#and i liked sex pollen a lot so i wanted to do it again whatchu gonna do sue me

[punk-pandame]

punky's kinktober 2023 calendar!

~DO NOT use for rape/non-con, pedophilia, incest, teacher-student, etc.~ it's that time of year again- about 6mos before halloween, giving plenty of time to prepare for kinktober 2023!

by popular demand, i did another kink alphabet style calendar like last year, this time with THREE prompts per day! the last few days of the month are bulked up with numbers and random halloween-related prompts again as well.

i don't plan to do something for all 31 days this time, but the ones i do make will mostly be naruto. please feel free to use this for other fandoms or original works tho! no limits regarding medium- fic, art, hc's, etc. are all good! just please give me a tag so i can see what you made <3

text version of calendar prompts below.

explanation of uncommon terms below the cut

Sun. 10/01/2023: Alien Sex / Aquaphilia / Asphyxiation

Mon. 10/02/2023: Biting / Blasphemy Kink / Branding

Tues. 10/03/2023 / Corsetry / Cuckolding

Weds. 10/04/2023: Degradation / (orgasm) Denial / (sex) Dungeon

Thurs. 10/05/2023: Edging / Erogenous Zone / Erotica

Fri. 10/06/2023: Flogging / Food Play / Frotting

Sat. 10/07/2023: Glasses / Gloryhole / Gun Play

Sun. 10/08/2023: Hate Sex / Hematolagnia / Hypnosis

Mon. 10/09/2023: Impregnation / Intercrural Sex / Intoxication Kink

Tues. 10/10/2023: Jacuzzi / Jewelry / Jerk Off Instructions

Weds. 10/11/2023: Kemonomimi / Keyholding / Knife Play

Thurs. 10/12/2023: Lactation / Latex / Love Potion

Fri. 10/13/2023: Masochism / Monsterfucking / Mummification

Sat. 10/14/2023: Nanta- or Nyotaimori / Needle Play / Nylons

Sun. 10/15/2023: Office Sex / Oral Fixation / Orgasm Control

Mon. 10/16/2023: Pegging / Possessive Sex / Public Sex

Tues. 10/17/2023: Queening/ Quickie / Quirofilia

Weds. 10/18/2023: Rimming / Robotism / Rough Sex

Thurs. 10/19/2023: Sadism / Sex Pollen / Strap-On

Fri. 10/20/2023: Tattoos / Tentacles / Trapped

Sat. 10/21/2023: Underwear / (free) Use / Unresolved Sexual Tension

Sun. 10/22/2023: Vanilla / Vibrators / Vicarphilia

Mon. 10/23/2023: Wet and Messy / Wax Play / Wet Dream

Tues. 10/24/2023: X Marks the Spot / eXposure / XXX Porn

Weds. 10/25/2023: Yiffing / Yoga / Youthfulness

Thurs. 10/26/2023: Zappers / Zentai / Zippered

Fri. 10/27/2023: One Nigh Stand / Scream / Werewolf

Sat. 10/28/2023: Two Couples Swinging / Goth / Vampire

Sun. 10/29/2023: Threesome / Demon / Graveyard

Mon. 10/30/2023: 420 / 69 / Coven

Tues. 10/31/2023: Group Sex / Costumes / Halloween

Aquaphilia- "water lover"; fetish for swimming, posing underwater, or sexual activity in water

Blasphemy- "Blasphemy as a kink involves either subverting or purposely going against the idea that God(s) would look down on those having sex. Many religions have rules for what makes sex appropriate, so in fiction people occasionally rebel against that idea, or the taboo aspect of it is what makes it exciting for them."

Hemtolagnia- fetish for blood or bloody imagery, often associated with vampirism or vampire fetishes as well

Intercrural Sex- non-penetrative sex involving one's genitals thrusting between another's thighs

Jerk Off Instructions- exactly what it says on the tin. dom/mes may give their sub(s) JOI while masturbating for them, or one might receive JOI in long-distance relationships over the phone, text, or online. can also be a form of sexual guided meditation or ASMR.

