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I think it's extremely fucked that no matter how many times laios demonstrates how capable and smart he is, ppl keep calling him a himbo just because he acts like an autistic person
#the manga shows you other characters viewing him like this and thinking he is incapable of thinking abt anything else#and then shows you the viewer over and over again how viewing other humans as one dimensional beings does a disservice to everyone involved#dungeon meshi#why do i have to see the worst takes ever#this was caused by ppk saying laios cannot be trans because hes too autistic to care abt gender (??)#but i wanted to make my own post
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how do i talk about taash being a realistic character while also acknowledging that they absolutely couldve and shouldve been written better in every aspect
#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard#datv#dragon age critical#taash#dragon age taash#i can only take so much “they act like a kid” takes from ppl#or ppl not understanding them saying no one likes being a woman#LIKE CMON#bioware get some non white ppl in that writers room im begging#get some non white trans ppl in there#anyway. i think some of how they act was unintentional can i be honest#to me they read as an autistic person that has a weird relationship with the world around them#i say this. as someone that is that. lmao#its like. man idk. them choosing a culture is dumb and ugh#but also their trans journey is interesting to look at#IDKKK#i wanna talk about them but i dont want weirdos or freaks in my notifs lmao#and like. god they couldve been written so much better#but also ppl not knowing that aqun athlok is a binary within the qun#and could get ascribed to ppl that ARENT that bc the qun has strict gender roles#but we dont see them look into qunari gender roles or customs#or rivaini gender roles/customs#UGHHHHHH bio ware you fumbled but also didnt but you did lord have mercy#if youre reading these#i hope you know these are just my scattered thoughts#one day ill do a real analysis on them#its an issue of them wanting the audience to know theyre nonbinary while also not creating an in world term#like aqun athlok. which again. does not describe taash lmao#and while i think its a good thing how up front their gender indentity is
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ill probably delete this in a minute but ive just been fuckin boggled by what ive seen across tumblr in the last few days in particular. its why i havent really been around. like holy fucking shit, its really like some of yall just dont want a chunk of the trans community to exist. like some of yall are thisclose to saying it verbatum. way too many already have. 'shut up sit down be quiet and smile for us' type shit, gee where have i heard that before. oh yeah my entire life cause i was forcefully gendered as someones daughter. shock horror i know. you might be surprised to remember and/or learn that very few trans folks know theyre trans before we're 5, or even 10, and that that gendered experience stays with all of us in both/either small or large ways. either bc we literally dont have a solid identity yet (bc we're very small children), dont have the words, we're repressing it out of fear from how others will treat us, we're actually enjoying or enjoyed being another gender in our childhood, or we just genuinely didnt fuckin know until shit lined up later in life. weird isnt it that transmascs dont pop out as 6'1 brick shithouse cis men when we're born so yall know for certain that we're confused lost girls/women oops i mean big dangerous scary men. its almost like we're transgender too. none of yall actually know what intersectionality is or means
#my t#transandrophobia#yeah ill tag it why tf not#i just dont understand why transmasculinity is scrutinized and dissected like this within the trans community#when its just not the case for other gendered trans folks amongst themselves more often than not these days#which is a good thing! a really really good thing! but why are we scapegoating transmascs#''we need more weird trans people!!'' yall cant even handle like. a pre-everything trans guy coming out for the first time#yall cant handle a pre-everything tguy wearing a tshirt without tearing him to shreds & calling him shit like afag/theyfab & ukelele boy#im tired of my identity being treated as a debate. i had enough of that in highschool as#very literally. **the only trans kid in my grade** surrounded by cis teachers & peers USING ME AND MY BODY AS A TALKING POINT#i was the only one who wasnt deeply closeted that is. and holy fuck do i still not blame anyone for being closeted in that school#why is it only okay to try to separate trans ppl from our gender when we're not fem/me#why is one celebrated and the other treated like radioactive waste **within our own community**#god i need to find an irl community fuckin badly online trans circles are hell on earth#ill be describing smth that happened to me as a clocky tguy and someone else will say TO MY FACE#that what happened to me wasnt bc i was a clocky guy but purely bc i was trans#like i. what. how. how does that make any kind of fucking sense#i wouldnt be clocky if i wasnt trying to look like my gender. like i. hello?#would u say that to any other trans person or am i just that special?
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updated phone guy ref sheet wooo
i love this guy so much
#also i couldn't fit a note on there but#my current hc for how he has a trans pin despite the flag not existing yet is that he mysteriously found it while cleaning the ballpit#he has no idea what it means#no one tell him#you'll give him a gender crisis and he does NOT have time to work that out#fnaf#fnaf fanart#five nights at freddy's#five nights at freddy's fanart#phone guy#phone guy fnaf#aacart
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This is going to sound mean but I mean this in the most sincere and compassionate way I possibly can:
If you see a comment on the internet that is transphobic towards your group and your first assumption is that the person who wrote it is a different kind of transgender and not cis, especially if that comment is completely removed from all context or anonymous, no avatar or username or anything, take that as a sign to log off for a few days or pick up a new hobby.
