#and though the employees may seem brusque they are very polite and friendly

[mercuriallily]

I go to this Eastern European deli like once a week and it got review-bombed by Russians who claimed the store has "anti-Russian propaganda" everywhere (Ukrainian flags). The deli is run by Ukrainians (most of whom speak Russian as a first language) but they flat-out refuse to speak Russian to the Russians (they will speak Ukrainian or English instead) and I think that's very funny of them

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P S Y C H O L O G Y

An organized(?) collection of my headcanons on Skarlet's personality/psychology. Cut for length. Contradictions are natural as people habitually contradict their own psychology and declared values based on context and other external factors, and you can never 100% predict someone’s behavior.

As always, DO NOT steal my headcanons.

[ THE BIG FIVE + SUBCATEGORIES ]

(results taken from test that can be found here)

► Extraversion - 97th percentile -  You are extremely high in extraversion. Extraverts are sociable, like to take risks,and feel lots of positive emotions. The six facets of extraversion are:

             ▷ Activity - 98nd percentile -  You prefer extremely high levels of activity, such as being on the go and staying busy.               ▷ Assertiveness - 91st percentile -   There're extremely high chances that you'll take charge and lead others.              ▷ Cheerfulness - 33rd percentile -   You experience low levels of happiness, joy, and other positive emotions.              ▷ Excitement Seeking - 92th percentile -   You like to seek extremely high levels of thrills.              ▷ Friendliness - 99st percentile -   You're extremely high in your desire to be around other people and show an interest in their lives.              ▷ Gregariousness - 91th percentile -   You're extremely high in flocking toward other people and being talkative and sociable around them.

► Agreeableness - 17th percentile -   You are very low in agreeableness. Highly agreeable people tend to do whatever it takes to have positive relationships with other people. The six facets of agreeableness are: 

            ▷ Altruism - 91st percentile -   You are extremely high in generally wanting to be good to other people, including helping them when they need it.             ▷ Cooperation - 4th percentile -   There are extremely low chances that you'll try to get along with other people.             ▷ Modesty - 14th percentile -   You have very low levels of modesty. Modest people don't like to brag or show off, because those types of behaviors can be harmful to relationships.             ▷ Morality - 11th percentile -   Sticking to the rules and treating everyone fairly is of very low value to you.             ▷ Sympathy - 64th percentile -   You have high levels of sympathy for other people, which includes caring about them and wanting what's best for them.             ▷ Trust - 6th percentile -   You're extremely low in believing that other people are generally good and not out to harm you.

► Conscientiousness - 57th percentile -   You are about average in conscientiousness. Highly conscientious people are diligent, hard-working, and responsible. The six facets of conscientiousness are:

           ▷ Achievement Striving - 78th percentile -   You have very high desires to work hard and get ahead.            ▷ Cautiousness - 4th percentile -   The odds are extremely high that you'll just jump into things without really thinking them through. You spend extremely low amounts of time planning what to do.            ▷ Dutifulness - 33rd percentile -   You're low in sticking to your word, keeping your promises, and upholding your obligations.            ▷ Orderliness - 16th percentile -   You prefer very low levels of cleanliness and order in your environment.            ▷ Self-Discipline - 95th percentile -   You have extremely high self-discipline—which is the ability to get to work quickly, stay focused, and avoid distractions or procrastination.            ▷ Self-Efficacy - 92nd percentile -   When you need to do something, you have extremely high ability to get it done and do it well (or maybe more accurately, you believe that your ability is extremely high).

► Neuroticism - 44th percentile -   You are about average in neuroticism, which means that you experience about average levels of negative emotions, like anger, fear, and stress. The six facets of neuroticism are:

          ▷ Anger - 61st percentile -   Your levels of anger and irritability are high.           ▷ Anxiety - 29th percentile -   Compared with other people, you have low stress, fears, and worries about the future.           ▷ Depression - 78th percentile -   This is NOT "clinical depression." This score simply tells you that, compared with other people, you feel very high amounts of sadness and like yourself to a very low degree.           ▷ Immoderation - 90th percentile -   You have extremely low self-control when it comes to resisting temptations; there are very high chances that you'll give into your desires and binge (on shopping, eating, drinking, or whatever your vices are). Note that self-discipline (a facet of conscientiousness) deals with your ability to focus your attention on accomplishing goals, whereas immoderation refers to your ability to resist temptations.           ▷ Self-Consciousness - 5th percentile -   You like to draw extremely high levels of attention to yourself, and feel extremely low amounts of unease when interacting with others socially (especially strangers).           ▷ Vulnerability - 21st percentile -   The chances that you'll be overwhelmed by difficult circumstances are very low. Notice that this is different from anxiety (which refers to general stress- and fear-proneness) and self-efficacy (a facet of conscientiousness that reflects your confidence in your ability to accomplish tasks). Vulnerability specifically refers to your propensity to feel overwhelmed by difficult situations.

