#anti rape

[womenshistory]

Women's Walk Against Rape, 1976.

[haggishlyhagging]

Why are you still spending dollar upon dollar for makeup, when your government refuses to require your employer to pay for maternity leave?

Why are you still waxing your bikini line, when you may be arrested if you miscarry a pregnancy and someone you know/love/sleep with reports you for suspected abortion?

Why are you walking around in high heels that damage your feet, when you may be required to run for your life from a male predator because the society you live in values the freedom of men more than the safety of women?

Why are you still shaving your legs, when the government has declared your uterus their property and you may be forced to destroy your body with pregnancy and childbirth even if the pregnancy is a result of rape?

Why are you consenting to make yourself look good for people who have proven they not only don’t want the best for you, they actively want the worst?

What is your consent and willing participation in this system buying you, and is it worth it?

[the-land-of-women]

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[correllian]

[painwolffz]

honestly i feel like some people in society are already forgetting how consent works

someone on grindr blocked me after i told her please do not send unsolicited n*des next time. and wanna know the reason for that? she sent unsolicited nsfw pics just because i told her i was horny

just because someone is horny or stated they are horny doesn’t mean consent nor will they be comfortable with it. otherwise that’s the same thought process as a r*pist or sexual abuser

[geo-is-queer]

Got physically nauseas seeing that. Watch out for these nasty fucks 🖕They don't belong in lgbtq+ community

DONT SCROLL THIS IS IMPORTANT!

im begging anyone who sees this post to prevent rapesexual, im begging you. no one will see this but if you do reblog to get the message out that these fuckers exist and dont deserve to exist heres the flag so you can know who to fucking block, report and tell to fuck off

i dont want this to ruin the pride and help with self esteem of being lgbtq+ so a signal boost from larger accounts might be nice

[haggishlyhagging]

And what was the mainstream view of the widespread paternal rape of children (which it had taken feminists to expose)? It was perceived as a mental health problem. Virtually from the moment we spoke out, mental health professionals became society's appointed social sanitation engineers. It was to new-found "experts" among their ranks that the powers-that-be turned to defuse the "discovery" of the rampant patriarchal tyranny, the sexual slavery, that is incest.

They said it should be "de-criminalized." They said it was no more than a"symptom of family dysfunction". "Family dysfunction", it quickly turned out, was code. Code for: She made me do it, my wife. (This was change of a kind: it had been, She made me do it, my daughter.) And so they unveiled, for our oohing and ahing—the real culprit, the "incest mother". And I began speaking and writing about this turn of events, the medicalization of child-rape and of all crimes in the home.

And even as I wrote, paternal child rape was being tied into a noose with which to hang those the new experts identified as the real culprits: the mothers who "failed to protect". Those who "knew or should have known". And I watched as mental health ideology, mental health language coalesced into a great shield covering the entire issue, impermeable by reality.

-Louise Armstrong, “The Great Incest Hijack” in Radically Speaking: Feminism Reclaimed

[correllian]

[vegantinatalist]

WHY THE FUCK DIDNT THE RAPE-AXE CONDOMS GO INTO PRODUCTION??????????????????? THEY ARE OBVIOUSLY AN EXTREMELY USEFUL INVENTION THAT MILLIONS OF WOMEN IN WARZONES OR DANGEROUS HOMES NEED

[painwolffz]

not me having to report someone on tumblr for posting illegal porn of animals

[itsbeanies]

Goofy ahh dead fly

Rest in piece buddy 😔

[justmewondering56]

[haggishlyhagging]

The kind of spiritual counseling that women frequently receive within the "sacred condominium" is exemplified in an article by Fr. Bernard Häring. Writing of the woman who has been raped, he says:

We must, however, try to motivate her [emphasis his] to consider the child with love because of its subjective innocence, and to bear it in suffering through to birth, whereupon she may consider her enforced maternal obligation fulfilled [emphasis mine] and may give over the child to a religious or governmental agency, after which she would try to resume her life with the sanctity that she will undoubtedly have achieved through the great sacrifice and suffering.

Fr. Häring adds that if she has already "yielded to the violent temptation" to rid herself of the effects of her experience, "we can leave the judgment of the degree of her sin to a merciful God." Those who are familiar with "spiritual counseling" have some idea of what could be implied in the expression "try to motivate her." Despite Fr. Häring's intention to be compassionate, his solution is not adequate. The paternalistic and intimidating atmosphere of "spiritual counseling" is not generally conducive to free and responsible decision-making, and can indeed result in "enforced maternal obligation." The author does not perceive the irony of his argument, which is visible only when one sees the environment of the woman's predicament. She lives in a world in which not only the rapist but frequently also the priest view her as an object to be manipulated—in one case physically, and in the other case psychologically. Machismo religion, in which only men do spiritual counseling, asks her to endure a double violation, adding the rape of her mind to that of her body. As Mrs. Robinson of the once popular hit song knew: "Every way you look at it, you lose."

