#and like right now im burnt out and sick so i have less ability to mask
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I feel like people have also pushed the social model of disability as the only valid model for explaining autism so much that it became just straight up misinformation. Like, listening to some autistic people on tiktok, it's like you can accommodate autism to such an extent that it stops being a disability or even a problem whatsoever. And maybe for some specific combination of traits this is true, but my guess is that it's quite rare. For most people who meet the current diagnostic criteria, autism would disable them in any context, especially since it is almost always comorbid with at least one other thing if not multiple, such as anxiety, depression, PTSD, connective tissue disorders, epilepsy, ADHD, intellectual disability, dyslexia/dyscalculia/dyspraxia, auditory processing disorder... the list goes on.
Point is, of course accommodations, support, and a good environment can eliminate a lot of negative aspects of autism - but most autistic people are disabled by our neurotype and it cannot be accommodated out of existence. Accommodations can drastically improve our quality of life, but not make us function on the exact same level as neurotypical people. And because activist circles and tiktok and so on have an overrepresentation of people whose combination of traits allows them to function on a relatively normative level, people forget just how many struggles you can have, even as a low support person. Like some people think that needing help with filing paperwork or keeping your house clean is high support. That's not even mid support imho, that's something the vast majority of low support autistic people would benefit from. I'm mid support and I need help with tying my shoelaces and preparing simple meals - and I have a master's degree and no learning/intellectual disabilities.
Two things can be true at once. Yes, autism is a natural variation of brain types and we deserve the same rights and dignity as everyone else. Many of us would not want to be "cured" of autism and it is a part of us. Also, yes, it disables us, and limits our functioning, and can be (and is, for many people), a very negative experience, especially in the current world. It's not either or, it's not black or white. It is a complex neurodevelopmental difference that doesn't just boil down to being sensitive and passionate. And it does suck sometimes, maybe even a lot of times. Abled people should learn to respect us and our wishes and needs without either comparing autism to cancer or sugarcoating our experiences.
the way people online talk about autism is getting really weird, like do they know that neurotypicals still have interests? that someone being passionate about a hobby doesn't mean they're autistic? you guys know that right
#accidental rant i gues#i feel really weird as a mid functioning person as well#like my skill profile is very spiky#and people tend to think that because i have a stem degree and a bunch of advanced skills#means i don't struggle much and am low support#meanwhile i basically do not leave the house without supervision#and frequently lose the ability to communicate verbally in unfamiliar situations#and like right now im burnt out and sick so i have less ability to mask#almost no ability tbh#but even at my best i have pretty limited ability to cope with change and unfamiliar environments#and very poor motor skills#and just god awful executive functioning#so i dont relate to late diagnosed people much#but also i was only diagnosed at 18#i didn't have speech delays#and i used to be pretty good at masking so i could pretend to be somewhat normal at uni#so yeah. it's complicated and i feel weird about it#also being in hyper positive autism acceptance circles kinda persuaded me#that i could accommodate myself out of being disabled#like some autism acceptance places even ban the word disabled#which i fucking hate#cause for years i believed that if i could just learn more tips and tricks#i could function on the same level as an abled person#which made me burn out so fucking bad#when instead i should have just focused on improving my quality of life#and stop accessing my achievements by nt standards#anyway rant over
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dont tell anyone but im studying and working on getting a non-art job so i could quit art (keeping it as a hobby) and social media as a whole. im done, like for real this time. im burnt out. im making less than 10k a year off of it. the field is hyper saturated and algorithms have absolutely killed any passion or excitement I have with art, I am nothing but a husk that draws and I no longer feel happy drawing anymore unless its for myself. I was doing semi-okay before covid, i was finally getting gigs and potential industry jobs and then it collapsed. They all cancelled and I had to start from scratch again. Recession is making my groceries for 1 person an extra 100 a month, even when I cut down. I'm still cutting down. I can't afford anything at the speed of the recession.
What makes getting another job any different? I have a chance of working from home, I can put my coding skills to use, and I can possibly see my income growing instead of bouncing up an down and just barely making it. For fucks sake, i'll take anything higher than 10k a year right now. Literally anything.
