#also I love the gay 🤝 lesbian thought as well

[sapphic-bats]

Stu’s pretty sure there’s something wrong with Tatum.

He and Tate aren’t exactly the most celibate, and anyone with eyes or ears can detect that. They’re not exactly shy about their trysts.

It’s the same thing that’s amiss with him, that’s for sure.

Stu would never, not in a million years, admit that he likes guys. To anyone. Besides the obvious fact that Billy knows, they’ve been fucking around for a while now, and it’s really the only time fun felt serious. Permanent. It’s stupid, cliche, and fucking flowery, but he’s gotta at least be honest with himself, yeah?

He always liked it when girls got as zealous as guys did. When they peeked down shirts, ogled asses, and slept around. I mean, sure, Stu had slit a woman for being a slut, but he really couldn’t care less about why. It was for Billy, and that was the only reason he needed. He wasn’t paid to think, but he was compensated, needless to say. Just… not in the way most would pay a hitman, for example.

Stu knew about Bowie. He knew bisexuality was a thing. He knew all about San Fransisco, and who inhabited it as freely as they could. He really never gave a shit, until he started puberty, and boys looked about just as good as girls did, although Stu often explored the mystery of women and how they worked, rather than the familiar concepts of men.

But the weirdest thing was that, even if Billy seemed to shun the very prospect of girls, someone else didn’t. And it sort of made Stu feel idiotic that he didn’t realize it was possible.

For every perverted glance Stu shot down a girl’s shirt, Tatum had done the same. Tate, however, didn’t seem as blatantly disrespectful as most guys acted. She seemed to recognize that people had feelings, and as long as she was discreet and kept her words and hands to herself, she wouldn’t make a girl uncomfortable.

Tatum slapped Stu when he ogled a girl, but it wasn’t in the girlfriend way it should have been. She didn’t seem the jealous type, Tate was just… what’s the word? Right, a feminist.

But it should have been in the girlfriend way, feminist or not! Shouldn’t it have been?

So, when Stu keeps catching Tatum glancing Sidney Prescott up and down, and picks up on the weird, almost ex-like tension between her and Courtney Blanchett, he says nothing.

In turn, Tatum never mentions the fact that she knew what a stab-slash-knife wound looked like, being the sister of an officer, after all. She never mentions that she knows that Stu’s spent his free time with Billy on the days that he comes about those injuries. She never talks about that one time, on New Year’s Eve, when Stu and Billy changed their clothes on a whim before midnight.

So they don’t talk about it. They don’t, and the secrets die with them.

I’m finally reading Debaser by @sharpth1ng and I had this idea while reading Chapter 8.

[revelguts]

not really an ask (nd u dont have to answer if u dont want) but i was browsing tumblr dot com's queer comic tag after the biggest gay crisis of my life (read: thought i was a lesbian for 7 years, 2024 me is a gay t guy) and stumbled on ur comic by accident and read all of it in like 4 hours. really really loved it. i took a 3000 level comics course last semester but got discouraged to make stuff this summer, and the composition of that shot where philo gets accepted into his castle and everyone swivels around to him was so, so cool and makes me want to draw again and fills me with passion. (i may draw fanart when my torn rotator cuff clears up if thats okay... havent been inspired to do that in literal years) i love the passion in ur work and i hope you have a fantastic day

Omg thank you this makes me so happy to read 🥹 I’ve had so many gay crises 🤝 also went from lesbian>gay trans guy at one point although now I’ve landed at bi trans guy hahaha, and I was going through the trans crisis when I started Sparks so I’m really happy you found it while being in a similar headspace… making it helped me so much!

Also I know the exact feeling you mean of something giving you that passion to draw and all my favourite works give me that feeling so I’m honoured Sparks could do that for you! I always strive to be as free/self indulgent as possible with Sparks so that it stays super fun to create and I’m glad that comes through. Of course you’re always welcome to draw fanart and I’d love to see it if you do! Thank you for taking the time to send me this message, and I hope you have a fantastic day as well 💖

[morepopcornplease]

Hi! I love your blog, you seem so loving and kind! I just had a question and I'd love to know your opinion on something - I'm a Christian and a masculine lesbian, still trying to figure out where i stand on side A/side B things, but as someone who's always been a bit of a tomboy/more masculine, I've also struggled with some sex and gender dysphoria. I have no intention or desire to transition, I know that I'm meant to be a woman and that's that, but I was wondering if you have any thoughts/tips on being a masculine, dysphoric Christian woman? Am I sinning by not being feminine, even if I still embrace that I'm female? I've never felt comfortable in dresses or makeup, it's not that I'm trying to be different, I'm just most comfortable this way

welcome nonnie!! 🤗💕

so i must disclose my bias on the question, because, well, i've always been a tomboy!! 🤝folks have called me "sir" in the airport, the grocery store, and most recently by a bunch of 5 year olds at a birthday party... it's just kinda how i ~look!~

i admit i’m tempted to write a response that points out that priestly cassocks are dresses (and for all the folks who are about to argue with me---a kilt is still a skirt, ergo the cassock is still a dress). in all honesty sometimes i feel like dressing in suits as a celibate gay is a fitting symmetry to the way priests wear their cassocks, or how shaving my head (ok its just a small undercut) parallels the nuns who shave their head as a sign of their devotion to God. 