Feminist ethics—yet to be developed because women have yet to be free enough to think out our own experience—will differ from all of this in that it will refuse to give attention merely to the isolated physical act involved in abortion, and will insist upon seeing this within its social context. Christian moralists generally have paid attention to context when dealing with such problems as killing in self-defense and in war. They have found it possible to admit the existence of a "just war" within which the concept of "murder" generally does not apply, and have permitted killing in self-defense and in the case of capital punishment. They have allowed to pass unheeded the fact that by social indifference a large proportion of the earth's population is left to die of starvation in childhood. All of these situations are viewed as at least more complex than murder. Yet when the question of abortion is raised, frequently it is only the isolated material act that is brought into focus. The traditional maxim that circumstances affect the morality of an action is all but forgotten or else rendered nonoperative through a myopic view of the circumstances. Feminists perceive the fact of exceptional reasoning in the case of abortion as related to the general situation. They ask the obviously significant (but frequently overlooked) question: Just who is doing the reasoning and who is forced to bear unwanted children?

-Mary Daly, Beyond God the Father: Toward a Philosophy of Women’s Liberation

[itsbeanies]

Doing a challenge with my brother were we have to make a bracelet with this chunky ah green bead. The person who makes the best bracelet gets 5 dollars or smt idk yet.

Also im so glad its finally spring in ohio, but im also not because that means LOTS of rain and stormy weather that can and has caused tornados so thats fun :D

Also please dont try to flirt with me, I am a minor. Ive gotten so many texts from people trying to hook up with me, IM NOT INTERESTED!

Update my brother never made one however i did i might post about it tomorrow

[alicentflorent]

The scariest thing about viserys is that he, and men like him, do appear to be harmless on the outside. He’s soft spoken, seems to be a bit clueless and naive, he’s generally nice to people and may even seem like a “family man” but behind closed doors you finally get to see his true colours. He has a violent side but he hides it very well. We don’t see his ugliness very often but when we do his actions are clearly abusive.

Viserys showed aggression multiple times behind closed doors, he was misogynistic in the way he viewed women and yes that includes Rhaenyra who he only really started to indulge to ease his guilt of killing her mother. He used aemma as a broodmare and put her through multiple miscarriages and stillbirths before pregnancy killed her, she was pleading with him not to put her through another pregnancy after this one then when she was dying in childbirth he didn’t even allow her to die with dignity, in the way she wanted to. Publicly, He showed love towards Aemma and cried over her death. He allowed Alicent to have some power by letting her have a seat on the council, only after years of rape and forcing her to become a mother of 4 because he was attracted to her teenage body. Both Rhaenyra and Rhaenys reference Alicent as prisoner of her circumstances in both her early years and late years of marriage. He is shown as a doting father and grandfather to Rhaenyra and her kids but ignores the children he forced Alicent to have. Their son loses an eye and he’s only concerned about “rumours” spread about his grandsons. “Look at me” he screams in the face of 10 year old Aemond who just lost his eye and is in severe pain. Then he moves on to scream in 14 year old aegon’s face. Alicent begs him “please Viserys, he’s your blood” and in this scene it’s important to note that the boys did not incriminate their mother when their father was yelling, trying to incite fear into them, they didn’t want their fathers wrath redirected towards their mother. His favouritism of Rhaenyra overshadows his early treatment of her, ignoring her and underestimating her as a worthy heir until daemon mocked his dead son. He always indulged her and never went back on her being heir. He came off as a loyal, loving father who made his daughter a queen in her own right.

Viserys could have represented a certain type of terrible man, the kind that hides behind his harmless good guy image. The show could have addressed that he is just as bad as his brother daemon but with more self control and enough denial to think of himself as a better man. Deep enough in his own deception to convince us that he was the good brother when he’s just another brand of bad. They could have addressed the damage he did to his wives and children. They could have told the audience that yes you also fell for his act and the deceptive portrayal we gave you because men like viserys will have you fooled in real life. Instead the show, which claimed to be a feminist retelling of martins work made this weak king and horrible man be praised as good husband, father and king. Never allowed his suriviving wife or daughters or even his sons be angry at him or dare to blame him.

[fadedgarter]

If you're an anti who says "you deserve it" to proshippers who have been abused/raped you are supporting rapist's and abusers.