What is absolutely astounding to me is that, I was fairly successful on all parts of social media and selling merch and growing a base that could fund my work, but it simply DOES NOT pay enough. I've been at this for almost 6 years already, there is no more possibility of climbing higher because the rate of inflation. Most freelancers are making between 10k-30k powered entirely by visibility and social media. That is simply unlivable. It was bordering on starvation before the pandemic, but its simple undoable now, unless you're extremely lucky. Which I was lucky. Very. Still am for the bare minimum.
But im done. Im sick of being tied to social media. I want to be a nobody on the internet minding my own business, in fact i want to be off the internet more. I don't care anymore. I love art, but I don't love doing art like this. I will keep drawing and posting art, but I want to reach a point where it is no longer tied to my ability to survive. im very tired.
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Discord pt 98
[Date: 19/03, 06:01 AM GMT - 19/03, 06:50 AM GMT]
[CW for unethical floral experimentation, injury mention]
kateza affectionate: “mona, don't be so hard on yourself, ok?”
Maxwell: “....i....think we should tell her about the other stuff
mona”
Little-K1ng: “............theres more????”
Marcus: “.........heh”
Little-K1ng: “uh. heh?”
Maxwell: “I saw syds observation post from yesterday...it had a scrrenshot of something I said, and jack and them told me thats what you didnt want me seeing yesterday....”
Marcus: “Oh that
....yeah”
Little-K1ng: “O_O
uh..........................................................”
Marcus: “...that’s kind of what the argument was about”
Little-K1ng: “,,,,,,,,,,,,um
oh fuck. i
max...”
Maxwell: “im not upset”
Little-K1ng: “i just...”
Maxwell: “i took some time”
Little-K1ng: “you're... not?”
Maxwell: “and i get why you did it
yeah
but”
kateza affectionate: “you're in an unprecedented situation. a situation that keeps getting worse and worse with seemingly no reprieve. I don't blame you for slipping up here and there- there's so much stress involved that it's almost expected for you to be upset. i don't think anyone blames you for doing these things. that's all i wanted to say.”
Maxwell: “its gotten worse
baroness has images of more times where i've slipped up
at least twice during my argument with her”
Little-K1ng: “oh christ”
Maxwell: “and then I switched back to ender for certain words....”
Little-K1ng: “i.....”
Maxwell: “and....i sent prince an ask on faer blog....”
Little-K1ng: “you... did?”
Maxwell: “saying i was sorry for upsetting faem and i hoped i could see faem again soon”
Little-K1ng: “oh no oh no
oh max....”
Maxwell: “fae said "see you soon, page"”
Marcus: “...max signed the ask as page as well”
Maxwell: “no no
the was the second one”
Marcus: “..there was one before??”
Maxwell: “after he answered the first one i closed my eyes to breath”
Little-K1ng: “how can i be getting worse so much faster....”
Marcus: “.....I don’t...remember”
Little-K1ng: “unless...”
Marcus: “...huh”
Little-K1ng: “oh fucking christ no non on ono nonon ono nonono.....”
Maxwell: “and when I opened them like three minutes had passed and I had sent an ask as page apparently”
Little-K1ng: “did..... did crown do something? did he get in? did he get in when i left the door open??? and make it worse???????”
Marcus: “...I don’t
...max i don’t remember you sending an ask
Only page”
Little-K1ng: “is it my fault? did... did i do that? did i really.... i..... left you vulnerable....... i....”
Maxwell: “no it isnt your fault”
Little-K1ng: “i just....... this doesnt.... this doesnt hurt me nearly as much as it should.... im not... im still not upset..?”
Marcus: “Mona, Crown didn’t come in...I would’ve seen him. It’s not your fault”
kateza affectionate: “this isn't your fault mona
you're probably emotionally tired”
Little-K1ng: “but i just... i still just feel empty about it. i feel fully justified about this and i know i fucked up but im not hurt”
Raeva: “oh...”
Maxwell: “uh....I have marigold tea if you want some”
Little-K1ng: “i cant even fucking apologize right”
Marcus: “You didn’t mess up
...max what”
kateza affectionate: “you're emotionally burnt out, Mona. This is a bad situation”
Little-K1ng: “wh. where did you get marigolds?”
