portarlo di sera non sarebbe adeguato. Solitamente, infatti i matrimoni en chapeau si svolgono d’estate e all’aperto. Ci sono però dei modelli perfetti anche per le nozze serali. Per non sbagliare è necessario ricordare che: più la cerimonia è vicina alla sera più i cappelli dovranno rimpicciolirsi. Dall’altro: la veletta non va mai indossata ad una cerimonia di mattina.

Per quanto riguarda il bon ton: è preferibile indossare il cappello solo per i riti civili, a meno che non sia così discreto e/o piccolo da risultare adeguato anche per la Chiesa (bisogna ricordare che: la donna non toglie il cappello in Chiesa).

I cappelli più adatti alla sposa sono principalmente di tre tipi: a falda larga, a cerchietto e con la veletta. Il primo (quello a falda larga) si abbina perfettamente con gli abiti stile minimal chic, boho chic, oppure stretti in vita e con gonna ampia (senza strascico); ideale per matrimoni in stile country e all’aperto; eventuali decorazioni (come ad esempio i fiori) vanno sistemate sul lato destro del cappello. Il cappello a cerchietto, soluzione più moderna, è perfetto per gli abiti a sirena e può essere indossato anche di sera (purché non sia troppo vistoso). L’ultimo tipo, il cappello a veletta, è un mix tra due accessori ed è perfetto per abiti corti e vintage (stile anni ’50). Il cappello va sempre abbinato sia all’abito che allo stile delle nozze.

Altra regola è quella di non scegliere cappelli troppo grandi se si è basse e minute o cappelli troppo alti se si è già alte. Nel primo caso sarà meglio optare per cappelli piccoli, con veletta o meno, e molto estrosi; nel secondo caso è meglio orientarsi per un cappello a falda larga.

Se si desidera che anche gli ospiti indossino il cappello è necessario specificare il dress code nella partecipazione di nozze.

Va precisato, inoltre, che: se la madre della sposa non indossa il cappello, nessun invitato dovrà indossarlo, nessuna dama potrà avere un cappello più grande del suo e tutte le invitate fornite di cappello dovranno tenerlo in testa finché lei, per prima, non decide di toglierlo.