#and he also kept several other women locked up and impregnated around his town

[bilboyagathechickenfootedhobbit]

I took my kid to an indoor amusement park thingy the other day with some of his buddies. One of his friends brought his sister, who is eight. All the kids are off doing their thing and the sister comes back to where the adults are, upset because someone bullied her. I was like “Hey, I know it sucks, but just know it’s a problem they have with themselves; you’re fine. They just don’t like something about themselves and are putting that on you. It’s not right, it sucks, but don’t listen to them”

One of the kids grandmas was like “Was it a boy or girl bullying you?” It was a boy. Grandma goes “Oh, he only did that because he likes you!”

Y’ALL.

I damn near flipped the fucking table.

I was like “NOPE. AbsoLUTELY not. If a boy is ever mean to you, it is NOT because he likes you. That is NOT how we show affection. If a boy likes you, he can TELL you. If he’s mean to you, don’t give him the time of day and go tell an adult.” The girl was like “Yeah!” And ran back off to play. I turned on the grandma and was like “I’m sorry, but what the actual FUCK was that? That shit went out of style thirty years ago!! You wanna tell a little girl that ABUSE is a sign of affection?? How do you think that’s going to translate when she starts dating?”

HOOOOO BOY, I had to take some deep breaths after that! What the fuuuuuuuuuck?? We do NOT tell little girls that bullshit!! That’s how I ended up in my abusive relationships. “Oh he’s choking me out because he’s so jealous, this is so passionate!”

Fucks sake, I wonder about people sometimes. Do they literally not THINK before they open their mouths??