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Gadbad...or attraction/P4
Nothing will be the same...
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“There is a strange feeling concerning you. As if I had a string under my left ribs, tightly knotted to a similar string in you. And if you were to leave, I’m afraid that cord of communion would snap. As for me, I’d take to bleeding inwardly. As for you, you won't forget me either and bleed with me.” ~Mysticaldivine~
Khushi came to pick up her DeviMaiya yet after feeling his presence near her heart changed everything in her. Her mind and heart were not listening to her, which was the scariest thing ever. She had no idea why she was feeling the way she was. A girl with a sheltered lifestyle and with a certain layout of life, where marriage was the one that could bond two people together with love and all those sacred relationships. There was no space for the unfathomable emotions she was feeling right now in front of this man. This was not right, not pure, it was a sin, a man in her thoughts, dreams, her words, in her life by all means so far, from the moment she met him. He was creating havoc in her, bringing out the woman she was unfamiliar with.
No, this wasn't right at all. He was an arrogant, khadoos, money-oriented, stubborn, rich, powerful man who didn't even believe in DeviMaiya, but today he saved her from falling as well.
Who really he is?
The one who can put her life in danger without putting two cents on it or the one who brought her home safely. All of these contradict her mind because midst of all, she thinks of him all the time, dreams of him talks about him, her heart wants to see him, and beats erratically near him. All of this was enough to enrage her as a woman; a commanding woman in her is tired of these unfamiliar emotions, and at the top of his temper, echoes in her crazily.
Her voice started rising, and her nerves started shaking, but Khushi had to be in command. The duel of mind and heart was dancing its own tune lyrically with the fire of passion and essence of desired need.
And her need to be out of there, away from him as soon as possible and at any cost. "pehle aap darwaza khol dijiye. [first, you open the door.]
In her heart, she knew he would open the door, and he won't hurt her...
They backfired by testing each other's limits, waiting for the other to give in. Arnav was losing his grip every moment his voice raised, but something snapped too in him, finding her eyes wide open, a bit scared, and that feeling made him retreat... . she was in command until the very end. He stormed to the door and started kicking it vigorously until he kicked it down. Violent yet in control with one mission in his head...to make her listen to him.
ab sunogi? will you hear me out now?
Then she throws a neat surprise to his dazzled state of mind. She gives him a baffled and strange scared look, closes her lips for not uttering anything to make it worse, rushes to pick up her things, and then stands just in front of him to deliver her last word, a last piece of her mind to make peace with her. The final blow, if you say doubt, is She was tired of the duelling with him, with herself, with these feelings, the constant feeling of heightened emotions… she is frazzled and wants to get out of there, get away from him.
"Hamain aapki koi baat nahin sunani, nafrat hai na aapko hamse, hamari aukat se, hamari shakal dekhna nahin chahte na app? to khush hogaiye, kyun keh hum aapki nazron se hamesha ke liye door ja rahe hain Lucknow jaa rahe hai hum, hamesha ke liye."(I don't want to listen to you. You hate my face and my status, so be happy I am going to Lucknow forever).
hamesha ke liye door ja rahein hain... lucknow ja rahein hain hum... hamesha ke liye.
Words are nowhere to be found for Arnav as he looks at her lifeless after hearing all of this; he felt the same after her resignation, but worse than that. He gives her an incredulous look as if he has been struck. Her words are like a blow to his mind. All the frustration and the desperation are forgotten, and he looks at her, totally unconvinced.
She waits to see his reaction and leaves as she can't take this pain any more and can't give him the time he can come up with something new either.
Arnav"Tum aise nahin jaa saktin
Khushi' KHUSHI !
(You can't go like this Khushi) He wants to say, Don't go to Lucknow Khushi.., don't'.
I feel so much pain here, bringing tears to my eyes as his mother left him, and he is hiding this pain behind his rage and confusion because he could not stop her. And here Khushi'...at this moment only'
Khushi, indeed has left an enormous impact on him...
