#also might f around and make a tv show/movie/drama blog..

[capricores]

i have a theory... it’s a mouthful though

aquarius, capricorn and scorpio* placements get roasted a lot for their fear of being open and vulnerable, especially when it comes to relationships and love. they generally are criticized for their preferences for being alone (which is.. strange, because there’s nothing wrong with that, imo), but people rarely reflect on why this is often the case. i want to talk about frequent happenings with placements connecting to these three signs, and why they end up developing into adults who have abandonment issues, fears of vulnerability/closeness, fierce/unnecessary independence, and so forth.

this post is going to connect mainly to venus (relationships & love, etc) and moon (emotions & often childhood) in these signs, as well as those planets being aspected by saturn, uranus or pluto [however, it’s possible this could apply for other strong personals + dominants/stelliums].

with capricorn as one’s venus/moon (or saturn aspecting venus/moon), love throughout childhood; and sometimes into adulthood; was often conditional, only ever earned. love and affection may have even been weaponized in a sense; used as a rare reward, not a given. saturn is a planet representing hard work, to put things super simply, and when attaching itself to such emotional planets (especially venus), can indicate an individual who had to work hard for love. children, obviously, should not have to work hard for their guardians love and affection (nor do i think adults in relationships [platonic or romantic] should have to *work* for someone’s love either). this tends to manifest as an adult who puts people through hundreds of test to prove they’re worthy of the capricorn individual’s trust and affection, as they view this as the norm. they also lack trust in people’s affections, often thinking there’s some sort of hidden motive or obstacle within the affection. they may develop tendencies to be mostly attracted to flaky individuals with fleeting (& conditional) affection and love for them. undeveloped they crave that “risk-reward” situation in romance. all of these factors considered, this is why capricorn venuses/moons, venus-saturn/moon-saturn aspected individuals often prefer to be alone, and have a general distaste towards/distrust in “love” and deep connection.

with aquarius as one’s venus/moon (or uranus aspecting venus/moon), love tends to be very unpredictable. in childhood, and again also into adulthood possibly, it is likely that the love experienced in their home was very fleeting and unstable. as aquarius is also ruled by saturn, you can read the capricorn/saturn explanation above, which will also apply heavily to aquarius placements. but on the uranus side of things, this planet (known for sudden, drastic changes) having connection to venus/moon can indicate an individual who frequently experiences a “roller coaster of emotions”. with moon & venus in aquarius/aspecting uranus, it can point towards friends and romantic partners who leave as quickly as they came. in childhood, their family may have gone through phases of being present vs absent, or being open vs closed, etc. the home may have been a place of great emotional turmoil and instability. this often, i find, develops into adults who project these habits onto future relationships. swinging from being very invested/nearly obsessed with a person/relationship, only to withdraw and lose interest just as quickly. i think it’s partially due to the fear of abandonment that tends to pop up through such a childhood, and also due to hot & cold love being seen as a norm for aquarian placements when younger, therefore they bring it with them into adulthood before they fully develop. since love tends to be so frequently unstable for them, they grow distaste towards it and generally prefer to keep to themselves and stick to their isolation.

with scorpio placements (namely venus/moon, or pluto aspecting venus/moon), it’s almost like a mix of the two things listed above. pluto, similar to saturn, can connect heavily to power and control. pluto is also *more intense* than uranus when it comes to changes. changes with scorpio/pluto are like death & rebirth, huge transformations. i’ve noticed throughout the scorpio moons childhood, much like capricorns, they are given a lot of responsibility and stress. the family often manipulates them into working for/earning their love, or there is frequent turmoil and power struggles within the home; causing distrust within the family that later develops into scorpio’s inability to trust others. love is also frequently conditional here, as it is with aqua/cap. this can lead to their future distaste/fear of getting truly intimate with the people they develop feelings for. they also are likely to experience very drastic changes in their childhood, not small nor easy to digest ones, that end up resulting in abandonment and/or trust issues that are carried into the future until fully developed as well. scorpio moons tend to get used to things never being truly stable, and get used to people’s intentions - especially those closest to them - never being pure/without baggage, which can result in an adult who shuts everyone out and refuses to open up, as they grow immensely suspicious and paranoid of anyone around them.

capricorn, scorpio & aquarius placements also usually have to grow up very fast. scorpio & capricorn specifically tend to have to mature and take on way too many responsibilities from a very young age. aquarius placements i find tend to frequently endure betrayals & abandonment during childhood. these things develop to the fierce independence these three signs tend to carry. they’re so used to doing and handling everything alone, they don’t believe they need anyone else. and even if they do, they don’t think they could possibly trust someone else to get close enough to help them / connect with them deeply, due to these frequent stresses, changes, and conditional love situations common in their pasts (and sometimes into adulthood too).