Maxwell: “oH
uH”
Marcus: “max”
Little-K1ng: “....;max????”
Maxwell: “hm.....well....
Little-K1ng: “max i dont have any tea except dandelion root
you're 16 you dont have money or a car
where the fuck,????”
Maxwell: “fetch was hurt....and i wanted to make sure I could help him tomorrow if he came back home tomorrow”
Marcus: “.....arent the flowers on your laurel...”
Maxwell: “.....”
Marcus: “max you didnt”
Little-K1ng: “mAaAaAaX??!!!!
what the HELL”
Marcus: “Don’t yell at him!”
Little-K1ng: “ahhhhh??????????????
im ??? not yelling on purpose im just????????
what the hell ??????”
Maxwell: “i wanted to help and it works?!”
Marcus: “you tested it???”
Maxwell: “yes”
Little-K1ng: “thats such a silly idea max of course it worked??? magic is like that sometimes??? but why would you have even thought about it ?????????”
Marcus: “max”
Maxwell: “i...”
Little-K1ng: “thats so silly how did it taste wh”
Maxwell: “i knew marigolds have the ability to help heal wounds...they can help speed up the process sometimes by a couple of days”
Marcus: “Are you okay??”
Maxwell: “they can help with blood flow”
Marcus: “Which ones did you cut off? Did you only cut one?”
Little-K1ng: “are you???? ok max first of all. heavy metal poisoning speedrunning. nice one. but also. dude cmon they double when you do that”
Maxwell: “and can sometimes even be used to treat infections...
i only cut one but it workss”
Little-K1ng: “one flower for how much ??”
Marcus: “...”
Little-K1ng: “like. did the water change color? bubble strangely? make fucked up ender noises at you??”
Maxwell: “i got a scrape on my arm when I was pacing outside waiting for fetch and I dipped a paper towel in it and put it on the wound”
Little-K1ng: “god maybe i am emotionally exhausted”
Maxwell: “it almost fully closed instantly”
Marcus: “...I kinda hope it made ender noises that would be funny”
[Maxwell: “it almost fully closed instantly”]
Little-K1ng: “hUH”
Maxwell: “it healed the wound faster than normal
not completely but enough”
Little-K1ng: “oh you better hope you dont do that too much and find out once your laurel wilts the wounds just open wtf”
Marcus: “I don’t think normal marigolds do that”
Little-K1ng: “thats like. supremely fucked dude??? thats weird.”
Maxwell: “.....”
Marcus: “...interesting”
Little-K1ng: “if you only used one did you??? just use the one i cut?”
Maxwell: “i wanted to help fetch
no the...one you cut was a bud
i needed one with petals that was bloomed...”
Marcus: “Y’know Max, I don’t think anyone else would’ve tried that”
Maxwell: “also the bud hasnt wilted despite being cut off a day ago...
but yeah i needed petals”
Marcus: “....”
Maxwell: “i tried to take em off when it was on my head but it felt like I was pulling out my hair so i stopped and just....”
Little-K1ng: “no, i understand the need. i get it. i want to help fetch too and honestly? i would have done the same”
Maxwell: “took a whole one”
Marcus: “...are you okay?
How did that not wake me up”
Little-K1ng: “im. i just. i feel so screwed up about this whole thing.”
Maxwell: “i didnt yell”
Marcus: “...”
Maxwell: “i numbed it with ice and grabbed the scissors
fetch wasnt happy when i told him”
Little-K1ng: “well of course not”
Maxwell: “jack saw it as an experiment”
Marcus: “...you talked to fetch?
Like directly?”
Little-K1ng: “you told him???”
Maxwell: “no he was messaging her”
Little-K1ng: “i dont even tell him when i hide a pill in some cheese for him
wait dont tell him that i said that”
Marcus: “I thought he just gave an update and that’s how you knew about stuff”
Maxwell: “to let us know he wouldnt be home tonight
yeah and i said i knew a way to help heal him”
Marcus: “...”
Maxwell: “he...knew i was gonna do something I shouldnt have
theres still quite a bit left”
Marcus: “....i can see why he would think that”
Maxwell: “it's in a bowl....
