#bc guess what she would say whenever i said 'gosh' or 'darn' or 'dang' or 'geez'
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girl help my tag rant got cut off short
please know that it was almost finished anyway but i had a few more potshots to take at my 4th-grade teacher who loved to use "you should know better" at the drop of a hat whether the children in her care actually knew better or not, for i will bash her "teaching" at the drop of a hat
A kind person whose social justice vocabulary is outdated or inadequate for the concepts they’re trying to communicate is a better person than anyone who’d rip them down as a bigot for not keeping up with the euphemism treadmill. Morality is measured by how you treat people, not how well you’ve memorized a continuously evolving set of shibboleths.
#person who uses incorrect vocab out of unwilling ignorance but is supportive and willing to learn >>>>> people who shit on them & mock them#for the crime of Not Having Been Told This Stuff Yet#like. ok#i try to be aware of my biases#for example: i am more aware of aphobia when i see it than i am of racism when i see it#i am aroace. i am also the pastiest white person i have ever seen#and there is an interaction that will always live in my head#where some random person just scrolling through the notes of a popular post snapped at me and started making posts like they were reading#through my blog and laughing at how 'its a white girl of fucking course'#(note: this happened before i realized i was cisn't)#in retrospect. yeah! the reblog i made that they were upset about was honestly...kinda racist! i may not have intended for it to be but uhh#it was#anyway none of their mocking actually. yknow. told me what i'd done wrong#i only realized 'oh...wait...i may have been thinking of a white person i know but my first thoughts aren't everybody's' years later#and every time i see someone trip up in that same way about something that I'M a part of#queerphobia or ableism (mental illness edition) or the like#i can't stop myself from thinking 'is this malicious? or are they like i was and still am? unaware but trying to do the right thing?'#this is also fresh in my head again from dealing with that one anon who got on my case for my flashing header#but. yeah. i'd rather be told where i fuck up instead of just mocked for it without explanation#and no 'you should know better' doesn't count as an explanation unto itself#that just makes me mentally lump you in with the 4th-grade teacher who told 8th-grade me that mickey mouse clubhouse was age-appropriate#for me at that specific age and was condescending about it the whole time#bc guess what she would say whenever i said 'gosh' or 'darn' or 'dang' or 'geez'#or when i asked what the word 'penis' was in 4th grade & legitimately didnt know why she was dragging me to the back of the room by my ear#sometimes...people who don't know things...aren't in the wrong for not knowing them#now IF THEY'VE BEEN TOLD THINGS AND HAVE REFUSED TO CHANGE IN SPITE OF THAT#THAT'S a whole different story#but ignorance does not mean malice by default#for further evidence as to why punishment without explanation doesnt work out in the long run:#4th grade teacher once said 'NO BUTS' and i was too terrified to ask if she meant 'buts' or 'butts'
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yet again i waited a while oops (also look at this wonderfully creative title would you) but here they are finally!! tumblr kept eating half of them and here i thought they finally had that fixed -.-
anyway thanks for your support my dudes!! it’s appreciated ♥♥
thatsimslove replied to your photoset
This is a gorgeous picture 😍
thank you!! this place is so perfect for a wedding ;_;
peachbobs replied to your photo “wow thanks”
scroll the top thingy all the way over and make sure safe mode is off !!
i did that! tumblr just does that sometimes when nobody’s tagged you in anything for too long XD
volcanopasta replied to your photoset
Return of the flower beard!
YESSSSSSSSSSS i could not let this opportunity go to waste!
monets-pixels replied to your photoset “Gen 6 is finally complete with Bay and Breeze!”
😍
worth the pregnancy and baby drama, huh? i love all these kids so much wait till you see them as children!
alfalfalegacy replied to your photoset “Gen 6 is finally complete with Bay and Breeze!”
Ahh cuties!!
Breeze might be favourite now haha
bay’s probably MY new fave xD but breeze is good! she has quite a lot of connie tho i think (re: that one comment that comes later bc replies don’t know chronological order abt wave looking like connie)
amixofpixels replied to your photoset “Gen 6 is finally complete with Bay and Breeze!”
Breeze may challenge Wave. *-*
Only kidding, Wave is life.