#spitblaze says things#im tired and the amount of bait going around presented as sincere is neigh on unbearable#like yes obviously there are trans people who are shitheads about other kinds of trans people but PLEASE think for a moment#about the odds of this actually being an Evil Nonbinary Person Who Wants All Binaries Dead vs some bored chud trying to sow discord#why do you assume it was a transmasc who wrote that cropped comment saying that they don't want to give up using a transfem-specific slur#(and no it's not the B one)#why do u assume a transfem wrote that comment about transmasc being a 'cultural void who only produce twee ukelele songs abt bugs'#why are you assuming that the people who hate you are other trans people? why do you assume the worst of your own community?#please dont let online discourse determine how you view other members of your community.#someone not sharing your gender identity does not automatically preclude them thinking of yours as abusive or predatory#and them not sharing yours does not mean they will be abusive or predatory to you either#someone SHARING your gender identity doesnt mean they wont be abusive or predatory#the odds someone with your identity will 'get you' are a lot better and to that end hell yeah make more friends like yourself#if you're doing it because you think it will 'keep you safe' though. uh.#well if they start telling you that you cant trust ppl who dont share their identity its time to start checking the BITE model#but thats neither here nor there.#stop reading the first three sentences of other ppls posts about their own oppression and then getting mad for not including your group#and putting words in their mouth about it also. thats a problem as old as time but yknow. dont be a tar pit
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i have like 4 different people in my sea of asks asking for tgirl toya and ill be real idk if im super comfy with drawing that many (im not being weird im just a transman lmao)
i did not realise it was this popular at all
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#i tend to not like transing characters in a way theyre not already shown in the media they are (eg: i can hc akito as a trans dude but like#i wouldnt swap how he is to be a girl#does that make sense???#i have a few for tmasc mafuyu but im cool with that but noy cuz its tmasc its cuz its mafuyu lmao#mafuyu has no gender to me so thats moreso why#or cuz its usually based on that one card so its alr in the actual game so i dont have to think about it#idk how at all to describe it at all but like#just thought id say smth ig?#rambling#asks#project sekai#it gives gender swapping to me even tho i know ppl see it as different but to me it feels like it#hope this doesnt upset anyone cuz thats not the intention at all
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the most unrealistic thing about the art people make of characters as post-op trans guys is the way their scars look… people draw the SKINNIEST LITTLE SCAR LINES on dudes you just KNOW would have the most stretched scars in existence and I will NOT stand for it.
#is the guy you’re drawing a bit impulsive and impatient? i have news for you about how scar healing works…#i now immediately sort characters by how stretched i think their scars would be regardless of gender headcanons#bc it’s so easy to Know#and to be clear this is not meant to shame anyone with stretched scars#i’m sure it happens easier to some people than others regardless of activity level#but - for the most part - it does depend on one’s patience for their own healing#and a lot of the guys i see trans fanart of would NOT be good at that - in my personal opinion#they’d wanna throw themselves back into intense activity ASAP#hence: lovely stretched scars that should be represented in trans fanart more often
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I am just. chewing over and over again the connotations to Taash alternating between ‘mother’ and ‘Tama’
#there’s something so fucking interesting regarding language there#the Qun doesn’t have a word for mother so Shathann utilised tamassaran#and TALKS about how she wasn’t raised as one so she doesn’t know how to be this role#‘you used to call me Tama’ / ‘she’s not my priest!’#but Shathann tries to be a priest to Taash because that’s what she understands this approximation to ‘mother’ to be#and it’s so.#taash uses them interchangeably but also with an awareness TO language which makes SENSE considering them coming into their nb identity#I think so much about the scene where like#shathann says perhaps you’re aqun-athlok and taash’s response hits so hard because like#there’s no word in the qun a non gendered caste role#you can be rightfully recognised as trans but only if that adheres to your working caste role and it’s gendered nature#and you can just SEE like. a part of Taash is crying out in that moment why can’t you see me for who I am#why is your understanding of me confined to a binary#honestly like. the dehumanisation of the qun and antaam hurts taash’s story SO much because we can’t truly grapple with expanding upon the#Qun and expected roles and the confinement of that and WHY the antaam broke away#because we’re too busy trying to hand wave them as inhuman enemies#and it just does the confrontation between tassh#and the dragon king and EVERYTHING about shokra toh ebra a massive disservice#because only some of our qunari and the qun is afforded humanisation#god this game. I love it but GOD#tunes titters#veilguard spoilers#tunes talks critical
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always remember to take white ppls opinion on ur gender with 10000 grains of salt. they Do Not Know, even if they're tryna be nice
#nnstuff#rambling#when i was tryna find a gender label as a teen i wanted one coined by a black person#tho i didnt know why. i just didnt relate to a lotta the other gender labels. thats how i ennded up with maverique#but i do know why now!! i know why after reading other black trans peoples wriitngs!!#also: maverique is just infinitely better than most gender labels#a lot of them were weird. they didnt work in sentences the way that maverique does#you can say im a man/woman/maverique. you cant say i'm an aporagender#the issue i had with so many of them was that they ended with Gender and like. thats not how i wanna use a word for my gender#i wanna have 1 word that means the thing like man/woman. so maverique is pretty good. also its sounds best#and the flag colors are good i like them#what was my point? whatever
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saw your most recent post about really good fics that contain uncomfortable kinks and i immediately thought "ah, biscia must be reading the mpreg soriel fic" and almost left a reply talking about it but i stopped myself because i realized that would be an insane assumption to make. needless to say i felt so vindicated when i saw you link it in an earlier post.