* = scorpios are heavily connected with intimacy and vulnerability. but undeveloped scorpios expect intimacy and vulnerability from others without returning the same energy. they tend to hide their own feelings while encouraging others to pour out theirs, creating what feels like one-sided intimacy.

anyway. just a little thought. can we stop making fun of aquarius, capricorn & scorpio placements (and...anyone in general) for being scared of relationships, intimacy, vulnerability, etc., and think about the reasoning as to why these fears develop and how they can be healed. (also, want to make it clear i’m not saying only these placements can experience these things! nor are these placements guaranteed to experience these things. it also doesn’t release accountability for any negative romantic/commitment habits that they may project onto/hurt others with)

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My Top 10 K-Dramas of 2019 - What’s Yours?

2019 is ending soon and K-Dramaland has once again brought us so many goodies this year. As per our blog’s tradition [For 2018 faves click here], below are my Top 10 favs of the year (my faves in alphabetical order so it might not be yours so please don’t judge). (For our blog’s 2019 music ratings, click here!)

My only specific criteria usually is that the show must have had started in 2019 to be considered a 2019 series but this year I have made an exception for dramas that started very late in 2018 and it required watching well into 2019 for to be sure it was a great drama.

Without further ado, check the list below!

Doctor Prisoner (KBS2)

If you are looking for a thriller with insanely good acting, I would highly recommend Doctor Prisoner. Set in a prison clinic with Namkoong Min’s disgraced doctor as the lead plotting to right the wrongs society has done to him, the drama blurs the lines between good and bad. The medical director of the prison played by Kim Byungcheol seems like the perfect evil archetype for the audience to hate on but over time the plot and the acting allow us to soften up to his character and worry about his well-being. The drama also thrived in the current political climate in South Korea with its nuanced look into corruption and class issues. It was also a delight to see Namkoong Min’s rise in the past years from a rom-com lead to a seasoned leading man able to take on many diverse roles. If you love a drama that discusses the conflict between humanity and greed with stellar acting, you would love Doctor Prisoner!

Extraordinary You (MBC)

I actually struggled with whether to put Extraordinary You in the Top 10 due to the poor writing in the last few episodes of the show but caved in due to the spectacular quality of the earlier episodes and the consistently amazing acting of the main cast. Based on the popular webtoon “July Found By Chance”, the drama is about a girl called Eun Danoh who discovers she is in a shojo manga and not even the female lead - just an extra there to drive the love line between the male and female lead and stuck with a one-sided love to the biggest f*ckboi in school. Danoh decides to fight against fate (the writer’s plot) and try to change the storyline with her friends who start to also gain consciousness as well as the male lead Haru, a nameless background character who seems to have a mysterious connection to Danoh and an ability to switch characters in and out of scenes. The first half of the drama is pure K-Drama gold and consistently makes self-aware jabs at K-Drama tropes. Also, the quality acting of Kim Hyeyoon really breathed life into the character of Danoh, whose many monologues during her self-aware moments would fall flat without good delivery. While playing Haru was SF9’s Rowoon’s first major lead role, he carried the part well and was able to show the changes in Haru as he went from brainless NPC to an increasingly aware player in the plot to take down the comic book writer. Lee Jaewook, April’s Naeun, Jung Gunjoo, Kim Youngdae and Lee Taeri also all excelled in their respective roles. If you would like a drama where you can discover lots of young talent, Extraordinary You is the drama for you!

