#and im an adult rn and i also dunk on my art
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bowtiestash · 2 days ago
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i really find it interestin that you can kinda clock an artist's age based on how self-deprecatin they are lol
#its the uh. 'OMG THIS SUCKS SO BAD!!! SAWRRY' attitude#which is like. yeah. i get it#and im an adult rn and i also dunk on my art#but i feel like the way an adult dunks on their art vs how a teen does it is. noticeable#adults usually are like 'eh. this kinda sucks but w/e' (at least i am in this camp)#teens are just way more mean to themselves and dont shut up about how much their art 'sucks'#i was there before so i understand#but i think. ppl need to realize. when theyre overly self-deprecatin and put themselves down a lot it becomes annoying#which i know is very harsh of me to say#i used to be there so i know that feelin of insecurity but MAN#once you mature more you realize that expressing yourself in such a way is kinda cringe!#PLEASE just practice being kind to yourself#i think the cringe comes from the fact that no one really likes to see that stuff#if you need comfort or anything please talk it out with someone but like.#being VERY terrible publicly to yourself just makes a lot of people uncomfortable#keep in mind. if you post it online a bunch of strangers will be seein you moan about how 'bad' you are#and guess what! they dont know you! and they wont care!#it can start with 'i dont like how it turned out but at least its done'#what matters if that you enjoy yourself#if you start being terrible to yourself about your hobby that you should be enjoying then remind yourself youre there to have fun#skypeaks#also i will add. self-deprecation will also not help you in the long run. i would know from experience#cause rather than being productive with your self-deprecation you stick to 'i just suck!!!'#rather than like 'okay. im bad at this. but what can i do to better myself??'#i say from experience. this attitude CAN affect your relationships. not in a good way#so practice bein nice to yourself. truly.#you dont even need to be NICE just be neutral#start there. start with 'im okay at this'
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armourheld · 7 years ago
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SHIPPING INFO.                              Answer the following for your muse(s) so people                              know how shipping works on your blog.
REPOST.                 Don’t reblog.
WHAT’S YOUR OTP FOR YOUR MUSE?:   I like to imagine that’s a pretty obvious answer but I’ll just state it here. Reibert is ultimately my OTP for Reiner; quite possibly followed be Reiner/Marcel.  However, I’m open to most ships on the SNK fandom; even though I find it’s much better / easier to ship with males due to the fact that Reiner is canonly gay - which they continue to hint in shows like a Spoof On Titan. 
WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO RP WHEN IT COMES TO SHIPPING?:   WOAHHH OKAY HERE’S A LIST. So I’m really... REALLY down for platonic relationships; like I’d sell my soul for some sort of bond between Reiner & Annie due to the time they spent together; even though I believe it’s probably an unusual bond due to the way Reiner dissociates && lots of other factors to be fair. I am also a big fan of Hateshipping ! As Reiner is the main villain in the whole of this; there’s obviously people who will hate him but love him at the same time. I do like just normal rels though, they’re the sweetest. But I need CHEMISTRY or OOC discussion or nothing. :’ )
HOW LARGE DOES THE AGE GAP HAVE TO BE TO MAKE IT UNCOMFORTABLE?: 10+ ?? idk it really intimidates me to ship with an adult when someone is a teenager / young. I just am not comfortable with it && I hope people can understand that ?? Sure some ships may seem cool to some people, but not for me. It’s borderline gross. Any age thing with someone underage is also not cool, man. I’m not into that LMAO.
ARE YOU SELECTIVE WHEN SHIPPING?:   Yes && No? Reiner I think is really hard to fall in love with; because you’ll only be falling in love with one side of him most likely if you’re a member of the 104th. I think with ships I support I’m more comfortable, but ships that aren’t really on my radar it takes me time to get into. As long as Reiner and your muse have that... romantic bond that y’all want, I’m so down for it. Otherwise we may have to take our time, unfortunately :’)
HOW FAR DO STEAMY MOMENTS HAVE TO GO BEFORE THEY’RE CONSIDERED NS/FW?: Good Question! I think that is when you go out through the border of intense make out to lips and / or hands going down below. I personally am not ready to go that far with anyone yet, so please forgive me. Nudity && all of that I consider to be nsfw, but normally it’s just anything that seems to be something I’d rather not be seeing kids progressing into. 
WHO ARE OTHER MUSES YOU SHIP YOUR MUSE WITH?: OHOH I LIKE THIS. Bertolt. I haven’t explored it with a partner in general I will post Reibert like no tomorrow if I could... I’m just trying to keep people from being bored of my blog or thinking I’m too bias / one sided. MARCEL is also my favourite because i think they could have gotten somewhere if he had survived ?? i wish there was more art to it :(  Part of me also wants to explore things with muses such as Christa/Historia. But that probably wouldn’t go too far as it’s more a soldier/warrior thing. Personally ? There are a few more secret things I ship, but those three are possibly the main I haven’t explored too much & want to do more. 
DOES ONE HAVE TO ASK TO SHIP WITH YOU?:   PLEASE DO. I don’t like having ships sprung upon me it’s just kind of... awkward ? Some muses naturally go hand & hand walking down the sunset but some others can really struggle to do the same. I’ve had bad experiences in the shipping department with certain types of characters / muns & I don’t want to get into that issue once more. 
HOW OFTEN DO YOU LIKE TO SHIP?:   ??? ehhh depends on the mood ! rn im in a really shippy mood ??? so yE HMU WITH THAT GOOD SHIPPING !!!!!! Otherwise it can be really weird, like some things im in the mood for ? but i can go months without showing interest when DUDE I AM INTERESTED. 
ARE YOU MULTISHIP?: Definitely. I don’t think I could do anything else ngl. There’s just too many countless possibilities to explore & I want to make sure i do as much as possible. However, if you are more comfortable with single ship, just let me know ! Together we can make a formal decision, whatever the costs. Ship exclusivity is an option as well !!
ARE YOU SHIP OBSESSED OR SHIP MORE-OR-LESS?:
??? tbh not really ? Like i know I post shit of my otp a lot, but i really value threads wherein characters explore any type of relationships. I want more threads with Reiner where someone calls him out on his bullshit / threads where we fight etc. But then I also want some good lowkey romance stuff... so U KNOW. It’s the same with Jean, I want fights, I wANNA PUNCH EREN AND THEN MAYB SMOOCH HIM IF I FEEL LIKE IT.
WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE SHIP IN YOUR CURRENT FANDOM?:   Jeanmarco sorry not sorry.
FINALLY, HOW DOES ONE SHIP WITH YOU?: You get in my inbox, slam dunk messages & proceed to tell me ur interested in shipping & can we please. Then tbh 9/10 times I’m going to say yes so ?????? love me bc i want to ship with most of u guys k & thank u !
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