#and the idea of participating in cheating makes you physically ill which is why you didn’t even tell anyone about this crush forever

[athenasdragon]

GOD I am not emotionally intelligent enough for the situation I currently find myself in

[poisonepel]

dorm leaders in laser tag

LMAO alright !! this sounds so wholesome 😂

queue me googling laser tag rules bc I haven’t done it since I was like 7

Let’s pretend… for this year’s cultural festival, Ignihyde built a laser tag attraction and the dorm leaders have to beta-play it 👀 Because this is his dorm’s booth, Idia doesn’t participate //only bc I had no clue with him lmaooo

Riddle

Riddle doesn’t usually compete in anything unless he knows he’ll win it, which is why he prefers games like croquet (which he always “wins” at). So he’s already kind of huffy that he has to try out this laser tag thing, since there’s no way anyone can help him cheat.

As expected, he’s not very good at it. But the more frustrated he gets during the match, the more intense he gets, and soon enough everyone realizes he is not playing around anymore.

Was there a rule saying no magic allowed? For someone who’s so strict about enforcing his own dorm’s rules, Riddle seems awfully lenient when it comes to these ones. He’s got his wand out and everyone in his path is going down.

Leona

Leona is generally very lazy, but it’s possible to provoke his competitive spirit given the right scenario. Laser tag, however, is not one of them.

It’s uncomfortable. If he’s going to fight someone, he’d prefer to do it hands-on, so that rule banning any physical contact is already making him feel unmotivated.

It’s not like he can nap here either. There’s terrible electronic music blaring from every corner. But once the match starts, he finds a corner of the room, throws off his laser tag vest, and just shoots anyone who happens to pass by him.

Azul

Azul will do everything to get out of having to participate. He schedules several appointments with Headmaster Crowley to discuss why he feels he’s ineligible to play, but Crowley only finds this amusing and insists that he must.

Azul then considers maybe he could fake being ill that day, or just not show up at all. But that could ruin his reputation. His final, desperate solution is to cast a temporary appearance-changing spell on Floyd to turn him into his doppelganger, giving him only one rule: act as I would.

That’s putting too much trust in Floyd. Unsurprisingly, laser tag is right up his alley, and he quickly forgets that he’s supposed to be Azul. The other dorm leaders are taken by surprise at first by ‘Azul’s’ sheer energy during the match, but after a while it becomes obvious that this was definitely not him.

Floyd goes missing for a while once the match is over, much to Azul’s chagrin. Rumors start to pop up around the school that ‘Azul’ had been pulling some weird stunts that day, but the real Azul couldn’t even be mad; he knows he sort of brought this upon himself.

Kalim

Aside from ‘Azul,’ Kalim is probably the only dorm leader to be genuinely having fun with this. He’s running around the entire area with the biggest smile on his face, having the time of his life.

He never thought the ever-reclusive Ignihyde dorm could build something so fun. Idia is very overwhelmed when Kalim comes bounding towards him after the game, begging him to 

Vil

Much like Azul, Vil is very opposed to the idea of participating in this. But once he learns that everyone that isn’t Kalim has still decided to play, Vil succumbs to it. After all, although he is absolutely one of NRC’s most influential trendsetters, he feels most comfortable keeping up with the crowd, especially when that crowd is filled with other people of influence.

If everyone else is going to try their hardest, then Vil will have to choke down his pride as well. Besides, he is blessed with the ability to do everything beautifully and gracefully, no matter how extreme.

Malleus

Malleus is actually rather intrigued. He had never heard of ‘laser tag’ before, but he considers Ignihyde a very formidable dormitory, and so he respects all of the effort that they put into this.

He has no doubt that he’ll win, regardless of how you play. Malleus always enjoys a game of cat and mouse; this is the perfect opportunity to absolutely crush the other dorm leaders.

He would���ve preferred a more natural environment than the loud, glow-in-the-dark room the game was held in, and he thinks that the Ignihyde laser tag vest looks hideous on him, but as long as he gets the acknowledgement in the end, he’ll put up with it.