He is Psychometric (tvN)

While using the common K-Drama trope of male lead has a peculiar and uncommon superpower, and teams up with a female lead with secrets and some investigators to solve crimes, He is a Pyschometric excels in how it used these tropes well. I mean it is a tvN production and they own the supernatural mystery/romance genre these days. The male lead has the power to know about people’s past by touching their skin so of course we know plenty of skinship shenanigans and questions about human nature and trauma would be explored in this drama. After providing backstory and building up the personality of the main characters in the first few episodes, the series was consistently intense and the chemistry of the characters is great. GOT7’s Jinyoung has proven that he is ready for lead roles in more dramas, while Shin Yeeun showed that she is ready to take on the television screen after her quick rise to fame as a web drama actress in the record-breaking web series “A-TEEN”. SISTAR’s Dasom has also continued to grow as an actress, as seen in her role as police investigator in this series. If you are a fan of supernatural and mystery based K-Dramas, He is Psychometric is definitely one of the best dramas this year for you!

Hotel del Luna (tvN)

Another fantasy series coming from tvN, Hotel del Luna was definitely one of the most talked-about dramas of the year and rightly so. Set in a hotel that caters to ghosts, e.g. the dead with grievances and unable to “move on” to the world of the dead, you know you are in for episodic adventures involving the lives of many guests. We are also provided with the interesting relationship between IU’s Jang Manwol (her name literally means full moon) who is the ghost hotel owner for over 1000 years as a punishment for her sins and Yeo Jingoo’s Koo Chansung (his name literally means bright star) that the deities believe is the key to Manwol’s emancipation from ghost hotel running duties. In a way, it is like a gender-swapped version of the Goblin relationship going on but due to additional plotlines and character relationships, it is honestly a lot more and I will leave it to you guys to find out when you watch the show yourself. If you enjoy a fantasy drama involving ancient supernatural beings, Korean folklore and diverse stories, you would enjoy Hotel del Luna!

Kingdom (Netflix)

Netflix Korea continues to churn out amazing dramas and Kingdom is definitely one of the best this year. Adapted from the Korean webtoon series “The Kingdom of Gods”, the drama is set in Joseon Korean (in the 16th century) where a crown prince already dealing with court intrigues and trying to make it out alive is thrown another deadly problem - zombies. Given the stellar performance of Netflix’s earlier Korean period drama Mr. Sunshine and the amazing global box-office results of Korean zombie movie Train to Busan, this concept itself already sounds like a perfect cocktail for success. And the drama was received very positively, with a second season renewed for 2020. Besides the ridiculously addictive plot, the acting is also superb. The crown prince is played by none other than Ju Jihoon, who has long been popular in South Korea and among K-Drama fans for his dark and brooding demeanour perfect for an apocalyptic series. Bae Doona, who has found great success in Korea and in Hollywood for her roles in K-Dramas and movies such as Cloud Atlas and Netflix series Sense8, expertly takes the female lead role of the physician uncovering the zombie epidemic. If you love period dramas, zombie movies or both, this is the drama for you!

Sky Castle (JTBC)

Widely lauded as the best K-Drama of the year, Sky Castle is arguably one of the best K-Dramas of this decade because of the amazing acting, the unpredictable plot and its inclusion of many societal issues in South Korea. The show set the record for the most-viewed cable drama in South Korean history. Set in the opulent neighbourhood called Sky Castle, the story revolves around the “real” housewives of the neighbourhood who are all trying to get their kids into the top three universities in South Korea (SNU, Korea U and Yonsei - often also abbreviated as SKY universities). This concept of looking at the competitive education environment of East Asian countries is not new but the series set itself apart but including a mystery element, where deaths, secrets and intrigue involving members of the neighbourhood also shed light to class issues spanning across generations, gender issues, work culture, as well as familial relations in the conservative Korean society. The show also employed an extremely talented but underrated cast of actors who either spent many years honing their craft as side characters of many shows or are star film school students. The show also gave many opportunities to the cast afterwards, as seen in Kim Byungcheol’s lead role opportunity in Prison Doctor and Kim Hyeyoon’s lead role in Extraordinary You that are both discussed above. If you love a socially aware drama full of intrigue and mystery with great acting and cinematography, you would love Sky Castle!

The Fiery Priest (SBS)

The highest-rated miniseries of 2019, The Fiery Priest is really a unique show unlike any other. The story follows an investigation into the death of an elderly priest, with the Scooby-Doo crew made up of a young priest, a detective, and a prosecutor. While the crime-solving trio dynamic in the synopsis would definitely give “The Guest” flashbacks, this drama is completely opposite to OCN’s 2018 gritty horror extravaganza and is instead heartfelt and utterly hilarious. The priest clearly has anger management issues, the detective sucks at his job and the prosecutor has questionable moral standards. And Kim Namgil, Kim Sungkyun and Honey Lee all played these roles ridiculously well. Like other great dramas this year, The Fiery Priest looks at social issues in South Korea but instead of extremely serious commentary, touches of them in a humorous and sarcastic manner. This allowed the show to get away with more than you would expect on Korean non-cable TV. One thing the show did do which was similar to the much more serious “The Guest” was not having a romance plotline shoved down our throats like many K-Dramas. If you love a good comedy-mystery drama, you should check out The Fiery Priest!

