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We'd fall from grace, we're falling
#i needed this in my blog for reasons ok#and i'm sure you will understand#being real honest here. watching the premier at this point i was crying but i could only think:#i want to lick his arms so bad#and ik that's tmi for some of you but it is what it is#ash#op#a. gifs#the 5sos show tour#arm#tw flashing
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Blackthorn eye color
I just realized Jesse Blackthorn has green eyes, Lucie Herondale has blue eyes, and then the other generations of Blackthorns that follow them, have blue - green eyes. I find it soo cute and nice for some reason 💖
#shadowhunters#ik this is random lol#julian blackthorn#lucie herondale#jesse blackthorn#tsc#books and reading#books#the dark artifices#original post#emma carstairs#tmi gang#lord of shadows#opinion#what do you think?#does this even make sense#ignore some of the random tags#meme humor#memesdaily#lol memes
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Five things you desperately want to happen in TWP?
just five?!??? okay let's fucking go buckle up, buddy
kit and ty's first kiss to be angsty and passionate af (and i need ty to be the initiator so freaking badly u don't understand) - also their love declaration to be freaking mind-blowing !
dru and ash to be an absolute power couple. like i need them fucking some demons up like proper badasses individually and then getting together and giving us that awesome enemies-to-lovers plot we're all waiting for ugh
i want lucifer to be fucking t e r r i f y i n g (like shitting myself when he comes up type vibes) <- but i also want him to be a bit of a crackhead who occasionally cracks jokes bc that would be hilarious and i love me a funny villain
thule!kit to pop up at some point! i'm so interested in where he's at - like is he even alive? and if he is, is he good? or evil? is he living with thule!johnny? and maybe thule!rosemary is alive? and what would that mean for him? there are just so many possibilities, i simply need him to make an appearance (but istg if he like sacrifices himself or something i will CRY :'()
NO TMI GANG DEATHS -> ik cassie has been messing with us recently but just nope nope nope. the series is gonna end with a clace wedding and everyone comes out unharmed tyvm <3
aaaaand [rest]
#can u tell i think about this series a LOT???#i'm sure it's not that obvious right#*chuckles at my own clownery*#yes i have issues#and yes i have even more theories and predictions and i am not ashamed of it!!!!!!!#i just really want this series.#<333#thank u for the ask this was fun to write hehe :)#kit herondale#ty blackthorn#kit x ty#kitty#dru blackthorn#ash morgenstern#dru x ash#morgenthorn#the wicked powers#twp#tsc#asks
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if its not too tmi, the guide to making your girl cum might still be useful 😭 my gf and i are both in our first relationship and any help would be welcome
i have so many asks fdjslk?? abt this. like no bullshit at all maybe fifteen. but sure 👍🏾 note i am no sex expert or really anyone u should listen to but you know. i get okay reviews
first things first - the most important thing is learning to communicate with your partner. ik u have heard that many times but every body is different and if you can take instructions well, making someone cum is much easier. like. people say it all the time for good reason but just focus on listening more than anything else
also im using woman / she + her but this advice applies to any afab people who are not currently talking T👍🏾 testosterone changes some stuff so i'd give diff advice on some parts abt touching n stuff
learning how to take an apply what ur told is truly like 99% of the game
for women in particularly - u should probably carve out a chunk of time. most women need at least 15 minutes if it's with a partner (often more) and if it's your first time tg it's good to take each other apart and get comfortable
also somewhat obvious but you absolutely cannot forgo foreplay. truly cannot be overstated but u can't. lol
if share the same parts, u are already at somewhat of an advantage as you have some ideas on where to touch etc. neck and chest are always safe bets, and so is inner thigh etc. deep kissing is always also a safe bet. don't overthink it too much, just do your best to communicate both appreciation and attraction
foreplay also starts before getting naked being genuine. undressing someone or showing sensual affection is your friend. ik this sounds corny but its very genuine advice lol
a lot of foreplay is both to build arousal but also getting someone out of their head. a lot of women in particular tend to get really hung up on various aspects of the process. if you can effectively get them out of that mindspace, you're already on your own way
sometimes dirty talk is good and dirty talk does not need to be crass - making sensual small talk can go a long way. praising how she looks or feels, showing your enthusiasm by telling you're looking forward to making her feel good.
thank you is also always safe in that process. thank you for letting me touch you, thank you for trusting me to make you feel good etc. and if you're not feeling confident - it does the same job as something more dirty lol
here is some more specific stuff 👍🏾
a lot of getting 2 know someone sexually is figuring out various sensitivities and pressure. generally speaking, women tend to lean one way or the other when it comes to pressure on different areas of the body for foreplay.
(usually of course, there is some mix of both - but at least in my experience there is more general lean one way vs another)
some people prefer softer touches and caressing and some people prefer more deep pressure and groping. always start on on the soft end and move towards the other slowly.
