#bambinella

[bambinella]

Rumors pt 2

I recently made a post to address the ongoing situation, and I feel like I have to address it yet again, since it’s getting out of hand. 

First of all, I want to apologize to everyone that got involved in this mess, especially the tickle community. I’ve been part of this community for many years now, and I’m enraged by all the hate all of you are receiving by this anon. None of you should be in this situation, and I definitely want to get out of it. I’ve been trying to keep this wildfire contained, but anon is targeting literally anyone right now, be it people who follow me or people who’ve never heard of me before.

In my previous post I mentioned that I suspect ticklee25 to be behind the anon hate, but I didn’t specify or clarify why. Since I still think it’s her, I will explain my thoughts on the why. I’m aware that the messages are still anonymous, so I cannot say with 100% certainty that it’s her, but there are certain details I wish to address.

For starters, the anon hate started on the day I blocked her. ticklee25 and I chatted on discord for a while, and after she became rude, insulted me and my interests and started calling me several times in the middle of the night, knowing of our 5 hour difference, I removed her as a friend. The next day she reached out on tumblr asking me why, yet since I was out all day I hadn’t seen it so I didn’t respond. Then I came back to another message where she was gaslighting me into being a bad friend, which ended with ‘bye’. I removed her as a friend on tumblr too and simply deleted the conversation, since I thought that was gonna be the end of it. Alas, it was not. When she returned with yet another message to insult me some more, I blocked her. That’s when the hateful rumors started spreading. At the time I had no idea I'd have to take screenshots to collect proof, so this is all I have on this matter.

Secondly, some of the anon hate messages had my real name in it. Since my name is not on my tumblr page, you’ll only know my name if you either know me in real life or if we chatted. This indicates that the anon hate is being spread by someone I talked to before. I have no quarrel on tumblr with anyone else, so this points yet again in her direction. Seems a little too suspicious to me to be a coincidence.

The first anonymous message (as far as I know) was sent to my close friend @otomiyaa, which claimed that I was a pedophile. It quite frankly shocked me since I was not prepared for the anonymous hate. I naively thought it would stay with that simple message, and then I thought it would stay with otomiyaa. For a while it did, as she kept receiving several anonymous messages which insulted me. It went from me being a pedophile, to being fat and ugly, to being a shitty writer, which heavily reminded me of the last message I’d received from ticklee25. Then it started spreading to other people, since anon didn’t get the satisfaction of a reply. They first targeted everyone who interacted with me, and when those accounts defended me they moved on to people that don’t follow me and minors.

I have an entire list of rumors being spread about me, from very serious to simply stupid, but it sadly didn’t stay with just rumors. Anon here took it upon themselves to send anonymous messages warning everyone that I spread hate into the tickle community, only to send the hateful anonymous message themselves while tagging me in it. Most people instantly realized that it would be really stupid to send an anonymous message and tag yourself in it, so they knew it wasn’t actually me sending the messages. Here are some examples:

Another thing I have noticed is how, despite me blocking ticklee25, the anonymous hate continued being sent. Some argued that this was a good enough reason for me to change my mind, that it couldn’t be her. However, after looking into it I noticed how several blogs, who were reblogging hate about me, hadn’t even been up for 24 hours, or spammed within mere seconds of each other. Very suspicious again. Some of these blogs are lifeisstrangeenthusiast, swiftlyticklish and ticklelover5.

So, I simply want to clarify some things. I am not a pedophile. I have not been sending hate to people from the tickle community. I have not been sending hate towards minors. I have never forced someone to do something they’re uncomfortable with. I am not a groomer. I am not trying to steal your partner. There may be more rumors, but these are the ones I wanted to address. And to be perfectly clear, I am not the jesus anon.

If you get messages like these, please know that it’s not me. I literally have no reason to spread hate, and I don’t want to stoop to this level. Like I said before, I’m only here for fanart, fanfics and da gays. 

I turn myself directly to the anon now. I suspect you've created multiple accounts to keep spreading hateful messages, no matter how many times I’ve blocked you. You could have reached out to me and spared everyone the pain, but you wanted to cancel me so badly so instead you decided to make it everyone’s problem, even going as far as targeting minors. You’re pathetic. I’ve taken the next step, and unlike you I do have screenshots to back me up.

Lastly, I want to thank everyone who has backed me up over these past 6 weeks. You’ve all helped me more than you realize, and I love each and every one of you. I'm super grateful.

@otomiyaa @rach-amber @thebest-medicine @whatsjulietslastname @amazingmsme @turtlee-rockin @toweroftickles @wild-lee-ticklish @softleesam @fluffomatic @ticklerfluff @atlaslunacozycorner @a-ticklish-banshee @objectfromthesky @kaseylovesbayley @knizmokat @wheezylee-jay

Longest post of my life, but it had to happen. I hope we can end the bs now, because I'm honestly done with it.