but what feels more true, more theologically honest imho, is this:

maybe the feminine and the masculine are like Imago Dei: we each share in our creation the image and likeness of the Divine, ie the moral, spiritual, and rational dimensions of our being. That Imago Dei exists equally across 7 billion people worldwide, and all who came before us. And yet we exist as 7 billion different expressions of that same divine likeness. And to me that points to---and even magnifies--- the awe-inspiring vastness of God. 

that vastness of Imago Dei is contained within each of us, and yet we can still say, “here at last is bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh” to one another. 

and i think being honest about those differences, that uniqueness, that presentation of a female body that just feels mis-identified to The Feminine... 

well, that’s exactly where i think God would like to meet us. in the middle. 

[an-addams-kid]

My personal Addams Family headcanons! (I will be adding more when I come up with them).

Gomez: transmasc, goes by he/they, non binary, bisexual.

Morticia: transfem, she/her, woman, bisexual.

Fester: intersex, they/it, non binary, aroace.

Wednesday: cis, she/her, woman, lesbian.

Pugsley: cis, he/they, man, gay.

Pubert: intersex, any pronouns, non binary (genderfluid), aroace.

Ophelia: cis, she/they, non binary, bisexual and polyamorous.

Ophelia and Morticia have always been really close to each other, and even more when Morticia saved her from drowning when they were kids.

Ophelia grew up climbing trees and mostly learning from several different animals that lured the Frump’s house, which lead to her getting scratched and injured several times. Due to that, she’s filled with lots of scars and also has a muscular build, which makes her look rather bigger compared to the tall, lanky build of Morticia. Ophelia looks and sometimes even acts kind of feral overall.

Pubert looks a lot like Ophelia (remember that one scene in which they have blond hair and all? Yeah) and it kinda warms Morticia’s heart because it reminds her of her sister, to some extent. It’s also funny too see all the Addamses with black hair and dark clothes and gloomy personalities, and then theres Pubert. Blond with blue eyes and sometimes colourful clothes and a sunny personality.

Pugsley 🤝 Pubert 🤝 Ophelia: the blondes of the family.

Unless... Morticia is also a blonde but dyes her hair black... She's that kind of goth. It would make sense considering two out of three of their kids are blonde.

Gomez doesn’t have the top surgery done and he’s not intending to get it anytime soon. He does take his t tho, and gave it up while getting the kids.

While Gomez gave up t, Morticia gave up the estrogen in solidarity for Gomez.

Wearing braids in the family (from the Frump’s side of the family) is extremely important for them. Whichever member of the family that wears them won’t be able to take them off until they find their true love -whether it is from themselves or from others, and it doesn’t have to be romantic or sexual either- and no one else is able to take care of their hair except for themselves or someone they have in great esteem, like a mother, a sister or a lover. At first it was only intended for women to wear the braids but as the time passed anyone was allowed to wear them.

The day after Gomez and Morticia got married, she was brushing her hair while Gomez stared at her in awe, both bc his now wife is oh so beautiful and because they have a really strong respect for family traditions, both his and other’s. She realised Gomez was staring at her and decided to give them the hair brush, to which he reacted both surprised and excited. The man was VIBRATING with excitement. “Would you do me the honour of brushing my hair, please?” Of course, he said yes. And since then, every morning they wake up from their slumber and Gomez gently brushes Morticia’s hair.

At some point, when Wednesday was little, most specifically, you could see the three of them sat in line: Gomez brushing Morticia’s hair, Morticia brushing Wednesday’s and Wednesday brushing her bodyless doll’s.

Gomez is basically the hairdresser of the family, for he also cuts everyone’s hair, including his.

Pubert has blond, rather curly hair that reaches approximately their jaw, with two long strands of hair in either side of his face, which she braids in order to keep the family tradition going. (If you know who Aurora Aksnes is, that hairstyle but curlier and rather golden)

Both Gomez and Pugsley have adhd and autism. Gomez special interests are swords and trains and Pugley’s are road signs and bombs.