[szopenhauer]

Is it easy to find a job in your preferred field in your hometown?           preferred field *chuckle*

Ladies: Would you ever consider proposing? If not, why not? Gentlemen: How would you feel, if you were proposed to?     yes, I have an idea

Have you ever played the original Mass Effect trilogy?           I haven’t

If so, which Shepard and who do you like romancing the best? -             

Let’s say there’s a person in need. They need money which they can’t make. Would you be more likely to help them out, if a celebrity asked you to?       celebs should help them, not me, I need help myself!

When you go to a restaurant, do you have a go-to dish? Or do you always try out something new? usually

Would you rather live next to a kindergarten or an old folks’ home?       old folks’ home for sure

What is the best part of your most ordinary day?   sleeping :x

Do you enjoy being on your own or are you happier when there’s a crowd around you?           I’m a loner/introvert

Do you ever look up what foreign idioms mean?     yep

What’s the strangest saying you’ve come across? I don’t recall atm

What’s a First World problem that you have?         hmm...

Have you ever made a parody version of a popular song?     me and my sister were doing puppet shows for our parents, mostly her ideas as she was forcing me to perform those until I got sick of that

Which game did you play the most as a kid during recess? nie bawiłam się w większość gier przez brak zdrowia, ale lubiłam plac z huśtawkami czy drabinkami, albo udawać rodzinę/dom i te fajne białe “krateczki” z kolorowymi “guziczkami” co jak się je wpinało w dziurki to układało się z nich obrazki (nie pamiętam nazwy)

Is there a pattern on the pants you’re currently wearing? Which one? there isn’t

Does your mother annoy you when the holidays come along in the year? my mom annoys me all the time lol Do people ever ask you to do things they’re too short to accomplish? I’m too short but I manage and still some ppl sometimes ask me for help anyway Do you check the texture of things first or the smell of them? used to smell them but now just texture Have you ever broken the arm or head off of a figurine? How did you do this? I’m no Chunk :P

Do you believe in superstitious things such as breaking a mirror? I wouldn’t do that on purpose but I don’t believe in most of the superstitions, luckily there are some things you can do to avoid bad luck like throw salt over your shoulder or knock on non painted wooden thingy etc. Do you get sick of people who call themselves bi polar all the time? I’m sick of ppl who use mental and physical illnesses as excuses when they don’t have them - single headache ain’t a migraine nor being an ass makes you a border, shut up! Ever have an ultra-sound performed on you?  more than once Do you like those ‘end of the world,’ ‘Armageddon’ movies? some are good, some not Ever been choked severely on something? just a feather Has anyone ever compared you to an animal? Which one(s)? several like monkey, raccoon or cat Ever been in one of those church Christmas plays before? Why/why not? I didn’t participate but I watched/looked at them when I was younger Have you ever thrown a roll of toilet paper at someone before? ... why? Have you ever found yourself talking to an inanimate object? at times I talk to my computer (because I hate it so we argue), kettle and fridge, also my stuffed animals of course Something on the human body that grosses you out the most: penis Ever think of what it would be like to be a mermaid or merman? I thought and I wouldn’t like it besides maybe finding some cool stuff that drown  What is something that bothers you about most surveys in general? creators lack imagination, they ask the same stuff over and over again, it’s boring What is your favorite color of apple? Red, green or yellow? red Ever want to be a doctor? Is it because of all the hospital shows? noooo Do you like drawing smiley faces or do you think they’re overrated? rarely and I’m ashamed of that tbh Are you someone who actually likes to babysit children? hell no but I’m not that bad at it Do you hardly ever remember where you put things at? I have good memory when it comes to that most of the time - not counting my green scissors grrrr Where did you last buy socks from? What do those socks look like? Archelan - Christmas themed and fuzzy  Do you ever lay in the grass and look up at the sky, just because? not as often as I’d like to? Are you afraid of being kidnapped if you go outside at nighttime? raped, killed or robbed more likely Do you like showers or baths better? Why did you choose your choice? baths as I like to sit and I don’t like the glass nor have water over my head  Are you a controversial person? Do your views oppose others? it seems Have you ever thrown a surprise party for someone? Who for? nah, I dislike surprises and there weren’t opportunities/possibilities to do that Do you tap fingernails on desks? hardly ever Have you ever wanted to be in a band? What position exactly? vocalist (who can play instruments) but I have no talent but don’t worry, it was a childish dream that fade away when I found out more about live of a band member Do you ever call your cousins just to talk to them randomly? nope, we don’t talk, just say HI if anything  Do you find any of your friends’ parents creepy or really mean? yep Do you ever had to wash your clothes at someone else’s house? camp When is the next time you’ll go to the library? Why is this? we’ll see, covid situation isn’t helpful and I can’t focus on books lately Do you treat others as you’d like to be treated? Have you always? I treat them how they treat me (not authority figures/dangerous ppl tho) Were you a really mean kid or a sweet and quiet kid? sweet and quiet Are you someone who likes to get in arguments or fights a lot? I don’t like to but I still end up arguing, sigh... How do you make sure people know you don’t like them at all? avoid them, block them, ignore them fight with them when they don’t stay away (not physically yet)