Kemonomimi- japanese for "animal ears"; can include a character with animal ears often accompanied by a tail or other paws among other features, or someone wearing accessories to give the appearance of such

Keyholding- type of domination that includes holding a key for one's submissive. the key usually refers to one belonging to the submissive's cock cage or other chastity device, but may also be used more broadly for those belonging to bondage cuffs or a sex toy chest, for example. the appeal to keyholding is that the dom/me has full control over when the object is opened or freed; when that "object" is a part of the submissive's body, their arousal is intensified knowing they can only be freed and get off if their dom/me allows them to

Mummification- in a sexual context, mummification refers to more extreme bondage that typically immobilizes the entire body. materials such as duct tape or plastic wrap may be used for this purpose. it is considered an extreme kink due to the various risks to the wrapped person, including but not limited to claustrophobia, overheating, skin reaction to adhesives, trouble breathing, and panic/anxiety attacks.

Nanta- and Nyotaimori- the practice of serving sushi off of another's naked body. nantaimori refers to a male model, and nyotaimori to a female. typically materials such as banana leaves are used to prevent direct contact between food and skin. traditionally, nantaimori and nyotaimori are supposed to be practiced with the utmost decorum from both the model and the guests. generally, models are not supposed to interact with guests, and guests are not allowed to eat directly off the models’ bodies (must use chopsticks) nor make obscene gestures. traditional nantaimori and nyotaimori are art forms. however, their history is also closely intertwined with sex work and "exotic tourism". nyotaimori in particular has been used as an advertising tactic, tourist attraction, and sex establishment practice. please consider how nantaimori and nyotaimori would be practiced in a public, artistic manner versus as a private kink in your creation process.

Queening- another term for face-sitting, typically referring to a woman sitting on a man's face but not exclusively

Quirofilia- a fetish specifically for hands. this may include attraction to the visual of hands, the feeling of them on the body, or the performance of different acts by hand. fetishes for specific parts of the hand- such as palms, fingers, knuckles, or nails- can all be considered beneath the quirofilia umbrella

Robotism- sexual attraction to and fetishization of robots, androids, or other humanoids machines. may also include roleplaying or dressing as a robot, or even fantasies of being turned into a robot.

Free Use- in a sexual context, free use refers to pre-established consent without a requirement to ask before each sexual act. it can encompass a wide range of behaviors and acts; from a couple who allows each other to perform spontaneous sexual acts on one another when in their own home without pre-planning, all the way up to public free use, in which one allows themself to be used sexually in any way, by anyone, in any place- typically not practiced in real life due to issues of consent and legality.

UST- abbreviation meaning Unresolved Sexual Tension. "It often involves a character undergoing angst (and possibly a lot of pining) with the belief that another character doesn't share their feelings, or involves characters expressing such tension in an alternative way, such as anger, denial, or even 'kisses that don't go anywhere'. Such tension can be in the realm of a het-oriented fanwork or a slash-oriented fanwork." this used to be a common tag/trope, but the term isn't seen as frequently in modern fan communities.

Vicarphilia- sexual arousal as a result of vicariously enjoying another's exciting experiences, actions, and behaviors; may include attraction to people with exciting lives, like celebrities, extreme sports stars, or gangsters

WAM- abbreviation meaning Wet and Messy; also known as sploshing. fetish for an excessive amount of a substance- usually something wet and/or messy like lube, slime, flour, or dirt- on the naked body, face, hair, or clothing.

X Marks the Spot- a somewhat difficult sex position where the receiving partner lays on their back and the giving partner stays standing. the giving partner then holds the receiver's legs up straight and crosses them to make an X. this results in tighter, deeper penetration.

Exposure- multi-purpose prompt. can refer to exposing flesh via removal of clothing, exposing oneself to another's gaze in an exhibitionism/voyeurism context or via photograph/film shared with others, an affair or secret relationship that is exposed, or even exposure to the elements in outdoor sex.

Zentai- form-fitting suits typically made of breathable fabric that covers the entire body, head to toe. some people get off on the anonymity, others on the sensory deprivation aspect, and others still to pressure of the suit on their skin/the way it moves against sensitive areas.