Part 1,2, & 3
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औकात शायरी हिन्दी मे | Aukat Shayari |
Aukat :
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हम ना तो किसीकी पूछते है,
ना किसी को अपनी बताते है। "
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Aukat Status 2020 | औकात स्टेटस | akad Attitude status
Aukat Status 2020 | औकात स्टेटस | akad Attitude status
किसी के #बनाए रास्ते पर #हम चलते नहीं … क्योंकि .
#मंजिल हमारी वहां है जहां लोगों की #औकात नहीं …
अपनी औकात में रहना सीख pagli … वर्ना जो हमारी_आँखों में खटकते है, वो #श्मशान में भटकते है..!!
मेरे जज्बातों से इस कदर वाकिफ है मेरी कलम,मैं इश्क भी लिखना चाहूं को इंकलाब लिखा जाता है।।- भगत सिंह
अंजाम जो होगा देख लेंगे पर खेल अबकी बार खतरनाक होगा ।
तुम सोते #रातों में, मैं रातों में था #जगता ..
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IPK Rewatch: EP 02; the dori breaks
and so it begins!! The first meeting, the divine stars have intervened. Devi Mayyian watched over as Khushi drove away on the stolen scooter and just as she pulled her dupatta feeling his gaze over her, she slips and falls in the arms of her rajkummar.
Every single interaction between them, it's Khushi who breaks away or walks away. Every single one. She is the one to break the bubble by stepping back or wanting to break away from his grip. He doesn't let her go right away as she squirms and him pulling her back into his arms for that brief second as he takes all of her in, makes her realise her hand on his collar which the moment she removes he pushes her off him. I think bitwa realised what happened to him. He was angry alright, but this girl stirred something the moment he saw her and her trying to break free away from him, a man who girls flock after; he is not going to take these feelings lightly. I think he realised what happened when snapped at her taking her hand off his collar.
Khushi stands scared. Whether any feelings in her have risen or not, she was scared and nervous to begin with and it's clear that the way this man stared at her was not how men should be looking at anyone for that matter. The guards take her away from the premises but not without her dupatta falling off and landing at his feet.
I always found the Khushi's dupatta a character of it's own. Dupatta means a lot to south asian women. Hell I would say that when I find myself wearing a 6ft fabric around me, the realisation of what this garment means symbolically and what it communicates about my character to style is not something that can be a joke. For a girl like Khushi, the dupatta is a symbol is respect and how funny and ironic it is that the man who in next few seconds will declare his control over her life will be the one to return/restore the respect he tried time and time again to disapprove about her to himself. The dupatta under his feet, falling by his feet is such a big deal. But also I feel this moment signifies that Devi Mayyian did sent Arnav as Khushi's protector. If Arnav has been provided with the power and ability to choose his interpretation of what her clutching her dupatta means, then he is also the only one whose treatment of her dupatta protects her image and reputation in eyes of others.
The dupatta and the collar are recurring motifs. And beautiful ones at that! There's something that happens to my brown ghairat at the utilisation of these motifs. Maybe internalised sexist rhetoric?
Back at Gupta House, we get a glimpse of Bua ji's displeasure at Khushi's antics and everyone being worried about not being able to find the papers. Payal who had been hoping that Abhishek was unaware about the dowry, at finding out he's said nothing to defend the Guptas or his to-be wife, finds herself more upset. Meanwhile Garima figures out the connection between Khushi's absence and the mortgaged papers missing.
All while Khushi is being interrogated. In all honesty, I would be hella sus of Khushi being somewhere and ruining a major multi-million company's event. I tried listening multiple times but Barun really used to mumble a lot of dialogues on the beginning. He mumbles the name of a rival fashion house which the nosy person in me wanted to know!
When Arnav takes the first step forward, Khushi doesn't step back but it's from his second step forward that she starts taking a step back. A precedent is set between these two and the progression of their relationship with one taking a step forward, another taking a step back. Khushi doesn't willingly stop taking steps back until after Shyam's revelation. I think it also tracks Khushi's relationship with Arnav's anger. If Khushi's personality and actions give Arnav a reason to start falling for her or allow himself to trust his feelings for her, then none of anything that Arnav does ever allows Khushi to move past the confusion of having feelings for him. She is instead troubled at the aspect of liking someone she's doing her level best to hate.
