#anyways WHEN will i find the mattt to my mello <3 jk i have him already

[0ystercatcher]

like honestly geniunely it is not suprising women esp young teen girls realizing they are attracted to men relate to gay/bi men (in MEDIA please im speaking of media and tv and movies and animes) moreso than to het women bc when women in media express attraction to men it tends to be sooo fucking boring and passive and waiting for men to do everything and it always comes across as like. women have to be convinced to participate in a relationship and once were in one were like. a price men drag around. but idk we wanna participate just as much as men do we feel actual desire and attraction and usually we dont see this or hear of this anywhere but idk. the ocasional fanfic ?? whereas a lot of the time men are allowed to actively seek out nd desire partners (yes homophobia is obviously a thing but if you think straight or bi women cant relate or find common ground w it even if its shaky and lets say...not very well politically informed.... you might be too online) and when youre a woman atttracted to men you prob will project onto men who are also attracted to men rather than men who are attracted to women even THO personally i do that too and hm from experience some lesbians do as well lol. and yes this is entirely about media but that conversation has alsmost always been about media. i wont get into the fujo to mlm pipeline bc i dontt think its entirely real but there are connections like this everywhere lmao. mxm shipping is a osa female pasttime and i dont think thats like. all informed by homophobia its just cursory media prjecting onto some of the only material (tho mb this is changing now?? idk i dont keep up) that has main charcters that are lets say. blatantly actively into men.