How much was the cell phone you have at this moment in time? about 200 PLN  What would you do if you woke up randomly with purple hair? cool but wonder how that happened What color is the closest desk to your body? What all is on it? ugly light brown with shitload of stuff The most painful medical procedure you’ve ever had? gonna have it soon so don’t remind me Ever have a dream you’re being abducted by aliens? Was it scary? aliens tried to abduct me in dreams but didn’t succeed ha!  What would you say is the color of your favorite bra? white Do you like people who are loud or people who are quiet? not too tiring but not completely silent either Does personality weigh out the sense of ‘good looks?’ look is important but not as much as personality for sure, it’s like 1:9 I think Do you hate it when people copy the things you do? could say so Has anyone ever told you that you’re good at cooking? r u kidding?... Do you have any enemies who you think are dangerous? anyone can be Do you ever try to squeeze information out of people? Konrad once told me I’m like a private detective about it because I’m so sneaky they don’t realize until it’s too late but I sadly forget infos quickly due to stress last months so it’s not as useful as it sounds Does it freak you out when the police drive/walk by? somehow Have you ever been pulled over by the cops for speeding? I don’t drive Is anyone in your family a firefighter? Who is it anyway? I had a friend who was a firefighter

Have you ever woken up to a good morning letter beside you? left in the kitchen but informative like - I went there or feed the dog etc. Would you ever get your nails done? I can do them myself if I ever want to

Are you afraid of worms? maggots Do you wear rings on your thumb? why not How many shirts of yours are red? less than 5 Does the color red look good on you? my first therapist told me I should wear it to be more brave but it causes anger in me so I prefer not to Do you pray before every meal? Sunday lunch with parents Have you ever been caught cheating on a test? not caught but been cheating in high school How many white tank tops do you own? 0? Do loud people bother you? omg YES Does your head itch? not currently but frequently Do you know anyone named John? my ex friend had a nickname like this Have you ever tried the cinnamon challenge? I’m not stupid Are you a fast runner? like Gimli Did you ever want a pet rabbit? no way

Do you ever want to own a house? apartment more likely How do you feel about men? blergh Do you know any police officers? my neighbor was a police officer Have you ever signed a petition? lots Have you ever aspired to start your own business? I wish Who is the oldest person living in the same building as you? mom The youngest? me Would you rather pay with cash or card? cash, cards make me nervous Have you ever used a pager? I have not Do you like visiting the beach? beachcombing is fun Do you like to buy things? but not spend money lmfao Have you ever been in a polygamous relationship? I didn’t know that I apparently am - jk Is there anyone you haven’t spoken to in a long time but you still think about daily? my grandma for example Would you like to be rich? not filthy, having enough money to live and not barely survive

have you ever behaved like a stalker? *crickets* can you lie and keep a straight face? poker face game strong when situation calls for it

have you ever feared for somebody else’s life? especially dad’s do you prefer honesty, even when it hurts? hard to tell if you could pick your own pet name, what would it be? picked my dog’s  have you ever masturbated while driving? wtf, don’t do that, gross how do you feel when someone takes the last of something? without asking? *cringe* how do you feel when people tell you “bless you” when you sneeze? thank you unless I sneeze many times in a row and they bless me every single time - then it’s annoying what are you supposed to say when somebody coughs? r u ok? have you ever committed a violent crime because of a video game or rap song? who said I play/listen to those? have you ever actually overheard one of your friends talking shit about you? possibly how many partners is too many? at once or in your entire life? do you believe that wearing an aluminum foil hat will stop the government from reading your thoughts? that reminds me of the RED movie XD

would you rather have a hook for a hand or a peg leg? peg leg 100% elseway I’d end up with an eye cover as well if you know what I mean bonus points for/to being a pirate tho how close does someone have to be for you to feel obligated to wait and hold the door for them? either right behind me or carry heavy/big load do you examine the tissue after you blow your nose? for example when I worry about it bleeding  what is your cure for the hiccups? wait