► Openness to Experience - 99th percentile -   You are extremely high in openness to experience. Openness is a broad, diffuse personality dimension with many seemingly very different facets. In general, highly open people like a variety of new experiences, whether physical, emotional, intellectual, or cultural. The six facets of openness are:

         ▷ Adventurousness - 89th percentile -   Your prefer very high amounts of variety and new experiences in your life (i.e., you have very high openness to new experiences).          ▷ Artistic Interests - 96th percentile -   You have extremely high love for art, music, and culture (i.e., you have extremely high openness to aesthetic experiences).          ▷ Emotionality - 97th percentile -   Your attunement to your own and others' emotions is extremely high. Whereas cheerfulness and excitement seeking (facets of extraversion) capture your propensity to feel positive emotions and neuroticism captures your propensity to feel negative emotions, emotionality refers to your overall openness to/desire to truly feel emotions.          ▷ Imagination - 95th percentile -   You have extremely high imagination (i.e., you have extremely high openness to experiences of the imagination).          ▷ Intellect - 90th percentile -   Your desire to play with ideas, reflect on philosophical concepts, and have deep discussions is very high (i.e., you have very high openness to intellectual experiences).          ▷ Liberalism - 71st percentile -   Your political liberalism is high (conversely, your political conservatism is low). This is a facet of openness to experience because liberals tend to desire progressive change, whereas conservatives tend to prefer less political change.

[ ZODIAC | SCORPIO ]

( all information is compiled from these three sites  1  |  2  |  3  )

► Strengths: resourceful, brave, passionate, stubborn, magnetic, passionate, loyal, protective, trendsetting ► Weaknesses:  distrusting, jealous, secretive, violent, obsessive, possessive, vengeful, manipulative ► Scorpio likes:  truth, facts, being right, longtime friends, teasing, a grand passion, underground music, spicy food, an air of danger, one-of-a-kind objects, wireless devices, organic ingredients, vinyl ► Scorpio dislikes:  dishonesty, revealing secrets, passive people, simple-minded people, insincere flattery, personal questions, living at someone else’s house ► Ruling Planet: Pluto, Mars ► Element: Water ► How to Spot Them: intense eyes, a hawk-like gaze, smooth movements ► Where You’ll Find Them: in the studio producing a platinum album, sitting at the corner table of an underground bar, taking things apart and figuring how to put them back together again ► Keywords: Intimacy, Sex, Secrecy, Power, Intensity, Obsession

Passionate, independent, and unafraid to blaze their own trail no matter what others think, Scorpios make a statement wherever they go. They love debates, aren't afraid of controversy, and won't back down from a debate. They also hate people who aren't genuine, and are all about being authentic—even if authentic isn't pretty.

Because of all of these traits, a Scorpio can seem intimidating and somewhat closed off to those who don't know them well. But what people don't realize is that even though Scorpio may seem brusque, as a water sign, they also are very in tune with their emotions, and sometimes may find themselves caught up in their feelings.

This leads to Scorpio's central conflict: Their feelings are what drives them and strengthens them, but their mutability can scare them and make them feel vulnerable and out of control. Because of this conflict, Scorpios, like their namesake, the scorpion, put up an outer shell and may seem prickly.

But once people get beyond the shell, they find a loyal, loving person whose passion knows no bounds. Scorpio dives into all life has to offer with 110% enthusiasm. A Scorpio will be your most loyal friend, most dedicated employee—and your worst enemy, if they want to be.

LOVE + SEX

Scorpio is the most sensual sign of the zodiac. Scorpios are extremely passionate and intimacy is very important to them. They want intelligent and honest partners. Once Scorpios fall in love, they are very dedicated and faithful. However, they enter into a relationship very carefully, because sometimes they need a lot of time to build trust and respect for partners.

In love, Scorpio can seem cautious at first, and may set up a series of "tests" for their potential partner, deciding to cross them off their list if they don't meet their demands. The trouble is, they tend to keep their partner out of the loop on what, exactly, they want, making their partner feel like they have to play mind reader. If a Scorpio and their partner can get past this initial hurdle, the connection will be intense, in both highs and lows. A Scorpio will love harder and fight harder than any other sign, and wants their partner to be absolutely honest. They will be—even if it's not what the partner wants to hear. In the bedroom, Scorpio is generous, imaginative, and always up for anything—all night long.

