#blogtember series

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BlogTember Day 1: First Askblog OC

This is Dragoş/Romania-cat. This little guy was my start back in my college days, and one of the reasons I burned out on askblogs on deviantART. (We didn’t even have any real appearances of the human Romania in the series when I made him, so I just made up everything about him myself. He’s a bit more OC than canon character!) There’s no trace of the blog anymore, as I deleted everything to avoid dA’s rampant AI from sampling my art. But the memories remain. I’m sad it’s gone, but so glad the good times happened.

[aricell0]

BLOGTEMBER SERIES: “What’s in my bag/purse?”

Day 5 of this series lovelies!! How are you all doing today? Here’s an updated WIMB for you guys. I’ve done a blog on this a while back too & still using the same bag from last time!

BAG:

Charles & Keith

I can’t seem to find this bag on their site anymore though, sorry. If I happen to find it I’ll just edit the details into this part of the blog

MINI NTBK:

MUJI

Since I’ve been hoarding notebooks again, I decided to just bring with me a small one for whenever I got a chance to think of a new content for my blog or need to do some errands & need a list

PASSPORT/S:

Both in black passport covers

I bring with me my passport everywhere when I’m in an international country

WALLET:

Kurt Geiger

My bag/purse is not that big so I switched my rectangular wallet for a smaller one that fits in my bag/purse but still gives enough room for my other stuff

MINI ALCOHOL:

I prefer to bring a small eubbing alcohol with me than a hand sanitizer because my hand sanitizer is with my baby’s bag anyway which I also bring when we go out

LIPSTICK:

Maybelline 16H Liquid Matte in Ruler

I bring this with me everywhere but I usually don’t put this on when I’m going out - I just have this with me in case I need to apply another shade of lipstick on my lips

WATCH:

Michael Kors

This watch is my fave since it goes well with any outfit; I also tend to put my watch in the bag I intend to bring that day because I sometimes forget where I put my watch

PERFUME:

Victoria’s Secret Bombshell roll on

This is by far my favorite scent from VS because it’s not that sweet & doesn’t give me a headache

EXTRA:

Comb, handkerchief, hair tie

These things are mostly in my bag/purse so that I’m always prepared for anything - plus my phone of course

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That’s it for my updated WIMB! If you read my previous WIMB, you’ll see that I have fewer things in my bag/purse nowadays. I need to keep my bag/purse light so when my baby runs around the mall or anywhere, I can easily catch up without the weight of my bag/purse getting in the way.

What do you guys keep inside your bag/purse? Do you like crossbody bags or backpacks?

xx

[aricell0]

BLOGTEMBER SERIES: “Travel Bucket List - Philippines”

Day 11 lovelies! Another TBL for you but this one’s from my home country, Philippines! Like many, if not most, of the Filipinos - I haven’t really explored my home country. I only stay in 2 places which are my home town & the capital of the country. Kind of embarrassing but yes, that’s me.

So I decided to search the popular places in the Philippines & go there like I’m not a local & just one of the tourists. Lol. But also, I want to go somewhere where the tourists don’t visit or go that often.

Of course, I had to put it in my hybrid journal as to not forget where I want to go & where I put the list. Good thing too that I bought this notebook.

Huma Island

Palawan

> This one is on the luxurious side of travelling. Why not, right? There are commercial flights or private sea planes going to & from here.

> You can visit this website to know more like I did about this place & what I can do here while on vacation or jist exploring: www.humaisland.com

Camiguin

Mindanao

> There are a lot of ways for you to get here & like most of the other places on this list, it’ll boast the lovely scenery & greenery around it.

> There will be a lot of transportation taken just to get to Camiguin so I suggest you research first before going head-on to the place

> To know more, visit: www.lakwatsero.com

Coron, Palawan

Coron Island

> Palawan is well-known to be a tourist spot in the Philippines so don’t be too surprised to see the place packed

> Airlines that do regular flights to here are Philippines Airlines & Cebu Pacific

> Visit: www.gettingstamped.com - to know more

Batanes

> From the info I’ve gathered, it’s best to visit Batanes from January to February or December to May

> Clark International Airport is the nearest one to and from Batanes & it only has Tuesday and Wednesday flights (not sure though if it has been updated)

> Check the website for more information: www.thepoortraveler.net

El Nido, Palawan

> Like I said, a tourist destination is Palawan! I can’t blame them though, have you seen some pictures of the place? Amazing!