....you can use some if you need it”
Little-K1ng: “...........ok. would it be weird. if i drank it
like a little bit
maybe itll?? pick up my mood or something”
Marcus: “What if it cures your migraines”
Maxwell: “i dont know if it works for moods”
Little-K1ng: “god i WISH”
Maxwell: “uh give me a sec”
[Marcus: “What if it cures your migraines”]
Little-K1ng: “MARCUS IF IT DOES THAT IM GIVING YOU TWO THE NOBEL PEACE PRIZE”
Maxwell: “you could try but as far as i remember it wont work
it works for wounds and inflammatory stuff”
Little-K1ng: “damn”
Marcus: “Why would you give it to me-”
Little-K1ng: “yeah ill be honest i maybe do not want the weird rat juice . at least not right now”
Maxwell: “its...flower
i put the petals in a pot and boiled em”
Little-K1ng: “Brain Flower of the Rat is not exactly the most appealing tea flavor, max. with all due respect”
Maxwell: “then i strained them”
Marcus: “Juice of Brain Flower of the Rat then”
Maxwell: “actually tastes slightly like normal water...
if anything slightly sweet
jack said it might taste like rose water”
[Marcus: “Juice of Brain Flower of the Rat then”]
Little-K1ng: “sick new lacroix flavor”
[Maxwell: “jack said it might taste like rose water”]
Little-K1ng: “.....rose water?”
Maxwell: “yeah you boil the roses then strain em into a bowl
like i did with the marigolds”
Little-K1ng: “i like rose water... :/ guess maybe i do want the fucked up rat brain plant water”
Maxwell: “you could try some its not like I cant make more”
Little-K1ng: “....hm !!! dont like that
do not make more rat water”
Maxwell: “....”
Little-K1ng: “i will try some but do not make more”
Marcus: “...please stop calling it rat water?”
Little-K1ng: “marcus?? do you want to try some (Patent Pending) Maxwell Ratatouille's Funky Fresh Brain Tea™️?”
Maxwell: “....
im too tired for this shit”
Little-K1ng: “im coping max.”
Marcus: “....”
Maxwell: “ fair”
Marcus: “I don’t have any injuries?”
Maxwell: “im.....i might go to sleep soon....
who?”
Marcus: “Who?”
Little-K1ng: “we dont have injuries
basically
okay so uh?? bottoms up i guess”
sip sip
sip
Marcus: “..oh wait
My elbow?
Does it work on old injuries?”
Little-K1ng: “uh. hm
it tastes good?”
Maxwell: “oh yeah its burned! it wont get rid of the injury but it might help with any lingering pain?”
Little-K1ng: “it tastes nice actually, the rose water thing was actually accurate
........................................huh
wtf”
kateza affectionate: “I’m gonna head to bed. Stay safe y’all. Much love /p”
Little-K1ng: “gn Kate !
uh
hm. okay”
Maxwell: “hm?”
Marcus: “What Mona?”
Little-K1ng: “so. i may have forgotten to mention out loud to yall but i have some pretty bad joint pain
like, typically, its a mid level pain all the time
and its jsut? less
less pain
thats nice”
Maxwell: “told ya it works!”
Little-K1ng: “it.... does !
dont make more though
ill enjoy this for as long as it lasts but for gods sake max dont pick the laurel for tea”
Marcus: “Please don’t make more rat juice max”
Little-K1ng: “gonna do a rat juice high five marcus
try it??”
Marcus: “I’ll..try just applying it to my elbow”
Little-K1ng: “something something dab joke”
Marcus: “Man you really are tired huh?
Little-K1ng: “i am so tired
work was hard
and i came home, expecting like, the remnants of a fight”
Marcus: “Okay- oh”
Little-K1ng: “only to realize that like, just about every problem for the last 2 days are probably entirely my fault”
Marcus: “Mona”
Little-K1ng: “and i dont actually have it in me to think i actually did anything wrong and i keep getting angry and snapping at people who dont deserve it”
Marcus: “Mona it’s fine
I promise”
Little-K1ng: “<:(”
Maxwell: “you okay marcus”
Little-K1ng: “^this is an incredibly forced frown. again, i dont feel bad”
Maxwell: “the water didnt hurt you right?”