The Scorpio personality is both complex and fascinating. Scorpio women are secretive, sexy, magnetic, but they also appear aloof and calm. The Scorpio woman has a great capacity for kindness and a desire to do good in the world. If you want to seduce her, you have to be patient and willing to let her take the reins of the relationship. Be a good listener and pay full attention when she is speaking. Dating with a Scorpio woman can be really entertaining, but do not let her wild side fool you into thinking that she will be an easy conquest. Don't expect a sexual encounter with the Scorpio woman on the first date.

Earning her love requires a lot of time and patience, but once she falls in love, she will give everything to the relationship. The woman born under the Scorpio zodiac sign can be very possessive but also completely devoted partners. Be honest and avoid getting into arguments with her, because she is not the type to forgive and forget easily. The woman born under the Scorpio star sign is curious, so in order to keep her happy, you will need to find new ways to satisfy her curiosity. If you can allow her to retain her pride, she will respect you for it and will fall in love with you quickly.

FRIENDS + FAMILY

Honesty and fairness are the two qualities that make Scorpio a great friend. People born under the Scorpio sign are very dedicated and loyal, when it comes to working. They are quick-witted and intelligent, so they would feel better to be in the company of witty and fun loving people. They are full of surprises and will give you everything you need, but if you let them down once - there's no return. Scorpios are very emotional, when they are in pain, it is simply impossible to make them feel better. They are very dedicated and they take good care of their family.

CAREER + MONEY

Scorpios are fantastic in management, solving and creating. When a Scorpio sets a goal, there is no giving up. Scorpios are great in solving tasks that require a scientific and thorough approach. Their ability to focus with determination makes them very capable managers. They never mix business with friendship.Jobs such as a scientist, physician, researcher, sailor, detective, cop, business manager and psychologist are appropriate for this powerful zodiac sign. Scorpio respects other people, so expects to be respected in return. Scorpios are disciplined enough to stick to the budget, but they are also not afraid of hard work to bring themselves in a better financial position. However, they are not inclined to spend much. Money means security and a sense of control for them, which means that they are good at saving money and make decisions carefully before investing in something.

[ MBTI | ENFP-T]

( information is from this site; read more here )

► Extraverted - 92% -   You’re mostly Extraverted. Extraverted individuals prefer group activities and get energized by social interaction. They tend to be more enthusiastic and more easily excited than introverts. ► Intuitive - 88% -   You’re mostly Intuitive. Intuitive individuals are very imaginative, open-minded and curious. They prefer novelty over stability and focus on hidden meanings and future possibilities. ► Feeling - 61% -   You’re mostly Feeling. Feeling individuals are sensitive and emotionally expressive. They are more empathetic and less competitive than Thinking types, and focus on social harmony and cooperation. ► Prospecting - 78% -   You’re mostly Prospecting. Prospecting individuals are very good at improvising and spotting opportunities. They tend to be flexible, relaxed nonconformists who prefer keeping their options open. ► Turbulent - 83% -   You’re mostly Turbulent. Turbulent individuals are self-conscious and sensitive to stress. They are likely to experience a wide range of emotions and to be success-driven, perfectionistic and eager to improve.

[ MORAL ALIGNMENT | CHAOTIC NEUTRAL ]

( information from this site ; read more here )

A chaotic neutral character follows his whims. He is an individualist first and last. He values his own liberty but doesn't strive to protect others' freedom. He avoids authority, resents restrictions, and challenges traditions. A chaotic neutral character does not intentionally disrupt organizations as part of a campaign of anarchy. To do so, he would have to be motivated either by good (and a desire to liberate others) or evil (and a desire to make those different from himself suffer). A chaotic neutral character may be unpredictable, but his behavior is not totally random. He is not as likely to jump off a bridge as to cross it. Chaotic neutral is the best alignment you can be because it represents true freedom from both society's restrictions and a do-gooder's zeal. Chaotic neutral can be a dangerous alignment when it seeks to eliminate all authority, harmony, and order in society.

Chaotic neutral characters believe that there is no order to anything, including their own actions. With this as a guiding principle, they tend to follow whatever whim strikes them at the moment. Good and evil are irrelevant when making a decision. Chaotic neutral characters are extremely difficult to deal with. Such characters have been known to cheerfully and for no apparent purpose gamble away everything they have on the roll of a single die. They are almost totally unreliable. In fact, the only reliable thing about them is that they cannot be relied upon!