The Addams Credo “Sic Gorgiamus Allos Subjectatus Nunc” was actually created by a roman ancestor of them, who was extremely drunk and thought it was a great idea to write something that will last for eternity while drunk. None of the Addams know latin so they just assumed it was well written.

[heleneplays]

it's exam week for me! here are some songs. a monday jam: monday, you're not so bad by jeremy messersmith. a song about getting gay married (happy lesbian visibility day to us!): city hall by vienna teng. a song that's been stuck in my head: ahay by of monsters and men.

me 🤝🏻 you

EXAM WEEK

hi i am also in week 2 of our midterms since our professors are administering tests out of the official schedule so BIG mood right there!

AND HAPPY LESBIAN DAY OF VISIBILITY TO YOU ♡♡♡ i think we should b able to commit one (1) crime with no repercussions on this day,,, me thinks ♡

AND HEY!!!! i see monsters and men and our tastes are alligning ♡♡♡ i'm looking v respectfully and currently abt to search for these!

like usual, thots & links underneath the cut ♡

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Song 1: Monday, you're not so bad by Jeremy Messersmith

My Thoughts: firstly, WHACK ! for the first time i can safely agree it's not so bad; it's lesbian day of visibility, our lovely moon goddess said gay rights by giving us a pink supermoon, and one (1) author came and choked us with new Relics 2 demo chapter; which is. really iconic!!! it's actually tuesday in my end already so honk honk 👉🏻👈🏻

Okay am listening now and??? ASFHFKLDL honk honk i'm clowning ♡♡♡ sorry monday i still do not like u but you're a queen still. BUT ALSO! the tunes. the bkg. the vocals are overwhelmingly positive i am feeling ENERGIZED and maybe ready to do some work. overall 9/10!!! and OOOO their other music is also super good!!! I'm gonna listen to everything later but UGH a girl, a boy, and a graveyard my beloved

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Song 2: City Hall by Vienna Teng

My Thoughts: HEWwo the lyrics are SO soft i love it here!!!! REALLY ICONIC OF U TO SEND THIS TODAY ♡♡♡ my lesbian heart and gay ass is so soft and tender, im sending u a soft forehead kiss if thats okay rn 👭🏽

but ALSO ugh. wish that was also like that here,,, i want to experience the highs and the lows and the softness of just going somewhere with my partner and. get married like a whole fucking goofball but first we have to kick off the homophobes in our government before we can get legislations to back up on :)

AnYwaYS 1000/10!!! Superb & Stupendous thank u for this one in particular 💖

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Song 3: Ahay by Monsters and Men

My Thoughts: LXJXKXKXLXKZ hello favorite band my beloved,,, this song now lives in my mind rent free 😳💕 it's got. a lot of potential for angst but UGH it's also. got that big maría/mc vibes YET again bc once again i'm back on my bullshit of finding meanings in the barest of hints asdfghjkl

okay but really! it's beautiful and i love it, a solid 10/10 for me ♡

also uwu personally my fave song from of monsters and men is I, of the Storm! the music, the vibes, the lyrics!!! they're just so beautiful and haunting and it hurts me bc i really fell into them around 2016/17, and i was going thru a lot of things and i just??? really felt things with them.

anyways. i really think they're super neat, thanks for bringing me back to them!

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Music aside I wish u a lot of LUCK in ur tests!!!! I hope you pass all of them with flying colors & that u stay well rested & hydrated, okay? take care ♡

personally i'm just. rolling over when it comes to my midterms bc it's just a lot of memorization so far and brain said no, but yes ♡; but i'm instilling confidence in myself bc i KNOW i can AND will pass!

Anyways thanks for dropping by today for your recs, here's a cat in return ♡

she's not mine but she's baby and loves to get ear scritches whenever i go out the front ♡

[pinkradfem]

🤝 i can't remember lol. probably just going on tumblr itself and reading radfem posts.

📩 nope! never received any since i'm relatively small and don't have it open.

🥰 the stubborness of the community to refuse to cow tail to the modern, dogmatic gender ideology and its devotees.

🙄 the misandry. i completely understand where it's coming from but realistically you can't hate every single man.

💣 neither! though lots of people around me went through a trans phase.

😔 can't tell, sometimes my womanhood is a source of self-loathing but i don't know if that's dysphoria.

🤫 my favourite type of men in media are always violent pretty much because i love mob movies.

🤩 um... i can't name one. haha. saying my mum is pretty cliche. oh! Carol Ann Duffy. some people think her poetry is too simplistic but i think she writes well about the female experience (has also been deemed a TERF on reddit).

💅 yes, and i know it's bad. i feel unsafe without it, but i'm taking it one step at a time; i went through London without wearing make-up which is kinda impressive for my neurotic ass. i also shave... i'm a white girl with Indian grandparents so my hair sticks out a lot.