The Tale of Nokdu (KBS2)

Another drama based on a webtoon, The Tale of Nokdu received average national ratings but was massively successful among the Gen Z of Korea and overseas fans. The reason may be the premise of the series. We have seen a good amount of girl masquerades as guy romcoms in the late 2000s and early 2010s such as the legendary dramas “Coffee Prince”, “You Are Beautiful”, “Sungkyunkwan Scandal” and “To The Beautiful You” but HAVE WE SEEN A REVERSED VERSION? Well look no further as The Tale of Nokdu is exactly that. Set in the Joseon Dynasty, the male lead has to hunt down a female assassin who has taken refuge in a women-only widow’s village and he must pretend to be a woman to live in the village to catch the assassin. Jang Dongyoon and Kim Sohyun delivered quality acting but probably what really made the show so popular with the Gen Z audience is seeing the male lead coming to realise the struggles of women in ancient times, with some struggles still existing today, as he lived in the widow’s village and the fierce and strong personality of the female lead who keeps saving the male lead’s ass. While there are some expected period drama tropes with royal court politics and will-they-won’t-they in face of the greater good, The Tale of Nokdu is one of the standout dramas this year for its fresh take on the cross-dressing K-Drama trope. If you have enjoyed previous cross-dressing K-Dramas, you should give The Tale of Nokdu a try!

Vagabond (Netflix/SBS)

Lee Seunggi and Suzy reunites in Vagabond for the first time since Gu Family Book in 2013 and this was definitely a great reunion. With a backdrop involving government corruption and terrorist attacks, Lee Seunggi dons the role of a retired stuntman turned vagabond to avenge the death of his nephew and uncover the truth. Suzy joins Lee Seunggi as a rookie special agent who gets pulled into the investigations after being in the wrong place during the wrong time (or the right place in the right time depending on how you view the investigations). This action-packed series was filmed across many countries such as Portugal and Morocco and would give you a huge adrenaline rush as the main cast faces new obstacles and betrayals in every episode. The current ending of the series suggests a possible Season 2. If you are a fan of spy and action-type thrillers like City Hunter and IRIS, you would love Vagabond!

When the Camellia Blooms (KBS2)

The highest-rated mini-series this year after The Fiery Priest, When the Camellia Blooms is a slightly more light-hearted slice of life series set in the fictional matriarchal town of Ongsan. The series stars Gong Hyojin as a single mother who moves to the town to raise his son and run a bar called “Camellia”. The story revolves around Kang Haneul’s small town cop (and lowkey village idiot with a heart of gold) who has a crush on Gong Hyojin and her baseball star ex-boyfriend and the boy’s father played by Kim Jiseok trying to win her back. What makes this series so well-loved is that besides the love triangle shenanigans set in the small-town community, the endless line of useless pushover men, and the community drama between store owners and neighbours, there is also a mystery involving a serial killer who holds a grudge against the female lead. But ultimately it is a quirky drama where the slice-of-life really dominates over the mystery aspect of the series and we learn a lot about the characters and their backstories as the series progresses. If you like a more slow-paced, slice-of-life series, When the Camellia Blooms is the series for you!

Honourable Mentions:

Dazzling/The Light In Your Eyes (JTBC): The story about a young woman who suddenly became 70 years old but with the ability to manipulate time. The series received critical acclaim for its portrayals of the struggles of everyday folk in South Korea and for its surprising twists.

The Secret Life of My Secretary (SBS): The male lead is a childish company director who lost the ability to recognise faces and must enlist the help of his secretary to maintain the pretence of normalcy. Rainbow’s Jaekyung was a complete scene-stealer for her role as the over-the-top CEO Veronica Park. 

The Last Empress (SBS): Set in the alternate reality where South Korea is a constitutional monarchy, this is a melodrama involving a bodyguard who wants to seek revenge on the King’s mistress and a Queen who discovers her fairy tale marriage was just a PR ploy by the royal family. Basically, peak quality makjang.