Marcus: “Huh?
Oh
No it’s quite soothing actually”
Little-K1ng: “yeah weird right ??”
Marcus: “A bit”
Little-K1ng: “i WILL physically fight you max if you try to make more though
i will get mad. dont”
Maxwell: “....sorry”
Little-K1ng: “i mean dont be sorry for trying it, that was a good idea
but you've done it once, thats enough”
Marcus: “Please don’t make more max”
Little-K1ng: “for safety reasons”
Marcus: “Yeah”
Little-K1ng: “i dont know how easily those stems get infected
and with how deep they run i really dont want you to find out
i already endangered you all this far, please dont help me do that
guys... you both look so tired”
Maxwell: “you wont endagenr us its fein”
Little-K1ng: “maybe you should go to bed”
Maxwell: “im fien”
Little-K1ng: “sounds like it ,':)
head to the tulips, dormouse :)!”
Maxwell: “fuckign what”
Maxwell: “awwwww i love emas”
Little-K1ng: “do you guys want to sleep in the living room? my bed is pretty huge”
Maxwell: “oh iv emafe a neast on the fllor”
Little-K1ng: “oh perfect, and it looks like marcus is already asleep :) thats okay!! goodnight you guys”
Maxwell: “nihgtn”
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Positive reflective life ramble on adversity, sickness, and the aftermath of 'crisis mode'
So, getting severely physically sick gradually over the past year and a half---because really my doctors and I have figured out its been a gradual thing that's been deteriorating for a while, I realized that even though I've had a LONG series of really awful stuff happen to me, every single thing internally changed part of me in an extraordinary way that's so so healthy and solidifying. It's all because of the amount of work and time I've put in from like age 17 till now in therapy, personally, and within my relationships, and even though I couldn't abate the physical effects or my own frankly severe clinical depression due to genetics, the way I've handled and allowed events in the past year or so to impact me was like the stress test proving that the work has had a permenant impact? It proved to me that as a person I'm healthy, I take things in a healthy way, I approach people in a healthy way, I conceptualize criticism and failing in the healthiest way I can with my rsd, and I set healthy goals and have healthy desires. BUT I haven't been able to actualize any of it because honestly, after everything I kind of just wanted to stagnate and have nothing new happen event wise so that I could just breath and have some stability because I've been totally exhausted and burnt out. I should have taken a semester or a year off of school, the worry and sudden ambivilance to school really hurt my health and my ability to just breath again, and the decision to just tread water and endure without any real changes in my daily routine definetely hurt my energy and health. Taking almost a year off from any kind of dating and sex, and shit even research was good for me. Like to an extreme extent, but I should have listened to my body saying "I'm too exhausted to even use this extra time to benefit myself" and just taken time off from school to work and move out temporarily etc.
But none of that matters now bc I got very very sick, and being bed ridden, isolated, and totally stripped of any sense of security or complacency has really changed my entire perspective on life and the finality of it and the responsibility I have to myself not just internally but externally in the form of action and challenge. My family lives a supremely unhealthy lifestyle and it's impacted me greatly. Our diets are terrible, even with the changes I've made in the past to mine by eating less fatty meat and no frozen foods, it's not enough, I haven't exercised enough or respected my body at all and doing so now will literally kill me down the line. The second I'm medically cleared I'm getting a personal trainer/physical therapist and getting in very good shape, I was an athletic kid and I've said I wanted to do this in the past but there's this weird thing inside of me where a certain threshold is reached where I know that something HAS to happen and it's absolutely going to and it's there, I dont have a doubt in my mind that it's going to happen.
Mentally I need to find a stable medication and therapy routine to treat my dysthymia because I'm unfortunate enough to have inherited my mom's near Electroconvulsive Therapy levels of long term depression, but im extremely lucky it doesn't really come in the form of sadness, just all the other physiological and psychological factors like poor motivation, anhedonia etc. Finding the right treatment now will pretty much give me a baseline to know what my normal is, because it's been a FAT minute since I've been at my baseline, and that'll give me the awareness I need (combined with CBT) to identify warning signs because emotional states aren't identifiers for me. Lastly on a personal level, I'm in fucking shambles rn in all other facets of my life but my health destroying itself stripped me down to only my internal world, and who I am as a person as the only things left. And I feel incredible, like I feel so fucking healthy and loving and assured in who I am and my worth, and all of it has been tested and tried and proven through terrible events, but the only way to remove doubt from my brain was through those events.