like. HELLO?
HELLO???????
#answered asks#''I fear nothing good ever comes of it when it does'' is straight up SEARED into my brain as the toriel line of all time I've ever read#there's some character interpretations I don't share there. like i said i don't think either of them would cry that easily#and while the different conception (badumtss) of sex/gender in various monsters was interesting#i felt like it didn't quite deal with the ramifications of not strictly binary reproductions on social perception of gender like I could've#eg the part about boss monsters being closer to humans in how it works and thus having a different concept of mom/dad compared to skeletons#was pretty nice. but if you establish that skeletons work like ghosts but distinguish she/he ''for some reason'' even though all of them#can bear kids. and then you make a comment about ''the child possibly growing into a woman considering the shape of the pelvis'' it's like#why??????? why. whywhywhy. why would that be a factor. even hypothesizing a certain physical dimorphism. WHY pick the one tied to pregnancy#the ONE ASPECT that you decided was shared between both ''male'' and ''female'' skeletons#it's also like. objectively an argument that is leveraged to hurt and deny trans people irl so it was just. unbelievably uncomfortable#this is what we mean with mpreg and transphobia btw#not that the concept is inherently transphobic or hurtful to trans people#but that that kind of alternative biological worldbuilding implies an alternative social conception of gender role for the characters#that a lot of authors just. straight up miss. because their view of the world is still very cis/perisexist#BUT!!!!!!!!!!#it was still over all a very good fic. I'd rec it to pll not into that for the initial 2 chapters alone
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Dick or no dick confirmation Pickles was always going to be trans to me anyways; if he's swingin' somethin that's phallo babes, if he's not then his t-dick fat. What's not to get.
#metalocalypse#jay talkin#I'm sorry they wrote that awful gross little man far too likeable and relatable to on a trans level#for me not to hoot and holler and cheer for the trans pickles agenda#changes nothing about his character arc or any of the show anyone is capable of being the kind of person he is#don't make the mistake of thinking thats exclusive to cis men#his transness wouldnt change that#only adds on an extra layer to him that i think works fantastically.#Listen that dude was rejected by his family driven to drink and drugs young to escape that ran away to be in a band#is called fucking Pickles of all things and refuses to tell anyone his real last name;#over the span of four seasons and two movies he slowly starts to learn to be for others what he never had#he becomes more caring more supportive#it's not a stretch to say he undoes some of the toxic masculinity he's been keeping himself shielded behind#and learns how to be a kinder man.#all of which have no contradictions with him being trans!#In fact it doesn't take much extra thought to find ways a lot of this can line up with some trans masculine experiences#i mean. Did no one else have a younger phase where they swung as far as they could into crass rude and uncaring ways#to try and assert their masculinity only to grow and realise that you can be a man and be more caring.#Did no one else have father issues. 1 800 come on now i know those are both shared experiences a lot of us have had LOL.#at the end of the day this show aired nearly 20 years ago and is finished. we're not getting more of it#so nothing is altered nor changed if pickles is canonically trans or not ok. its fine#i mean hell i dont even need canon confirmation hes trans to me and thats all i care abt#but i think if yr getting suuuuuper weird abt needing him not to be canonically trans you have some issues#and bio essentialist ideals of gender if you think only a cis man can act like he does#again. anyone can be like that. its not exclusive. him being trans would not change him in any way shape or form lol#AND ALSO GODDDUUUGH for once i love getting to see a guy pushing 50 whos depicted as trans#do you have any idea how dire and barren it is out here. we never get to see a trans guy older than 30 and whos not a pristine model#I WANT MORE OLD SHLUBBY SHITHEAD TRANS GUYS IN MEDIA
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not usually a writing essays on tumblr guy and more of a writing pithy posts guy but i think when i finish this game there's a chance ill write a massive essay on the way transness is handled in this game because it pisses me off so deeply.
