#am obsessed over it with my sib lol she made me play and it was so over bc love card games

[chococrystal]

Scrybe (+ some others) sketches

Silly card game has dominated my mind as of late

[misterbitches]

@flootweed ​

ATOTS

That's super fucking romantic? Like tragic but in a nice way. i love that shit. i'm a monogamous slut for romance pghiosuag even tho we have to learn to live alone too but it's just like the NOTION is nice?!??! awwww i told my mom that SOPHIE's gf was like "she died taking a picture of the moon" and how it was like idk. the gf was just processing it and she thought it was romantic and my mom was like "wow.....depressing" bc think she thought it was stupid millenial shit i was like no mother doent u see she died in the BEAUTY LMAO but then i told her jessica walter's husband died the year before and then she died and she was like "aw...kind of romantic" LMAOOOO i guess two people have to die. why did i tell this story? i am so sorry. the show ended today right (ep 10?) i didn't realize it was that short. so i hope it was a happy ending? (tell me) i understand why you love the atmos! it's like, not really been done. there's this BL that i hear isn't too great but it does take place in a rural part of thailand and there's way less budget. a lot of ppl seem to like it. ep 6 LW / LW in gen gotta be honest, rushed through it. i knew spoilers from jump cause BL spoilers are just absolutely nothing and sometimes ur just like i need to know. i do not understand the ~silently lookin 4 u~ trope it always backfires and is also DUMB. so happy about tiffy. a girl who likes girls but ends up with a man bc of mommy and also the man is ok....it's me. she's gorgeous and actually [h*lf] gay so it's great. god ok i feel so old again. lmaooo but i was like obsessed with lady gaga for that reason (dont ask...also how i got kinda popular on tumblr way back in the day) and shes just absolutely fucking beautiful and bad ass. (which kind of doesnt helpcos they r all skinnty but that's FINEEEE) right? i mean like i guess cos we knew abt it? i can see why he was so pissed off, too? i mean i'm so fucking like...sensitive to being told what to do so i was angry for him from jump. i guess i was also looking at it different wholetime cos i knew the spoilers? i'm assuming u did too lmao. so we knew hed be pissed and leave. and frankly that's what sib gets. just for you my friend i will watch it and update. i think MANY times in shows in gen but it is something you notice a lot in BL bc they are just absolute novices most times. in this case, gene's actor mostly well (and i like him as a person just cos he was on that thai 3 girls in a car show and used to date on eof them lmao) can act so i will look over that scene to see how sib's actor plays off him. but the pausing in between sentences or for so long even decent actors or actors doing better. kao is not bad, not great so they will talk slowly because dramatic acting but the problem is most times it's too long. even if the person is an adept actor it won't always work and YES THEN THAT MEANS THE EDITOR COMES IN AND SNIP SNIP SNIP! it's too long. and sometimes it just does not work even if you can act. but it is GLARING when they cant or are average (someoe said this about tharntype and my god lmao tharn..is...so...slow...in...talking...the actor idk his name it's one of em, the other one with the nose (type) is....different not better but he certainly does not talk as slow. they arent bad but they are not good so.) also sometimes they are forgetting their lines. some ppl find this charming. clearly we do not lmao. what is their relation? what is going on there? i don't have a problem with stepbrothers as long as they didn't grow up with that sibling bond. many times blended families really have to watch out for that kind of fraternizing but it's always when theyre older and teenagers bc they didnt grow up w/ each other....i mean they have chemistry so i'm whatever. but. hennYYWAYYYS.actually it's bc im an idiot i didn't read it as Mhok (singular) and aey's father. Yes and his sister who i think i may hate? im like bitch okkkkkk but. his name is lhong. and he is a psycho. i mean so is type. so. oooh it could be that he stole! but also i'm pretty sure cos hes gay lol or did they

not make that explicit? the thing is i had to skip through most of that scene too because the drama was WAY too much for me. too much. lmao. the sister thing i got and it made sense and iliked that. oh yea he is gay and they know. that's a big one.