YOU WILL WANT TO LEARN INDIRECT VS DIRECT PLEASURE. ON YOUR PARTNER AND WHAT THEY PREFER !!!
some parts of a womans body are too sensitive to be touched directly, and they may highly prefer indirect contact as their choice of pleasure. if a womans clit is too sensitive, you might want to stimulate the area just around or underneath instead of directly touching their clit. use their clitoral hood as a buffer essentially.
the clit itself firms up but it's an entire area inside of your body. and what's exposed is just one nerve. its why touching or rubbing the sides can still make effective foreplay because internally the clit has a whole body etc
the hardest part about clitoral stimulation is reading reactions. but the clit will respond to pleasure physically most of the time. try things deliberately, and time your tongue or fingers in a way that lets you gauge their reaction
if someone is feeling good - you'll usually get a very faint throb. you have to look for it to notice it sometimes, but the intensity of that throbbing is what will tell you. clits are similar to dicks in that way
same thing goes for nipples usually. plenty of people like it being touched or sucked directly (again it is all abt sensitivity and pressure) - but it's common for the area to be too sensitive.
touching around, through / over the fabric of their top (this works better with non-silky materials / stuff with no slip), and underneath can also do the job. if the nipples are sensitive to the point of being unpleasurable - the swell underneath the boobs is often a good place to show affection. u can try running your fingers underneath to cup and squeeze instead. or just
the no slip thing is because rougher fabric give nice friction. being touched through cotton feels different from silk. its more hit or miss in my experience
im going to break down the advice about actual fucking into three parts so bear with me .
the most important thing for ALL of this is fucking consistency. listen to me im being so serious. when you hit a rhythm do not stop. ESPECIALLY if she tells you not too.
oral: this one is tricky because there's truly not a universally good way of eating pussy. it's like... four of the above skills wrapped in one skill. so even if i wanted to school you in i don't think i could lol
my best advice is to remember the above about pressure and sensitive and start slow. stimulate the surrounding areas with your tongue, do a lot of teasing. if she's too embarrassed to tell you things verbally, this will usually push her to showing you at least. if she bucks up against you that's a good sign to give a little more pressure.
building pressure is important here. she will feel pretty much every part of your tongue, so make sure you are careful and listen to what she says or does. when you find the rhythm to lick, it's normally safe to suck on her clit (from light pressure to deeper pressure like before)
you will know when you're hitting the right everything because it will start to pulse in your mouth and she will squirm more. when you're there, stay there and don't move unless you're going to die. learn to breathe through your nose lol
FOR PENETRATION THERE IS TWO THINGS. and most time you will still want to pair with clit stimulation but rmb 2 ask.
fingering: the vagina is one of those things that is very hit or miss. with fingering in particular. for most women, it feels better to have another person do it. and it's best combined with clitoral stimulation so it can often be a two-handed affair or used as a sidepiece to oral.
the most pleasure will be felt around the actual opening and against the gspot. the opening has a lot more sensitive which is why the thrusting motion feels good. the g-spot can also feel good, but keep in mind that a gspot orgasm is internal and can feel especially intense. so just be prepared for what reaction you might get and maybe getting pee-d on. or squirted on. or both.
finding the g-spot isn't complicated, it will feel a little textured and have a little more give. with enough arousal it will also be swollen and easier to find.. you will hear a lot about the come hither motion, but what you're actually doing is rubbing along the upper walls.
again, everyone is different but honestly - i've had good luck combining a thrusting motion with the rubbing motion. use your wrist to move so you don't get tired. you can pick what fingers to use but middle and pointer is go to, so you can angle your palm against their clit (in the instance you are just using your hands).
FOR SEX TOY PENETRATION:
dildos: if i tried to explain how the strap works we would simply be here all day, so i will be talking about the dildo as a separate appendage used with your hands and not as part of a strap-on. strap sex is too much of a science lmao
almost all of the time - using a dildo is trying to create the same stimulation as above with gspot pressure, but that's not the only way. there are several angles and those angles hit different things, so it's worth experimenting with this. but for internal orgasm and using dildos - you want to understand comfort and friction.
lube is your friend, but too much slip can make it feel like nothing so build up the lube slowly. some resistance can feel pleasurable and is often ideal. with dildo, you also want to keep in mind the rigidity and maybe buy a toy together. a dildo can be too hard or too soft depending on what it's made with
internal orgasms rely a lot on muscle tension and angling, as well as pace. everyone is different and there is once again no universal way but your best bet is a rhythmic, pushing up motion. if you're using a dildo on your partner, i recommend put a pillow underneath their spine for easier angling.
