#antitransmed

[just-another-attic-dweller]

Anti-Transmed/Truscum flag

feel free to use 

[aropride]

a lot of anon hate doesnt faze me anymore bc ever since i had a post abt aspec discourse blow up and got arophobic death and rape threats for months it's hard to get genuinely upset over "You are so annoying ew"

[paramud]

[androgynousblackbox]

Reblog this if you are antitruscum and pro shipper

[r0semultiverse]

Hot take: If you’re trans, you’re trans

[genderqueerdarling]

i love my trans body

i love my queer body

i love my nonbinary body

i love my trans soul

i love being trans

[transfag-romeo]

i dont like how transmeds, when met with criticism of their community, will defend it and pretend like their community isnt THAT bad or things that were said about them didnt happen

or the people hurt by their community are making a big deal about it. or that their pain is their own fault

mf i was a transmed a few years ago (epic cringe, very sorry bros), and i saw how toxic this community is. it made ME toxic. it made my mental health toxic as well. being a transmed was the worst and lowest point of my fucking life.

stop pretending that everything is fine with the transmed community. stop pretending that youre not transphobic/nbphobic. stop pretending like its JUST about "you need dysphoria to be trans" bc it isnt??

ive seen the gaslighting, ive seen the toxicity, ive seen the transphobia. some ex transmeds report seeing racism and antisemitism as well. dont get me started about the allyship with TERFs. thats fucking disgusting. and dont say "we hate terfs too!!!" ive literally seen it wih my own two eyes, bucko. ive seen how youll bow to the feet of terfs for their slight validation

like the worst people flock to this ideology dont u see that? please just leave! theres better for you out there! you dont have to trudge through this misery!!

you can be more than a miserable little prick that attacks other trans people for EXISTING. you can live and let live and i promise its way more fun than whatever tf yall are doing

if youre new to this community im begging you to not enter it. for your own sake. please, it isnt worth it

[spicycourses]

Alright, consider this.

Say that, for some reason, California suddenly had an uptick in cancer diagnosis. You decide to research why.

You come across an academic study with a large participant pool. The point of the study is to figure out why so many Californians have cancer. In the opening abstract, the researcher acknowledges A) that there are people from other states with cancer; and B) there are still Californians who DONT have cancer. They were not included in this study because the researcher wanted to focus specifically on Californians with cancer.

The researcher runs their tests. They come to the conclusion that the Californians they tested have cancer for XYZ reasons.

You personally come to the conclusion that all Californians have cancer, based off your interpretations of the results.

That's what transmeds are doing with their sources.

[daveisverydeactivated]

can we try to move away from saying "kids calling themselves [nontraditional gender identity]" and start saying "people who are [nontraditional gender identity]” when stating that oh-so-common argument that “truscum should respect kids who call themselves [nontraditional gender identity]”? its started to make me uncomfortable how a lot of anti-truscum stuff is "let people experiment" instead of "let people exist"

i understand that truscum mainly target nonbinary kids and that your goal is to protect them, but you still send the message that being nonbinary is some kind of phase, when, for a huge chunk of people, its... not. there are nonbinary kids and nonbinary adults, gender non-conforming kids and gender non-conforming adults, and those kids and adults are seeing your posts, and theyre getting the message that there is no nonbinary past the age of eightteen.

and its not that experimenting kids shouldnt be respected and protected! they should. but you need to acknowledge that thats not all that the nonbinary community is. we are something strong and natural and beautiful, and we are something that will last. end of story.

[themadcapmathematician]

Stop believing transmeds when they say they accept nb ppl! Newsflash! They dont! They accept what they THINK nb people MIGHT be in some way they can find palatable! So what? Am i supposed to cheer? They still draw pictures of trans people with "alternate and colorful hairstyles" and "too many pride flags" and "weird clothes" they deem too gnc or not gnc enough! They still fearmonger about transitioning theft, about "wrong" transition goals that match up often with ours! They hate our community, our terminology, our identities, our pronouns!

They still go after people for appearing Fake in a way thats really just "not perfectly aligned with the binary trans narrative OR a very specific nb narrative we picked out for you all (if they remember that one exists at all lmfao)!"

So no, idc what they say, i care what they do, and specifically WHO theyre going after, and forgive me but after a while ive noticed a fucking pattern lmfaoo

[dedacc]

quick tutorial on using xe/xem pronouns!

hi! my name is dominic and im a trans nonbinary guy/demiboy and i use both he/him/his/himself pronouns and xe/xem/xyr/xemself pronouns.

here is how you would apply them in conversation:

"xe is rather nice!"

"i like to hang out with xem!"

"yeah, i like xyr art!"

"xe has a lot to learn, xemself."

Just because I use a set of neopronouns does not give you the right to misgender me in any way, shape or form. If you don't want to use my set of gender neutral pronouns, use he/him.

[elonmusksdickcheese]

People who think how you present always = gender are fucking stupid,like fuck man sometimes a trans guy gonna not bind and wear a skirt,sometimes a trans girl isnt gonna shave and just wear some baggy clothes ,sometimes nonbinary people are super fucking feminine (whether afab or amab)or super fucking masculine (whether afab or amab). Sometimes people just wear clothes that they want too and like if they tell you what their pronouns & gender is you fucking respect.

Its 2019 ,gender isnt biologically and is a concept that does inpact people lives more then it truly should and like the whole reason trans people have to "pass" is because yall have such a black and white idea of genders and get so upset,offended,and confused whenever someone falls into a grey area or just fucking throws a ton of color into you boring ass white or black ideas and that shit makes yall so anger and upset ,mostly, whenever that person doesn't take your bullshit

[trender-sylveon]

i think it’s really telling that transmeds saw a post that doesn’t even have a lot of discourse-y ideas (let people identify how they feel comfortable and happy with, respect pronouns, arguing is just dividing the community) and it’s my most argued on post. like bruh momentum

transmes/truscum/etc dni i’m not trying to start shit

[lnorns]

*shouts from the rooftops* I Am Male!!!! I am male! I swear to GOD I am Male! I am a HE! I am a HIM! The shape of my chest doesn't dictate who I am! The pitch of my voice is my downfall! I! Am! A! Man!

[androgynousblackbox]

Can someone explain to truscum already that even if tomorrow “transtrenders/tucute/whatever the fuck they want to call them” stopped existing and every single trans person in earth claimed to have gender dysphoria and they all express it on very gender conforming ways... their parents would still doubt they are trans, simply because statistically speaking parents have a shitty history of recognizing the transness of their children and will always prefer to believe it’s a mistake from their child rather that they are not cis? Like I see a bunch of truscum being “I hate transtrenders because my parents think I am one” and I am there awkawrdly feeling bad, but also a exhausted “why the fuck is that the fault of trans people who are different than you” mood.  Your parents are transphobic and no matter how many “transtrenders” you yell out online, they are still going to be transphobic. I am sorry, that sucks, and I get it. But also, stop blaming others for it. It’s fault of your parents, not them.

[genderqueerdarling]

https://medium.com/@hhunkin3/debunking-transmedicalism-you-need-dysphoria-to-be-trans-f50748143870

https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/08/not-all-trans-folks-dysphoria/

https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/gender-dysphoria/expert-q-and-a

just gonna leave these here :)