#ask me things <3 !

[beyourownanchor6]

oh also top 5 buddie moments??

ohh! i tend to forget everything as soon as these kinds of questions are asked 😅 so i’ll just go with the ones that live rent free in my mind 🫶🏼

—this entire scene. it might be my favorite one. I’ve watched it an unhealthy amount of times 🙈

—bc evan

—idk i just love this scene and i have no explanation for it

—wanna go for the title 😏

—there’s nobody in this world 🥲

—this moment and the whole scene after it !!

ask me my top 5 anything!

[pookiebearmick]

when you get this, please respond with five things that make you happy! then, send to your last ten people in your notifs (anonymously). you never know who might benefit from spreading positivity.

(sorry I don't have the option to post anon. hey Deck!)

bestie!!! hello ❤️ i have so much going on so a positivity post is good for me 🥰

1. my spouse and my partner! both of them are SO good to me and have been supporting me lots when i’m going through it TM

2. fiber crafts, thank god for knitting 🧶 idk what i would do without it tbh!! helping me regulate since the day i learned how to knit honestly lol

3. my dentist lol 🦷 i got some cavities filled (even tho my teeth weren’t in pain) and i just feel much less anxious about my oral health now that it’s taken care of (plus they numbed me up real good i couldn’t feel a damn thing)

4. colors!! i just love colors 🤩 i’m so grateful i get to play around with colors in my daily life (whether that be through drawing or knitting or just being in a space filled with different colors like my home)

5. my dumb younger sibling, i truly love them so much

6. (bonus bc i’m an even number bitch) therapy my god, i finally have an appointment to see a new therapist after my insurance fucked me over and i had to find a new one. idk how i made it this long without therapy but i’m so grateful i get to go back 😚

[puppyeared]

filipina miku!! my mom helped me with her outfit ^_^

[hinamie]

I'm always pushing you away from me / but you come back with gravity / and when I call, you come home

[gatoburr0]

I HATE how this turned out WITH A PASSION.

[spielzeugkaiser]

Being on the nostalgia train this week really helped stretching my artistic legs again. So here, have some old things and some new! For now I'm done with this.

[evan-buck]

LOKI 2x06 Glorious Purpose

[hellsitegenetics]

i love you aroallo people i love you pan people i love you bi people i love you nonbinary people i love you lesbians i love you trans women i love you intersex people i love you everyone in every body or identity with discourse surrounding if you should exist or not i love you so much i love you i love you i love you. you are so so loved i promise you

a very tired but hopeful trans lesbian 🙏

String identified: aa a a a ta t tt t c g t t c . a

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Closest match: Sepioteuthis lessoniana genome assembly, chromosome: 33 Common name: Bigfin Reef Squid

[abstractfrog]

Happy 1 year anniversary to Mr Sherlock Holmes! Here's a litttleee celebratory comic from me

[nidbaesenpai]

Dare you say this love could just save you

[toobusybeingdelulu]

Sometimes I think about the kids seeing billy lounging at the pool with a shirt on in s3 and literally going like “oh no, he hasn’t got his tits out, something is wrong!!” and the funniest thing is that they were right

[beyourownanchor6]

13, 20 and 30 (I didn’t look at the list so I hope these are good 😂)

jdiejs ily bestie 😅🩵

13. What’s your longest work of the year?

—i think we all know it’s army!eddie 😁 aka: if i lay here, would you lie with me (forget the world)

20. Which work of yours have you reread the most?

—hmm probably my coastlines au since i re-read bits of it every time i add to the series

30. Biggest surprise while writing this year?

—army!eddie. that was a silly little idea. i never intended for it to turn into a 90k+ fic 🙊

ao3 wrapped asks

[pookiebearmick]

hi! i'll go with 3, 21, and 30 🥰

julissa 🥰🥰🥰

3. What was the last song you listened to? i've been on an orville peck kick (thank u gay tumblr) so i've been listening to all of his albums front to back, but the last song i listened to is Buffalo Run from Pony 👏🐎

21. How was your day today? i'm only about halfway through the day right now (it's 2:30ish in the afternoon for me), but it's been good! productive, doing my tax spreadsheet stuff for work and cleaning my apartment with my partner on our day off 😊 i got some fun new pens for art programs that i'm going to swatch too 😍

30. What are you looking forward to in the near future? after work tomorrow my partner and i are having our little polycule over 💗 we're going to watch the queer ultimatum which is always good for talking shit, my fave activity lol

🌈 ask me questions 🌈

[inkskinned]

the problem is that being single is seen as the consolidation prize, and not the natural neutral state of being-a-person. at the end of the movie or the book or the poetry, there is a person waiting for you at the altar, and they love you. if the play is a comedy, everyone gets married. the metaphor is about how you are not-whole. the metaphor is about how everyone is going to be happily-ever-after. the metaphor is that romantic love is the most important resource on the planet, not just all-love. all-love is not a thing, that is a disappointment. the treasure is not the friends we made along the way. the treasure is the girl you landed.

the metaphor is that you cannot be alone, that means you are broken. are you getting over someone? that is acceptable, you can be getting over someone, but not for long. you must be single because you would rather not be single. you must be single and looking to not-be-single. you must want to date, eventually.

friendship and community are never seen as being equal-to or even-better than romantic connection. that person is your one! you need to find them. you need to hunt through the sand particles until you can shift out some kind of gem. this is regardless to your own experience of the beach and the sun. you need to be somewhere with someone.

if you are taking this time alone to heal, that is so sad. everyone gives you this little pitying look. the understanding is that you are not actually happier than you were before you were single. it is seen as a sort of pity - oh, you are choosing yourself, making yourself the priority? - that isn't quite right. you must mean that you are making yourself ready for the right person. you are just laying the bed better this time. open up your heart. you'll find them, we promise!

what do you mean you're really-truly genuinely-very happy? you are probably misremembering what it was like to be in a relationship. and besides, once you meet your person, that time will look grey and bland and wasted. your person is the only way for you to see in color. so what if you have taken this time - for the first time in your entire life - to actually-for-real do the fucking work. you can be proud of yourself, sure. but the way we need to know that you got better is that you get a partner. you're healed enough for the next bad part!

people don't choose to be single, they just say they're choosing to be single - they actually mean "nobody wants to date me." it doesn't matter how many people you have gently rejected or how many times you've talked it over carefully in therapy. what matters is that you are single, and by all accounts - that means you are something worth our pity. your successes and life all seem pale in the sunlight. sure, you have done amazing things and finally found your way in life. what matters is that there wasn't a person in the room with you while you did it.

you want to tell them - that's the whole thing. i didn't know how to be alone in the room. i didn't know how to handle the silence. every moment was so sharp, and i kept choosing the wrong way to close the door. i have spent my entire life in the empty well, living in the ricochet of someone else's cruelty. for once i have built myself a ladder. for once everything i taste is all mine, every bite of sunshine and laughter. i have learned how to sleep out in the open with my memories. recently, they have started to purr.

your father rolls his eyes. listen. this isn't about you. i just want a grandchild in my future.

[caruliaa]

staff still hasn't given me polls, what should i do?

🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪 their moms 69%

🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪🟪 their dads 31%

grace image os i get to look at her

[obsob]

oooooooooough i love you i love you i love you!!!! hand in loving hand !!!!!!