Update: I didn't have to wait long, as suspected, until someone was getting pissy about my post. @ticklelover5 decided to spread screenshots of random conversation with ticklee25 before the drama started, which only confirmed my suspicions that they're the same account and same person. Thing is, all her replies somehow have mysteriously disappeared! Shocker. So it looks like I'm just talking to myself like a fool. And this somehow adds to her cancel campaign? Proving that I'm horrible because I was talking? I'm confused and pissed, but I kinda expected this when I made this post. I'll post them here too, so you can see what I'm talking about.

Not gonna lie, the fact that she's been blocked back in december and somehow still has my conversation is kind of sickening to me. The fact that it's my current pfp and not the one from my screenshot means she just screenshotted these to try and get some dirt on me. I'm glad I got out of this friendship just in time, and I would have left sooner if I knew the level of psycho I'd be dealing with.

[otomiyaa]

Siiigh, everyone please block:

(and do not engage, it's useless sadly)

It's pretty clear the person who's been harrassing the community & @bambinella, for months, has again made a new account after deactivating the previous ones (ticklee25, ticklelover5, lifeisstrangeenthusiast, god knows what else).

If you're confused about what's going on I can best refer to this:

[amazingmsme]

Isn’t it funny how badly bambinellas fics are doing?

KARMA IS A BITCH AND SHES HERE

No, what’s funny is how you sent this ask immediately after sending this one

Like idk if you thought you should reword it after you already sent it, or if you actually thought I’d be stupid enough to think it’s 2 different people. Either way honey, you look like boo-boo the fool 🤡

Seriously, it’s soooooo funny how you think people actually listen & care about your pathetic attempt to drag someone else down. I didn’t even really know her until you started all this, but now I can confidently say she’s a sweetheart who’s just minding her own business while you continue to act like a rabid dog chasing its tail

You really out here like

[thebest-medicine]

I've recently been rewatching campaign 2 (currently on episode 57) because I simply couldn't say goodbye to them, and I'm so happy every time you post a new fic!

It was thanks to you that I discovered the critickle role community and I love being here! So thank you, please keep being awesome!

💚💚💚

I’m watching thru campaign 2 fully for the first time lol I’m on episode 40 but I know the general plot points and things that happen

I love them all so much too ugh. This is such a sweet message thank you!!! I was late to the critickle role party but I am glad I came it’s a fucking dope place with many wonderful people :):):):):):) thanks!!

[ladiemars]

karlach for @bambinella — double edged sword ᡣ𐭩

[greenticklerdreams]

Ah, so it's you - the person who's been harassing bambinella for months.

The only way you would've seen that I received that hate mail was me Replying to someone else who got one of your hate messages. (You've sent them to more than one of my friends, btw.) I must infer that you're stalking all of our blogs to make sure your crazy little schemes go through. Sounds like a lot of time and effort on your part.

Anon, I mean this sincerely: Please do something else with your life. I don't know your reasons for hating this person, but there have got to be better things for you to be doing, even if it's just little things that bring you joy. Get away from this website for a bit if you have to - I know I do sometimes. Spend time with your loved ones, watch or read something you love, create something, or even just go for more walks. Walks are great for clearing your head.

I took this time to reply to you because I think you're hurting, and you have been hurting for a long time. You don't deserve to spend the rest of your life in rage and pain. Just... stop feeding your inner demons and take a break. Give yourself that kindness. Take care of yourself first, even if no one else is (and I hope you have someone in your life who is - maybe lean on them a little more while you're going through this).

That being said, this is the only time I will ever reply to you. If you waste more of your precious time on Earth sending me hate, fake or not, I'm just going to block and move on. So please... don't spend the rest of your life wallowing in hatred. It's no way to live.

Take care.

[swiftlyticklish]

You are falsely accusing and coming at her for being the anon. What do you expect? You have zero proof she is the anon. Just like you don’t want people believing the rumors, you shouldn’t just believe what you want without evidence. Where have you heard that she is the anon? Please post proof. And it’s probably safer for her to stay away since you came at her for no reason…

And where are the threats about anons? Literally nowhere did it say that. Do you know how to read?

That psycho who’s targeting @bambinella has now added me to her list. Here she is, not-so-subtly threatening to make anonymous accusations about me because I rightfully questioned her. After which she proceeded to block me.

I didn’t want to get involved in community drama, but apparently if you’re friends with bambinella you’re at risk of being canceled by association.

