#also how will i get married if you keep taking my money away 😂😂

[shinayashipper]

They have been preparing me to get Married like I'm going to be fed to the lion's den- I hate how "to be Married" is made to be my Goal in life, I hate it <\3 I hope everyone stops asking me about marriage... it will happen when it happens, stop pestering me about it

[doctorofmagic]

@prettywitchiusaka​ said:

Part of me fears it’s Clea, ngl. But having re-read parts of this issue, I don’t know. Aggamon wasn’t looking directly at the culprit before he got blown to smitgerines. Plus, after all she went through to get Stephen back, I doubt she’d risk her marriage to get even with Aggamon.

Hmmm...My guess is this is either Dormammu disguising himself as Clea...or this is a manifestation of Clea’s fears from Strange #2, how having too much power could drive her mad if she weren’t careful.

But yeah, based on these preview pics, something tells me Nightmare’s gonna be telling Stephen that his patient is in another dimension. 😁

Regardless, I can’t wait for the next issue!

*Sees comments about Stephen and Tony being totally married* Well, Stephen HAS been implied to be poly in the comics, so why not let him have a Husbando while Clea’s away? It keeps him from being lonely. 😊

I’m pretty sure it wasn’t her. I’ve been trusting Jed ever since DODS and he never disappointed me. Also why going through the trouble of spending more than a year writing about their reunion only to separate them again? It’s too obvious to be her.

For issue #2, since they’re fighting Nightmare, I think that evil!Clea is her own fear of becoming evil like Dormammu and Umar, consumed by conquest and anger. She did lose control once when she was manipulated and Jed took inspo from that to exploit her faltine form. This is super cool imo because it will certainly add more layers to her character. Truly amazing!

And as I always like to put, Stephen can literally hold as many hands as he wishes 🤭

@digicom-online said:

It was strongly spelled out in THE ORDER #3 that Paradox fell during the rebellion against Dormammu.

Yes, but we know comics and how characters hardly stay dead forever, right?

@whitefoxgone said:

I don't know much about the comic version(s) of Stephen, but he's such a dear in Midnight Suns lmao 💕 or maybe I'm just biased 😂 Also you can buy the game and play it in cloud gaming with GeForce Now or similar things. You do need a stable and good internet connection though, and you might have to wait a lot with the free plan (the paid version has a good price imo). I have played MS through it and enjoyed it very much ✨✨

Oh, I too am totally biased but I really believe he’s accurate because 616!Stephen is also a dear when properly written  💜 I wholeheartedly recommend checking out Jed’s holy trinity if you ever feel interested someday :3 and thanks for the tips but even with a solid connection (which I don’t have), I’d still have to get a decent computer to play it. And mine is literally crumbling weiwoeiwo *nervous laughter* Keeping hope alive that I’ll manage to play it this year if money comes my way, amen Vishanti

@junoofthestars said:

That summary reminds me of the 2007 Doctor Strange movie...

It does, right? Except that Dormammu was the villain behind it, and not Nightmare (which was indeed odd). In any case, I’m taking it cause I love Nightmare and I crave to see Jed’s take on him!!

[kawaikith]

☾ my views on marry my husband.

This kdrama = 🥹🤌🏻🫠 *chefs kiss*

Park min young had to lose weight for the role of playing a cancer patient, i remember reading it in the articles. She’s so dedicated, I love her so much.

So, i’m finally watching this drama after hearing the hype over it, and it’s a 5/⭐ I LOVE IT, I’M ONLY ON EPISODE ONE, BUT IT’S SO GOOD!!! ✨

I love the small details, they’re shown so perfectly.

The taxi driver giving her money back, saying that it is his last day as a taxi driver, turns out it was her father. From the small heart mark on the notes he gave her. 🤌🏻

How she wakes up and travels back in time, ten years before she died at the hands of that douchebag, minhwan. He’s such a red flag, though.

The way she runs at him, the moment she looks at him 😭😂 she runs so fast, she runs 200 metre from her company.

And, our green forest follows, with her sandles, even buys her food, because he knows that she needs it. 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻🫠 The husband she deserves, I hope.