LAST BUT NOT LEAST, REMEMBER ALL ORGASMS ARE TENSION RELEASE.
you need to build tension to release it and keep tension to cum. the need for steadiness and rhythm comes from that. if you're wanting to make someone orgasm, some physical tension can really help - so asking your partner to grab your hair and hold onto your wrist can be helpful. giving their muscles something to flex and hold can redirect focus and help with intimacy so let her pull your hair or dig her nails in your back or grab your wrist. it will actually get u closer to the orgasm
remember most of all though to have fun and feel good together. sex isn't a performance, it's a mutual act of pleasure. too much pressure will kill your boner. good luck 🫡
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didi i am thats college anon i think you need tobtell your beauty secret or they mantra and tantra you are doing you are just attracting Venusian man like 🧲🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️ how... the half of eorld is mad for you spell the secrete didi ( i am tsking notes ) hehe 😈😈😈😈
I've been chanting mantras for years 😭😭😭so that definitely could be why. I worship one tantric Goddess who I feel deeply connected to and then I worship another non-tantric Goddess. I firmly believe we should worship who calls to us??? Like I felt called by her to worship her. SHE chose me.
Ngl my whole life, I've had guys go crazy for me 😌 and imo I wasn't as pretty then (as a teenager) as I am now as a 24yr old woman but over the years I've attracted men who would literally do anything for me 😭 and I'm pretty sure I mention the "he's been asking me out for a year, the other guy's been obsessed with me for 5years etc" but that's the thing, no one who's ever wanted me stops wanting me and I literally don't have to do anything. I don't talk to them. I don't go out with them. I give them absolutely nothing in return but now I realise that all these men are most likely Venusians bc nobody else will love you like that.
I've had all kinds of encounters with men and many have been unpleasant so it's not like every man I see is a lovesick Venusian who worships me or anything but yeah I am a magnet for Venusian men 😭😭😭
I've also been practicing tantra yoga for years now and I think my sexual energy is very well developed 😌and potent 😳
People who say things like "I attract the wrong kind of attention bc I'm sexy" are lowkey deluding themselves ngl, I'm not saying you'll never meet creeps (that's not something you can control) but well cultivated sexual energy (qi as the Chinese call it) makes people respect you and worship you. It's very powerful. There's a reason why ancient Indian temples have sexual iconography, it's because sexual energy is so potent 🤌
I've never deliberately tried to seduce men tbh. I won't lie, I've cultivated a certain amount of physical magnetism 😳 but I feel like the less I care or the less "bhaav" (attention) I give them, the more they want me. I don't do it on purpose. I'm just not someone who can text and call someone frequently, I really need my alone time and I HATEEEE talking about myself (ik I talk about myself a lot on this blog but if you pay attention you'll know how little I actually share) I hate being asked questions about my life 😭 even irl 😭 and I genuinely dislike the whole "getting to know someone" stage 😭 I feel drained sharing my inner world with others??? Irl I don't speak much 😭to most people and I prefer the company of those I can be comfortably silent with 😭 like I make small talk with many people and THEY share their deepest darkest secrets with me and I occasionally say TMI shit like I do on my blog but in general very few people could name 5 things about me lmao 💀 I think me being very private has made me more "mysterious" and "intriguing" (that's what I hear from people) and it increases the desire that one feels. The more hard to reach somebody is, the more you want them etc 👀
So the key is probably not being constantly available, not really caring about them, minding your own business, maintaining yourself and being conventionally feminine 🤌🤌🤌🤠
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Intro!
Koi Lovejoy
||ROLE-PLAY OC BLOG||
„Hello? Is this thing on? Oh! Hi there, the names Koi. Um… some things about me? Okay!”
Age:16
Camp: My dads live in New Rome but I prefer Camp Half-Blood!
Parents: Complicated. I’m technically an Aphrodite kid and an Apollo kid. 1/4 each, the rest is mortal. My ‘pa is trans so with a bit of mortal science- boom! Here I am
Sign: I’m a Sagittarius ♐️ :D (Borthday is November 27th)
Gender/Sexuality: I’m trans and I’m pan! I am also open to polyamory, but I’d like to stay just me and Oakley for a bit :)
Pronouns: He/They
Relationships: Friends with most of Apollo cabin (+ Nico), and Piper is like a sister to me. Leo is another close friend of mine! Occupation:TAKEN!!!! I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND OAKLEY SMMMM
more under cut :)
Facts!