What’s your Top 10 K-Dramas of the Year? Leave your thoughts in the comments section below and may the drama sharing begin (and the road to more excuse for holiday procrastination!)

Also, if you want to check out underrated K-Pop songs of 2019, here are the lists for idol songs and artist songs. We have also made a list for the Top 20 most underrated K-Pop songs of the decade!

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Stray Kids: When Your Parents Don’t approve of Your relationship [Requested]

Requested: anon

Member: Strays Kids

Plot: Hey! I love your blog its probably the best one out there for stray kids! If its not too much to ask could you pls do a reaction from all the stray kids (since its a lot idm if its brief ☺️) on their s/o’s parents not accepting their relationship and their s/o being stressed over it?? Extremely specific 😂 i was feelin an angst today thank you sm for all ur hard work i hope what i said made sense 💖

Genre: Angst/Fluff

Note:Y’all i haven't wrote something angst related in years...Also I tried making this as different as I could but I’m not original and plagiarize my own content :’’’’) also just a psa you can send in request for Wanna one and SVT though I can’t guarantee that request will be open for long 

[Master list // Guidelines // Request]

[ C H A N ]

•Chan would totally understand your stress and is totally willing to do and get you anything that will help ease it

•of course he’d try to talk to you softly about how his and your relationship doesn’t have to change because of your parents

•and how he’s not going to leave you just because your parents don’t accept him as the person to take care of you

•honestly probably during the whole talk he’s having with you he’d be on the verge of tears because he knows how stressed and worried you are and he is told

•”Listen to me (y/n) I love you and you love me and nothings going to change that. Who cares if your parents don’t accept us? You trust me right? Knowing you still love me and feel safe by me is all I need.”

•and probably after his little rant he’d pull you into a tight hug

[ W O O J I N ]

•it’s be pretty obvious that your parents thinking he wasn’t fit for you upset him also

•but he knew it affected you more so he’d try not to act so upset about it around you because he didn’t want you to suddenly start blaming yourself or worse you end up think he doesn’t want to be with you anymore

•and along with that he might try to stray your thoughts away from it because he didn’t like seeing you stressed

•There wouldn’t be any specific way he’d just try to talk about dumb and less serious topics, turn on your favorite TV show or try to talk about some of your favorite bands

•And if he could tell your not in the mood to joke around or even loosen up a bit because the topic stressed you out so much he’d change the way he was approaching it

•and instead would approach it head on and try to hear you out so that he’d know just what to say to calm you down

•and when he did get you to calm down he’d go back to trying to distract you from the topic knowing you being so stressed wasn’t good for you

[ M I N H O ]

•Minho wouldn’t really show it but he was dejected by the fact your parents didn’t like him

•And he’d try to hide that fact by trying to help you cheer up knowing for a fact you were stressing over the fact yourself

•He’d try to joke about how he’d suck up to your parents to make them like him and how they will one day absolutely adore and love him to the point they wouldn’t remember why they disapproved

•Minho would even tell you how he’d be that persistent boyfriend in all the cheesy dramas and movies that will never give up still he proved he was worthy of your child

•Though if he saw that was only helping partly he’d pull you into a tight hug and try encouraging you to just let out any thoughts and concerns you had

•Like it honestly didn’t matter to him if what you said was rude, irrational or just straight up nonsense if it meant it would help you cool down

•And when he sensed that you weren’t as stressed as before he’d turn into cutie Minho just for you knowing that you like when he would act cute just for you

[ C H A N G B I N ] 

•Changbin would be one another one to try to push away his sulkiness just for you;Like honestly he’d be cutie boy Changbin for you any day 25/8 if it meant you’d be smiling and carefree

•But since he knew this was more of serious topic too wouldn’t try to make it as if he didn't care but at the same time try to lighten up the mood

•He’d lie and say that it didn’t bother him and do everything in his power to assure it wasn’t a big something to worry about

•If he saw you untense a little he’d shoot you his killer smile and open his arms wide for a hug

•he’d take the moment of you in his arms to his advantage and gently try to really discuss the topics with you

•Because he knew if he didn’t your heart would weigh heavy with the lingering thoughts of the argument you had with your parents over your relationship with Changbin

