#also im specifically talking about physical disabilities here not neurodivergent headcanons

[sonknuxadow]

i wish more people would have disability headcanons for sonic characters that dont only exist for angsty fanfictions or whatever. "sonic loses a leg in a horrible accident and now he cant run anymore and its so sad and tragic" actually what if he was just disabled from the start and its not that big of a deal

[alienaiver]

🌾 my name is nohr, you're welcome to call me that but you are also welcome to use affectionate nicknames ✨

🌾 i'm 29 years old and im a native inuit who lives in scandinavia. my starsign is cancer. i love d. gray man, haikyuu, bnha and jujutsu kaisen a whole lot!

🌾 my pronouns are they/them and i identify as agender and aroace. i am neurodivergent and physically disabled.

🌾 i love video games, cats, books, manga and anime, multiverse theories and aliens! my birthday is in the summer but winter is my favorite season. my favorite animal are frogs 🐸

🌾 i have a cat who's a rescue and means the world to me, i love talking about him and showing pictures. i have a lot of fun ones, if you ever need some cheering up, i can send you some<3

i would love to be friends, my askbox is always open for chats about anything and i have a discord that you are welcome to ask for! though, while the content of this blog is friendly for all ages, i do remind you that i'm 29 and would like for people who ask for my discord to be 18+ 🧡

however, due to my autism, disabled hands and irl obligations, my replies are sometimes embarrassingly slow, like... weeks. it looks like ghosting to some but its never(!!). the social rules about not sending me a new message before ive replied to the first doesnt count with me either, so always send away and ill reply when i can!!! i also suffer NO!!! friendship decay whatsoever, so i dont find it strange if you hit me up with long periods in between.

i want to interact and be more active with writing mutuals but i miss a lot of stuff on the dash, PLEASE tag me in anything you do if you'd like, unprompted and everything! or send me a msg about your tag list if i miss it 🥺🧡 it genuinely brings me the greatest joy, so i dont miss anything. tho i do apologize if i dont always interact in a timely manner or still miss it, despite tags. brainfog makes me hazy a lot of the time!!!

i am neither white, cishet, able bodied or skinny and i try to reflect it in my writing. my reader's always gender neutral! i constantly try to do my best by avoiding things like gendered clothing and gendered descriptors, visible blushing, hair length+texture, other physical descriptors, and body type related descriptors! (i also have a habit of making the characters as aggressively non-straight as possible!)

i do however reblog content that may contain aforementioned things and i ask you to read their respective warnings and content notes!

requests are welcome in my askbox when they are open and you can check the status, rules and stuff here!

my frequently used tags:

nohr.txt random talk, personal posts, etc (i talk a lot. im sorry)

nohr.writing all my fics in one place!

nohr.headcanons all my headcanons and minor posts in one place (often written on the go)

nohr.rec recommendations for fics i really like!

nohr.talks answered asks!

nohr.ref a little neat tag for writing tips and references!

i tag the most common triggers but you are more than welcome to message me if there's something specific you'd like tagged and i will try my best to do it. they usually go tw trigger (e.g. 'tw blood', 'tw eye horror' etc)

© alienaiver 2024.

[queerloquial]

every odd question~

How did you choose your name?

ive just always favored magpies, so the word ended up in two of my urls (this one, and my original, steam-powered-magpie) and eventually turned into what people call me

Do you have more physical dysphoria or more social dysphoria?

social, definitely. i really only experience discomfort with my body based on what people around me see when they look at me- they see certain traits and assume ‘this is a girl’, so sometimes i do what i can to change or hide those traitsWhat was the first time you suspected you were transgender?

trans, specifically- probably when i was 19/20 and learning more about being nonbinary and the various words i could use to identify myself

being not cis- i remember being as young as ¾/5 and thinking ‘i am not a girl at all >:(’

What is your favorite part of being transgender?

the first thing in my head was ‘i can pick my own name!’How did you come out? If you didn’t come out, why do you stay in the closet? Or what happened when you were outed?

im really only out here on tumblr (where i just edited my about page), and to my sister (who follows me & read my about every time i update it) and best friend (who i told in conversation somewhere, fairly casually)

im not out to anyone else irl because i live with and around a lot of people who are very against anyone who isnt a middle-class-or-higher white able-bodied neurotypical cis het conservative protestant christian

What are your experiences with binding or tucking?

ive never used a real binder- only sports bras a size or two smaller than i wear normally- but im strongly considering getting one when im more financially stableWhat (if any) steps do you want to take to medically transition?

ive thought vaguely about top surgery or starting t, but they dont appeal to me nearly as much as just binding and wearing guys clothesWhat labels have you used before you’ve settled on your current set?

i was a demigirl at one point, and used to go by she/her pronouns. now i only use those with people im not out toWhat do you do when you have to go to the bathroom in public?

i use the womens room by choice, its habit by this point and i do so love my routines. i did once have a gas station attendant accidentally unlock the mens room for me- i was wearing baggy clothing and had my hair up in my hat- and having them assume from a glance that i was not in fact a woman was very niceWould you ever go stealth, and if you are stealth, why do you choose to be stealth?

is that different from being closeted? if not, i do it because i dont feel particularly safe being properly outWhy do you use the pronouns you use?

they/them is a nice neutral set of pronouns that already fit neatly into common grammar

also im plural, so, bonus pointsWhat’s your biggest trans-related fear?

being known as trans by the people i currently live with/around & them reacting the way i think they wouldWhat do you wish cis people understood?

well that trans people are fucking human, for one. i cant tell you how many times my mom has heard about trans kids on the news and proceeded to talk about each one and call them “it”… 

also that gender is not male/female, that presentation does not equal identity, that medically transitioning is not the only way to be trans or nonbinary/that not everyones medical transition is the same (some people take hormones, some get one surgery, some go all-out, some people dont want to medically transition at all)What do you do to validate yourself?

bind and put on my gayest flannel and my nice heavy boots and tuck my hair into the collar of my shirt. looking less obviously-feminine clears up a lotHow are you involved with the trans community, IRL or online?

i reblog trans/nb positivity posts and occasionally do gender-related dragon age headcanons, but thats about itWhat trans issue are you most passionate about?

uhhhhh being treated as human i guessHow do you feel your gender interacts with your race, disability, class, weight, etc. from the perspective of intersectionality?

i think there might be some effect from being poor and fat- something along the lines of ‘society at large doesnt see me as a real woman anyways/i cant perform femininity to the required degree so why not be genderless’. theres definitely pull from being neurodivergent; thats actually my Real Identity definition. ‘gendervague- gender or lack thereof influenced by mental illness’. i use agender for conveniences sake, but at the core, i feel like if i didnt have all the brain things that i do then i would have a genderDo you feel more masculine, feminine, or neither?

non-gender with left masculineHow did/do you manage waiting to transition?

with my current living and financial situation, waiting is kinda mandatory, so its just. thats life, theres no changing it without drastic action that i dont know if im comfortable taking right nowDo you interact with other trans people IRL?

to my knowledge, no, but they could be closeted or just not disclosing their gender to me