> There are 4 islands in El Nido that is more like a resort which is just like Huma Island - luxurious getaway situation

> Islands consist of Apulit, Miniloc, Lagen, & Pangulasian - visit: www.elnidoresorts.com for a full browse on what each island offers & what the resort can do to help you get to your desired destination

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This is just PART ONE of my TBL to Philippines. I’ll be posting the 2nd part tomorrow so stay tuned guys! You can follow me on my other social media accts to be notified ~

IG: aricell0

FB: Ari C

xx

[aricell0]

BLOGTEMBER SERIES: “Day 7”

Hi there lovelies! I know that I missed a day so this blog post will be 7th in this series. I’m going to talk about something that’s been bothering me & for those of you guys that do read my blog, I hope you understand why I’m doing this.

What is “Quarter Life Crisis”?

According to Wikipedia, it’s a phase in your life - mostly 20’s to mid 30’s, that gives a person doubt & anxiety about the future or what the future may hold given their present situation. This can even occur as early as 18 years old.

It’s basically a low point or a stage in your life wherein constant questions are being asked as to where your life is headed & not having a specific answer because you don’t even know. You just overthink, worry, become anxious, & just want this over with. Questioning yourself, God, & the universe “When will my life be where it should be?”.

This is actually where I am right now. This is my life right now. I’m turning 25, single mom, & jobless in a world where I’m scared not only for my future but what the future holds for my son too. This is not a “one of those days/moods” you get. This is a truck that is on full speed going straight to you & no matter how you manuever to get out of the way, it still comes FOR YOU.

I don’t mean to scare any of you, I’m not planning to scare anyone or give anyone a reality check today - I just want to share my thoughts about the crisis I am having right at this moment.

It’s a scary world. A world where I have to have a job to survive. And I’m just at a very low point wherein I think I might not get a job. If I do get a job, it might not be where I want to be in. I just need to get that job to survive & to take care of my baby. I just overthink everything & have anxiety about anything. I really don’t know where my life will go. I’m doing everything to stay positive & be thankful of what I have right now & just focus on the present. But I can’t help it, I’m a mom - someone’s depending on me with their life.

What to do when QLC happens to you?

If ever you are in a QLC right now, you are not alone. This is normal & yes, I was ranting at the first part of my blog about it but there is a way for you to overcome this.

TACKLE YOUR SITUATION. You look in your life & see what is it that you are lacking or worried about? For me it’s having no job by the end of the month. How do I tackle this predicament? Even though I am constantly passing CV’s out there, I have to keep doing that. Yes, I am not satisfied with just that, so, I invested in a business. It’s going great & I’m earning for my baby’s future. My earnings may not be based on a monthly income, but at least I’m earning enough to buy my baby’s needs for the month.

BE REALISTIC. We often want things that we can’t have but for the meantime, let’s be realistic, for now at least. Don’t like your job? Quit. Jobless? Apply. Got too many debts? Live within your means. Want to travel? Plan & save. There are just so many answers to our problems but we choose to ignore those said answers & just dwell on the problem. Want to be someone else? Well, you can’t but you can be someone better - a better version of yourself.

DON’T DWELL ON OTHER’S LIVES. Wishing that we can be millionaires is just plain torture. So don’t focus on those millionaires & start focusing on yourself! Put yourself in a good, or better, situation. If you need to unfollow those people for you to have a better life, then do so! That button will always be there if you want to follow them back anyway.

What do I do in this situation?

Well clearly, I blog about it. Lol. But it’s a way for me to also see what I need in my life right now. I may be jobless but I do have a business. I may be a single mom but I have my family with me. It’s thise things that keep me going. I remind myself that I am at a low point in my life but there’s literally one way to go from there - and that’s up. I take in a deep breath & imagine that all the negative vibes I am getting or thinking is gone when I exhale. My life is not where I want it to be but it’s getting there, slowly & at my own pace. For sure, I’ll reach my goals & look back at this phase in my life & I’d be so thankful that I just acknowledged this phase & said goodbye.

Currently I am feeling much better & I hope that you guys feel a sense of relief after this phase too. And if not, I am always here to talk to any of you guys. But if you want professional help, find a reliable source that can truly help you. Don’t be afraid or embarrassed, this is normal & understandable.

Better days are coming

xx

[aricell0]

Hello, October!

Yesterday was the last day of my Blogtember Series but I didn’t get a chance to blog though so, to welcome the new month, I’ve went back to Bullet Journaling & wrote down on my new notebook which is from Muji!

It’s my first time to try a blank sketchbook for my bullet journal & I am loving it already! I just have this amazing space & freedom to sketch & journal.