WBL

haven’t watched color rush! did you like it? i have seen wyel, parts of mr heart, and ofc to my star :) 

ohhhhhh ok. i get you. yea he definitely wasn’t being ooc cos i think that....what u said. and also like....ugh i cant even think rn. i like sam lin a lot so i like gao shi de but i gotta say. lmao. hm. first of all. yes it is creepy what he did. it’s fucking weird. and sad that his whole life revolves around him. it’s not as fucking weird as LW but still like when he did the door thing. i was like UMMMMMMMMM cos i really didnt want it to be constructed. and when it was i was like imma suspend my disbelief. but if anyone dared...

and so what he did in s2 i think he just couldnt realize that he was loved back which is why it’s good he WAS ALONE for 5 yrs imo. but he gave shu yi 0 choice and for that i am pretty sure i would be even angrier. i do think though that the father’s role is pretty important but i can see how the show is like....letting that go? bc as fucking weird as GSD is, he was still like...20? i guess and shu yi’s dad is like. crazy? i am also like he really had to fucking start a company to get noticed like are u joking? is it also that easy? and also why? lmao i just. ugh. i think that probs bothered me the most...priorities.

i like the show! well idk if i love it but sure. i think it’s decent lmao. i understand what you’re saying. for here it bothers me less but i certainly don’t think it was OOC. immature and stupid but like...that’s.....what they are. i also don’t have a problm with the timing from a technical point.

however, when i started the show? i had NO clue what concept of time it was. and that was very annoying. tehy redeemed it bc of the comedy aspects (the first time shu yi sees shi de is so fucking good, i really loved the shot and editing; it’s hilarious and silly) and i started to go with the flow of the show through that. but the fucking concept of time in the show in general esp with repetitive outfits (i understand that they are more likely to wear multiple outfits as well, it’s just that you have to split it up or it i sconfusing visually and looks like the same scene twice or just a full day of shooting which it could be but then something should change in the clothes. this is just an ex~~*~*) and partof that is they have this already controlled narrative i guess. 

i have to admit as well...i skipped episode 1. and most of 2. i was like i rly dont want to see someone slap a pereson even if they were like. not together. it’s just not cute also not in front of ppl. and then when they were yelling and bla bla i was like listen ladies lets calm down. too much angst in a boring way. what they have now is good. also they should probably like estrange the father but i doubt they will. 

i cannot make up my mind totally now bc i see what ur saying i guess i just don’t feel that way as much but i guess i have to think about it more, too. i do think he was contorlling in getting him or like when he didnt want shu yi to find out whwatshisface liked him. i guess for me it would be if he is still that way in the rship. but even tho he’s at fault for what happened, i’m also like but his dad? but also like...did he try? why did he just stop contacting? but then i guess he emailed everyday? DO U C MY QUANDARY.

alsoi have to say i do not care abt their backdoor being opened lmao like wow business? no thanks

LMAO. did they cry a lot in UWMA? i only know the teamwin parts. which one is fluke the really pale one who died? idk what it is about that kid but i just cant watch him. it’s not his fault it’s mine.

DUDE i still dont understand the husband and wife thing and ive looked into it multiple times. ive kinda just classified it as one of those things that make me uncomfortable but arent problematic lol. it you have any insight about it id love to hear it tho !!