I have heterachromia! 💛🩵 I play Acoustic guitar and trumpet 🎺 🎸 my favorite color is a light pink and my favorite animal is actually a Beta fish, not a Koi, but they are cool too…
I uhhhh may or may not have matchin collars with Oakley- as a joke bc of my cat form-
I'm never taking it off and um nvm continuing this would be considered tmi <3
People with bracelets (friends, siblings, and loved ones)👇👇
Oakley!! 🍂<3 - @everyones-fav-mailboy
Bill!🌬️- @bill-son-of-boreas
Em! ☀️- @emdabitchass
Leora!! 🌸- @therosesonofaphrodite
Ramona flowers!!!- @witch-trial-survivor
Jack!! 🔥🕯️- @demigod-jack-hearth
Aurelia! 🦋- @southerndaughterofeos
Mirai!!💀 - @cabin13gal
Kayla! ✨☀️- @apollos-favorite-child
Matteo child of Aeolus and Circe AND Elio son of Apollo (my sons <3) ☁️⭐️- @yourlocalfallenstar
Youngest, Josiah, Middle, Eve, and Oldest Mariner!🩵- @the-matryoshka-dolls
Aiden! I believe he has siblings but I haven’t met them✨- @the-smart-and-the-dumb-one
Zander! 🍇- @the-king-zander
Attempting to be friends with:
(OOC👇👇)
I’ll rp with anyone in my ask box, but to claim a specific role, feel free to ask! PLEASE feel free to add me to any Magic!Anon things that require other people. I love them.
All fake instagram posts are cannon, but do not happen in any specific time frame unless specified by me, the mod!
As usual, if you don’t want to be tagged, just send me an ask and I can remove you!
All of my borders/blinkies/dividers come from these people! @cafekitsune
@thecutestgrotto
(END OOC)
Possible face claims: (to get an idea for what he looks like. Haven’t found an exact one yet.)
(Credit: sleepylittledude on Pinterest)
(cat form, gift from adoptive father [I have three dads? Getting kinda gay here], Jack Hearth <3)
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I've never written an ask for any author on this app so this is a first for me (and I'm really shy and the anon option is off so it's a bit 🥹) but I really need to voice my thoughts and feelings
I just binge-read bbydaddy and I'm still sobbing so hard rn you have no idea. It's 4am rn and I have to wake up at 7 but I literally cannot stop crying. Adding to this, I did not reblog every chapter bc I didn't want to spam (don't know if I should have☹️) but I absolutely loved every single one. I did reblog jk's birthday bc it was the breaking point for me lol. After reading chapter 17 I thought that was it bc 18 was not showing on the masterlist yet so I read the next thing
When jk wishes for time as he blows the candles I immediately thought about the ending of chapter 16. Him blaming time in chapter 16... the thing he wished for... oh god I'm still crying as I write this. The fact that the thing he wished for was the thing he ended up blaming for what happened between them... heartbreaking
The way you treated the theme of time touched a very sensitive part of my poor little heart. I can relate sooo much to jk and every word that was written after his wish was just adding tears to my eyes bc I felt him so much. It's so hard to grasp the concept of time but the way you described how jk felt and thought about it was just beautiful. And then the rolex as a gift and her words promising him forever and and and 😭😭😭 honestly the best work and the best writing style I've ever seen on this app and I'm not exaggerating at all. I mean, I'm even writing this and I swear I'm so shy I have never written an ask 🥹🥹😭but you are so good I just had to
Also, jk as a dad ☹️❤️🩹 but jk as zion's dad ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹☹️☹️☹️🥹🥹 must be one of my favourite portrayals of him. I also loved her so so much, both of their characters felt so real and human, their traits and even more their flaws. You really brought them to life in such a unique and heart-wrenching way. I loved how they still loved each other through their ups and downs.
The smut as well was so intimate at times I was just thinking about a tweet I've seen on here saying something like how some authors are able to write sex scenes so full of lov, and you are one of them. I love love love when writers write smut in a way that you are able to see and feel how in love the characters are
I also stalked your page a little and I might binge read something else (not rn bc it's 5am lol this took so much time to write) bc everything looks great! Adding to this, I wanted to ask if it's okay to reblog everything as I read or if you would prefer not to spam your works
Sorry for the long rant and possible mistakes, I feel all over the place rn and I think this too is all over the place. I just needed to tell you how amazed I am by your writing skills and how much I loved bbydaddy, even more bc it turned into something so mind-blowing from such a small thing. I will be waiting for the last chapters ❤️🫶
my love,, u are my entire heart
ik it’s kind of an angsty story ,, but why did u cry so much bebe 😭 and u lost sleep ?!? PLEASE !!!!
i really appreciate the way u’ve expressed ur love for the time theme i gave them 😖 i think i’ve answered it in an ask before but i think a rlly great way to describe their love (at the moment) is; timeless but untimely
dilf jk 🤝 jk as zion’s dad … “must be one of my favourite protrayals of him / u really brought them to life in such a unique and heart-wrenching way” ,,, wow. thank u so much !!!