Put some pictures & quote on the cover of the notebook to just spice it up a bit even though it’s simple. Washitapes I used were from Muji too. (Pictures are not mine - found them in Pinterest)

You are the risk I’ll always take ♥️

A quote or reminder to myself ~

My theme for this month is “M A G I C”

Also added my own flare to drawing but really, I’m not good at it. Lol. But since October is the month for the supernatural, I decided to stick with the magical side!

Added a mini-calendar to the left to add icons on the date if there are events or trips then on the right side, I can write down the said events for PERSONAL and BUSINESS.

Decided to try doing some Trackers if it’ll be effective & if I can track my everyday habits, mood, & sleep.

Drew tarot cards for the dates & added the day on the side then drew, or tried, a snake & lotus.

And that’s it for my October Bullet Journal! 🎃

What’s your monthly theme?

xx

[aricell0]

Blogtember Series: “Happy moments of life”

Hi there lovelies!

I just want to express & transfer my positive energy towards you & to the people around me. We can get caught up in our life that sometimes we just don’t see that we’re often automatically doing things & then realize that the day just went by - or just want the day to end as soon as you open your eyes.

We forget the happiness we had, the feeling of positivity & wonder. As we grow, we tend to be more serious & attach ourselves to things & people that won’t or doesn’t add value into our future & present happiness.

If there was a day you need for yourself i.e. doing nothing all day, pampering yourself, going out to have fun - PLEASE DO. We as humans need to relax & recharge. But most importantly, you need to be happy with what you have & where you are.

When I’m feeling down, I tend to meditate & find my zen. A few quiet minutes with my inner self really helps me release the negativity & visualize the road to my goals. A hug from my little one also helps & gives me more energy! If your meditation process involves you exercising or cleaning, GO!

The road to happiness is a simple sentence that we tend to forget - LOVE YOURSELF 🌺

xx

[aricell0]

BLOGTEMBER SERIES: “Today’s events”

Hello lovelies!

Don’t really know what to blog about today & also I was busy for the whole day. So, I’m going to list down what I did todayyy.

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4:30AM

Woke up kinda late because I had to cook breakfast & packed lunch for my little brother. I was awake when he woke up but I couldn’t get out of bed due to my son - he grabbed my hand back into bed. Lol.

5:15AM

Done cooking & went back to bed. Badly needed to sleep because I’ve been getting migraines. Maybe because I’m not drinking enough water. Tsk.

8:15AM

Baby boy woke up. Got up to make him some milk & checked my phone for some messages. Greeted my mom a Happy Birthday & wished her a good day! Just layed in bed & cherish the few minutes before I get up for the day.

9:00AM

Finally got out of bed! Turned off the lamp & draw back the curtains. I always make it a habit to make my bed before going out of the room because it’s a sign that it’ll be a good & productive day! Also, if you want to change the world, make your bed first. I don’t remember who said that & if I did the message any justice.

9:25AM

Realized that my little brother took most of the food I cooked with him for his lunch so I just had coffee for my breakfast. Just checked my emails & my social media accts. Prepared the things needed because we were planning to go out & do some grocery shopping. Ironed some clothes & gave my baby boy a bath.

10:45AM

Just had to take a little break because of the migraines. Ugh.

11:00AM

Took a bath & got ready. My baby wanted to drink some more milk, so that’s milk no. 2 for today! After getting ready & waiting for our Uber, off we go to the mall for lunch then groceries.

12NOON

Took us an hour to get to a mall? Nope. It took us a long time to look for the restaurant we wanted to eat. We went to both ends of the mall already & couldn’t find it. When we were about to just give yp & choose a different one, we found it! It was quite hidden & the lift was a bit creepy because there was just random things in it - the doors wouldn’t even open immediately which made it even more creepy.

1:00PM

Done with lunch! Couldn’t finish all my food because I was too full. That was some good food. Took the same lift down & discovered that the Ground Floor just lead outside of the mall so we had to exit the mall & entered again. Went to some shops to let our stomachs breathe a little. There were so many good styles of clothing now but I just didn’t have a budget to go shopping for myself. Huhu. After a few stores & walking, we decided to just do some grocery shopping to end the day.

2:18PM

Arrived safely back home! Had to wait outside of the mall which was a mistake because the weather was scorching hot. The Uber we booked didn’t even park near us & he wanted us to go to him instead. Although it was just a few steps away from the entrance of the mall, the heat really got into your head.

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After those exciting events, I just ended up on the couch with my baby & we were just resting. He was busy eating some biscuits & hyper. He got a good nap while we were at the mall.

