#and apparently reply to messages from months ago lmaoooo

[queergi]

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[notyobabygirl]

Hey doll, just asking for a lil read of this guy I've been kinda sorta talking to lol. We lived in the same dorm like six months ago but I moved out bc of covid. I had seen him in the halls a bunch and he went out of his way to introduce himself and talk to me but I moved out before anything happened. Then a few months ago I had bumble briefly and we matched on there but I deleted the app. He sent me an fb dm asking me on a date that I didn't see for like 2 weeks but when I did see it I said yes and we went to a bar and played pool. It was a lil bit of first date awkwardness but we got along and there was def an attraction but I had a bit of a sneaky link going at the time and so I just left it at that, we messaged a bit but I brushed him off a lil just bc I was super busy and didn't have time for 2 sneaky links. The thing is he messaged me a few times saying he was interested in me and asking if I was feeling it or not bc I was lowkey ghosting him atp. I ended up replying saying I was interested but I was so busy I kept forgetting abt him and I didn't think that was a good basis for anything lmaoooo. He took it v well but my main sneaky link fizzled out and last weekend when I went out with my girlfriends from that dorm I kept messaging him about hanging out on the night (I was super drunk and high lol). I even knocked on his door but he was asleep. But the thing is I can't stop thinking about him since that night and idk why since I wasn't super interested before !!! Idk if I just want sex/attention since my sneaky link ended or if I kinda like him now. And if I do like him I'm a bit worried bc some of my gfs know his ex and apparently he did her a bit dirty. Not even sure why I'm writing this but I guess I just want someone else's opinion on the situation? A vibe check if you will

hi pretty! sometimes when you are with someone (your sneaky link) you are BLIND when it comes to other boys. when i was with my super toxic ex and we would be broken up i would hu with this beautiful rich amazing guy from my college but obviously like the dumb dimbat that i am, i had no interest in that amazing guy, i just wanted my ugly xanax boyfriend. soooo dont be like me and go for this boy. he clearly likes you and has interest in you so reach out to him first and see what happens! keep me updated ily

[girltomboy]

I don't feel like writing a lot bc I'm sleepy and cba recalling all the shit... But I gotta get it off my chest bc it's bugging me. So today my mom lashed out at me absolutely out of fucking nowhere. Why? Because I woke up late and it was "already 1 o clock" and I hadn't eaten. Not only is this not the first time it happened, but she was also absolutely rabid about it. Like she yelled at me from the kitchen to come eat (it's not even as if she had made food and I was making her wait, I always make my own damn breakfast), and when I questioned her tone and attitude she replied with "you're gonna fly out of this house". Like excuse me, are you gonna start throwing this shit in my face when YOU were the one who stopped me from moving out literally!!!!!!! Every single time I tried? Are we really doing this? So I was like DW you're not gonna have to put up with me for much longer if that's what's really bothering you. Like wtf, at least build up a better fight, don't try to lash out at me about food or my fucking eating habits. I swear to god she is totally obsessed with me and eating, it was plain annoying before but now it's getting fucking creepy. Like mind your own eating habits and I'll mind my own. Jesus christ and then she turned it around and made herself the victim as always, like everytime we have an argument I have to prepare myself for the aftermath, which is when she inevitably turns herself into the victim like Cinderella. She came into my room to "hug" me and pretend like nothing had happened between us. I was like what are you doing? Just hugging you :) Why? I'm your mother and I love you, hug me. Well I don't really feel like hugging you right now. Why are you rejecting my love, do you hate me? You hate me right? I'm not your mother anymore, right? I was like stop putting words into my mouth. I just want you to stop pretending like nothing happened. Oh, but what happened? All I did was invite you to eat. You didn't just invite me to eat, you yelled at me, lashed out and poured out your anger onto me for no reason, and threatened to kick me out. Doesn't sound like a friendly invitation to me.

She kept repeating that she wants the best for me, that I hate her and don't want her to be my mom anymore and I'm rejecting her, etc. And I kept trying to reason with her like a dumbass and have an actual conversation. Until she finally blew out the theatrics and went like "FINE, one day you will regret this. I just wish you all the best, I wish you all the happiness in the world, one day you will want your mother and you won't have her. Feel free to delete my number and my address and leave whenever you wish, tell everyone you don't have a mother" and all the shit she knows best, just like she did a few months ago when I told her I was going to see my bf LMAO. Then later she sent me a dramatic whatsapp message basically repeating everything she had already told me but with more ellipsis, and I replied back with what I had already told her but slightly rephrased, hoping she might understand this time. And then Idk what she wrote back bc I only skimmed through the message in the notification, but she mentioned something like "if I had done to you what your grandma did to me..." something something Idk I didn't open the message bc I was already disgusted. Like what am I supposed to fall at your feet and be grateful that you didn't abuse me like she abused you? But you did allow her to abuse me, so like what are we talking about here? Lmaoooo like thanks mom for doing what you were supposed to do, and being a better parent than your own mom was to you, at least for a little while. ❤️ #momoftheyear And like you obviously still have some leftover resentment about how she treated you, so whose fault is it that you had a lifetime to go to therapy and get your trauma sorted out, but you chose to bury it all and "forgive and forget ❤️🙏💖 #lightandlove" except you did neither, apparently, if you still bring that shit up and project it onto your own fucking daughter. Yep, that's going into my cringe compilation. Anyway we haven't spoken to each other for the rest of the day. Don't really care for it either, I just wish I could get the hell out of here ASAP like ASAP!!!! But I can't rn cuz it's the middle of the semester and I don't got the tiiiiiime FUCK