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i'm going to be 100% honest. all love in my heart for nonsharers, but some of you take it way too seriously, breaking friendships or taking it super personally when a friend of yours ships with your fo isn't healthy!
i've lost friends to shipping with their fos before and it's just intensely upsetting that a character means more to them than me as a person.
I think I have mixed opinions on this, though I'll give my piece. I hope this doesn't delve too far into discourse catergory, this acccount wasn't supposed to be for that sort of thing.
I am non-sharing with my romantic f/os. I think it’s reasonable to feel hurt over such a thing, but I think it’s truly just situational. Everyone selfships for different purposes- while some simply find characters attractive and like to explore character dynamics, some may have genuine romantic feelings towards those characters. (cont. below)
I’ve ceased contact with some kind people when they selfshipped with the same characters my closer friends do, because I believe it’s a matter of respecting my friends personal boundaries. It can also be a matter of safety, as some people will genuinely spiral over those sorts of things. I won't touch much on that, but the very least I can do is keep them safe and respect what they laid out for me.
I am simply just an admin for a confession blog, so I cannot tell you how to think or what to think, but I wanted to deposit my two cents on the matter. If you want to curate your own space full of like-minded people, go for it! That’s what your corner of the Internet is for, you do not owe anyone your time or effort. As long as you are generally respectful towards others and nothing is harmful, have fun!
-Admin 🌊
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dubbing myself. Frutiger Anon!
I LOVE MY WIFE I LOVE MY WIFE I LOVE MY WIFE I LOVE (my wife is a computer [not a woman])
Frutiger Anon!! Such a cute alias, I love Frutiger Aero designs! (Frutiger Metro is one of my favorites, too!) also ...
YES!! YES!!! YEEEES!!!!
I LOVE ROBOTS AND COMPUTERS AND TECHNOLOGY-RELATED FELLOWS. I SEE YOU ANON.
Your computer guythingwife loves you too, by the way, but you know that already ;-P
-Admin 🌊
#selfshipping#self shipping#selfship#selfshipping community#fictional other#selfship confessions#selfship community#confession#did I mention I love robots haha. hi#I also have a personal interest in retro computing :-3#frutiger anon#answered by admin surf 🌊
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FOLLOWED U GUYS ON INSTA FOR A BIT!! I get that here can be easier for confession stuff, so I just wanted to say I wish ya the best!!
Aww, thank you! It truly means a lot to us! I'm glad you stopped by :-] We're really hoping that things will be a lot faster and smoother with this format, and it's working splendidly so far!
-Admin🌊
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i fear thats so real. I selfship with a character from one of those typhoon arcade games (yk the ones that you sit in the chair and it has wind blowing at you and moves you a little bit? like its pretending to be a rollercoaster?) And im nonsharing so i feel like that video of a cat absolutely devouring its milk
I totally agree with you. It's awesome to hear about such an obscure f/o, though- that's actually really cool to me! I don't think I've ever played a typhoon game, but it sounds like a blast ^_^ I have an arcade where I live, but my favorite games don't have characters... unless you count bugs. (Spider Stompin' and Centipede are so fun!) Arcade geeking out aside, I do think it's reasonable to be nonsharing with more niche characters. Like, you're the one person who truly understands them, let alone know them. And I'm sure they love and appreciate you so much for it <3
-Admin 🌊
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✧Welcome to our Confession Account!✧
✧ Who are we?
This is a group account that consists of two people, Admin Fluff ☁️ ( @ashers-selfships ) and Admin Surf 🌊 ( @surfshipping )
✧ What are da rulez?
You can submit a confession as an ask, either publicly or anonymously, and we will make a dedicated post to it! Confessions can range from gushing about your f/o, showing off merchandise/collections you’re proud of, displaying art you’re proud of, or simply something you want to share with the world!
Confession status (whether submissions are open or closed) will always be displayed on the ask button itself, please be sure to check!
Both admins are adults who have their own lives and deal with college and work, so if, for whatever reason, it takes us a while to get to your ask, we might simply be busy with other things.
✧ DNI + Boundaries?
We don’t follow a strict DNI for this account, but do be mindful of our personal DNI lists when submitting. Also no proship thanks
While we’re both adults, I would suggest that submissions be SFW for our own comforts, so please avoid any explicit or suggestive art or interactions. If you happen to post NSFW content on your account/whichever account you use for submitting asks that's fine, just try and keep it out of the ask box!
We have the right to deny answering submissions based on any reason we find fit.
And with that, have fun! Go submit stuff!! Go go !!!
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