In first 15 mins of the second episode, we get everything that's going to be the foundation. Arnav always being the one to catch Khushi, the collar, the dupatta, and the bubble which evolves into Rabba Ve, and the steps. I think this is the one of the reasons the initial episodes are beautiful and grip you. The show doesn't waste time in establishing the thesis of their relationship. We slowly start exploring their characters but the relationship, that's what all of this is about.
Sanaya literally looked like a goddess in this episode I swear. The make up is perfect, her face looks perfectly angelic and stands out in contrast to Barun's intense presence. the glowy backdrop of the make up room with mirrors and lights provides a perfect backdrop for who both of them are as people. Arnav being extraordinary and grandeur. Khushi being the source of light.
With Arnav narrating about aukat and wealth, Khushi's expression changes and she refers to caring about family members. She's here because of her sister. Eventually Khushi lands up in Shantivan because of his sister. If money is a motivator to regain the Malik's lost respect and turn them into Raizadas, the money is also something that Arnav equates with respect. He is after all still standing in Sheesh Mahal, and money along with respect was what he lost the day him and his sister were kicked out. He had to rely on Mami's assistance eventually to be able to build up a strong investment portfolio and a fashion house.
I also think Arnav used wealth and class as a reason to provoke Khushi. There are two types of people in middle class or lower classes. Those who take pride in their ability to not ask for help and earn their way through life, and those who would do anything for money. Funny how the damad of Malik's daughter is the one whose a gold digger.
But what is something poor girls have to prize more than their being? Their respect. And at the mention if his sister who Khushi made an assumption of existing, he is compelled to destroy everything about her.
badtamizi pe tou mein Abhi aya nahi hoon.
The way this show turned the dori and dupatta into a motif of what they actually are is beautiful to me. There's nothing romantic about preserving respect and dignity, but there is something powerful in someone's ability to be able to do so. Arnav ripping apart the pearls and having them scatter symbolises how his presence took the innocence away. From the release of this clip, there is no moment where Khushi's character doesn't come under question by either Arnav or Shyam. The pearl dori breaking also starts Arnav's journey of walking a path where he had to be apologise. He is going to be living with this guilt for at least the entirety of the year.
Back at Gupta House, everyone is concerned for Khushi except for Bua ji, who is definitely the one more concerned about appearances than Garima. Perhaps because for Garima, her husband is still present besides her. As much as I hate prioritising of appearances and the shame-based social approach of brown communities, it is something that unfortunately exists and our narratives exist within the existence of socially acceptable appearances.
Payal whose been asked concisely about Khushi doesn't budge but she decides to say something with her father returning. Perhaps because she also realises that the way she loves Khushi unconditionally and considers her as her closet confidant, Babuji also is accepting and understanding of Khushi's intentions even if they revert to a mistake. Payal's displeasure at Abhishek not speaking up for her also helps in being happy at Khushi's return and aiding Khushi afterwards as much as she could.
Shashi who had been apprehensive about dowry to begin with is relieved to see Khushi safe and sound, Garima who was adding by the norms of how girls family should behave was disappointed beyond words, and Bua ji was just straight up angry. I think Bua ji is the only character who despite loving Khushi, displays the bias in how she considers Payal to be perfect and Khushi to be imperfect.
While Khushi provides the explanation about going to meet the not-hone-wale jija ji, we do get an insight into why despite Manorama's objections and her own reservation on class issues, Payal agrees for Akash. Because Akash is honest about his feelings and about all that he hopes to provide. I have to say, the Gupta sisters have a really low bar for their men after having Shashi as a father. But honestly, don't we all just settle at crumbs half the time? It's truly a shame. -- Khushi admits her mistakes unless she's challenged or dared. and she doesn't hesitate in apologising except from Arnav. Khushi apologising is almost a norm for her character however Khushi apologising Arnav is not going to be one. I find that juxtaposition of how Khushi treats Arnav and him wanting apologies to be extremely hilarious! She forgives his gravers mistakes but not anything menial.
mat kaho humme amma!
oh, how it breaks Khushi's heart! Khushi is wholly accepted into her family even by Bua ji; so on the two occasions when she is reminded of her orphaned status, it crumbles her entire world. After all, she went to see Abhishek, Junior Engineer who wanted dowry for her step sister. She crosses over boundaries for those she loves and her family members are the people she repeatedly crosses these boundaries and social conventions for. Also in both the instances of Khushi being reminded about her orphaned status, Shashi and Payal are more understanding despite their disappointment or pain. They truly love Khushi whole-heartedly and perhaps unconditionally which is something that surprisingly Arnav does too even though the first marriage between the two was on the terms and conditions laid out by Arnav driven by his interpretation of Khushi’s betrayal.
