#and maybe ending it in -ex will give the impression im trying to sidle my way into being intersex | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

gibbearish · 8 months ago

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how would we feel about transcendex

i want. to try and coin a term for transmascs (+ maybe cis women? idk if theyd be interested) with vaginismus whose gender identity therefore feels intrinsically tied to transfemininity. bc i know i cant be the only one whose wires got tied up by that whole situation. and like afaik vaginismus doesnt count as intersex since its not really an "inbetween" thing so much as just An Orifice Not Working As Intended so i dont feel comfortable using that myself but i also like. idk feel like there does need to be a word for it

#like its about being trans and about my sex (?) but it also goes beyond any binary you could try to put on it #transmasc vs transfem / perisex vs intersex / binary vs nonbinary etc #but also i feel like it sounds really close to . spandex #and also is maybe just a bit too on the nose #and maybe ending it in -ex will give the impression im trying to sidle my way into being intersex #when like the point is that i dont feel like i fit there but i also just . dont quite feel like perisex can 100% apply to me #idk #intersex followers esp i would love to hear ur input ive tried sending asks to some ppl before but never got responses #and google gives me literally nothing irt discussion on if vaginismus counts as intersex or not which to me says it probably doesnt #which i mean makes sense‚ in the venn diagram the circles for vaginismus and transmasc are already relatively small %s of the population #so the overlap in turn has to be pretty small and then the people who also ended up having those tied together in their brain #enough to want a word for it is even smaller #idk i just . dont wanna step on any toes but i also want A Word yknow #origibberish

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