#and this isnt to say i NEVER feel nervous being publicly hairy bc i do and it sucks lol

[frogwen]

idk how to word this without sounding weird or judgmental, bc its not!!! but its always so interesting to see someone with the opposite insecurities like a flipped version of you? like i personally am really obsessive about my facial hair bc its a big insecurity of mine, ive never liked people looking at me if i havent tweezed my unibrow or shaved my mustache or plucked the stupid black hairs that grow on top of my nose. (i also unfortunately keep pit hair trimmed bc i have a sweat condition and hair makes me stinkier, rip) but i dont give a shit about my dark hairy legs, i dont do anything about being hairy everywhere else, it just is what it is and i still wear shorts out and about. anyways i follow a transmasc dyke (NOT a mutual and this isnt a vague attack) who is also very hairy and he has obvious facial hair and pits and dark arm hair etc etc but he still shaves his legs and lamented he wants to stop but doesn’t want to ride public transport in shorts and hairy legs. it was just such a peculiar feeling reading that!!! why is he dying on the hill of publicly hairy legs and why am i dying on the hill of publicly hair face. sigh. i wonder if ill ever reach a point of true body neutrality or if thats even attainable. anyways. just random thoughts lol. 2 different experiences