it’s stupid. that’s what it is (husband and wife.) it’s just something they say like many gay couples may use pejoratives in conjunction with them, the f word etc. or even imply something about being a top and a bottom. whatever. but these arent gay spaces or gay storylines. sure gay men may direct them but since BL operates and relies on patriarchy without a doubt and also stereotypes poorly kathoeys or won’t cast trans women in anything substantial and use them as jokes (and see this is one of those things where it’s like...ud never see this in the US tho like our concept of third gender or kathoeys but life stillBOOOOO.) so it’s just useless when they put it into the scripts because it’s for people to consume and lots of girls are. obviously. so the idea that if you are being penetrated and u r the wife and this is used like literally anywhere but not from gay or whatever men is gross. are cis women’s vaginas sieves to them? are trans women not women? do we have to categorize people by PHALLIC OBJECTS IN OUR BODIES SPECIFICALLY A WOMAN? it dont make no sense. plus really most ppl just experiment, there’s more ways than one to have sex, we have lives so most times it’s not just full penetration for hours anyway. it’s just so gross. like oh that’s really funny lol ur the wife cos his dick goes in ur butt XD i get it, same. i say “i’m wife’ whenever there’s a penis in me. fucking kill me. it’s not a big deal but it’s just dumb and gross. if they use it they could try and subvert it too like i like how my engineer has  a whole absurdly stupid episode about it. but in TT the dad says “if ur the wife i wont accept it” and i was like u know what gals? im good. goodbye.

pgojaihousgajigko THAT’S SOOOOOOO OOWIEOFUGHOIJ WEIRD. FANDOM IS REALLY WEIRD. i have read rpf and written it once upon a time but dont do it anymore  uch. i mean it’s weird. no doubt about that. invasive, weird, strange. but very unreal anyway. it is. plus i dont like celebs or fame and think of it as a gross capitalist scheme so i had to stop (also so weird?) but i know very many people like lean in. lean in. LEAN IN. this youtuber i watch did a video on like insanely popular ships (like that 1d one) and their insane fandoms and i just couldnt. it’s so embarrassing? and then they’re so bold????? about it? 

yea it would be cool (more queer men or visibly we should say or like out whatever.) but it doesnt necessarily mean that will be good or beneficial i guess? i mean like. i dont know. so much about the genre is about wish fulfilment for young girls. its literally selling some fantasies because the other thing is for BL (i read a paper on this...) esp for girls in more conservative societies they cna maybe replace themselves in the character? but they may not feel a threat as a woman or like their life will fall apart if they engage in sexual things with anyone really. and that’s where i’m like....for a lot of these are they just writing a story and just replacing two men? bc they also seem to think it owrks like that. and in a way that’s what it is bc of the writing and how they use certain terms. you can tell the piece is about pushing a product and less about the real affects of a story. i think ITSAY is a great example of a really intelligent great piece of work that contains multitudes. and the girl was amazing. it just depends on the goal. and for most of the ppl the goal isnt...to do anything. so i dont know. idk how to talk abt representation anymore. it both is and isnt.

 i really liked tingting from my engineer a lot (idk if u have seen) she’s so fun and unapologetic. i love how much she drinks and if someone tells her to be ladylike she says no. and i appreciate that in the show when girls were rude to her she said nothing about the girls but said “NO IM NOT LUCKY TO HAVE ALL MALE FRIENDS?” i really want to see her more in the next season. obviously tiffy is goat. super excited to see how their rship develops.

[its-from-my-lens]

Where to go in Accra

Will I go back ? 🤒 Where will I be trying in 2017? Stay tuned So in 2016, I covered a lot of places I think. lol I’m not gonna lie but some of the most popular places, I haven’t even tried. Mostly because I haven’t thought about trying them Here goes my list:

Cafe Kwae: I tried it with two friends . At about 11am, so I didn’t like that they weren’t serving cocktails atleast but the guy was kind enough to make an exception. The ambiance at cafe kwae is dope. I love the look . Very cafe like lol. Had chickpea sauce and rice. It was very nice and one of my friends had their burgers. The disadvantage is the portions especially for the little burgers. You notice how tiny they are because of how divine they are. I’ll be going to cafe kwae again regardless since I saw their healthy eating menu . ❤️

Zenos Yogurt: It’s a little stand at AnC, as someone who doesn’t eat ice cream. Haven’t that yogurt for my taste buds is much appreciated. Thanks to my ex for putting me on. You got something right lmao