Do you miss Brittany Murphy’s appearance in films? awwww she was such a good actress RIP

Is Christmas stressful? to me it is but I’m stressed 24/7

Do you make your own smoothies or juices? meh

Do you think time really does heal all? NO

Are you more sensitive to heat or the cold? cold

Did you care at all when Steve Jobs died? ... he died?

Has anyone searched your room for anything recently? my mother for dirty laundry

When do you decorate for Christmas? as soon as possible

Would you be cool with wearing sweatpants to the grocery store? yes

Have you ever been pranked via a hidden camera? am glad that didn’t happen 

Do you know any of those people who are depressed during the winter? I’m depressed year round

If a job makes you unhappy, do you choose to stay or leave? if I can change it without ending up on the street then I leave

How does your being here in the universe change humanity for the better? nothing? Who is a person that you don’t like yet you spend time with? my family member[s] How is your relationship with money? we don’t see each other as often as I’d like to ;) get it?  How do you feel about growing old someday? won’t live that long

Are you wearing two shirts? too hot for that Have you ever owned the socks with toes on them? disgusting! Can you point out constellations in the night sky? I can not What was your favorite part about studying ancient Greeks and Romans? not interested What’s the last thing you bought at a mall? food, antibacterial gel and a blanket

Is there someone who you can turn to for money and not be ashamed? parents but I’ll feel crappy about it  Have you ever swam in a river? as a child Are there any dirty clothes underneathe your bed? ewww seriously?  What food do you love the smell of while it’s cooking? smells make me sick In what month do you start Christmas shopping? I seek presents whole year then store them for later Have you ever had a crush on a celebrity of the same sex? as a lesbian What kind of flowers would you plant in your garden? bushes, grass, moss and trees, wild flowers, if they want to grow, can stay  Do you believe that kids should be taught abstinence? I agree When’s the next time you’ll go to the grocery store? not in next weeks

Where’s your car keys? not applicable Did you keep any momentos of school dances? pics Do you still have clothes from your high school? and middle school  Do you think you could do better drawings than Napolean Dynamite? this question...

Do you own anything skull print? had a shirt that I gave to John ages ago Who are the three people you consider yourself closest to? parents and my gf Which ex of yours means the most to you? my partner as we’re back together Have you taken prescription medications that didn’t belong to you? oh well... How are your social skills? awkward Have you ever stayed at a hotel for longer than two months? I’m poor Do you ever go outside to look at the stars? there were some days in past summers when me and dad been going to stadium for a walk at night, that’s when and where we saw UFO  Who breaks away from the kiss first? she as she forgets to breathe  Do you know what you weigh? thx for a reminder - they’ll ask in hospital Have you ever smoked anything other than tobacco? one cigarette was all that I smoked in me life Have you ever ridden on the back of a motorcycle? nope Do you say koala bear or simply koala? koala  Do you usually travel anywhere in the winter? I’d freeze brrr Do you wait for someone else to take the garbage out when it’s full? we take turns Are most of your friends white? it’s not America so...

Does your hair reach your boobs? not even my shoulders

What’s something that fills you with anxiety? what doesn’t?...

What age do you think is too old to still live with your parents? there’s no expiration date

Have you ever watched Bob’s Burgers? fragments

Has a teacher ever caught and read a note you were passing in class? I wasn’t that much of a note passer 

Do you know anyone who is afraid of horses? nah

Do you clean things that are already clean when you’re bored? tha hell?...

Would you rather live in a tropical or arctic climate? tropical

What do you do when someone overweight complains about being overweight? I say it’s important to be healthy but weight isn’t always a sign of being ill

Is there any Irish, Scottish, or Danish in your heritage? none that I know of

Do you find Asians attractive? yes and no

Have either of your parents ever been to jail? nooooo

Keep Calm and Carry On or Screw Calm and Get Angry? there’s time for one of each?