•And afterwards he’d totally change back into cutie Changbinnie and try to take your mind off the topic

[ H Y U N J I N ]

•Hyunjin honestly wouldn’t know what to do at the point and time, he hated seeing you so stressed and that he didn’t know what to do

•He’d try his best to comfort you, like if you were pacing back and forth he’d hold your wrist and pull you down onto his lap and try to calm you down

•Hyunjin strikes me as the type of person to use a slightly soft and giggly voice while asking obvious question before saying something smooth enough it distracts you

•”Why are you so stressed cutie? You know I’m your knight and shining armor and I don’t care if the king and queen dislike me, cause you're my little prince/princess and nothing will change that”

•His nose will scrunch lightly at his own words but if what he said brought a smile to your face then saying cringy stuff, to him was enough

•but if he knew it wasn’t enough to ease your stress then he’d take the time to sit down and try talk with you seriously

•and afterwards he’d take you out to see your favorite movie or to go to your favorite restaurant

[ J I S U N G ]

•Jisung wouldn’t necessarily see as a big problem himself but he didn’t want to see you stressed

•he’d try to convince you your parents not liking him was in fact not a big problem and would not change the relationship you had with him

•Jisung honestly might even just tell you about how he’s gonna run away with you if your parents try to break you to apart if it meant a smile would come back on your fast

•but if it was a weak smile he knew was only for a small moment he’d pull you into a tight hug

•he’d stay quiet for a while trying to collect his own thoughts before saying anything

•Jisung would try to keep his tone quite and comforting as he ran a hand through your hair/ running a hand up and down comfortingly

•He’d also try to explain why it wasn’t a big deal to him and also try to ask you questions so he could give you answers he knew were truthful but also would calm you down

•and afterward he’d pull back a kiss you before shooting you his adorable little smile

•”I love you.”

[ F E L I X ]

•Felix would be pouty about it but honestly it wouldn’t affect him too much, matter of fact it might even swell up his pride a bit (hear me out on this one)

•He’d joke about how he was like the bad boy on the block that parents don’t typically approve of but ironically is still with their kid and will one day prove a point to the parents

•Felix would try to make light of the situation as much as he could and wouldn’t dare let it dip even further into seriousness and question that should never asked

•But if he could tell that it wasn’t helping at all he’d smile softly at you before gently telling you everything was going to be alright

•Wether your parents liked it or not he was going to do anything in his power to just see you, hold you, and kiss you...Even if it meant waiting by your window at ungodly hours and for you to sneak out pretending you were hanging out with friends and not him

•And afterwards he’d try to change the topic to something lighter

•and may even take you out for icecream, a movie or anything you were in the mood for to take you both out of the heavy atmosphere you both were just in

[ S E U N G M I N ]

•Seungmin would send all the love and support you ever need once he found out you were stressing over your parents disapproval

•But at the same time would understand the seriousness of the topic and try to gently talk to you about how it didn’t matter if your parents approved or not

•”Our relationship won’t change whether they approve of me or not. I mean yeah it’d be much better if they  did, but you love me and that’s all that matter to. So cute that pretty little mind of yours bright cutie.”

•Afterwards he’d try to lighten up the topic because he knew it made you stressed

•He’d send you his soft little smile and ask you how you were feeling and if he could get you anything to take your mind off it

•It didn’t matter if it was the simplest thing or something a little more extravagant he was willing to do/get it if it meant it would help  

•and if he felt as if the thoughts were lingering in your mind afterwards he’d try to distract you by talking to you about random things or even humming the tune to your favorite song

[ J E O N G I N ]

•Because of Jeongin’s young age he’d assume he’d be a little bummed out about it a little irrational

•He would be more upset than any of the other members about the fact that your parents didn’t think he was good enough for you

•But he wouldn’t say anything out loud because he already knew you were upset and stressing over the fact yourself

•Jeongin would probably stay quite himself and allow himself to calm down because he didn’t want to say anything that might have caused you to get even more upset

•Afterwards when he was calmed down he’d try to talk with you but of course with such carefulness that you’d think he was treading on dangerous water

•But even so Jeongin would still do everything in his power to try to comfort you and maybe even poke some jokes if he felt like the atmosphere was right

•and if he felt like he couldn’t comfort you verbally he would hold you and just stay like that for hours, rubbing your back up and down to comfort you as he hummed random tones to lighten up the mood