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[hayatmonsta]

Before You Go On With Your Plastic Surgery

Dear Sir/Madam/Miss,

No one can deny that plastic surgeries are the trend of all trends these days. Smaller noses and bigger breasts and all that your heart desires can be done to your body. The side effects are also minimal. What is it worth paying a load of money, swelling up for days and days and even risking dying on the table. All should be sacrificed for this new and improved “beautiful” you. Or not.

So before you embark on the path of plastic surgery here are some things to consider:

First, ask yourself why do you think you are not beautiful enough. Is there even anything called beautiful enough? Why do you think less of your natural features and body and why do you think that everything is going to be ok after a plastic surgery? (consider other opinions other than yourself’s for this one here)

Second, you've got to silence that voice in your head comparing you to every unrealistic standard. Try unsubscribing from ALL of those so called "beauty" magazines. I know. I know it's Very hard since some of us have made these magazines their weekly/monthly/periodic religious regime. I know it because I used to be like that before. But, believe me when I say that this mental diet from this addiction, yes, it's an addiction, WILL help you reclaim the you that you lost through thousands of "beauty" pictures and articles. This rule applies to "beauty" blogs too. I'm not telling you to live under a rock. All I'm saying is that you need to see yourself instead of compare yourself to these photoshopped, filtered, touched and re-touched images. This mental diet WILL on its own help you regain this self- confidence quicker and stronger than a plastic surgery would do you.

Third, imagine that you had your plastic surgery and it went exactly as you wanted it to. Now ask yourself this: What is your life lacking other than what the surgery gave you? Now start pursuing your own answer to this question as fully as you can. Go for it as if your life depends on it. Give the answer to this question the time and effort you are willing to give the plastic surgery and MORE. If it is a friend, a partner, money, a job and/or anything in this entire world, start looking for the opportunities that would get you that thing. If it is about finding a friend or a partner, then start meeting people. Go to social events. Go blind dating. Go speed dating (meeting a whole bunch of people giving 5 minutes to every person/date). In the end of the day, there is nothing better than a real friend/ a partner that takes you as you are. If it's about money or a job, then try seeking chances that would get you this. Maybe, try completing your collage study to get a better job and of course more money. Find courses that teaches you more about a job that you'd like to do (for example fashion designing, painting, art ...etc.) Enter contests. Trace that job opportunities page in your favorite newspaper and online. Find places that you'd like to work at and keep an eye on their website for vacancies. Teach yourself to be patient and never lose hope because no matter how long it takes, as long as you keep on knocking, a door WILL open sooner or later.

Fourth, I know that society pressures every man and woman to conform to a specific kind of standards, but who says we should obey? Consider how the world is going now and ask yourself if you like it this way. The way where some employers give better job opportunities for smaller noses and bigger breasts and not for the more efficient. I'm not saying that every employer picks their employees only because of how they look, but I know many people who were more suitable for a job opportunity than others but lost it for a "prettier" person who is even less efficient. These society pressures WILL DISAPPEAR if it finds nobody to feast on their self-image and confidence. 

We make what our societies are. We create and live our own society nightmares, and we'd better start waking up now before it's too late.

YOU are ALREADY a strong AND beautiful person. You just need to stop pausing your life and what you can have in this world only for some unrealistic trivialities that someone else called "beauty standards" 

With all the love in the world, 

Malikah William.

[carryonvishal]

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[talesoftim]

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[petritzeneli]

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[sromola]

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