And, that fucking bitch soomin, acting as if she really cares for min young. (I forgot the character’s…wait, it’s jiwon, hmm) 😂not me forgetting her name every few minutes. 😭

Did you also see that when jihyuk watches jiwon smile, he collides with the desk, and all the papers are flying. Lol, he’s so whipped, WHIPPED! LOVE TO SEE THAT SHIT!!!

Love where this is headed. Finally! I found a good kdrama!

Okay, i watched way too many episodes and came back to update this post.

Can we take a moment to appreciate how jihyuk knows to take care of our jiwonnie, he even outdoes himself and decorates his place with Christmas trees, stockings, and other things. (I’m not a Christian, so i don’t know what those things are called, forgive me)

Also, their first kiss 🤌🏻🫠🥺😩

But, right after they kiss, he pushes her away from himself, because he’s reminded that he is the person who has to protect her.

He literally locks her out of his apartment 😭

Park minhwan, that motherfucker deserved the debts he has and let’s talk about his parents’s insult that jiwon did. 😂😂😂

She legit dressed like a mistress to show his mother that she isn’t below her, that motherfucker had the audacity to say that jiwon should learn how to respect elders, that she can’t cook, blah blah.

Jiwon is such a legend for answering her back, and not letting that bitch of a mother bring her down.

That comeback was honestly so much better than any k-pop groups i’ve ever seen!!!! 🫠

Wait, but this sumin bitch pisses me off so much, she really had the audacity to seduce minhwan knowing that he’s her best friend’s boyfriend, and then covering up the jomart issue and blaming it on jiwonnie.

That bitch’ll get what he reaped, i swear if she doesn’t, i’ll fucking riot!!!

I don’t know how reincarnation trope works, but if soomin had a miscarriage, then i don’t know how jiwon’s revenge is even complete, especially after the special entry of Yuri, jihyuk’s ex fianceé, is there going to be a sad ending?

Okay, yuri’s entry was not needed, they were just dragging the drama, and therefore, the last episodes felt boring.

I love how jihyuk is a man of small details, how he keeps track of everything that makes jiwon smile, and tries to overdo himself just to see her sweet smile, he’s such a cutie patotie, he even adopts the cat that jiwon used to feed in their college days.

He buys her expensive necklaces, clothes, and takes care of her needs so well, it’s so fucking attractive.

He’s such a divine masculine, i fucking love him! 🤌🏻

[everlastinghistory]

okay i definitely should’ve googled the definition of “subservient” before responding to that 😂. by no means to i think a woman should blindly follow her husband or do every single thing he says. i do however think that in a situation where a man is providing for you (both financially and emotionally; if they are not treating you with love this is irrelevant) it is completely reasonable to want to make his life easier.

i’m not currently married, and my relationship is painfully long distance, so i’m not actively a housewife or tradwife or anything like that. however, if i was married or even just living with someone i was dating, and they were providing for me: it seems entirely logical that i would take care of them. they make the money, make sure i’m safe and happy, they take care of me. making sure they have food when they get home and don’t have to worry about cleaning the house after working all day isn’t that crazy.

by no means does that mean the man never helps with housework or anything along those lines. it simply means that you’re giving them a break from working. think about it. when you get home from work or school do you wanna make dinner immediately? do you wanna clean your house immediately? no. wouldn’t it be nice to have someone to rely on who cared about you enough to make sure you didn’t have that stress? that’s what it is. someone taking away unnecessary stress from someone they love so they can spend time together when that person is at home instead of that person having to worry about dinner and getting things clean the entire time you guys finally have time together after they get home.

also, i see where you’re coming from with the “regardless of whether you’re comfortable with it” thing. but when i say submission and control and guidance i don’t mean that in a they have real power way. i mean that in a you do it willingly out of respect and love way. i don’t remember if i used the word “control” but if i did: i didn’t mean they have real control. more like ceremonial control.

like how the british monarchy is technically the head of state in canada and if we made a law the king didn’t like he could shut it down… oh wait he’s not legally allowed to that. but we do need the Governor General (representative of the monarch) to give approval. they’re not allowed to not give that approval unless it’s for a very very valid reason though.

and guidance doesn’t = treating someone like a child. when you go to someone for advice, that’s guidance. any form of advice is guidance. not to mention there’s some people who like having someone to take care of things like that. i’m horrible at self managing. if i didn’t constantly have people on me telling me to do things i’d never get anything done and i appreciate those people. i probably would’ve failed even just my first year of high school without people telling me to do things. i rely on the stability of other people to keep my own stability. that doesn’t make me comparable to a child.

different roles ≠ different worth.