The episode ends with Khushi opening up the sweet shop after being unable to sleep. I love the moonlight on both the girls face. It symbolises their inner turmoil and distress. With the divine clock on, the journey to rediscover themselves and them in love is going to rule the hearts of Gupta sisters.
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Latest Whatspp Status Collection
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If you make a boy laugh, He likes you. But if you make a boy cry, He loves you.
Bahut gurur tha sbko apni daulat pe.. zara sa zameen kya hili sb aukat me aa gye..
I told my parents I had my eye on a bike for my birthday. They told me to keep my eye on it because my arse won’t be on it.
Finding friends that have the same mental disorder as you.
It can take me anywhere between 0.02 seconds and 3 days to reply to a text.
Sometimes it is painful to see that the people most appreciate is false.
Girls with open messy hair, chubby cheeks, a dimple, and spectacles.. Aww, you look so cute.!
Opportunity tends to knock once, then it’s gone…temptation, however, likes to stand there and lean on the damn doorbell!
Make your nature simple, the time will not be wasted.
Hope is the power that gives a person the confidence to step out and try…..
Alone doesn’t mean lonely, lonely doesn’t have to be alone.
Beauty is power, a smile is its sword..
We all need mirrors to remind ourselves who we are.
Things r beautiful if u love them.
If I could be anything, l would be ur tear, so l could be born in ur eye, live down ur cheek and die on ur lips…
You say it best when you say nothing at all!!
Sometimes, i want to meet myself from someone else’s point of view!
Shit happens. Everyday. To everyone. The difference is in how people deal with it.
Maturity is not when we start speaking big things. It is when we start understanding small things.
Sometimes I’ts better To be Alone.. Nobody Can Hurt You!
God is really creative, I mean.. just look at me! 🙂
Last seen 1980! 😀
Thinking holds what you feel, feeling drives what we think.
A friendship that can end never really began !
I dont have a lot of friends, I just know a lot of people.
A friend is someone who knows all abt u and accept u as u are.
Right or Wrong doesn’t exist! When u have a CONFIDENCE.
Life is Just a Journey.
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Be bold to own your mistakes in Life, accept your faults and improve your personality.
I speak for what i see, I stand for what I Beileve. I strive for what i want.
When u love someone, even though they hurt u nd break your heart, you still love them with all the little pieces!!
World is small and life is short.. Spread smiles and share peace.
People who tolerate me on the daily basis! are real heroes in my eye.
Life goes on with or without you!
I hate fake people. You know what I’m talking about. Mannequins. 😀
I am the circle, and the circle is me.
24 Hours Online!
Classic book is a book which people praise, but do not read.
Cheer up, tomorrow will be a better day, just believe!
It might take awhile, but eventually you’re going to find the good in goodbye.
When the past calls, let it go to voicemail.. it’s got nothing new to say.
Play the moments. Pause the memories. Stop the pain. Rewind the happiness.
Romantic are people that had never seen the other side of the things.
The Ones Who Are Crazy Enough To Think That They Can Change The World Are The Ones Who Do.
Love is not possible without sacrifice, and sacrifice is not possible without love.
Love is when u have seen the best and the worst of sam1,yet u still love them for what they have..
True love doesan’t have a happy ending. It has NO ending.
Call me crazy, but I’m madly in love with you and this won’t go away for a while, so get use to it..
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Sometimes you have to act like you don’t care, even when you do.
You have no idea how much l like you. How much you make me smile, how much l love talking to you, or how much l wish you were here.
Every problem comes with solution, but my GF don’t have.
Life is too short. Don’t waste it reading my status.
Give thanks for a little and you will find a lot.