Chaotic neutral characters like to indulge in everything. This is the insurgent, the con-man, gambler, and high roller; the uncommitted freebooter seeking nothing more than self-gratification. This type of character will at least consider doing anything if they can find enjoyment or amusement. Life has meaning, but theirs has the greatest meaning. According to chaotic neutrals, laws and rules infringe on personal freedom and were meant to be broken. This character is always looking for the best deal, and will work with good, neutral, or evil to get it; as long as he comes out of the situation on top. The chaotic neutral is constantly teetering between good and evil, rebelling, and bending the law to fit his needs.

Chaotic neutrals can also be completely random and unpredictable. They may shift allegiances at a moment's notice, or remain with a leader for years. The chaotic neutral character feels that there is no plan at all for the universe. Things just happen. They tend to believe in luck and chance, rather than fate or destiny. They don't care what happens to others, yet will not necessarily go out of their way to harm others. If someone stands in the way of their happiness, they may kill that individual or move on to something else. Their priorities tend to change as they experience new things in life. They may even appear to adhere to another alignment for some length of time, only to switch at an inappropriate moment. They can be the worst tricksters, conning people, not for gain, but for sheer amusement. The chaotic neutral may not be driven by fame or wealth, but may only take actions just to see what happens.

[ TEMPERAMENT | SANGUINE ]

( results taken from test that can be found here )

Your temperament is sanguine. The sanguine temperament is fundamentally spontaneous and pleasure-seeking; sanguine people are sociable and charismatic. They tend to enjoy social gatherings, making new friends and tend to be boisterous. They are usually quite creative and often daydream. However, some alone time is crucial for those of this temperament. Sanguine can also mean sensitive, compassionate and thoughtful. Sanguine personalities generally struggle with following tasks all the way through, are chronically late, and tend to be forgetful and sometimes a little sarcastic. Often, when they pursue a new hobby, they lose interest as soon as it ceases to be engaging or fun. They are very much people persons. They are talkative and not shy. Sanguines generally have an almost shameless nature, certain that what they are doing is right. They have no lack of confidence.

[ ENNEAGRAM | TYPE 4 WING 3 ]

( information from this site ; read more here )

Fours are self-aware, sensitive, and reserved. They are emotionally honest, creative, and personal, but can also be moody and self-conscious. Withholding themselves from others due to feeling vulnerable and defective, they can also feel disdainful and exempt from ordinary ways of living. They typically have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity. At their Best: inspired and highly creative, they are able to renew themselves and transform their experiences.

► Basic Fear: That they have no identity or personal significance ► Basic Desire: To find themselves and their significance (to create an identity) ► Enneagram Four with a Three-Wing: "The Aristocrat" ► Enneagram Four with a Five-Wing: "The Bohemian" ► Key Motivations: Want to express themselves and their individuality, to create and surround themselves with beauty, to maintain certain moods and feelings, to withdraw to protect their self-image, to take care of emotional needs before attending to anything else, to attract a "rescuer."

We have named this type The Individualist because Fours maintain their identity by seeing themselves as fundamentally different from others. Fours feel that they are unlike other human beings, and consequently, that no one can understand them or love them adequately. They often see themselves as uniquely talented, possessing special, one-of-a-kind gifts, but also as uniquely disadvantaged or flawed. More than any other type, Fours are acutely aware of and focused on their personal differences and deficiencies.

Healthy Fours are honest with themselves: they own all of their feelings and can look at their motives, contradictions, and emotional conflicts without denying or whitewashing them. They may not necessarily like what they discover, but they do not try to rationalize their states, nor do they try to hide them from themselves or others. They are not afraid to see themselves “warts and all.” Healthy Fours are willing to reveal highly personal and potentially shameful things about themselves because they are determined to understand the truth of their experience—so that they can discover who they are and come to terms with their emotional history. This ability also enables Fours to endure suffering with a quiet strength. Their familiarity with their own darker nature makes it easier for them to process painful experiences that might overwhelm other types.

Nevertheless, Fours often report that they feel they are missing something in themselves, although they may have difficulty identifying exactly what that “something” is. Is it will power? Social ease? Self-confidence? Emotional tranquility?—all of which they see in others, seemingly in abundance. Given time and sufficient perspective, Fours generally recognize that they are unsure about aspects of their self-image—their personality or ego-structure itself. They feel that they lack a clear and stable identity, particularly a social persona that they feel comfortable with.

