#and if we're mutuals we're like already friends in my mind just hmu if u want to

[grlhood]

SHIPPING INFO. answer the following for your muse(s) so people know how shipping works on your blog.

what’s your OTP for your muse(s) ?

i   have   a   LOT   of   muses   so   my   otps   are   endless,   tho   i   elymei   will   always   be   on   top   for   me,   but   a   second   best   would   be   songlema.   for   hsr   i'm   a   sucker   for   fu   xuan   x   jing   yuan   or   stelle   x   firefly.   as   for   genshin   and   zzz   ...   i   don't   really   care   ?   as   long   as   the   muses   have   chemistry   themselves   idc   about   if   it's   canon   or   not,   i'll   just   roll   with   whatever   my   partner   is   feeling   !

what are you willing to RP when it comes to shipping ?

anything   that   isn't   in   my   banned   list   or   something   i've   personally   said   i'm   not   comfortable   with   -   i'm   pretty   open   to   exploring   new   things   be   it   in   ships   or   writing   in   general,   so   as   long   as   both   parties   are   comfortable   and   have   given   explicit   consent   to   what's   being   written   !

how large does the age gap have to be to make it uncomfortable ?

since   i   don't   have   set   ages   for   my   characters,   age   gaps   can   be   very   tricky   to   discuss   ...   normally   my   rule   is   nothing   beyond   5   years,   like   for   example:   my   character   is   25,   the   youngest   i'd   ship   with   said   character   would   be   20   and   the   oldest   would   be   30   ...   but   even   then   i'd   rather   have   the   youngest   be   21   /   22   and   the   older   be   27   at   best   ...   so   tbh   it   depends   on   the   ages   of   the   characters   and   who   i'm   shipping   with,   bcus   if   i'm   shipping   with   a   close   friend,   i   won't   mind   if   the   age   gab   is   a   lil   bigger   yk   ?

are you selective when shipping ?

honestly   no   ...   i   came   from   another   rpc   where   ships   would   already   be   established   or   assumed   in   open   starters   and   threads   which   made   me   very   open   to   shipping   in   general.   so   as   long   as   we're   mutuals   i'm   very   willing   to   ship   !

how far do steamy moments have to go before they���re considered NSFW ?

if   there's   foreplay   or   like.   explicit   teasing   involved   yk   ?   like   the   moment   that   hand   slips   close   to   the   crotch   that's   when   i'm   putting   down   the   u.sfw   tag

who are other muses you ship your muse with ?

again,   my   roster   is   huuuuuuge,   so   tbh   i'm   open   to   any   and   every   ship.   tho   i'll   try   to   let   my   partner   know   in   case   i'm   not   feeling   a   particular   ship   or   if   i   wish   to   take   it   to   another   direction   -   also,   since   all   of   my   muses   are   afab   i   do   lean   a   little   more   towards   wlw   ships   BUT   i   am   open   to   f   x   m   or   f   x   nb   !!!   just   ask   tell   me   which   muses   you   wanna   ship   and   i'll   see   what   i   can   do   <3

does one have to ask to ship with you?

just   hmu   saying   hey   i   think   [specific   ship/characters]   should   kiss   and   i'll   be   like   bet   and   that's   how   u   start   shipping   w   me   <3

how often do you like to ship ?

as   much   as   possible   <3   WSEDRFTGYHUJI   like   i'm   a   firm   believe   of   people   change   people   therefore   i   love   shipping   and   seeing   what   the   characters   can   do   for   each   other   in   the   best   and   worst   ways

are you multiship ?

in   every   possible   way   <3   the   beauty   of   multiship   (to   me)   is   that   no   interpretation   of   the   same   muse   will   ever   be   equal,   meaning   despite   shipping   with   the   same   characters   over   and   over   won't   be   boring   bcus   the   directions   in   which   every   ship   can   go   are   endless   !   so,   in   short,   yes   i   am   <3   and   this   also   means   i   don't   practice   ship   exclusivity   !

are you ship obsessed or ship more-or-less ?

definitely   leaning   towards   ship   obsessed,   it's   not   the   focus   of   this   blog   ofc   but   i   will   always   love   writing   shippy   things   <3

what is your favorite ship in your current fandom ?

the   ones   i've   already   stated   WSEDRFTGYHU   honestly   i'm   not   insane   about   canon   ships   if   i   have   to   be   honest   ...   like   i'll   mind   my   business   and   if   i   find   characters   worthy   of   shipping   then   i'll   ship   them   lowkey   -   unless   we're   besties   with   the   same   interests,   then   u   won't   hear   the   end   of   it   !

finally, how does one ship with you ?

just   hmu   saying   u   wanna   ship   and   from   there   we'll   have   thousands   of   unfinished   threads,   billions   of   headcanons,   lots   of   sharing   posts   /   art   of   said   ship/s   and   if   i'm   not   lazy   maybe   even   a   lil   p.interest   board   ...   no   playlist   bcus   i'm   highly   selective   of   my   music   in   general   </3

tagged by: stole it from @halovien <3 tagging: anyone that wants to do this !