I think the past few weeks have been really dark, depressing, and sad for me because its been this weird grieving period of fear and sorrow about all the negative shit that's happened and the perceived loss of the life I've been leading but really, every time I'd think it would lead back to a conclusion of how I'd benefited out of it and the reality that I havent been living, I've been in crisis mode since July 2017, and the strip back down to the core that I'm enduring now is exactly what needed and maybe even what was supposed to happen.
After two days ago, the worst I felt in my entire life, I woke up and like all the fear of intimacy, being vulnerable, taking risks, and making concrete choices is just gone, because there is literally no more back tracking and hedonistic fleeing from fears even possible. The few people that I've not cut out in my life and have stuck around have said consistently over the past few weeks how much I've helped them and have given so many examples of times where I helped support them at their worst times, from suicide attempts to breaking off engagements to sexual abuse and changing careers, and I honestly didn't realize that people ever thought I'd had that much of an impact in that and I never really believed that I had earned or deserved to receive help or loyalty from people, it's been incredibly meaningful and validating for my biggest difficulty, vulnerability and accepting help. I think once I start to get my shit in order it's time I open myself up to a serious relationship or dating again, but without a goal of actively trying to obtain it, it needs to be with someone who's in the same position I am, the uphill climb AFTER the first uphill climb from neglect and lack of self respect to having identified what the soul needs and wants and what you provide and want others around you to provide to your life as well. I know this all sounds horribly pretentious but I'm here man, like it's all in the past been heal heal heal, and now it's like: the buildings are all built, let's occupy and use them and invite others in to use them as well. Idk yeah, that's everything I guess, I posted this for a specific few people who I know read my tumblr to keep an eye on what's been going on in my life since I'm not active on twitter/Instagram anymore, but thanks to anyone who read anyways.
Officially done with Lyme disease treatment today btw 🤘🏻
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6/2/21
poor in feelings
poor in cents
pouring deep
to kill the scent
your porous soul
seeped too intense
into this fabric
of mine
now my pillow reeks
and my sleep don’t speak
like whiskey bourbon
spilled, once neat
our pleasures gone
the treasured dawn
comes to beat
me down again
like winter mornings
with the curtains drawn
i’m on my own
in my own
head again
5/27/21
red skies
a sign of storms ahead
white lies
your words better left un said
be baptized
by the light of the life you led
5/25/21
cause i can’t seem to grow at all
with these two black thumbs i stand
prepare to climb the wall
backs against the ropes and im already anticipating the fall
can’t help but get going
going with the flow
can’t help never knowing
that we can’t know
so we put up no resistance
saddle up a sad existence
is all you’ve have to show
5/17/21
how many conversations can i simulate
before the voices (in my head) stay forever
codeine kicks the fever dream
but i’m not feeling any better
there’s a warm sky that lie
somewhere deep within my bones
and i think i might die
before i ever make it home
5/15/21
want to speak
to the melancholia in you
i want to speak
the darkest flavors of blue
the sleepless mornings
sleepless nights
a begging feeling for a light
i want to speak so i can see
the misery of love atrophied
the bitterest pill of blessed be
a highlight lining what you need
i want to breathe your ragged air
i want to breathe your ragged air
take the sunshine never share
your life is priceless beyond compare
but i want to speak
if only to see
a little darkness underneath
5/8/21
every drop in the bucket makes a ripple
4/16/21
Am
sweet temptation
Em
she calls me by my first name
4/13/21
needing to find the means to monetize our leisure
the way that man is measured
a man’s time is his most precious treasure
3/15/21
feeling like i’m filling time
listless and just killing my mind
actions in apathy speak for my unwillingness to climb
like each and every thing we seek
will eventually be fine
will eventually be fine
-
Why i gotta be this way
Been feeling blind to others thoughts of me