Do you think Urban Outfitters is overpriced? like every other similar store 

Are your colarbones prominent? yeah

Have you ever in your life worn overalls? I have indeed

How did you react when you heard Whitney Houston had died? sorry but I didn’t care

Do you think Helena Bonham Carter is attractive? she is

Would you rather listen to Dolly Parton or Dusty Springfield? Dolly

Are you watching The Walking Dead? I’m scared of zombies and gore 

Are you a light sleeper? became lighter

Would you consider cuddling cheating? it’s complicated

What does the purse/bag you last used look like? it’s black with red embroidery and white beads

Can you make a clover with your tongue? impossible

What’s your favorite coffee brand/flavor? I don’t drink coffee

Is your belly button pierced? no piercings!

[selfcaredoc]

Beat Food Addiction

"Chocolate comes from cocoa, which is a tree. That makes it a plant, chocolate is a salad. "

Weight Matters and Food Addiction

According to the World Health Organization, obesity is a Global Pandemic, with

60% of men, 50% of women & 1/3rd of children being either overweight or obese.

As people all over the world live longer than ever, this and other noncommunicable diseases—including obesity-related illnesses such as hypertension, diabetes, and heart disease have become the leading cause of death and disability worldwide.

 A recent study, published in the Lancet, reported this is the first time in human history that obese people outnumber underweight people. Trends in the adult body-mass index were examined in 200 countries from 1975 to 2014 with a pooled analysis of 1698 population-based measurements with nearly 20 million participants.

The obesity epidemic has been a topic of concern and debate. One of the debated ideas is that of food addiction. The concept that a person can be addicted to food has recently gained increasing support. This support is based on brain imaging and studies of the effects of compulsive overeating or certain foods on pleasure centers in the brain.

We recommend an excellent video from Dr. Robert Lustig, Pediatric Endocrinologist, and Elissa Epel, a psychologist from the University of California, San Francisco, The Skinny on Obesity that outlines and explains the biochemistry of food addiction in simple terms.  

There are no simple tests to diagnose food addiction. Just like with other addictions, it is based on behavioral symptoms and lifestyle.

Here are 8 common symptoms that are typical of food addicts:

You frequently get cravings for certain foods, despite feeling full and having just finished a nutritious meal.

When you give in and start eating food you were craving, you often find yourself eating much more than you intended to.

When you eat a food you were craving, you sometimes eat to the point of feeling excessively “stuffed.”

You often feel guilty after eating certain foods yet find yourself eating them again soon after.

You sometimes make excuses in your head about why you should eat something that you are craving.

You have repeatedly tried to quit eating or setting rules (includes cheat meals/days) about certain foods but been unsuccessful.

You often hide your consumption of unhealthy foods from others.

You feel unable to control your consumption of unhealthy foods, despite knowing that they are causing you physical harm including weight gain.

If you can relate to 4-5 of these, then you probably do have a problem with food. If you can relate to 6 or more, then you are most likely a food addict. Becoming aware of the problem is the first step. Finding a solution is the next step.

Lifestyle tips to manage food addictions.

Several lifestyle changes can help manage uncontrollable urges to consume certain foods:

Replace processed foods and sweeteners with nourishing or fewer caloric alternatives, such as good quality protein, fats, and complex carbohydrates. Fresh whole foods are good for your body and will help balance your brain chemistry. Eat plenty of colorful vegetables with every meal. Monitor and reduce sugar consumption.

Avoid caffeine. Caffeine can cause cravings for sweets and fuel food addiction.

Allow sufficient time for food cravings to subside. Getting off sugar and processed foods will be uncomfortable for 2-5 days before the physical cravings subside. 

Eat three balanced meals a day. Try to eat every 4-5 hours throughout the day. Eating on time will help avoid blood sugar fluctuations and keep you from getting hungry.

Water Matters. Drink plenty of water. Dehydration is the number one nutritional deficiency. Our bodies often mistake hunger for thirst, and not drinking sufficient water can lead to overeating. Start your day by drinking two large glasses of water, and drink plenty of water between meals. Drink half of your body weight in ounces of water each day (for example, 140 pounds: 70 ounces of water).