“honestly the best work and the best writing style” is a crazy thing to say 🧘🏻♀️ i’m so flattered and humbled with ur words and the amount of courage u gathered to send such kind and thoughtful feedback to me ,, there are not enough words for me thank u with 💛
oh and my favourite compliment … “some authors are able to write sex scenes so full of love, and u are one of them” .;.:.’-@-“/&:!. AAAAAAAHHHH ?!? this is insane. (tmi) i’m literally untouched and write smut out of pure delusion …. this means so much to me u have no idea how intense/funny/happy ur words made me !!!
thank u for all of this,, seriously. ur words and thots have given me so much joy and reassurance. i’m glad my work is able to reach and touch hearts like urs ✨
please reblog and send in as many thots as u want !! i love seeing how active and invested readers get and i’d love to hear more from u specially 🫶🏻
all the love,
kimi
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SO i’m not trying to be tmi but I’m ALSO not immune to having smt with a tumblr mutual and i need some advice 😳 😔
first off lemme tell you this girl is the girl of my dreams!! didn’t really have a girl of my dreams until her tbh!!! and i feel some serious REAL shit for her….except we’re not together (distance etc)
and even tho i know she feels the same she like…can’t accommodate a relationship (and tbf neither can i lbr)…and idk if its healthy to be acting like we can be endgame or longterm or whatever when we definitely can’t be?? AND its not like an unhealthy situation we’ve got going and we’ve deffo talked about it a couple of times but i need a third pov to tell me if its fair of us to pretend we’re not going to be heartbroken over each other or like….if we should let it be and ride it out and worry about saying goodbye when we say goodbye??
she’s my girl ya know but she’s not actually mine and ik you and your girl aren’t together for ~~reasons but you’re still together so like…help pls
Honestly this is such a personal thing. Like, what might work for you won't work for me type of thing🤔
But also, I'll say, I don't regret any of my experiences as I feel they've made me who I am today. And the fact that I feel you KNOW deep down if it's worth the time/risk of time that you'll put into it
Like is it just unrealistic? Or is it Impossible? Because these are very different, and I'm a big proponent of shooting your shot when you can and living with no regrets
#i have no idea if this helped as this whole situation is so subjective#but i hope it works out for you in one way or another#anon#anonymous#answered
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so cait ik i’ve never sent in an ask but i have been watching and this seems like a safe space so i kinda need to freak for a second
me and this guy have been kinda hooking up kinda not and a few days ago i told him i had feelings and he freaked out and then today he came over to like apologize and we talked things out and it ended in us hooking up again and i’m sorry if this is super tmi but like we usually get pretty rough if you know what i mean and like 30 minutes ago we finished and i got up to go pee and stuff and wipe off and when i came back he was just gone… which is like whatever! except that we were maybe a lot rough tonight and i’m feeling vulnerable now and no aftercare usually messes me up and i can just feel myself slipping into a self hating kinda mindset (not liek i’m a harm to myself just sad yk) and i don’t know if i should call him and ask him to come back or call a friend or whta but i’m about to start crying and also i’ve just decided i’m gonna go by 🥥
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welcome coconut anon <3 i’m glad you feel safe here, im so sorry i’m a little late, i was eating dinner and just saw this, i hope you’re okay <3
pls lmk how you are doing its been an hour, did you call him or a friend? eat smth and drink some water if you haven’t, maybe take a bath or shower if you have energy. ily and you deserve sm better than someone who leaves u while ur having a pee
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I really like this guy but he has a gf… he doesn’t know that I know (a friend of mine told me) And for the longest time I thought he liked me back? He was constantly flirty, touchy, and making sexual jokes/advances at me, and he still does…. This is obviously not the type of guy I would want to be with since he’s messing around with another girl behind his gf’s back but I guess I’m asking is how do I find the strength to not fold 😬 because I reaaallllyyyyy like him and it genuinely hurts because I truly thought he was “it” and I can’t avoid him because I see him everyday and he’s friends with my friends. But anytime I’m around him my brain goes stupid and I fall back into the same pattern of messing around with him… And this may be a bit tmi but we’ve never had sex but have done everything else… then almost 4 days ago I was told he has a gf so I tried distancing myself from him but it was so hard then today I fucked up and ended my night with my hands down his pants while he drove me home. And he ate me out after and I feel like such a terrible person bc I NOW KNOW HE HAS A GF. I NEVER ASKED HIM IF HE WAS SINGLE SO HES TECHNICALLY NOT LYING TO ME BUT HE IS STILL CHEATING AND IK THAT SHOULD GIVE ME THE ICK AND LEAVE HIM CAUSE THATS TRASHY BEHAVIOR BUT I CANT 😭😭. So please spread some of your honest feedback and wisdom on how to leave this man alone
Oh my!! Well, I will say that this is something all easier said than done. You know the right thing to do but hormones and your growing attachment make it hard.
But as hard as it is you still need to learn to communicate with this guy. This will be important for you as you get older as well. Communication with your sexual partner (no matter how casual it is) will be absolutely so important to you in the future just as it is now.