What is known in the heart doesn’t always need to be uttered by Mouth.
Don’t feel special. Some people keep your number in phone list just not to answer your call.
After all we all are stories in the end.
Sometimes the person you trust most is the one who trust you the least.
Go for someone who is not only proud to have you but will also take every risk just to be with you.
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Some People Change Your Life, Then Leave Without Explanation !!
The most eloquent silence, that of two mouths meeting in a kiss.
Play the moments. Pause the memories. Stop the pain. Rewind the happiness.
I Miss you dearly my heart aches, My head is lost, I really miss you.
The Ones Who Are Crazy Enough To Think That They Can Change The World Are The Ones Who Do.
Romantice are people that had never seen the other side of the things.
I think I might be falling for you. I love who you are and every little thing you do.
Life doesn’t get easier u get stronger.
Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.
Stop saying I wish start saying I will.
Love yourself love your day love your life.
Don’t let a bad day make u feel u have a bad life.
I’ve got nothing to bo today but smile.
Life is to short to remove USB slowly.
Nobody can teach me who I am.
It doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful.
Sometimes it’s not about missing someone. its wondering if they’re missing you
You know how you don’t want to miss them, but you want them to miss you
Absence makes the heart grow fonder
Love is missing someone whenever you’re apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart.
If we evolved from monkeys, why are there still monkeys?
Dont talk if you dont have any good thing to say
A female can be your best friend and worst enemy. It all depends on how you treat her.
Remember, You are unique, but then again so is everyone else in this world.
Sometimes the right one for you is the one who was there the whole time.
If they can’t swallow facts, let them eat fiction.
I think of you in colours that don’t exist.
Guys who run girl’s account on Facebook are the ones who secretly buy barbie and comb its hair.
Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and its better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.
Mujhe teri mohabbat ko sahara mil gaya hota.. agar tufan nahi aata kinara mil gaya hota…
Pluviophile: a lover of rain, someone who finds joy and peace of mind during rainy days.
Aarju honi chahiye dill me kise ko yad karne ki.. Lamhe toh apne ap he miljate he dost
Baharo phool barshao mera mehboob aya hain..
Saw a Chinese kid and a black kid wave to each other today. It gave me hope…for another Rush Hour movie…
They say what goes around comes around, passed a packet of chips and never came back.
Duniya main sirf 2 Chize Mashoor Hai, tere bhai ka Style, aur teri bhabhi ki smile.
Thanks to the words ‘dude’ ‘bro’ and ‘man’ I haven’t said my best friends name in 10 years.
Tu hi ye mujhko bata de.. chahu main ya na..
Ye zami ruk jaye, Ye aasma tam jaye, Jab tere chara samn aaye.
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शायरी से औक़ात आती है औक़ात से शायरी नहीं SHAYARI SE AUKAT AATI HAI AUKAT SE SHAYARI NAHIN POETRY BEGETS YOU STATUS STATUS DOESN'T BEGET POETRY #status #position #pride #rank #prestige #poet #poetry #sher #shayar #shayari #shayri #couplet #urdushayari #urdupoetry #hindishayari #hindipoetry #poetrycommunity #poetryquotes #poetsofig #poetsofinstagram #urduslam #urduadab #poetryslam #sadpoetry #sadshayari #celebrity #celeb #page3 #author #influencer (at Chandigarh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CMYwstZjPJg/?igshid=16qknizx33arq
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मेरी Style मेरा Attitude Aur मेरी Diwangi तेरी Aukat से बाहार है, Pagli जिस दिन तु ये जान जायेगी, उस दिन Jaan से जायेगी. dekh pagli quotes
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CLEAR THE AIR
I was going to write on another topic but that particular issue can wait.
6th June,2013- I was chosen by AMEX(American Express) through SERCO BPO.
21ST June,2013- I Resigned or if it sounds pleasing I Ran Away. Yes as nobody knows clearly as to under what circumstances I did it.
Let me admit that honestly I was not happy or pleased during my shortest time in the job and anyways I was planning to quit. But during the days I was forced to be in AMEX I went through a lot of Mental trauma and also some physical trauma. All the Credit goes to the person who selected me-MR Nitin Agrawal whom I had to report to.
