#and then I feel weird being the online no fluent Chinese speaker in an otherwise all Chinese group so snshdjdkd
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why have I been asked on spontaneous evening plans by different people two days in a row who do people think I am omg
#not sure if they’re assuming I’m jobless and friendless or if they presume I’m more spontaneous and social than I am#I said no to both I feel kinda bad but 😭 my days are PLANNED IN ADVANCE and I live w someone who I have a cooking rota with like lmao#speaking of more social overwhelming-ness this girl I’ve never talked to before#sat down next to me in class said hi (my name) and then asked if we could get coffee sometime#I said yes bc she seems cool but lol#and another friend who I haven’t talked to in a couple months messaged like when can we hang out AAAAA#being destroyed by my own social life I have so much on atm 😭😭#like I have 2 diff black tie evening events next week?#also also another guy knew me by name in class and was mentioning my group chat comments and I was like idk who you are#and my face isn’t even on my profile pic for that group chat so how does he know 😭#have I become an accidentally class bnoc without actively trying to make friends with anybody?#<- made friends at grad school ofc just wasn’t particularly trying to make friends within my subject ygm#we’re a small cohort of like 30 people and all the white people are weirdos#and then I feel weird being the online no fluent Chinese speaker in an otherwise all Chinese group so snshdjdkd#it has happened to me a lot but I just feel like an asshole making them all speak English for me
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