Bourbon cafe: As a tea person. I love to have it on the go. Bourbon was kind enough to serve me some delicious tea with their cheesecake. It’s not as sweet as the ones in the western world which is one reason I love it but it also has the right amount of cheese. A disadvantage is the price for a slice. It’s about 18.00 Ghana cedis per slice but I’ll still buy it 😩. Another dislike is the fact that I tried their fresh orange juice cause I can’t drink those boxed juices and it was more ice than juice. 😕. In all that I love their cafe, very cute with a painting that just catches your eye and it’s always buzzing with people. Also a place to catch up on some work or just chill.

Tea Baa: I think my love for tea baa is evident. I may or may not be a little bias🙃. I love tea baa for their art and how rustic it looks. If I can add pictures to this post stay tuned. It’s beautiful and it’s such a cool place to hang out, play some games and chill with your squaaaaa lol. The big disadvantage to me is how small it is. It’s just a chill spot that everyone goes there and then it gets too crowded and people have to leave. Another one is I wish they had a menu. I legit feel like we always have to stretch our necks to see the board that is always blocked by something in the way. Nevertheless, give me a bunch of vanilla tea and they’re forgiven. It’s a fave. My new friend put me on it. I had mine without alcohol but he had his with alcohol. Their food isn’t bad either. I tried their couscous and lamb at one point and tried the couscous and pork at another. I’ll say lamb won this round. My boyfriend had fried rice and lamb and I tried it. It was good too. Tea Baa is the spot for catching up with old friends. I met way too many lmao. Not to talk about the prices so reasonable . I have gone back so many times because our waitress left an impression. What a beautiful soul.

Sandbox: I was hyped to try sandbox but lately sandbox is the last place I’ll visit. First off I still don’t understand why they have no menu as they are a full blown space to hang out. Don’t get me wrong I love the vibe of sitting there and hanging out looking out at the waves and Making plans with bae lol but they need a menu. Trying to remember what they have by their waiters and waitresses is always funny like they can barely remember. I love their Long Island which I tried. My boyfriends sex on the beach wasn’t anything special though lol. He hated it. The yam fries is definitely their thing . They better not change anything for my sake . I also love the look. They have you feeling like you’re in knock off Miami. I kid. Another hide out especially on weekdays during the day time..it’s quiet .

Le Must restaurant : Can I say whoever did the interior for Le Must is definitely killing it. First off I love the look clearly lmao. It’s a vibe. Lol. Now the food I find the portions could have been better. I tried this place with my friend (Manda Panda) lol . We order a family meal cause we wanted the variety. This was a family for three meal but we were starving so we were all for more food. The food got, we had to call our waiter to ask if this was for three cause three people will not be full. We had to advice him to tell them to increase the portions cause chale Money isn’t easy to come by but change has come. We also tried these blue drinks, they were so good. 😋😋. All in all I’ll be going to Le Must again. It’s at Accra mall if you’re asking.

Papa’s Pizza: Best Pizza made in Ghana to me. I tried this at 11pm randomly . I don’t have much to say but it’s amazing to me. Good job guys

AM&PM: I was lured there by that bicycle art lol but I tried their brunch. It wasn’t bad but there’s no hype . I won’t particularly want to go back. I will try PM though maybe it’s better. I had some egg stuff and my boyfriend had the English breakfast. Honestly, pricey and okay. I’ve had better. Plus rude waiter who didn’t appreciate our tip 🙄.

Burger and Relish: My sister and I tried it. We still think it’s okay. I love the artsy vibe at the location in osu. Aside from that, they alright.