👙false. it directly feeds into the objectification and abuse of women.

🖤 i have a really bad memory so forgive me on this one!

❤️ "The only time you lose the accent is when you want to" - German great aunt.

"My pussy is like an onion" - my friend.

i'm sorry. i have brain rot...

😶 she's a pain in my ass but i love her. she's both a good and bad female role model, but i always had the sense to pick up on the good.

👸 no but it's hard not to feel that way since they're always saying it about us.

😈 i like shutting off when i come home and becoming incredibly shy, weak, and cute. i have to be a grown arse woman when i go out and sometimes it just saps all the adultness out of me.

🌈 the gay and lesbian community, cool. the queer community? no. you're not queer because you only fuck men on Sundays, Sarah.

🚷 nope, but a girl can dream!

😬 the bimbo trend. it's not empowering, you muppets, you are deliberately becoming what men expect of all women.

🎨 Green!

👤 religious lady at a chicken shop who told me not to pray to Mary, only to God and Jesus.

💪 all the way!

🤬 incredibly dumb and entirely money motivated. buzzfeed's political correctness was always just a ploy to create outrage and views, and as a result, feminism is now viewed as a bunch of women complaining about trivial things.

😺 both i guess...?

🍦sausig roles... and chocomel.

⚔️ used to be both, now i reject transgenderism entirely.

🔫 no but it'll tide over. i think for most people this gender nonsense is a phase.

🐶 mixed. i don't think men should say it at all, but that's unrealistic, so they shouldn't say it insultingly at least.

🤣 that i was jealous of trans people. this is a common one, and it's funnier everytime.

👨‍⚕️ never but that's probably because i rarely go to the doctors.

🎭 law and order suv. watched it with a friend at her house and now watch it like everyday. i just love new york as a setting.

🧓 maybe like, two years? a year and a bit?

📚 i didn't like it too much but Mieko Kawakami's "Breasts and Eggs", as well as "The Manningtree Witches" by A. K. Blakemore.

😍 too embarassin...

🚫 no idea! what does that mean?

👌i don't really enjoy anything but i used to enjoy art, videogames, manga, anime, and watching TV shows.

🎮 yea!!!! but i don't really enjoy anything anymore.

🤦‍♀️ bit of both. i hated liberal feminism and didn't agree with radical feminism, and thought trans people weren't the sex they wanted to be but that dysphoria made it ok to used their preferred pronouns.

🤢 yeh lmao.

i can't answer the bottom two because memory, and also because i don't really know a lot of you. but thanks for everything!

Bored. Radfem ask game <3

🤝 What introduced you to radical feminism?

📩 Do you remember your first anon hate?

🥰 Fave thing about the radblr community?

🙄 Least fave thing about the radblr community?

💣 Are you ex- or detrans?

😞 Are you dysphoric?

🤫 Unpopular terf opinion?

🤩 Name a woman who inspires you and why?

💅 Do you wear make-up or shave?

👙 Sex work is work, true or false? Why?

🖤 Top 3 worst things a man has said to you?

❤️ Top 3 best things a woman has said to you?

😶 How's your relationship with your mother?

👸🏼 Do you literally hate trans people sooo much and want them to die violently? Do you personally kill trans women?

😈 A feminist sin?

🌈 Your feelings about the q*eer community?

🚷 Have you defeated the system and been named in a terf block list?

😬 Worst trend you've seen online?

🎨 What's your favourite color?

👤 The most cryptic woman you've ever met?

💪 Are you gender critical?

🤬 What's your opinion on those old buzz feed videos from way back, where women did "experiments" where they sat in public transport and man spreaded.

🐱 Do you think men belong in- or outside?

🍦 Fave snack and yummy beverage?

⚔️ Truscum/transmed?

🔫 What's your opinion on the "war' between tras and radfems? Do you think it's productive?

🐶 Your feelings on the word 'bitch'?

🤣 Worst comeback a tra has made to you while they thought they just served the biggest burn of the century?

👨‍⚕️ Have you felt discriminated against or unsafe, haven't been taken seriously or been groped a little too much when trying to seek medical help?

🎭 What's the best piece of media you've enjoyed recently?

🧓 How long has it been since you peaked?

📚 Any books to recommend?

😍 First girl crush?

🚫 Have you been termed before?

👌 What are your favourite hobbies?

🎮 Videogames yay or nay?

🤦‍♀️ Did you use to be a tra or a mra?

🤢 Radical feminism is white feminism. Are you a privileged whitey too?

💕 Fave mutual? <3

👀 Fave radblr blog you follow?