#back on the grindset tomorrow

[kittenpower05]

It's so harddd to let people like you

Im at the point in scarlet hollow where when I go to talk to Tabitha and she snaps at me I just go "Oh the friendship points are bad :( I'm not getting ice cream today :("

[bruhstation]

man who enjoys every single second he's dedicated to hating to the point it pisses everyone except him off

[fulgurbugs]

pleaaaaassse make more timeskip octopath posts they’re so good…I love Patricio-inspired tressa and primrose :)

Heeeeeellll yeah I started making timeskip designs cuz i was helping hash out a friends AU but tbh its made me kind of want to make more of my own (the therion + tressa ones were not fitting into their timeline) so i might get around to that eventualy.... somethin abt it makes me insane.

[vaperarmand]

just got through the most stressful week of my life because of a combination of work + me battling my own sick and evil mind and just as i’m coming out on the other side i find out that david tennant and michael sheen are neighbors. there are literally new mercies every morning <3

[toughluckbb]

happy last day of unemployment to meeeee

[edward-snowdenhands]

Well... Now what

[3xquisit3sacrific3]

Had a three day binge but I'm getting back on that grindset tomorrow, pray for me

[mousemilf]

do you have any advice for someone who can feel themselves regressing/feeling their depression creeping back?

omg! sorry this sat for a minute + i am also in no way whatsoever qualified to give advice on this. but imo staying busy w like, concrete commitments and short-term plans helps.

not like setting crazy grindset goals or anything, but just like, ok tomorrow after work i will try this recipe. next week i will have my friend over to watch a movie. and then lock yourself in to the plans: buy the groceries you need for the recipe, so if you dont cook it theyll expire. text the friend so now youll have to cancel and disappoint them if you wanna not do it.

so now the plans function as like externally enforced consequences to hold urself accountable to their built in deadlines. to cook ur recipe, you have to have some clean dishes, which even if you dont clean up after is better than just leaving older dishes to sit, and now you also probably have healthy leftovers and youll feel better w good food in you. and then to have a friend over youll probably wanna tidy up a little bit and shower first - also things that will make you feel better.

if i go too many days without plans i end up procrastinating all my little self carey stuff- even hobbies i want to do - because i dont feel like i have a deadline and i can always get to it later.

its also just good to have enrichment and ik im speaking from an extroverts perspective but being really social always makes me feel better.

obvious caveats are to not have too many social plans revolving around substance use, like maybe get ur drinking buddies to go to the zoo or something. and also to not do so much you dont have time for rest, nutrition, hygiene etc. but def push yourself a reasonable amount. i feel like for me at least stagnation is more of a risk than burnout.

any way im not sure if this is even a little bit helpful but basically yeah. plansmaxxing forces you to care for yourself and your physical environment which have a huge impact on your mental health ime.

[ceasarslegion]

Doctor seen, note obtained. LOA approved. I'm not going back in until September 26th. He also prescribed me a combination sleep aid and antidepressant on the basis that "I've been concerned about your mood lately and since you can't afford counseling right now I want you to give this a try."

I was also told that it won't be paid because I haven't been on the job for 3 years yet. Instead I was told to apply for EI's unpaid LOA benefit :((

I feel weird about it, like I'm going against something. Like I shouldn't be allowed to just take off from work for a reason like this and it'll come back to bite me in the ass. Maybe that's the ivy league grindset kid talking in me but just... not working? There must be negative consequences for that outside of just lost pay, right?

And I came home to a note on my door telling me that annual inspection is tomorrow. And I've been letting some minor things go by the wayside because of how stressed out I've been so now I have to spend today fixing that.

I'm having a weird one emotionally lads

[nekropsii]

Anyways. Tomorrow we’re getting back on the Alpha Troll Yuri Poll grindset. The victors have victor’d. Time for the Ultimate Lesbians to be decided.

Note: I will not be doing a gay male version of the Alpha Troll Yuri Poll because literally every single gay male Alpha Troll ship sucks complete ass. My mind will not be changed on this.

[noah-bout-it]

Back on my fanfic speedrun grindset

I promise the actual chapter one will be better (which I will probably have done by tomorrow), just wanted to get this prologue out rq for potential feedback

@noahcue I did promise to do my best on this one for ya

[officialpenisenvy]

starting from tomorrow im going back to the three meals a day grindset idgaf

[bisexual-gregory-house]

i was reading the back stage interview with rsl that mutifandom-madness shared and i saw something interesting:

Back Stage: Many fans of the show felt you were underutilized the first season.

Leonard: Really? I never felt that way. I have no problems with days off, so you're not going to get any campaign from me—one of the reasons I was drawn to the show. It's one thing to be Harold Hill; it's another thing to be Harold Hill 16 hours a day, six days a week. I don't like working very much. I'm the most unambitious person ever. I'm so happy; I have nothing to prove. There are a few roles I want to play, but mostly I just want to keep doing a play every now and then, watch kids grow and eat cookies and drink tea. I love theatre, but filming is work. I've never made any claim to love it. I'm not working tomorrow, and I'm so excited. I'm going to get up, I'm going to read The New York Times on the beach, go for a run, read, and watch a Yankee game. Why would I choose to not do that over putting makeup on my face and pretending to be another person? I know a lot of people who find film acting fun. I feel blessed to do it, and I feel blessed to have the job. But when I'm doing theatre, I don't want a day off.

I had NEVER heard someone say something like this! This is something i was talking about with my therapist. I don't care about money or the grindset, that has only made me deeply unhappy. I feel so happy that someone like rsl thinks the same.

[jeffbytes]

sigma grindset is real, i'm putting my other cosplay up tomorrow i just gotta finish the user guide

not in a huge amount of trouble just tryina get back on track with my savings, and support my family while my dad's out of work (long distance, i live alone so i still gotta pay for my own shit too)

[venomphilter]

was actually happy-ish around family for once and got accused of being on drugs. 🫡 understood. i will be back on my misery grindset tomorrow and not a soul will say shit to me about it.

[tabaha]

Day 36

Skipped yesterday. It was like 3:50am when I was done with the birthday art, had to wake up in 4hours and a half and I didn't feel like it was wise to stay up for 10 to 20 more minutes.

Trying to take it easy tonight and go to bed reasonably early.

I need to find my way back to the grindset tomorrow. I can't go too long without shading reps.