WAVE WILL FOREVER RULE OUR HEARTS!!!! crazy hat lady ♥
alfalfalegacy replied to your photoset
I see a lot of Connie in her here lol
this is literally the only pic i could find of puffy cheeked connie (good old times) and wave definitely has char’s eyes and nose, but she just generally looks like a miracle i guess XD
hellerie replied to your photoset “So…this is us.“ “It seems. Fuck. This is…“ “Good? Weird?” “That, and...”
k i did read it all and u did kill me thanks for that
nice way to spend a saturday night init
in a grave
our rented one? If u wanna hop it
is it bad that i feel accomplished? xD i made you FEEEEEEEEL but sure thing i too am always dead you know that let’s do some grave cuddling
monets-pixels replied to your photoset
👀
bet you expected more smut and what you got was stammering overwhelmed boys oops
volcanopasta replied to your photoset “It’s @twinsimskeletons‘ birthday today so I had to take a few pics of...”
this is so cute!!
ahsjgajshfgajsfhagsfjas thank you ;_; i hate eaxis so much for releasing c&d this late these 2 deserved a doggo all along!
socialbunnies replied to your post “i promise i haven’t forgotten abt you guys!! i’ve just been lurking...”
tbh I love the gameplay stuff soOoOoOooOoooO <3
aaaaaaaaaaaa rly ;_; i’ll have to frame that and put it somewhere to look at whenever i want to throw all my caps in the trash again xD thank you so much! i hope story bits are ok too ;)
alfalfalegacy replied to your photoset “C: Fair enough! How about you and mum? Are you guys good, too? S:...”
The flower beard will return
connielotte is getting married and everyone’s just thirsty for the flower beard i cannot believe
amixofpixels replied to your photoset “HUGS FOR EVERYONE”
I'll have to give a virtual one for now, but one day! ;)
soonish, maybe ;) ;)
monets-pixels replied to your photoset “T: Hey guys! Talkin shit about me?”
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
whatttt let the boy live
monets-pixels replied to your photoset “G: Oh wow! After Char had the triplets, I admit I didn’t think I’d...”
I LOVE THIS
SISTERSSSSSSS
yESSSSSSSSS sometimes i forget i cry and they used to be so close ;_; glade needs to please come over more again! i remember the last time was when she was pregnant with coriander...oh boy
monets-pixels replied to your photoset “This boy aged up beautifully!”
and my boy there he is
monets-pixels replied to your photoset “G: Well hello there my dearest nephew! Aren’t you a good child! T:...”
THERE SHE IS THAT'S MY GIRL
in which ebonyi adopts all annie’s sims (aka sims she received from others and sims she bred from two sims she received from others oops)
monets-pixels replied to your photoset “In case you were wondering where Tide is, he’s still alive and...”
Tide whom?
we don’t know a tide in this house we worship the hat lady
monets-pixels replied to your photoset “S: What do you mean, there’s no more soup???”
give! her! more! soup!
More Soup For Shore 2k18 is gonna be my new motto ok but seriously this is now a thing shore is a soup lover
pixeldemographics replied to your photoset “™¥”
its a good thing that char has taken the bottles out bc connie sure looks like shes thirsty
who says she wants the bottles tho
alfalfalegacy replied to your photoset “If it looks like Char’s always mixing, that’s…because she is. I’m...”
I love (1) woman
s a m e
twinsimskeletons replied to your post “4 glow flame and connie and 5 emusci james and kane >:)”
this made me laugh. thank you for making me laugh
no problem ;)
inkwisteria replied to your photoset “Look who Char’s working with ♥”
My girl! <3
berrysweetboutique replied to your photoset “Look who Char’s working with ♥”
♡
i know right!!! it’s so nice to see she’s still around tho her cap glitches terribly i need to see what i can do abt that i rly need them to have a work bromance
simxnoire replied to your photoset “This boy aged up beautifully!”
MY B A B Y
yesssssssssss he is grown!! there should be quite a few more pics of him in the queue too ;) and once gen 7 starts, well...you’ll need to see abt that he might stick around
hellerie replied to your photoset “This boy aged up beautifully!”
ok but im the painting of the alien thx
a bEAUTIFUL ALIEN i think they took this one to the new house i’ll be sure to hang you in a nice spot XD
hellerie replied to your photoset
me whenever reylo slips through the cracks even tho i have the words rey and reylo blacklisted everywhere
me whenever ppl doNT TAG THEIR FUCKING T R I G G E R S
amixofpixels replied to your photoset “™¥”
I second that heart like nobody's business. @tainoodles, you did so darn good.
i hope she read that xD mum!glade especially is something else
twinsimskeletons replied to your post “.”
v r00d v bad like oh my gosh the worst rudest person. (jk obv luv)
tumblr ate all the other comments to this post so i’m just gonna add them manually:
@penelope-and-wonders said: Never have been a bad person to me 😊 So no problems here 😊
@amixofpixels said: Annie, you have never been rude or unwelcoming to me, and I don't think that will ever change. I know what it is like to overthink things and it sucks, but know that even though, I'm on hiatus, my messages are always open to you. And it's also I can give you all the love you deserve. <3
@nernershuman said: You are the farthest thing from rude and unwelcoming. You're a sweetheart.