Practice mindful eating, which involves sitting down to eat meals, focusing on the taste and texture of the food, and chewing slowly while enjoying your meal without distractions.

Prepare and stick to a grocery list of healthy foods. Buy the highest quality food you can afford with a focus on local, seasonal, and organic sources. Shop the perimeter of the grocery store, where you will normally find fresh whole real foods. Avoid the middle aisles, which are typically filled with processed foods.

Cook meals at home as much as possible. Be careful when eating in restaurants, since they often use food additives, preservatives, chemicals, and sweeteners.

Exercise regularly. Find a type of exercise you enjoy, whether it is walking, dancing, yoga, swimming, or bicycling. Integrating 30-40 minutes of stretching and exercise into each day will help diminish your food cravings and help you sleep better.

Sleep Matters. Get eight hours of sleep each night. When we are tired, we are more likely to reach for sugar and junk food for a temporary boost of energy.

Create a support system. Enlist people you admire and trust to support your healthy lifestyle. Find people who share a desire for healthy eating or exercise; establish a support group and accountability with friends who will provide daily encouragement.

 Food addiction demands lifestyle changes.  It takes time for our brain chemistry to become rebalanced through healthy nutrition and self-care. For more information on these subjects, Heather and I suggest that you visit Selfcarehub.com.  As members of the world’s largest Global Wellness Community, it is our mission to help you Be Healthy by Choice.

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Past Lives: How to Tell If You’re an Old Soul

There’s no way to know for sure if death is the end. Is there simply nothing waiting for us or do we move on to another plane of existence? For many, the idea that we’ve been here before, that with every fully lived life we get to come back and start again, fresh in a new body without any of our memories, is a theory that holds plenty of weight. There’s even a word for the feeling that you’ve been here before: being an old soul.

But how can you tell whether you’re one of those old souls or not? There are a number of barely perceptible hints that can show you the way to unlock the secrets of who you may have been in one of those past lives.

Here are a few ways you can tell if you’ve lived more than once

Memories of Events that Never Happened, Places You’ve Never Been

Have you ever stepped into a strange room and been overwhelmed with the feeling of having been there before, even though you know you never have? Does some event trigger a memory that seems like you’re own but couldn’t possibly be? You’re experiencing déjà vu, something that could indicate that you’re remembering a snippet of a past life. While everyone might experience this sensation once in a while, those of us who have been here before might find that they experience déjà vu much more often.

Vivid Dreams That Occur Over and Over Again

Just about everyone dreams, even if they don’t always remember them. Lots of people lead vivid dream lives, and the brain uses dream time to process the events of the day, mull over problems, and any number of other things that we’re still just learning about. Yet when you have dreams that are especially vivid, and ones that occur over and over again throughout a long period of time, these can be telltale signs of having been here before. Hints that these could be past life memories include being dressed in period clothing, participating in historical events, and looking and/or feeling like someone different than who you are now.

An Attraction to Certain Time Periods or Cultures

Have you always been interested in Elizabethan England? Renaissance Italy? Ancient Greece? Do you not really know why you’re drawn to these cultures or time periods, especially if you don’t have any ancestral ties to these times and cultures? While sometimes this might be just an affinity, it could also be an indication that you might have been present in that culture during a time well before the present day. If you just feel “at home” wearing another culture’s dress, learning their language, enjoying their art, and other related things as if they were your own, though, chances are high you’re feeling vibrations from a past life.

Phobias, Fears, and Other Unexplained Emotions

It’s natural to not like spiders, or heights, or anything else that commonly makes people anxious. Irrational fears are uncommon but not rare. However, if you have a phobia or other apprehensions that don’t stem from something you experienced in this life, you might be feeling evidence of a fear you picked up from a last one, perhaps even because it might have been how you died. Scared of going swimming, for example, even though you’ve never experienced anything negative associated with the water? You might just have drowned in a former life, and the trauma was so deep that it’s bleeding over into this life.

