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heartevent · 3 months ago

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Like for one I do think its weird to generalize a sexuality like that but also I'm amazed by this sex-crazed world many internet-centric asexuals seem to believe we live in. It's honestly a really puritan view to look at sex, vulnerability isn't more valuable if the pairing aren't having sex together. Sex doesn't "dirty" you, one can even argue its another form of vulnerable communication

#our society overall is still pretty conservative when it comes to sex #and some of our first exposures to sex define it as animalistic passion and raw instinct #but that doesn't mean thats true in the slightest #people who have healthy safe sane consensual sex all understand that sex is not the only way to show vulnerability #we do live in a society that views sex as a currency to show ones value but if you can recognize that one has value beyond their sexuality #why believe the exact opposite #(believing vulnerability is more valuable without sex)#its two sides of the same damaging coin #also what about the asexuals that don't read fanfiction like that hello

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