Honeysuckle: I ate here twice and they still tasted so good. Went with my boyfriend and I had yam fries and tilapia whiles he had yam fries and chicken . I loved my food but his chicken was the talk of our table. It was AH MAZ ING! Oh so good ! The second time , I tried it with my sibs, and the taste was still so good. I tried my yam fries with wings this time and It was great. Loved it. The only thing I hated was their waiting time. Almost an hour fam. A whole hour. I suggest calling before you get there. Ohhh tried their drinks too a whole bunch of sugar in mine but my boyfriend has this lemonade cause he wanted the sourness and it was amazing. They really gave him sour. Lol

Vida e Caffe: My to go go to place. I usually get salads and a tea from them whenever I’m passing by. My brother put me on. Let’s just say I’ll be going back everyday lol.

Sai: It’s a wine and champagne place and they have the vibe going for them. I want to post the pictures of how cute their place is. Aside from that, I’ve tried it twice. I went with my Manda Panda and it was okay. She tried the salad but I wasn’t really hungry so I had wine and some calamari. The prices are amazing. However we we were stalked by ants 😭..our table was breeding ants. I was slightly worried but the owner is so friendly it makes you forget about the bad. She was engaging . I went again for brunch with my boyfriend, stalked again by mosquitoes and a fly. I feel like it’s cause of the location but my boyfriend wasn’t bothered lol..he loved it. There was also the problem of we don’t have it at the moment . Please if it’s on the menu can it be available or let us know before we choose it that it’s not available? My boyfriend changed his order twice cause it wasn’t available. I will be going back though, good food and vibes. Super friendly workers who were in all of our photos. They were the muses.

Koffee Lounge: I hadn’t tried Koffee Lounge but I had been in there 50000 and ten times. I was like I have to eat there. I’ve been in there too many times , it was starting to bother me. Lol. My boyfriend is always eating there and his order is assorted jollof. So when I tried it , I went for that to see why the attachment to it. Koffee Lounge is not pricey and a lot more food than I expected. So much food I tell you. I was so full. The food wasn’t exactly what I thought it’ll be because it’s always so packed but will I be going back? Hell yeah. I see the addiction.

Wafflemania : Went to wafflemania very early one morning. It was barely open but they cleared it up quickly to make sure my boyfriend and I were fine. Another plus, their wifi actually worked lol. I take that very seriously . I had their pancakes which was so yum and my boyfriend had their waffles with pork . It was even better . Such a small place producing great things . Lol , see you again.

Venus: Venus has been opened for years. As someone who is always last to go anywhere, I just tried them. Great drinking spot and chilling spot for pre drinking. Unfortunately tried their wings and it tasted like it came out a pot of stew. I will be going back there for the drinks but no more wings. Lol , it’s in Osu btw.

Jamrock: It’s this little Jamaican place. The vibe is cool and it’s never crazy packed. I love it. The food is also great. I tell you it’s almost like they hired a bunch of Jamaicans to cook. I had oxtail with the rice and beans. I also had some sweet potatoes as it was a craving. I will go back there. I keep saying it but I haven’t done it yet.

Yah: I think that’s what it’s called. I wanted to try something different when zenos was around the corner. It was so bad. My sisters review : it tastes like nido. Doesn’t seem like we will be returning.

Labadi beach: I’ve been to the hotel but I haven’t gone to the other side. My boyfriend wanted to go to the beach so I was like why not. It’s actually a cooler place if you ask me. There’s more to do in my opinion. Then I tried their food. It was yam with grilled chicken. The food was alright , too much of the salad cream and mayo stuff but that chicken was A1. The other disadvantage was the obsession over what colour chair you’re sitting on and what restaurant it is for . My boyfriend had a fit lol. Some chairs are cuter though. The flies too are a thing I’m not interested in. May or may not go back 🙃..I kid. I will

Kona: Such a chilled vibe for the weekend if you’re not trying to do too much. It’s super cool. I went with a bunch of friends. Let’s just say eventful 😆 Royal Senchi: Went for their lunch buffet with my family. Honestly it was okay. Nice views though. I'll go again when I can.

PS: I didn’t have time to read over 😕