#and the saga of cancerous discord servers

[tea-with-evan-and-me]

I also saw you being shamed for posting about who some of Evan’s fans are because “it invades his and their privacy.” Literally all those people except for Brian and Jesse are in the public eye. Jesse you could argue he is because he is a musician and went on tour recently. It’s not a secret who Evan’s friends are like there’s many pictures of him with them, he’s tagged them in his own Instagram posts when he had it and they’ve tagged and posted him. Brian has had his Instagram private for years but some fans follow him and Jesse will go public for some time and then go private a lot it’s not a new thing. And some fans follow him too. Like I just don’t understand it’s not a secret and it’s not invasive to talk about who his friends are. And also their social media was never even shared like she said it was.

you are correct, none of it is private in the sense that people know who these folks are because they are friend's of evan who have openly shared posts tagging him on social media, back when he had accounts lol i have photos with brian ogle that i only found because their friend group posted and tagged him and evan. they weren't like, some mysterious people who we magically figured out were friends with evan. he has tons of friends we don't know because they did the opposite and never publicly tied themselves to evan.

none of these friendships are brand new information and none of them were broken to the public on my blog, or any tumblr blog to my knowledge.

she can talk all day about invasions of privacy and what evan would want/wouldn't want, blah blah blah... but ultimately, she ran a hate blog and discord that served no purpose outside of scornfully indexing and critiquing the every move of his girlfriend of 2 years, while they were together. you would be absolutely out of your mind if you were to think he would not have disdain for her due to that. so i cannot take her seriously when she acts holier than thou about respecting evan's wishes.

even when it comes to posting other private content, the source of the problem she is identifying is her. she did not find the airbnb, or the amazon profile, or anything else, really. she was in a separate discord server with a group of girls even more mentally unstable than she is, and she took their finds and spread them amongst her friend group on her server and expected them to keep it within that circle. not out of respect, but because she liked holding things over peoples' heads and bragging about what she had that others didn't. if she really cared, she would not have done that because an invasion of privacy is an invasion of privacy, regardless. if she had an actual moral qualm then she would have simply left the other discord server when she realized they were all stalking evan and also had really weird delusional beliefs about him and his relationships. but she will never address that situation honestly because if she did, it would open an absolutely insane can of worms and a rabbit hole that few would believe, including me, except i have now spoken to numerous women who separately and on different occasions told me the same wackadoodle, fever dream shit.