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katyspersonal · 2 days ago

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To be honest I don't really want mutuals who instantly assume I commented in bad faith to act "condescending" when I was nothing but light-hearted in disagreeing about a point in the post about one of the characters and agreed with everything else. 🤔 Especially not when I apparently pissed them off so much it made them post TWO (passive-aggressive) posts on the topic of disagreement afterwards instead of.... actual discussion? At least if I assume someone is being mean on purpose I ask them about it

#/vent #I softblocked them tbh #I mean apparently they think ill of me and thing I disagreed on is something they're passionate about #so I probably stepped on a landmine anyway and from my experience these can't be fixed #also it strongly reminded me of subparzero #they got hostile upon assuming I commented in bad faith for literally no reason #and then said I baited them for conflict over disagreeing at one djura point #and told me to go hang out with other neurodivergent folks instead #likewise entirely ignoring obvious signs of support and otherwise loving the post #so yeah having this bad memory resurface just. dealt massive mental damage.#I just don't now what's in such people's heads #I said I should stop vagueblogging about negative interactions lol #but honestly this made my blood pressure jump super high #needed almost an hour to calm down and type this #mostly because I'd think a *mutual* would not assume I am just here to trash on them #especially when there was no reason to!!!#at this rate I don't even actually want to know what in my comment was 'condescending'#either language barrier or autistic barrier the answer is always the same #something I physically can't fix so its whatever

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