While it is true that Fours often feel different from others, they do not really want to be alone. They may feel socially awkward or self-conscious, but they deeply wish to connect with people who understand them and their feelings. The “romantics” of the Enneagram, they long for someone to come into their lives and appreciate the secret self that they have privately nurtured and hidden from the world. If, over time, such validation remains out of reach, Fours begin to build their identity around how unlike everyone else they are. The outsider therefore comforts herself by becoming an insistent individualist: everything must be done on her own, in her own way, on her own terms. Fours’ mantra becomes “I am myself. Nobody understands me. I am different and special,” while they secretly wish they could enjoy the easiness and confidence that others seem to enjoy.

Fours typically have problems with a negative self-image and chronically low self-esteem. They attempt to compensate for this by cultivating a Fantasy Self—an idealized self-image which is built up primarily in their imaginations. A Four we know shared with us that he spent most of his spare time listening to classical music while fantasizing about being a great concert pianist—à la Vladimir Horowitz. Unfortunately, his commitment to practicing fell far short of his fantasized self-image, and he was often embarrassed when people asked him to play for them. His actual abilities, while not poor, became sources of shame.

In the course of their lives, Fours may try several different identities on for size, basing them on styles, preferences, or qualities they find attractive in others. But underneath the surface, they still feel uncertain about who they really are. The problem is that they base their identity largely on their feelings. When Fours look inward they see a kaleidoscopic, ever-shifting pattern of emotional reactions. Indeed, Fours accurately perceive a truth about human nature—that it is dynamic and ever changing. But because they want to create a stable, reliable identity from their emotions, they attempt to cultivate only certain feelings while rejecting others. Some feelings are seen as “me,” while others are “not me.” By attempting to hold on to specific moods and express others, Fours believe that they are being true to themselves.

One of the biggest challenges Fours face is learning to let go of feelings from the past; they tend to nurse wounds and hold onto negative feelings about those who have hurt them. Indeed, Fours can become so attached to longing and disappointment that they are unable to recognize the many treasures in their lives.

There is a Sufi story that relates to this about an old dog that had been badly abused and was near starvation. One day, the dog found a bone, carried it to a safe spot, and started gnawing away. The dog was so hungry that it chewed on the bone for a long time and got every last bit of nourishment that it could out of it. After some time, a kind old man noticed the dog and its pathetic scrap and began quietly setting food out for it. But the poor hound was so attached to its bone that it refused to let go of it and soon starved to death.

Fours are in the same predicament. As long as they believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with them, they cannot allow themselves to experience or enjoy their many good qualities. To acknowledge their good qualities would be to lose their sense of identity (as a suffering victim) and to be without a relatively consistent personal identity (their Basic Fear). Fours grow by learning to see that much of their story is not true—or at least it is not true any more. The old feelings begin to fall away once they stop telling themselves their old tale: it is irrelevant to who they are right now.

[hvnriks-archive]

VIDIA — personality types.

“ high achiever, don't you see ? baby, nothing comes for free. they say I'm a control freak driven by a greed to succeed, nobody can stop me.   ” 

zodiac: scorpio

“ passionate, independent, and unafraid to blaze their own trail no matter what others think, scorpios make a statement wherever they go. they love debates, aren't afraid of controversy, and won't back down from a fight. they also hate people who aren't genuine, and are all about being authentic—even if authentic isn't pretty.  scorpios hate dishonesty and they can be very jealous and suspicious, so they need to learn how to adapt more easily to different human behaviors. 

... scorpios are known by their calm and cool behavior, and by their mysterious appearance. people often say that scorpio-born are fierce, probably because they understand very well the rules of the universe. because of all of these traits, a scorpio can seem intimidating and somewhat closed off to those who don't know them well.

... but what people don't realize is that even though scorpio may seem brusque, as a water sign, they also are very in tune with their emotions, and sometimes may find themselves caught up in their feelings. once people get beyond the shell, they find a loyal, loving person whose passion knows no bounds. scorpio dives into all life has to offer with 110% enthusiasm. a scorpio will be your most loyal friend, most dedicated employee—and your worst enemy, if they want to be. ”

hogwarts house: slytherin

slytherin characteristics include include cunning, resourcefulness, leadership and ambition.