Less of a feeling and more a furtive display
taking actions to display my apathy
wondering what the watchmen see
wondering what it really means
is this another depressive episode
another tick tack beat on the metronome
ten missed calls and ya mamma left wondering when you coming home
wondering what’s it like when ya left alone
where’s the means to make amends
where’s the bridge i’ve burnt at both ends
maybe i can just pretend
maybe i can just pretend
3/5/21
each of my hours cost me days
3/3/21
the end is still forever and a day away
2/6/21
the melancholy of a forgotten dream
the broken pieces never fit back together it seems
at least not in the way that we mean
1/22/21
and i can curve my spine into an s shape
last week i ate a berry in the woods so i could see
deaths face
and sometimes i think about how we’re all staying in
this place
the same state
somebody shelter some more
the house you built see it gon’
keep you dry and safe from the storm
this sickening shame
slurred words share no blame
keep blending it together til everything
feels the same
it’s all so awfully humbling
when these walls can all come crumbling
down
then we’d be in the
same state
1/16/21
and they said i was the oldest one
born to break the records
fated to steal the sun
oh they said i was the oldest son
picture perfect
memorabilia on the wall
gloria gloria
why can’t i hear ya
as i continue this eternal fall
to slip as easily as me
to fall from grace
effortlessly
who’s to say
now that i’m not the only one
11/15/20
and i been feeling like an echo
11/15/20
and i am just a passing moment
walking through
stranger over yonder
yes that sense of sonder
i feel it too
i am just a passing moment to you
11/13/20
it’s not funny this is a nervous laughter
what comes from the work
follows after
the most recent episodes
of our disaster
this is a nervous laughter
11/10/20
what’s the use
in using
decisions made without our choosing
pinpricks gave us the solution
can’t save us from this ablution.
Said i don’t wanna feel this way
mama i’m only tryna numb the pain
1/28/20
“If you have the ability, then come.”
The sound of leather boots brushing across fallen leaves moves forward.
The clean image of the morning’s light fog is shattered.
One clean cut of the blade slices a falling leaf and the mist around it.
Feet shuffle two steps back as the split leaf flutters to the ground.
A second cut, this time a collision. The crisp clink of two honed edges turned against each other.
A step. A slide. The men dance in the wind kicking up dirt. Two yearning urgently to spill the day’s first blood. To tinge red the rising sun.
The birds have long silenced and the stillness is only broken by the beaten breathing of two who lie on the floor.
Swordsmen and traitor stricken in fighting made little more than stains upon the earth beneath the shade but still ever so far from hearth.
1/22/20
chasing fates flow
1/19/20
a dusting of snow on the shingles
lightens and whitens the roof
while the bird feeders have frozen over
grandma’s in the kitchen
where there’ll be breakfast in a moment
this quiet northern home
stands still for but a second
in the morning
1/2/20
so she said savor every second
cause each moment could be our last
although it’s not forever
we’ll keep pushing past
making sweet memories
that we won’t recall
come morning
making sweet memories
it’s a storm come without warning
it’s something we’ve been searching
for
so ever hard to find
it’s a little less than so much more
if we can bide our time
and savor every second
cause in this moment i swear
i’m dyin
1/2/20
and to all a piece
of the validation machine
we submit
12/12/19
i still feel a filter
a thickness engulfs me
i just wanna connect
but i can’t quite see
something’s been ticking
the wrong way
something been ticking
inside of me
ain’t quite say i’m sick
or dying
but there’s a weakness speaking out
inside of me
said i still feel some static
my attitude crude and dramatic
it’s a poison i’ve been seeking
it’s a poison i’ve been thinking
it’s a poison silly sinking
somewhere deep inside of me
ain’t been nothing more than
platitudes and gratitude
for the people pick me up
from the floor.
2/8/20
Maybe we were meant to toil
Under this blazing sun. Bare backs burned by the blistering heat.
Maybe we were meant to have our hands, till-deep, in the soil.
Sifting seeds between our fingers
searching out the signs of life and
planting them deep within the land.
Maybe we were meant to toil
Not for
this comfort and complacency.
Not for
this sweet space we seek.