I know it feels uncomfortable to speak up and say to him that you heard he has a girlfriend, but that really should be your first step. Just say you heard he has a girlfriend and if he tries to lie to you about it then assess how his lying to you makes you feel. If he's straightforward then you have a decision to make- if you want to continue your relationship with him or not.
Also, I just want to mention that a lie by omission is still deception. You don't want to be messing with someone who's not worried about misleading and manipulating you this way.
I can't tell you what to do here because you already know what would be the best course of action for yourself. You tried distancing yourself but I think talking to him would be much better since just ignoring it won't work.
Years ago I dated a man who was in a serious relationship but I had no idea until later. He hid it from me well. But unfortunately, we did have sex. Now, when I found out about it we were already no longer talking - he basically ghosted me out of the blue one day and I learned (from a friend of mine who worked with him) it was because he was feeling guilty for cheating on his girlfriend with me. I wish I'd had the opportunity to confront him with the question about his girlfriend.
But you do have this opportunity. What you do with the information he gives you once you do talk (if you do) is up to you. Do you know his girlfriend? You didn't say if you did or not. I guess it could make your situation even easier to ignore if you don't know her.
But in the end - you need to do what you know will make you feel good about yourself. We all make mistakes but sometimes doing something that honors your sense of what you think is right is the best route to go.
Good luck, babe! Go talk to him. Start there.
xoxo
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Hey mocha babyy! so i gotta question boo. I wanna go out and get something to eat but I want something that I can go back and finish eating. Should I get some chipotle, pizza or something? what do you recommend? TMI I'm just getting off my cycle so whenever I crave something its usually everything or one specific food but rn I'm just hungry for something crunchy or juicy. helpppp :(
i’m a pizza whore so ima say pizza bc it’s filling and you can go back for more! and ik exactly how you feel. my period is coming to im craving every food in the book. shit get pizza AND chipotle lmao.
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dysphoric lesbian anon here... i guess i just don't relate to being a woman who loves women? i no longer want to be a man who loves women though, it's more that the way my IRL lesbian friends talk about romance and sexuality makes me awfully dysphoric. i don't like thinking about having my chest or junk touched, i don't like this implication that i must be open to those sorts of sex acts. I'm not even that much into romance or sex myself, i suppose that plays a role. maybe it's because I'm on the spectrum so i find it hard to relate to or be comfortable with the way most people describe as romance and sex. i just feel pressured to be "normal" so to speak. it also doesn't help that said lesbian friends are weird about consent, they judged me when i told them that i would ask what people want to do or what they're okay with during sex. they think it should just happen naturally and boundaries shouldn't be discussed a lot, essentially...? so yeah when nondysphoric lesbians talk about women they want to be versus women they find attractive... that also doesn't resonate with me because there's no regular woman I'd like to be or have a similar body to. i can relate to some stone butches, especially the dysphoric ones (I'm not butch though). this is TMI/nsfw but if i have sex, i want to refer to my junk or strap as a d*ck or something similar, and some lesbians find that to be weird even though it's a same sex relationship still... sorry if this is all over the place!
wouldnt not wanting your body parts touched sexually like that make you similar to some types of lesbians tho? touch-me-nots & stone butches both feel similarly from what ive seen.
they judged me when i told them that i would ask what people want to do or what they're okay with during sex. they think it should just happen naturally and boundaries shouldn't be discussed a lot, essentially...?
i think that specifically your friends here tbh bc like ive basically had such discussions with nearly every woman ive been with. its definitely not unusual in my eyes. many of my lesbian friends describe similar things as well
this is TMI/nsfw but if i have sex, i want to refer to my junk or strap as a d*ck or something similar, and some lesbians find that to be weird even though it's a same sex relationship still
yeah ik a lot of dysphoric lesbians feel similarly there... personally its off-putting for me but i also can understand why many dysphoric lesbians do that.
