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Becoming a Wife: Chapter 1

Self-care

One of the most important pillars that every woman must learn to nurture and protect is her own self-care. Self-care involves cultivating oneself both inside and out.

In every woman’s life, as magical beings that we are, we must take care of our health: physical, emotional, and spiritual.

Physical Health: Considering that throughout a woman’s life, we go through hormonal and physical changes, it is important to stay in shape, as our body is connected to both our mind and spirit. When it comes to physical health, being in shape will consequently reflect in our mental and emotional well-being as well: improved mood, self-esteem, better digestive health, vitality, and enhanced focus.

How I will do: The way I will cultivate this is through strength exercises, stretching, and Pilates (once a week).

Emotional Health: This one is prettyyy obvious. Every woman wants a healthy emotional balance and peace of mind. (At least me, almost most of the time.)

-Self-awareness and acceptance: Take time to understand your emotions and accept both your strengths and vulnerabilities. Self-acceptance is key to a healthy emotional life.

-Stress management: Practice relaxation techniques such as meditation, deep breathing, or yoga. These help reduce anxiety and maintain a calm mind.

-Healthy relationships: Surround yourself with people who support you, understand you, and make you feel good. Building quality relationships based on respect and communication is essential for emotional well-being.

How I will do: I’ll start with a gratitude journal. I am willing to write daily about my thoughts and what I am grateful for everyday.

Spiritual Health: (in my case Catholic)

Spiritual health also involves trusting in God at all times, especially in difficult moments. Learning to surrender and accept His will brings you serenity and a deep sense of peace.

In summary, cultivating your Catholic spiritual health is an ongoing process that involves prayer, reading the Scriptures, the sacraments, and living according to Christian values. As you strengthen your relationship with God and others, your spirit will grow, and you will find more peace and purpose in your life.

How I will do: In my case, my religion is Catholic. I am starting again and reconnecting with God after a period where I felt distant from Him, and as a result, I didn’t feel the same peace in my life as before—whether due to the daily stress, anxiety, or my mental struggles that only lead to living in an automatic routine, leaving no space for the daily well-being I so long for. Therefore, once again, I seek to connect with God's faith on my journey to becoming a future wife.

Thank you for reading. 🤍

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[becomingawifey]

hi 🤍 this is my second tumblr blog. My first is @subtleclassy btw). Here I will be posting all things about becoming a wife. In particular, a godly wife. Next year I’m getting married with the love of my life. Since I could not find a blog that talks bout becoming a wife (to be specific), i’ve decided to create one for myself. This will be my journey shared with you so we can get inspired to become the best version of us.