[batsarebetterthanpeople]

DNI with @bambinella she’s a pedo pervert

Who the fuck is Bambinella? You understand that this is a weird fucking ask to send, right. She's not my mutual and I don't follow her. Which means I don't go here and you're sending a call out to the inbox of a random uninvolved person. Get a life

I also like... Super don't believe you because you people will call someone a pedo pervert for writing fic about a character in their early 20s dating a character in their late 20s. That assessment could come back to bite me in the ass but I really don't care because again I don't fucking go here

[otomiyaa]

Ginny, I think toweroftickles has lost his marbles. The bambinella fiasco and anger over the second coming of ticklejesus has sent him over the edge. Honestly it's confusing and hysterical. The bambinella thing isn't funny but it's giving me the confusions. I love our community. :)

hehehe aren't we all losing our marbles here, but I must admit seeing @toweroftickles and his disinfection gif really made me giggle too😂Anyway to give you less confusions, @bambinella sadly had to explain the whole situation again so you can see it here.

Also I have to say I may have played my part in pissing off this anon. I thought I was doing a good job ignoring the hateful messages, but in the end I'm afraid I only angered them and caused them to involve everyone like wtf. So yea you can find a collection (incomplete) of asks I've received under the cut.

adding this cuz why not

[crownin-thestars]

Hey just a heads up but @tickledbreathless is supporting hate that @bambinella is spreading to the community

Genuinely who are those people. What

[otomiyaa]

the sender of this ask is very young and has a lot to learn + thankfully most people don't believe the hate messages, so I'm not too worried about @bambinellas reputation (she is lovely btw),

But better safe than sorry, so again:

If you receive anon hate signed with her name, don't believe it! Besides, she has a main blog of her own, so anon messages with '-@bambinella' under them make no sense at all for multiple reasons.

For weeks, Bambs has been getting hate aimed at her which is mainly being spread by anons to other blogs. In addition, these people are sending hate to other people directed at them, and pretending it's Bambinella sending the hate.

I think I've received about 20+ anon asks so far which accused her of various things (such as being a pedo, being fat and ugly, a bad writer, dropping friendships etc. so many things she can make her own bingo card). I know other people have received these too and I can only recommend to ignore them like I did, they are all false and don't deserve your time.

This situation has taught me that blocking anon senders sadly doesn't seem to work no matter how many times I tried.

Bambs and I have been friends for over 2 years now (time flies) and it feels silly to defend her against such empty and random claims, but she's a really sweet and chill person and doesn't deserve the amount of hate she's getting for what's still a mysterious reason.

Stop sending hate messages to people in the tickle community you weirdo, if you have an issue with us just stay quiet about it, we don't care about your opinion 💀

As someone who is part of the tickle community, I can assure you I have not sent any hate messages. I can only assume an anon warned you about me, which is probably why you sent me this.

I've been dealing with this anon falsely spreading rumors about me for 6 weeks now. Feel free to look up my name and see what other people say about me, or read the post I made if you're willing to listen.

Have a good day, and I hope anon stops bothering you.

[tickledbreathless]

You know what bambinella did don’t pretend she’s innocent

please get therapy okay? Genuinely. It isn’t healthy to obsess over a person like this. Please protect your health for your own sake.

I’ve only ever seen bambinella defend herself. I don’t even know her.

From what I’ve seen, every accusation thrown her way has come from an anonymous ask with no evidence of her wrongdoing.

Tbh if anything, asks like this will only increase the support she receives bc people eventually learn what’s going on.

[thebest-medicine]

tbh not sure why this was sent to me lol?

[fluffomatic]

Hey sorry to bother but apparently @bambinella has been sending hate messages to people in the tickle community and I just wanted to let you know! Stay safe and please report anything she sends ❤️

I'm sorry but I'm super deep into this community and I tend to notice of people are spamming and sending hate to others since I get their feed on my home page all the time or from perusing the tags, and I have seen literally nothing regarding these hate messages.

I typically don't get these types of asks because there's no reason to send things like this to people who aren't involved at all. After checking their page, it seems there have been many asks sent around to others telling them to report. Now, for me, just telling me to report blindly is strange. Why not just say block?

Look, maybe you do have the right intentions, and I just missed all of this somehow, and if people do send over proof, then that's on me. As of now, I see no evidence at all that these messages are real, and I will not be reporting anyone.

As for my followers. I know on the internet a lot that there's this sense of mob mentality. When someone tells you that someone's bad, you believe them. But I implore everyone that if you get a message like this, please do some research. And to the user being tagged by this ask, I apologize that this'll pop up in your notifications

[amazingmsme]

Hey sorry to bother but apparently @bambinella has been sending hate to people in the tickle community and I wanted to let you know. I love your blog, and please stay safe and report any hate you get from her ❤️

Really not sure if this is someone who’s just genuinely trying to look out for me, or if this is the person sending hate pretending to be @bambinella

I’ve seen stuff on here & I think it’s pretty safe to say we have an imposter among us, who for some reason, has it out for someone who’s just trying to mind their own business

The hate messages I’ve seen from “her” on other people’s blogs don’t really add up, especially when she’s supposedly sending these messages to her own friends. Almost as if they don’t know who she’s actually close to & are just trying to make her look bad🤔

[ladiemars]

have a wip of karlach smiling 😌

(part of a larger work for the lovely @bambinella)