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okay this is maybe a weird question or a tmi one but.. how do you like. move when you as a woman have sex with a man and you're underneath him? do you just move your hips up to meet his thrusts? i just started fantasising about a first time with aleksi (because who else, I'm but a humble aleksi simp) and got stuck on that detail lol
anyway please accept my fantasy as payment for asking weird anon questions 😂
I wanna ask aleksi to be my first and he agrees, slowly undressing each other (except for my bra because I hate having boobs and definitely don't want them to jiggle about freely during my first time when i'm already nervous and wanna keep it on so he just kisses the parts of my boobs that are not covered by it and tells me of course that's fine), him laying me down on the bed, making out some more, him asking if he can finger me but honestly i just wanna move along, so he grabs the lube and a condom, covers himself in lube more than was probably necessary, puts some on me too before hovering closely above me and gently pushing himself in, making sure i'm comfortable and he's not hurting me (if my body's made for that, ik we had different convos on here too about that), and him laying above me as close as possible, maybe just laying down on me compeltely (is that possible? can he still move properly then?), burying his face in my neck, so he pushes the vibrator on my clit down so that it stays there (I wanted to use one too because I need it to come and definitely wanna come during my first time, establish a good base for the future and all you know) and I can sling an arm around his back and one around his shoulders and into his hair, softly moaning into his ears, telling him he feels good inside me - and here's the part I got stuck on: if he's practically already lying on me fully, can I still move my hips up to meet him halfway or do I more just.. lay there and let him move himself inside me while touching him with my hands and moaning his name and how good he feels? and when he's done he fingers me a bit while i hold the vibrator, helping me come, even if it's a very soft orgasm, and then i wanna pull him down to lie on me again and sling my arms around him and quietly telling him thank you for making my first time so gentle and soft and nice, giving me a good memory of what sex should be like and good expectations for the future (either with him if we're dating or fwb or for someone else if i just asked him as a friend for whatever reason). also falling asleep with him laying on me and grumbling when he says we should put on underwear at least, wouldn't want me to accidentally get pregnant if he gets a boner at night and some cum gets on me or something, he's a smart man luckily lol. also a few more kisses before falling asleep and him asking me how I am feeling in the morning, am I still okay with what we did (hell yeah I am). maybe him telling me he'd be happy to show me other nice ways to have good comfortable sex in the future if i want to.
yeah i'm in my first time feels again aren't i
first times are THE BEST ive been fantasizing about them since forever, mine was years and years ago and still it's one of my favorite fantasies to this day... especially with ale, he looks like he'd be a wonderful first time 🥺 so i especially love this daydream of yours 🥰 he's so thoughtful and kind 🥺
you can't move if it's missionary and you're lying on your back while he's on top of you. also you can't get pregnant if some cum ends up on you!! you can only get pregnant if he comes INSIDE you which can't happen if he's asleep 😌
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when wife knows it’s you from a mile away and u forgot ur emoji bc u sent in an ask while sleep deprived but u still wanted to chat w wife…… 😞🫶💞 we may be soulmates I fear!!! 🫵😻 (delusional) my week has been going amazing bc of you but at the same time I keep coming back to ur beetlejuice fic bc the part where… wh-where Gojo taps his lightstick on readers cheek… 😞😞😞😞😞😞😞 to assert dominance like… damn……. like that’s hot and bothersome……. sorry I am being freaky 🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️ I swear im demure !!! wanted to out myself off anon one day but I fear I cannot now bc of the freak I have in me… like who gonna match my freak 😿😿😿 that aside, im very excited for the upcoming gumi and yuta fics omgmggmgmmgm IK YOU WILL COOK LIKE ALWAYS MY LOVE 😭💞💞 may I ask for some crumbs of each fic pls 😿🫶 need smt to satiate myself for my sanity bc I get giggly kicking my feet every time I read ur fics and ur replies to me 😿💞💞💞 I HOPE YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL REST OF UR WEEK NICKUMS AND PLEASE STAY HYDRATED, EVEN JUICE WORKS (is that why ur fics always juicy 💦💦💦mmmmmmmmmm) 😻😻😻
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BAAAAAAHAHAHAHHA OFC I KNEW IT WAS YOU AND THERE IS NO DELUSION I THOUGHT WHAT WE HAD WAS REAL ??? 🤨🤨 so now you’re breaking up with me?? 🤨🤨 gumi’s not gonna like this ….
NOOOO BECAUSE TELL ME WHY I BIT THE SIDE OF MY CELLULAR DEVICE WRITING THAT PARTTTT AND LMFOAOAOA HIS FUCKING LIGHTSTICK UR SO FUNNY 😭😭😭😭
satoru tapping his bop it twist it pull it against readers cheek is my all time favorite freak of freaks i crumble completely and tmi but my man did it to me once and i almost got sent to the ER 😻😻😻 BUT ONLY ONCE LIKE OKAY THANKS DO I HAVE TO PAY A SUBSCRIPTION FOR THE NEXT TIME DAFUQ????
NOOOOO MY LITTLE BABY BLUE BOWS LOOK AT THE SMUT I WRITE 😭😭😭 if anyone is gonna match your freak ITSSS MEEEEE AND I WOULD ACCEPT YOU WITH OPEN ARMS EITHER WAAAYYY !!! SO WHENEVER YOU ARE READY TO COME OFF ANON I WILL BE HERE TO GIVE YOU A SMOOOCCHHH !! <3333 💕💕💕
YESSS OH MY FAWKING GOD IM SO EXCITED TOOO !!! AND ABSOLUTELY I CAAANNN WHO WOULD I BE IF NAWT AT YOUR SERVICEEE ???
next gumi continuation fic will circle around a bit of reader with trying out for the nfl cheer team, a bit of sir gumi on the field competing for another title 🫦🫦 LOCKER ROOM SHENANIGANS …. and yuji and readers best friend galore 😩🫶🫶
FOR YUTA MY ONE AND ONLYYYYY HIS COMING FIC WILL BE HIS NFL AUUUU !!!!
