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the-crooked-library · 4 months ago

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what I learned from season 2 of IWTV is that a distressingly large amount of people cannot tell the difference between a consensual BDSM dynamic and assault/abuse, nor do they know anything about how kink actually works

it’s not unhealthy for Armand to be submissive or delve into maître/slave kink dynamics. in fact it’s something people do to explore and get past their traumas all the time irl. additionally, he is like five times older and more powerful than Louis, he wasn’t being forced to do anything, nor could Louis ever actually force him. the kink was probably the healthiest aspect of their relationship, what fucked them over was a jumble of commitment issues, a lack of trust, and eventual murder - which is something that would cause problems in any relationship ever, no matter how vanilla.

the Point of the tragedy is that they were on the precipice of something happy, but Louis hesitated for too long and Armand couldn’t recognize when he was loved, and the kink had nothing to do with it, for fuck’s sake. Louis wasn’t abusive and it’s not bad or wrong for Armand to want to be a sub -

#IWTV #interview with the vampire #the vampire armand #louis de pointe du lac #it’s always so fucking infantilizing too?? the man is 500yo guys he can make his own decisions #oh noooo he couldn’t possibly know what he wants :(( he’s just reacting out of trauma it’s like brainwashing :(((#?????#no???#he just wants to relax for once fucking let him #he’s been in charge of his own survival AND other people for hundreds of years #being a coven leader seems to be a herding cats type of position tbh #let him rest #that’s what his submission is #loumand #like I don’t even really ship them but GODDAMN #they could have actually been alright together if the cards fell different #amc iwtv #amc interview with the vampire #iwtv season 2 #if I see another post claiming that the only way for Armand to have a good life is to never be anyone’s sub again I’m gonna scream #also this weird framing of Louis as an abuser just kinda feels racist #I’m probably not the person to speak on that but there’s Something abt that demonization that just doesn’t sit right #like yeah he was a dick. but largely in his head?? he didn’t do or say anything to Armand out loud

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