@alfalfalegacy said: Never been rude to me. You've always been very sweet and welcoming
thank you so much for taking your time to reply guys ♥ as chelsea said yes i very much love to overthink and it’s just like...better safe than sorry, you know? and now i don’t need to worry abt this for...another month or so xD i’m glad i’ve been doing alright! you guys are all amazing too tho!! giving me all the support i do not deserve i cry
twinsimskeletons replied to your photoset “S: What do you mean, there’s no more soup???”
food of the gods
:o
twinsimskeletons replied to your photoset “C: Oh, there you are, Jess! That’s…wow! That’s a pretty neat paintig!...”
It's Isaac Pigton discovering gravity obviously
i’m nominating this one for comment of the year thank you very much
twinsimskeletons replied to your photoset “when we returned home and she pulled me close for one last goodbye,...”
i mean did you write that? Because if so you should like... do more of that. That was very beautiful!
akjsfhaskfjhakjHADKJHASFKJAHSFSD tbh i’m still not over this AT ALL i’m crying YOU LOVE THIS AND I CAN’T i’ll try to do more!! let’s see if i’m inspired...i mean there IS the wedding night poem still tho that’s completely different AGAIN
pixeldemographics replied to your photoset “Just reading about the soloist and it says that here. Must be good,...”
I CRY PLS GIVE MY BOY TABASCO A NOBEL PRIZE HE DESERVES IT
he truly does for being a bomb friend to ficus wHERE IS GEN 8
pixeldemographics replied to your photoset “Tabasco? I’m heading out, are you done for the day? Do you need me to...”
ficus is doing a mighty poker face but i feel like his heart casually did a triple somersault in his chest
basically, a summary of poker face ficus with the extreme feelies
pixeldemographics replied to your photoset “Tabasco? I’m heading out, are you done for the day? Do you need me to...”
petition for more ficus with a tie!!!! also the expression ficus nooo its friday fuckt me up bc im like hell yea its friday its FIG FRIDAY
sdjkhfskdjhfskdjfhskfahkfsjasfasd i cRY fig fridays gonna b v boring this week i will fail u with old pics but also sure thing!! ill see what we can do abt tie ficus
pixeldemographics replied to your post “(its a mixed bag of charas i kno but shhhh) pavot, calla, & yarrow +...”
yes pls seduce yarrow
would if i could
pixeldemographics replied to your post “(its a mixed bag of charas i kno but shhhh) pavot, calla, & yarrow +...”
also was the theft of his heart a slow or quick heist i feel like we need to Discuss this
slow!! pavot rly isnt the person to do anything fast so it seems only fair. i mean there was definitely some initial attraction (and the whole wTF WHY IS THIS GODLY PERSON TALKING TO ME) but, in good annie fashion throwing my own traits on my chars as always, he discovered new smol details he found intriguing and/or adorable every time and at som point that made his heart do a lil jump but i dont think he knew how bad things were until That One Scene u kno the one bc i feel like thats too much of a spoiler to put into a reply post xD
pixeldemographics replied to your post “(its a mixed bag of charas i kno but shhhh) pavot, calla, & yarrow +...”
i die so much at pavot one day hes gonna realize all his dang shirts are missing and when he does theyll already b cut in half smh
basically hell notice when he sees a certain someone wearing them that good stupid boy i love him
(also this killed me too i cry i m a g i n e)
pixeldemographics replied to your post “(its a mixed bag of charas i kno but shhhh) pavot, calla, & yarrow +...”
tbh i too would b scared of stealing from calla
i bet even zazazazazazazazazazaz is
pixeldemographics replied to your post “tide, havelock, & coriander + 5!!”
i cry pls dont kill him for real
dw were good that would have no use in the story and you know i aint abt that
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