IM FUCKING DEAD THE JUICE SENTENCE 😭😭😭 no literally and it’s also why i’m so loopy and dehydrated but no it’s okay !! 😻😻🫦🫦 cause you’ll catch me if i fall no? 🫦🫦
MWAH MWAH I LOVE YOU MY BABY BLUE BOWSSSS !!! <3333 💕💕💕💕 THANK YOU SOSOSOSOSO MUCH PLEASE TAKE CARE AS WELL OKAYYYY !!! MWAAAHHH
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first of all, yall are doin… pretty good work. shit. Can’t help but admire that.
What got any of you guys into a job like this?
[ @guzmabuglord ]
That's a very fun Q, thanks for asking!
I (Moor) got this job through a family connection. My great aunt was the old director, and she handed it down to me. That's how a lot of ppl join daycares and pokecenters! Although, for this daycare center, my family dwindled a bit too much... So instead I had to hire other ppl. Now we're like a found family instead! As in... I found them and offered them jobs :)
If I'm honest (and we'll say I'm honest cuz it's so damn late over here), most of our daycare trainers are, ahem, running from things. Sometimes it's family, sometimes it's lost journys - sometimes they're running from themselves.
A bit dramatic Ik, maybe a bit of TMI. I'm sure if you hounded the others enough you'd get some Tragic Backstory or whatever. I know pretty much everything abt everyone - but i know what to say and what not to say.
So yeah! A bit of long answer for a simple question but yeah :)
#daycare center moor#pokemon irl#rotumblr#irl pokemon#pkmn irl#pkmn rp#pkmn blog#pokeblogging#pokeblr#pokemon blogging
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All of the book questions!
You're so cute!!!!!!! Thank you so much for asking!
do u prefer a standalone or a series?
Series.
I want more info
2. ur fav genre?
I've really been into horror lately!
ur least fav genre? why?
I don't really like non-fiction
That being said I have not read many books of this genre.
3. a book which had a tv adaption that was better than the book itself?
Avatar The Last Airbender
4. enemies to lovers or friends to lovers?
Enemies to lovers
5. ur fav book trope?
Werewolves!
6. ur least fav book trope?
Love triangles
7. the best protagonist u have ever seen in a book and why?
Answered
8. if u were stuck on an island and could only have three books w u what would they be? (series would be counted as one cuz as i said so)
Twilight
Harry Potter
A Court of Thorns and Roses (I have yet to read this series so I'll have something new to read)
9. the worst book u have ever read?
This is a hard one!
An Abundance of Katherines
I couldn't even finish the book
10. the best book u have ever read?
This is a hard one too!
I can' pick just one!
Ik it's a cop-out.
11. a book/book series u wish u could read for the first time ever again?
Answered
12. ur fav author( if u have any)?
I don't really have a favorite author
I just read books that are interesting to me
13. an overrated book?
Dirty Wolf by Aidy Award
I had such high hopes! And some things felt rushed or overlooked.
14. an underrated book?
Alex, Approximately by Jenn Bennett
Such an amazng book!
15. the book that made u fall in love with reading?
Twilight
I'm gonna add a TMI here so please don't feel like you have to read this part.
I didn't get into reading until the summer of my fifth grade year.
I have a learning disorder that makes reading hrd for me.
I was even held back in second grade bc of my reading skills.
At one point I had 3 differrent tutors. I saw them all separately.
16. a book to get u out of a reading slump?
Circus at Devil's Landing
17. a book with a strong female protagonist?
The Golden Boys by Rachel Jonas & Nikki Thorne
18. a book u came across randomly but ended up loving it?
If You Tell by Gregg Olsen
19. do u prefer audio books or e-books?
E-Books
20. hardcovers or paperbacks?
Paperbacks
21. a book that u hated at first but now love it?
Haunting Adeline by H.D. Carlton
22. a book u used to love but now hate?
Willow by Julia Hoban
23. a book genre u haven't read? why?
I haven't read many mystery books.
Idk why.
24. a book that had u bawling ur eyes out?
Where The Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawls
25. ur fav quote from a book?
I can't think of anything rn...
26. a 'fanfiction' trope that u like to see in books?
Supernatural
27. the last book u read? did u like it?
Circus at Devil's Landing
I loved it!
28. do u annotate ur books?
I do not.
29. give any 3 book recs to ur followers!
I'm Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy
The Family Across the Street by Nicole Trope - I have only read the first few chapters and it seems like a v good book!
The Black Farm by Elias Witcherow
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