Possessing Strong, Almost Supernatural, Levels of Intuition

Have you been good at picking right answers seemingly at “random”? Can you just get a feel for a situation, or peg someone’s personality, right off the bat without observing for very long? You’ve got a strong intuitive sense. Some people are just born that way, but it’s not necessarily random. Having that strong an intuition could be evidence that you’re relying on the wisdom of the lives you’ve already lived in the past, and that’s informing your decisions. These aren’t even memories you’re receiving — more like gut feelings. They’re just coming from an older, wiser version of you that you might not know about.

Being Uncannily Talented in a Language You Don’t Know

It’s one thing to have a knack for learning languages — lots of people are talented that way. Yet it’s quite another to have an instinctual, almost uncanny ability to read, speak, and understand a language you’ve never spent time studying. In many situations, this can be a real shock to you and the people around you, especially if this hidden skill manifests itself while you’re talking in your sleep or undergoing hypnosis. Without any other possible explanation, it’s a strong sign that you spoke that language in a past life, and that part of you still retains that knowledge to this very day.

Being Unnaturally Good at History Without Studying

There’s smart, and then there’s cheating. If you’ve never had to open a textbook to pass a history exam in your life, you might just have an incredibly good memory when it comes to your in-class lectures. The alternative, though, is that you’re preternaturally good at history class because you’ve got an affinity for just knowing things about people, places, and events that occurred well in the past because you were alive at the time and you’re tapping into the vast repository of your past life memories.

Unexplained Physical Symptoms

The human body is mysterious. Plenty of us have aches and pains that appear out of nowhere and disappear just as quickly, but persistent physical symptoms that you suffer from that don’t seem to have any traceable source could be an indication of an old wound or illness that you experienced in a past life. In many cases, if you look into your past life history and begin to discover who you might have been and what might have happened to you, your strange symptoms may lessen or even disappear upon figuring them out.

Strange and Mysterious Birthmarks

Much like how some people suffer from strange physical symptoms that might originate from trauma in past lives, some people born with noteworthy birthmarks might be able to use these birthmarks as indicators of things that happened to them in a past life. If you were bitten by a snake in your previous life, you might have a birthmark that looks suspiciously like a snakebite — and looking at that birthmark in such a way might help you trigger some past-life memories of the event.

Feeling Like You’re Older Than You Are

There’s a reason people call you an “old soul” sometimes. Whether you were an incredibly mature child, have wisdom beyond your years as a young adult, or simply have a knack for getting things right without being told what to do or how to do it, you could just be lucky — or you could be benefiting from a number of lifetimes that you’ve lived already and that you’re half-remembering. In the case of simply knowing what to do, you might not be remembering them at all but simply feeling them on an instinctual level.

Not Having a Particularly Strong Bond with Immediate Family

No family is perfect. Sometimes we just don’t get along with our parents or siblings, and there is any number of reasons why that may be. Yet in some instances, not having a particularly strong bond with your immediate family members, especially with your parents, may indicate that you’re closely connected with one of your past lives. If this is accompanied by feelings of closeness with other parents that you might not even know — such as strangers that you see in your dreams — you could very well be feeling the effects of a particularly strong bond between you and your parents from a former life.

Feeling Like You’re In the “Wrong” Body

There’s no rule when it comes to reincarnation that you’re going to end up in a body of the same gender every time. You’re just as likely to be a man in one life, a woman in the next, and then a man in yet another, and so on and so forth. In some instances, when you feel in your current life that you might have been born into a body that’s the opposite gender or is otherwise somehow “wrong”, this could be you remembering what it was like to live your life in your previous body.

Not Feeling Like Your Home is Truly “Home”

Sometimes, people who have a closer tie to their past lives than others might feel especially out of place in their current life. This can extend to feelings of not truly having a home of your very own, even if you’ve grown up in the same place with all your current family members. Some people even believe that we could have lived past lives on other planets or in other dimensions, which might make this feeling of not belonging anywhere even more intense. If you feel like you’ve never fit in, that nobody understands you, and that everything is just slightly off, this might be what’s troubling you.

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all the asks !!