[wordsbymae]

I wanted to share with you my own personal dark oc. This is the Wild West. Reader is about to lose her farm after her grandfather suddenly died and there’s no other male relatives to take over her family’s farm. And she’s doesn’t think of something soon she’ll lose it or worse! Have to marry that sleazy loan shark who’s offering to take over it for her (he’s a know wife beater, etc). Women aren’t legally allowed to own things, she needs to get bitch quick. So when this handsome and charismatic stranger comes into town. He work as a professional hitman or hired to do gruesome stuff for the right price. Can he turn down the chance not only to gain a sim of money, but to marry and breed the town’s resident virgin. After working as a professional hitman, and being by himself (aside from the couple of nights he shared with prostitutes) he gained the desire to settle down somewhere small and isolated, and have a family with a pretty wife. So seeing this pretty lil thing offering herself up on silver platter, how can he resistance? He to have the farm under his name for a certain time frame before divorcing reader so she can own it for herself, but how can she when he decides he doesn’t want to leave…. He was a strict husband, rarely letting her out of the house in terms of going into public. Gave her a new set of clothes calling her other ones “whorish” for someone like her, and deserved to be represented on what type of woman she was (despite no one ever seeing her 😂). He took over all farm duties and refuse her help, but expects her to cook and clean. Making her his own personal housewife. And sex is a daily thing, yeah there was no way for her to get out of that. She didn’t show any attempts of running away so she allowed to go outside and such, but if he’s not in the mood he would deny her. And sometimes he would leave days or weeks to pick up some job offers. I tried to keep it vague, so you can have your own opinion on it. Hope you liked it, I love talking to you :).

MAE'S 100-FOLLOWER CELEBRATION!

PT 2.

Sorry, it’s me again! But I just wanted to add just a little bit of detail of what I sent earlier. Reader sees their marriage as convenience and is surprised to see him take it so seriously with him taking his husband duties whole heartily. Paying everything for her, spoiling her, providing for her, doing all the “man” jobs for her (working around the farm and driving her, his reasoning is that her only duty as his wife is to sit still and look pretty for him which in his words “won’t be so hard, with a face as cute as a button”) getting over protective of her.

The only times he lets her out of the house is to go to church. He himself isn’t religious, but to feed into his idea of reader being this untouchable saint and sometimes respecting her boundaries/wishes. But he doesn’t like it when she tries to hide herself from, whether it being shielding her naked body from his sight for modesty (your my wife! I have any right to look at you. Now put your arms away, I was just enjoying myself with a quick peak it’s all!), any feelings she feels (not only does he feel entitled to know how you’re feeling 24/7, but he wants you to be comfortable and happy under his care).

He takes it upon himself to almost always bring up the fact that you’re his wife with “my wife” “Mrs…” “my woman” “wife!”. He even threatens you with a few spanks from his belt when you kept “correcting” with “only legally 🙄 “, also he doesn’t take disrespect well so there was no more eye-rolling or mumbles under your breath. While he may be strict with her, he isn’t a totally serious guy. He loves to play! Have fun with her, while telling her goofy stories of his younger self to make her smile or wrestling her. He’s a go-lucky and joyful guy, reader would definitely develop a praise kink 😏 (degradation kink too!). He can’t help himself from complimenting her, giving her cute lil pet names like “sweetie” “honey” “honey bun” “darlin’” “doll face” and her personal favourite “pumpkin”.

