#bc they likely have it it their head that their kidless friends dont want to be around kids at all | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

i-am-simply-here · 28 days ago

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Hoy take apparently but if you have a friend who had kids and you don't have kids and you grew apart, you can't blame the friend with kids if you refused to ever spend time with them with the kids around. Like? Even if they have a good support system who can take care of the kids, they're still gonna be around a lot. You gotta meet them in the middle sometimes.

#don't wanna hear “oh they could never hang out bc they always had their kids”#hang out with them and the kids sometimes maybe #ALSO #if youre willing to hang with the kids too you need to tell that friend #bc they likely have it it their head that their kidless friends dont want to be around kids at all #you need to tell them and probably continuously remind them #this is inspired by my friend with two kids bc 90% its me and her and her babs #and i love them sm #sometimes i meet her at the grocery store and we hang out that way #i babysit a lot for her too but im not gonna say thats an expectation bc not everyones cut out for that #plus the bonus to this is you can be the cool (gay) aunt/uncle or whatever #those my kids fr #but seriously im one of the only people who hangs out with her now bc of the kids #obviously this isnt a one size fits all scenario some parents fr push away childless friends on their own in some way #plus i get not wanting kids or wanting to be around them a lot #but the kid hating attitude is nasty and sad #why do ylu have beef with a child? tf?

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