Then I realized that I haven’t blogged today. Haha. So here you go! Did you guys have a good day today?

xx

[aricell0]

BLOGTEMBER SERIES: “Travel Bucket List - Philippines (part2)”

As promised, here’s the Part 2 of my TBL to the Philippines!

Cebu City

> There are a ton of places to visit here plus, L E C H O N!!

> Cebu Westown Lagoon, Terrazas de Flores, Temple of Leah (still under construction but not sure), Lantaw Floating Restaurant, etc.

> For more information: www.trekeffect.com

> Cebu Pacific is the airline choice for direct flights from Manila

Lake Sebu

South Cotabato, Mindanao

> Like most places in the Philippines, one place can offer so much! Seven Falls via zipline or trekking, boating or kayaking around the island, T’boli Museum, etc.

> Visit: www.lakwatsero.com to know more how to get there & alternative routes

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This 2 part blog post is inspired by the list of trekeffect.com that consists every destination listed here because most, if not all, are the places I want to visit anyway. Additional information about the places are from the sites I indicated at the bottom of every destination!

Shall I do a Travel Vlog soon?

xx

[aricell0]

BLOGTEMBER SERIES: “Songs that I currently love”

Hello & welcome to DAY 3 of this series!

Do you just sometimes feel like you don’t want to do anything for the day but just listen to music? Or if you are having a busy day, a way to relax is to listen to a song or playlist? That’s exactly how I feel today.

This “playlist” will just be a few songs that I listen to on repeat for the oast few days now & no, they’re not meant for the Fall Season. They’re a mix of genres which I like especially when I’m just sitting on my couch & doing nothing but thinking a lot!

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1. Goodbye - Jason Derulo x David Guetta ft. Nicki Minaj & Willy William

2. I like me better - LAUV

3. Issues - Julia Micheals

4. Dance to this - Troy Sivan ft. Ariana Grande

5. Ring - Cardi B ft. Kehlani

6. Happy now - Zedd x Elley Duhé

7. Bed - Nicki Minaj ft. Ariana Grande

8. Breathin’ - Ariana Grande

9. I don’t wanna love you anymore - LANY

10. Love Lies - Khalid x Normani

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I love a song that puts me in a good & dancing mood or songs that have amazing lyrics & rhythm!

What are your fave current songs? Do you have a playlist for a specific feeling or season?

xx

[aricell0]

BLOGTEMBER SERIES: “Zodiac Sign”

Happy 2nd day of Blogtember!

Today, we will be talking about my zodiac sign, specifically, Virgo. Does the description & traits of “The Virgin” fit me as an individual? Let’s see!

photo credit: Tarot.com

Sophisticated & Kind

While I am kind, I don’t know if I am soohisticated enough to fit that trait but I do love & have class, as all people should. A Virgo is someone who’s also organized in what ever they do - THAT’S ME RIGHT THERE. On point! While I do love to organize everything in my life, I also get so frustrated when things don’t go according to plan even if they were just minor details of the bigger picture.

photo credit: cristina.benescu.com

Perfectionist with unrealistic high standards

Yes, that is als me. As a perfectionist, I tend to look for perfection in everything - even for a partner. Having these high standards of mine does not only apply to them but it also applies to myself. I feel so pressured by myself sometimes that I forget that I’m just human & some things are just not in my control, even if I want them too.

Always learning; from the influences of the outside world & from within oneself

This is the spread I made in my Hybrid Journal dedicated to my zodiac sign. You can see that in the center is a flower, an aster, which is the flower for September babies.

At the right side is the constellation & symbol for Virgo while on the left, is the tarot card The Hermit - the card that fits the sign. Here’s a full detail of the writings I did at the bottom for you to visualize with me:

ELEMENT: earth

QUALITY: mutable

KEY TRAITS: graceful, organized, kind

I also wrote down the relation of the tarot card, The Hermit, with the sign, Virgo - to fully understand why they are meant to be. I realized that The Hermit is someone who enlightens or sheds some light onto situations that can’t be seen or if we see no solution to it. The Hermit tells the Virgo (me), that sometimes the answers to someones question can be found within & that there is comfort in solitude.

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So, overall? Yes, I AM A VIRGO ✨

This are my interpretations of the meanings I found that describes the zodiac sign. I am quite pleased & happy that I did this part because I somehow got a chance to know & understand myself more.

Information source ➖ http://tarot.com

“The Hermit” illustration inspired ➖ http://inprint.com

Virgo facts ➖ http://horoscope.com

What’s your zodiac sign? Do you fit the description of your sign? Let me know! I am always curious to know the other signs & if you’re a Virgo like me, does the sign fit your personality?

xx