#and (c) is. normal. people revisiting their convictions and being troubled when two sources teach differently is a thing. that happens.

[marietheran]

I hate the term "religious guilt" because most people who use it are severely muddling up (a) religious OCD (b) some messed up heresy like "it's wrong to be happy" (c) religious doctorine you don't agree with but aren't sure whether you're right not to