Above all else, he would like for her to be happy with him under the restrictions he placed upon her. He thinks he’s doing what’s best for her even though she may not like it at times. So he tries to make it up for her by spending time with her, giving out praise, and buying things for her. Okay, sorry that is it, I promise 😅😭😭😭.

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AAAAAAAHHHHHH I AM IN LOVE WITH THIS!!!!!! <3 <3 <3

AUTUMN!!!!!! You're a genius, I'm not kidding! This was amazing!!! The thought you put in???? I love it!!!! Go as detailed as you want! It's your (amazing and absolutely wonderful) OC and I am so happy you shared it with me!!! I love talking to you too!!!!!

I grew up watching westerns so I am literally obsessed with rough and tough bounty hunters and heart-of-gold old-timey cowboys (it explains my love for the Mandalorian) but this is just next level!!!!! I adore the trope of bounty hunters/hitmen/soldiers whatever, just wanting to settle down on a block of land with a pretty wife and I love how this guy goes about it.

I love the idea that over the years he's saved up quite a bit of money so he could really afford to live anywhere in town, he could buy the mayor's mansion if he wanted to, but no!!! He wants the rundown farmhouse cause he gets a pretty wife with the deal. And I love how you have him going along with the deal of marriage of convenience until the reader can divorce him and get the land for herself! I would love to know how she came up to him and asked him to be involved or did she try and hide her intentions from him and seduce him? I would love to know! I like the idea it was all her idea and when she found the one man she thought wouldn't want to stay in a marriage she asked him, with a little bit of incentive of a paycheck, little did she know this man has been planning their wedding and naming their future children since the moment she walked through the saloon door. Up to you though! I love any of your ideas.

Oooooh! And when it has been those few months and she can finally divorce him and she expects the whole husband facade to fall and he goes on his way.....but!!!!!.... he refuses to get a divorce and now is stuck with this man.....OR and this is a bit of a slutty thought but imagine if he 'agrees' to get a divorce but first one last fuck?? And of course, the reader says yes cause he knows what he's doing and it'll be the one thing she misses the most about him. But!! When it comes time for him to pull out he refuses and goes on about how she'll be such a pretty mama and how nice and swollen her belly will be and how she will never get a divorce with a babe on her hip and another in her belly and how she's his now and he's never letting her go and how much of a good husband he'll be as long as she's a good wife to him and holy hell!!!!!

Also, I ADORE the pet name/nickname missus, it is massive here in Australia even if not married and if a man called me his missus to his friends/family/whoever I would literally melt. And the other nicknames????????? Adorable! My favourite brand of man is funny/goofy but will start, end and win a fight, there is just something about tough men with dirt on their faces telling a funny story that makes me wanna just explode.

OOOO! Him teaching the reader how to use a gun and he says he has to get up right and personal to teach her, but the reader is pretty sure his hands don't need to be squeezing her arse for her to aim. and then having arm wrestles?????? him either always letting her win or never lets her win cause he loves it when she pouts at him!!! I might be projection but YES! Praise kink! Him calling her such a good girl and how she's doing so well and how she's his sweet girl..... man im blushing

AHHHHHH! I can go on forever!!!!!! I love this and I love him! You have me hooked.

[craicchapel]

Just thinking of you and had to see how you are doing. Hope you are able to take some time for yourself amid the chaos that is life. Wishing you all the best as you make your way to becoming a mother a two. Please keep us updated on things if you’d like to share. :)

Thank you so much 😭😭😭 this is so sweet! I'm doing quite well!! I've been running around with my head chopped off to get everything ready for another kiddo. That probably doesn't sound fun, but it's actually motivated me to get a bunch of other random tasks done that I've wanted to accomplish since moving into our place 6 months ago lol. I feel like I've done more in 1 month than I have in the past year lol.

I also quit my job in April which I NEVER foresaw. I'm kinda sad to walk away from labor and delivery because it's a wild ride and I enjoyed it, but it got insanely stressful and unsafe. By the time I decided to leave all but 2 of my coworkers on night shift had quit and well over half of the day shift left too. We were so understaffed and it was a nightmare. I kept having horrendous shifts where it was lucky that we had decent outcomes. I realized it wasn't worth sticking around a place that puts my license and people's lives on the line just to save money (for the higher-ups🙄). Once I was out of there my life became so much less stressful.