“ slytherins tend to be ambitious, shrewd, cunning, strong leaders, and achievement-oriented. they also have highly developed senses of self-preservation. this means that Slytherins tend to hesitate before acting, so as to weigh all possible outcomes before deciding exactly what should be done. they are often self-assured and confident of their own competence and can be very loyal. ”

patronus: coyote

“ the coyote can be seen as power-hungry, as their ambition is what fuels them. they are stubborn and wildly expressive, often using this trait to make an impression on others. they start most of their relationships as a way to get something they want, rather than as a friendly gesture. they can begin to care about people after they get to know them, but at first glance they rarely do. they could be considered selfish, and to some they may also come off as cold individuals. ”

myers briggs: INTJ-A

the architect - thoughtful tacticians love perfecting the details of life, applying creativity and rationality to everything they do. their inner world is often a private, complex one.

“ these personalities can be both the boldest of dreamers and the bitterest of pessimists. architects believe that, through willpower and intelligence, they can achieve even the most challenging of goals. but they may be cynical about human nature more generally, assuming that most people are lazy, unimaginative, or simply doomed to mediocrity. 

 ... architects can be single-minded, with little patience for frivolity, distractions, or idle gossip. that said, it would be a mistake to stereotype these personalities as dull or humorless. many architects are known for their irreverent wit, and beneath their serious exteriors, they often have a sharp, delightfully sarcastic sense of humor. 

... this personality type comes with a strong independent streak. architects don’t mind acting alone, perhaps because they don’t like waiting around for others to catch up with them. they also generally feel comfortable making decisions without asking for anyone else’s input. at times, this lone-wolf behavior can come across as insensitive, as it fails to take into consideration other people’s thoughts, desires, and plans. 

... architects aren’t known for being warm and fuzzy. they tend to prioritize rationality and success over politeness and pleasantries – in other words, they’d rather be right than popular. this may explain why so many fictional villains are modeled on this personality type. because Architects value truth and depth, many common social practices – from small talk to white lies – may seem pointless or downright stupid to them. as a result, they may inadvertently come across as rude or even offensive when they’re only trying to be honest. at times, Architects may wonder if dealing with other people is even worth the frustration. ”

strengths: rational, informed, independent, determined, curious, versatile

weaknesses: arrogant, dismissive of emotions, overly critical, combative, romantically clueless

enneagram: 8 ( wing 7 ) “ the nonconformist ”

“ eights are self-confident, strong, and assertive. protective, resourceful, straight-talking, and decisive, but can also be ego-centric and domineering. eight with a seven wing fear being controlled by others. they dislike authority and prefer to work alone. eights feel they must control their environment, especially people, sometimes becoming confrontational and intimidating. they use their abundant energy to effect changes in their environment—to “leave their mark" on it— and at an early age, eights understand that this requires strength, will, persistence, and endurance—qualities that they develop in themselves and which they look for in others. eights typically have problems with their tempers and with allowing themselves to be vulnerable.

... the true “rugged individualists” of the enneagram; more than any other type, they stand alone. they want to be independent, and resist being indebted to anyone. they often refuse to “give in” to social convention, and they can defy fear, shame, and concern about the consequences of their actions. although they are usually aware of what people think of them, they do not let the opinions of others sway them. they go about their business with a steely determination that can be awe inspiring, even intimidating to others.

... the more eights build up their egos in order to protect themselves, the more sensitive they become to any real or imaginary slight to their self-respect, authority, or preeminence. the more they attempt to make themselves impervious to hurt or pain (whether physical or emotional), the more they “shut down” emotionally to become hardened and rock-like. ”

strengths

making logical and fair decisions

creating innovative plans

leading others inspirationally and effectively

ability to share their thoughts and opinions openly

weaknesses

struggling to remain patient

tendency to overindulge themselves

difficulty listening to authority figures

lacking sensitivity to the feelings of others

love language: quality time

vidia prefers solitude to most things and goes out of her way to reject the company of others. if she deigns to actually seek you out or spend time with you, then you know she’s honest in her affection ( even if she’s reluctant to confirm it verbally ). given her constant barrage of snide comments and thinly veiled barbs, those valuing words of affirmation may find her difficult to deal with

alignment: chaotic neutral

“ chaotic neutral characters believe that everyone should do what they want, regardless of whether the actions are good or hurt others. they follows their whims and are an individualist first and last. chaotic neutral individuals value their own freedom, but don’t particularly care about the freedom of others. they avoid authority, resent restrictions, and challenge traditions. chaotic neutral characters do not necessarily want others to suffer as a result of their actions, but do not care if others do suffer. ”

character inspo: lydia martin ( teen wolf ), cordelia chase ( buffy the vampire slayer ), cheryl blossom ( riverdale )

pinterest: vidia pham.