After I had left the job there were a lot of unwelcomed Criticisms and questions I had to face and maybe that particular question still people have “Why I Left such a well Known Brand or company??” So after a long silence of many years let me “CLEAR THE AIR”..I will explained what atrocities or unfair behavior I had to face.
1.Unfair Selection:
I was not willing to be selected as a Business Development Executive or lets say Salesman but I rather wished for a Desk Job but Mr Nitin Agrawal chose me as a Salesman. Many Will think it is a sign of Goodwill or good gesture but let me reveal a truth here. He(Nitin) did not really want me in his process as a salesman, he wanted me as a punching Bag so that he can ridicule me and insult me. The way he Interviewed me was very threatening and Demoralizing.
2. Challenging My Status(AUKAT):
Just on the first official day of working and I remember that I had come from Thane for company work only. I reached back to the office around 6 PM. The Great Mr Nitin makes me sit near him and questions me “Teri Aukaat kitne clients laane ki hai?”I need not translate this. Yes the word “Aukat” was used on me and that to in a Displeasing manner which set me back. Anyone around the globe knows this fact that a New Employee will take some time to get clients as it is not an easy job but Mr Nitin was in no mood for such practices. Anyways I fumbled and said “8″ to which he arrogantly approved and challenged me. The tone and attitude of his was not at all Motivating.
3.Rocket SIngh Theory:
Ever Since “Rocket Singh: Salesman of the Year” movie starring Ranbir Kapoor, has released it has given rise to much autocratic type of working rather than Motivational system. Ok, coming to what I want to share is that On my orientation day which is when we are made familiar of our work and nature of Job, Mr Nitin secretly threatened me that in this process “Rocket Singh”style works which basically meant that all corrupt work will happen and if you are caught then it is fair for Mr Nitin to hold you up.
4. Sunday Not A FUN DAY :
Now at many places Saturday and Sunday are Off Days where someone can enjoy but in AMEX Process there is no such theory by Mr Nitin. Just because he does not like to sit at home at sundays so Mr Nitin feels none of his workers or employees deserve atleast even a Sunday Break. I was honestly not happy and this is where I decided I cannot continue with such a Boss and would have given my resignation but again time was not right hence I had to wait for a right time to resign. Yes This is something Unfair at any cost.
5. Usual Threats:
Since I made the promise to fulfill the target and I was not being able to even after continuous tries, I had to be Insulted. This was rule of Mr Nitin who was continuously threatening me for not completing my targets on given time. Well this is a threat every employee gets in such a screwed up working environment.
6.Climax and A Strange system:
It was 21st june,2013 and the day I finally made up my Mind to quit this Non Sense Job of a Salesman. I finally got a client whose office was in Masjid Bunder and he applied for AMEX’s New Scheme “Payback” Card and when I reached office, Mr Nitin who usually was threatening me, crossed his limits on that day. He tore my hardworking Application so there is no proof and he caught me by my collar which is physical trauma and it is illegal.
Second Part as mentioned Strange System was that AMEX decided on this way of attendance was that from Delhi a person in charge will call the employee thrice everyday to know the progress of the Deal and if the deal with client is closed fairly then the higher authorities will consider that employee has been present in office and if Employee fails to close a deal or even if he misses the call of person in Charge, he will loose out on the particular day in way of attendance. I feel this system was also thought by Mr Nitin Agrawal and Maybe he made this system to morally degrade me specially.
So these are the unfortunate events that transpired in those many days and these are all the atrocities I was forced to go through. Before someone points out that its common or “Everyone Goes through” it does not make a wrong working system correct. I am not against the process but I am definitely against people like Mr Nitin Agrawal who misuse such procedures and take over undue advantage of an employee’s weakness. Such People like Mr Nitin Agrawal must be Punished for morally degrading his own employees for no reasons. If today or in current times Mr Nitin Agrawal ever happens to meet me, then I shall show my so called Status(Aukat).
Finally whatever happened after that no self respecting person will like to stay in such a complex and unhappy work environment. No Matter how much everyone believes in Money, Power and Authority but none of these can take place of SELF RESPECT.
THE END..
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