Sheltered
from the sun and from the storm.
Maybe we were meant to toil
12/4/19
tonight
i think
i’ll lie awake and
look lovingly
at this
beautiful
vague shape
that’s sleeping next to me
cause i can’t quite
make out
your features
your facets
or your lines
cause the lights gone
and nights come
and i’m just
a little bit blind
but i know
it’s you
that’s sleeping next to me
that’s sleeping next to me
][
so tonight i
think that i’ll lie
awake and take a
second just to breathe
soak in just a moment of
your lovely vague shape
while you’re sleeping next to me
next to me
11/18/19
deep beneath
the surface
something
screams
purpose is
nothing
but a lie
how ya gonna live your life?
11/12/19
like god's little flies
we are dropping one
by one
11/11/19
last goodbye i’ll offer
youve taken every penny
every copper from my coffers
11/17/19
the most effective way to enact change is to participate in it
10/14/19
Big capital speaks louder than the cry of common man
When the dollar has been made by creating shortcuts
How much is that dollar really worth
08/?/19
your lips are stained blue
from all that you’ve been drinking
and no amount
of blood that they’ve been sinking into you
will be enough to save ya now
09/17/19
handed a glass
half full
they drank it
til it’s dry
said this is the state of the world
and not a single tear’d they cry
09/19/19
and i’m thinking about boats and
a placid lake with murky water choked by reeds
and i’ve been thinking about boats and the sound that thinking’s been making lately
for me
you see when you place one boat one ship on this inland sea see it’s all alright
right
there’s room to move or sail or go forward in any direction
and then you place another ship another boat on those calm waters
and you don’t falter not for one second
you still have space on this peaceful lake
the wind is carrying the breeze and these ships across the ride and
then you place another ship
and another ship
and another ship
and the wakes these ships create start to intersect and the waters that were peaceful feel a fearful rising tide and
then you place another ship and there’s no room to move and it’s bow to bow and scrapes along the side
but you can’t just take the ships out
where would they go
and now upon your placid lake a laden waste made manifest you start to think
and hope for that wide clear wave to ride a peaceful placid hope to hide within
again
so you start to sink the ships
the boats have aged have weathered and worn their rails have scrapes sails untethered and torn
and they go down beneath the surface and the fresher spawn have room to breathe while asleep and out of sight the old sink deep
still a piece of the lake
but left to apathy
and you have a nice pristine water to weave across with your less populated crest
and then you add another ship
and another ship
and another ship
until the bottoms ready to give in a mountain made of wreck to ruin this blessed home you’ve learned to stew in
born out of a desire
to be free
but then
when there is no more space
what then
?/?/2019
fresh blades of green burst through
the ivory horizon
foreboding the first false coming
of spring
before the frost snaps and
breaks bare any inch of color
that dare pervade
the pure still space
07/05/2019
like
placid lucidities
angry and afraid
we fail to see
all that’s been made
in our solemn search
for agency
07/02/2019
dirty jilted sister
left beside the waterfall
whiskey bourbon
turned to mist
to satisfy the masses
mend it all
accomplishments are minced
til satisfaction stalls
and all these things
we’d missed
hang like mirrors on the wall
09/03/2019
for too long we been
looking out instead of in
dancing freely to the
cadence of our sin
08/31/2019
CAUSE THATS NOT HIRING
THEY SAY DO WHAT YOU LOVE
YOULL NEVER WORK A DAY INYOURLIFE
CAUSE THATS NOT HIRING
THEY SAY DO WHAT YOU LOVE
AND YOU JUST MIGHT BE ALRIGHT
BUT THEYRE STILL NOT HIRING
THEY SAY DO WHAT YOU LOVE
DESPITE THE POVERTY LEVELS RISING
CAUSE THATS NOT HIRING
WERE ALL WASTING AWAY WALLOWING IN WEALTH
WHILE THE PEOPLE EXPIRING
BUT THATS STILL NOT HIRING
They say do what you love
and youll never work a day in your life
06/18/19
more like
broken glass
under apathetic feet
05/29/19
There’s a difference
Between Control and Concern
And i’m not quite sure
You’ve learned how to discern
it just yet.
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