#YOU WANT TO WRITE ABOUT GENDER BUT YOU HAVE NOTHING TO SAYYYYYYY#what are the implications of tarquin having a full beard. does magical hrt exist. how is it distributed.#do people from noble families in tevinter have an easier time accessing it. how does the life of a trans slave differ#from the life of a trans magister#obviously you can't cover all that. but you can imply it.#why not have taash discover their identity through reading texts about former firebreathers and finding one who used they them#rather than randomly talking to the shadow dragons because they have the series' only trans woman lol?#AURUGHUYGHHUYGHHHGGHG#in a way it feels worse than having no transness at all. i feel like i just bit into an apple only to find it was made of wax
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if u need uwu transmasc hyperpositivity “its okay to be manly and a big strong powerful man and do all the traditional man things that men should do, thats soooo okay!” posts, please know that i am laughing at you.
#twitter on twitter bullshit#‘omg…. guys i think transmen over apologizing is a sign of transandrophobia and misandry…’ u sound like ur 14#grow up#how does it not occur to you that maybe this is a multifaceted issue#have u never considered the droves and droves of transgirls who dont speak unless they tack an apology for doing so on the end#have u never considered that maybe this is a solidarity issue of trans people made to feel othered in a way we couldn’t voice growing up?#do you really not think about the intersectionality of autism and mental illness and their skewed diagnosis rates determined by agab?#no no its fine im sure we can boil it all down to boys being sad bc someone said ‘girls rule boys drool’ one time#and on twitter of all places. we really do not need to be reinforcing gender norms over there gang
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If anyone was curious, these are my transfeminine Hazbin Hotel headcanons:
Trans feminine Vaggie is a very popular. I agree. I really like the headcanon of her being a binary trans lesbian, or nonbinary transfem.
My favorite one is actually Rosie. I'm probably wrong about this, but I'm so convinced she's an asexual, binary trans woman.
#what's great is that we might never get Rosie's backstory so I really can imagine whatever the Hell I want her to be...#commentary#FTM trans alastor is my favorite one because him being THE REAL LIFE LOUISIANA VOODOO KILLER is just too good nothing tops that#....previously i left a comment here about how 'several Vodouisants are on the transfeminine spectrum' but this should be scrutinized#i have erred in the past by using Western terms to describe gender diversity in African religions. such gender diversity does exist but it#is inappropriate to subsume that under a Western paradigm. my understanding is that 'effeminate males' are given a special role but the wor#transfeminine is not used#brain cells... firing a little too fast back there...
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hormones!!! :D i’m doing them!!! :D the man ones!!! :D they smell kinda funny!!!! :D
#trans#testosterone#gender euphoria#i’m so fucking happy rn#this makes up for the trans tape giving me a blister fr#omg omg i’m supposed to be going to sleep rn#no way is that happening anytime soon#transmasc#nonbinary#transgender#trans pride#trans joy#trans HOW DOES ONE SLEEP ADTER THJS?????#I KNOW THIS IS JUST PLASIBO BUT I FEEL LILE I COULD RUN#LIJE FAR OR SOMETHINH#what if i hide the bottle of gel on top of my trans flag on my ceiling#no that’s a bad idea#PK IM GONNA TRY TO GO TO BED NOW GOODNIGHT!!!!!!!!!
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My mandated monthly hater post Look away
something i keep noticing with hcing emil sinclair as transfem when looking for or creating fanwork is that she can't just be transfem you can't only say that because his fans will get either mad or really insecure. you can't make a post about transfem hcs without someone saying Well it could go both ways he has schrodingers gender or clarifying that They see her as transmasc but this is cool I guess...you don't have to say that every time brother
#of course think what you want its how you say it and what you say it in response to#when the concept was first going around on twitter there were like 5 peope minimum who felt the need to Speak up for themselves#being like i dont see it (?) or shes trans the other way to them (ok) or if pm wanted her to be a woman shed be one🤣#and i need you to be honest be so for real this does not happen with transmasc hcs and it is noticable#the little comments and shit people will make is comparable to some brainless cis person but they somehow dont pick up on it#Whys it make you so uncomfortable dont be scared to answer#Yeah the things people say make her transfem are stupid and ridiculous and just quite silly but youd be raising eyebrows if there was#this much complaint towards your favorite tmasc headcanon#Youre woke and can say sinclair has so much gender but start shifting in your seat and sweating when hes called a girl or a lesbian#period jokes or pregnancy are on the table but dont say anythijg about estrogen please guys pleeeasse
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