So this is old and I just looked up "ask" and did the most recent one sorry nonny!! If you want you can request the actual one if this wasn't it.LONG POST WARNING1: Do you have a crush at the moment?I think so! But I often misinterpret my/others feelings so who knows!2: Have you ever been deeply in love?Love yes, deeply maybe. I don't know anymore, maybe it was never really love? Maybe I was in love with the idea that we were in love3: Longest relationship you've ever been in? @discountshark for 4 months4: Have you ever changed for someone?I don't know if I did, but I probably would if the person meant the world to me, so maybe I have.5: How is your relationship with your ex?I mean the ex from the only relationship that had substance and I are on p good terms6: Have you ever been cheated on?No but I feel like I was dumped so the person could avoid cheating (imo, I'm not trying to accuse anyone that's just how it felt I Promise)7: Have you ever cheated?No, and i never plan to do so, I hope with all my heart I never do8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating? Honestly yeah probably. I have a habit of getting into friendships or relationships with awful people (if u are reading this it wasn't u I promise)9: What's the most important part of a relationship?genuine mutual feelings for one another10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings? I have no idea if I have a preference, but I need a lot of attention and I dislike change so probably serious ones! A11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?I think people need time and space, but break implies an end of something but it'll come back. I think if the participants in the relationship love each other than working things out or taking a breather makes more sense than a "break." Those just don't make any sense to me.12: How many people have you ever hooked up with? None. 13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?I regret begging14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?If you're safe af then like,, 16 or 1715: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?To an extent yes. Not illegal things or anything but people's business is their own. If a 20 year old loves a 35 year old who is to say that's wrong? I'm not saying it doesn't sound weird. 16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?Yeah!17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?Yes!18: What do you consider a deal breaker?(Abuse mention!) Repeated physical abuse mainly, emotional abuse I'd probably still stay with, at least that was the case with itty bitty week long things in the past.19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?When the participants have fully lost interest in one another20: Are you currently in a relationship?Nope!21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?Of course! It all depends on circumstances though. 22: Do you think people should date their friends? I think being friends first is a crucial part of any relationship. 23: How many relationships have you had?4? Idk what do u call things that end in a week? 1 real one in my opinion, where both people reciprocated feelings24: Do you think love can last forever? Yes25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?Mhm!26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?Probably not27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?Saying no won't kill you, you'll break if you always say yes. 28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?Yeah!!!29: What do you notice first about another person?Patterns, eyes, the way they talk and what they say.30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?This isn't a very inclusive question, but I'm pansexual.31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?No! I have from 4 myself32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?Mentally/emotionally yeah (slightly physically)33: Do you want to get married one day?With the right person, if there even is one for me34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed? It's a stupid idea35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?YES36: Are you still a virgin?Yepperooni37: What's more important: Looks or personality?Personality38: Do you enjoy love films?Yeahs39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?Nope. Never. I'd love too though40: Have you ever had a valentine?No, I'd probably cry if I ever had one ever though41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?One in which the participants are having a good time and are comfortable42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?Mostly I think!43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends? My partner(s) should be my friend already, but if I have all or most of my other friends telling me things aren't good or I'm being treated badly I'd listen to them I think44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?Hopelessly so45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?Y e a46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?In technical sense of being rejected and told that we are only friends yes, but the "friend zone" is a stupid concept imo.47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?I don't think I have one?48: What's your favorite love song?Baby it's fact by HelloGoodbye probably!49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?I don't think so?50: If you're single, why do you think you are?I'm a pos51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?Personality and morals are key, I'd take a kind person who is "poor" over a rich jerk any day52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?I'd like to think so!53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?Sometimes yah54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on Facebook)?Who cares if it's spoken outwardly or not? As long as it is explicitly understood by the participants in the relationship that they are in a relationship that's enough for me. 55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?YES56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?Not that I know of(Suicide meant next)57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?This is a stupid question. Considering suicide is never "silly" 58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?I like to think I'm submissive, I hope that's true59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?No (then again week anniversaries don't count much to most people and the 4 month one I never forgot)60: What's your opinion on open relationships?They are perfectly fine!!! As long as all participants are aware and ok with if. 61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?Depends on the situation62: How do you define "cheating"?Knowingly going behind a partners back and doing something you'd do with only a partner/ something your partner wouldn't want you to do with someone else (in a romantic or sexual manner)63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?No?? Maybe if your partner(s) really doesn't like it then you probably shouldn't?64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?Sometimes65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?YeAHSthank u nonny!!