[deiusionaiiy]

the kwlest so not cool network

sorry for this boring post but I just wanted to post it quickly because it’s been fifty years since the original post. it was so so hard to decide who to pick so it ended up being twelve people instead of like eight but I hope that’s fine.

ashlynn (@lucashommings​) ; christina (@lukerobrt) ; kris (@helplesshood) ; beth (@stellarcalum) ; emmi (@irwinofficial) ; ashley (@tothemoonmikey​) ; val (@calumaf) ; kit (@ghostoflu) ; maddie (@hocdcalum) ; laney (@jpgcal) ; jess (@mikesvevo) ; ashlyn (@babyloncalums) 

if you ever upload something you want the rest of us to see just tag it #coolestsosnw because that’s us now

[noritoshiikamo]

(tee this might be really long)

i, with permission from the friend, was telling them about how upset i was abt my prof and shit bc he didn't accept my medical certificate and gave me a zero on oral recitation and final exam. my friend did a "if it makes you feel better, i had worse thing" where hey disregarded everything i said and started talking about something they experienced.

of course, i did my best to be there and listen. i replied with the "that's really bad" things (i couldn't bring myself to full on be reassuring and stuff bc i was upset. im literally failing a subject because i got admitted to the hospital like ???) and then friend says "you know what forget it".

next day, i saw their tweet and it said "i should stop sharing my problems with people. it's not like they give a shit about them anyway." and checked our conversation, they unsent everything they said yesterday. so, i asked them why theu unsent it and asked if i upset them in any way, and that i apologize for yesterday because i just didn't know what to say or if they just needed to let it out, but they didn't reply. i tried reaching out a few days later, but still nothing.

days later, a mutual friend of ours reached out and said something that our friend was upset at me and asked if i wanted him to break the ice. i said "no, they have to do it themselves because we're both adults". mutual friend told out firend that and then they apparently repied with a "fuck you and goodnight" lmao

i never reached out or opened it since, until earlier today when the mutual friend told me that our friend wants to say "That will be the last time we'll chat because I feel like, you and I don't need to anymore" (ugh, the dramatics). i said "if they didn't have anything good to say, they shouldn't have said anything". and apparently they said that they need to make an effort to talk to me (like really pay attention to what im are saying) and our talks have been exhausting for them. and i said "okay", because im not one to push people if they don't wanna. but then they said "see, that's exactly what i mean"

it makes me guilty for reasons i don't understand. like it was my fault and my responsibility. I've been friends with this person since 5th grade and we did have a 2 year drop because they cut me off saying it's best if we didn't talk? and i reached out again last year and we fixed matters. i think it's getting repetitive, but like i have a few friends already akdkadkwk and im scared of cutting more off but aaagghhh. i dunno what to do.

its okay bb dont appologize, my blog is a safe place for u and me bb <3

im sorry this happening to you and im sorry taht you were hospitalized :/ i hope for the best recover for you and whatever you're going through <3

im gonna be truthfully honest and say that you should drop them. when you said her first response to your misfortune is to insert herself in it completely threw me off, i know she just didn't care. and for the way shes reacting after all of this is happening by disregarding communication and all just show how little you are in her life and you dont deserve it AT ALL. who in the fucking right mind says "oh i had it worse" when someones at their worst instead of offering an ear to listen. subtweeting instead of communication directly???? red flag istg.

she sounds like an emotion vampire, draining other people instead, reading all this made me exhausted already and im not even her friends.

you dont have to take my advice, but as someone who had this kind of friend, i usually distance myself from them. if you can cut them off, thats even better but i just tend to just distance myself. i mean we'll talk if we met or something but shes not gonna be in my close friend circles u know bcs if shes gonna disrespect me and my feelings she has no space in my life. but thats just me, i hope you can sort it out and whatever your decision is im sure you pick the best and i support you all the way <3

get well soon and i hope you'll sort your uni issue and your friend issue too, take a lot of break and take care of yourself and feel free to hmu off anon or anon if u need a break or anything we'll simp together ill be ur friend bb <33