Other than that I'm just enjoying the extra time I get to spend with Charlotte . I got married in July with a fancy courthouse wedding lmao. Which honestly was great cause the thought of having a full-on wedding makes me wanna vomit. We finally picked out a name for this next baby. We're going with Gemma. We are middle name less at the moment but oh well. I'm 37 weeks and the last time I delivered I was 38 weeks so I'm just sitting here waiting to pop. I'm having major anxiety about delivering because last time was a c-section but this time I'm going to try vaginally. I've seen too much at work to not be nervous about how it's gonna go lol. I get one period cramp and turn into a baby so yeah...we'll see 😩😂. ANYWAYS that is all. Still obsessed with my cats, still have a guinea pig trucking along, and still a mess 99% of the time. Thank you for checking in 😘, I miss this site sometimes!

[you-are-so-much-better-than-that]

Gonna be a brat and ask you about your wedding “opiniona”s. 😂

LOL! This ask still makes me laugh! Ok, listen. I have never been married. I have never had a wedding. But I have been to what feels like seven thousand weddings (I have six weddings this year), have been a bridesmaid seven times, a maid of honour twice, hosted numerous showers, and have helped friends plan their weddings, diy decorations for their weddings, meet wedding vendors, etc etc. I really do love weddings, but I have a lot of opinions about them. The most controversial of which is the following:

Wedding cakes and physical invitations are a waste of fucking money!! More under the cut because I assume no one else wants to hear me ramble about weddings.

The whole wedding industry is wild, but you wanna know what I'm going to do with your wedding invitation? Put the date in my calendar, snap a picture so I know where to go that day, and throw it away because what am I gonna do with fancy card stock? Or velum paper? Or, my least favourite, invitations that come laser printed on a slab of acrylic?? That's like $10 an invite!! Insanity! Just send me a fucking evite! Or text! I'm happy to be invited by text.

As for cake! Listen. I love a cake cutting moment. Sugar Sugar or How Sweet It Is or Cake By the Ocean if you wanna get spicy playing in the background as you cut into an insane piece of art work that you and your partner feed each other? Love it! Yes! Please gimmie that! BUT the PROBLEM my dear friend, is NO ONE EATS THE FUCKING CAKE!!

When my sister got married, she had a 250ish person wedding, just under even, which by Egyptian standards is a small wedding. She got a three tier cake, which is not an outrageous cake. She told her cake vendor to make one for 125 people because you don't expect your guests to actually eat much cake. It cost $550. The first tier they took home to sit in their freezer for a year to later be thrown out after they each took one bite of their nasty ass one year old frozen then defrosted cake because tradition. The second tier is the one they cut into for the cute cake cutting moment. It was adorable. They have a picture of it on their wall. I don't remember the song I was probably crying. Anyway. The hall cut up the rest of that second tier for guests They said they'll cut up the final tier if necessary. It was NOT necessary. In fact, I witnessed them throw away at least half of the second tier slices they had cut up. And they gave me the final tier to take home. I would cut out large slices and give them to friends. I took a piece to work with me. I tried so hard. And yet, I threw away about half of that last tier. So let's review: top tier--thrown away after two bites, middle tier--50% thrown away, final tier 50% thrown away, possibly more as I am not responsible for what I gave away. I basically threw away at least $400.

No one eats cake when they've just had dessert and theirs a waffle/crepe and ice cream bar at the end of the night! If you must, get a tiny two tier cake, cut into the one, keep the top for tradition. Save your money. Like three of your guests will miss the cake.

Other opinions I have: don't cheap out on a photographer, don't give a favour with your name/wedding date (in fact, the best wedding favour is one I can eat later like jam or honey or tea, extra points if local, double extra points if it also supports a cause--I once got jam from a local farm that gave half their proceeds to a women's shelter and it was the best!), and, if you're asked to give a speech, don't roast the bride(s)/groom(s) /newly married couple. It's their day. You can be super hilarious in the group chat, not in front of their grandmother.