#adult incontinence pants

[bens-messy-diaperblog]

boyfriend pooped himself at the supermarket today 😵‍💫🤤😖🥵

we went to the local grocery store today, i was pamped up, he wasn't wearing a diaper, and as we were getting our shopping done, he doubles over and begins pushing some poop into his undies, he was very embarrassed and asked if we could get done with our shopping quicker and get out so i could get him changed out of his poopy underwear and into a nice and fresh diaper. we continued our shopping, he occasionally let out another turd into his pants. when we were done shopping i grabbed the changing supplies and changed his poopy pants and put him into a fresh diaper

[wet-thistle]

Oh gosh oh no I leaked through my trainers and had to have it pointed out to me

in proper diapers for the rest of the night, per the order of the Gay Table (housemates) so I don’t ruin any furniture or carpeting 😖😖😖

[phillydiaperguy]

Taking off plastic pants and exposing my wet diapers.

[incontinence-girl]

Leider passiert auch sowas manchmal..Der Klebestreifen meiner windel hat sich ungewollt und unbemerkt geöffnet und meine blase hat sich entleert.

[loki-zen]

obsessed with how when Wilson was sick - and especially when Wilson was sick and House was actively trying to be nice to him - the rate at which he made "lol we're gay for each other" jokes shot way up

the pedestrian take would be to read this as an argument for sexual/romantic Hilson, but I'm kinda in love with the idea that what we're looking at here is a snake-eating-its-own-tail expression of toxic masculinity in which genuine affection can only be expressed via the medium of "ha ha, wouldn't it be funny if we were gay."

[bens-messy-diaperblog]

messed myself at the gym 😵‍💫😵‍💫😖😖

i was lifting at the gym, when my breakfast suddenly didn't agree with my tummy, so i went into squats and let it all out into my pamp. it felt SOOO good tbh, and it was all mushy and smelled a bit.

[diaperedemt]

It’s taken me a long time to finally post something. So here goes. A little background about me. I am a 42 year old male who is happily married, father to a teenage daughter, and has a great career as a EMS provider. I wouldn’t classify myself not so much as a little but more of a diaper lover as I’ve been in an out of diapers since I was 14, either by choice or for medical reasons.

When I was 14 I randomly started setting the bed and would take baby diapers and pull-ups from my younger siblings to prevent cleanup and hide if from my parents. That was until my siblings all grew out of diapers. I was classified as lazy and disgusting once I was caught wetting the bed. I was sent to numerous doctors who all said the same. Oh he will grow out of it. The only problem is, I didn’t. My previous wife (my daughter’s mother) had a bed wetting issue. So I introduced her to diapers for sanitary reasons. Initially it was great and we had a lot of fun with it but the glamour wore off and she refused to wear and chastised me for wanting to wear them. Again I was labeled gross and weird.

I never really had daytime issues and was mostly dry at night until about 4 years ago. I was working a 24 hour shift on an ambulance and while asleep I wet the bed. I was horrified. I now had to clean the bed that is shared with 2 other shifts and hide my wet clothes. (I always had a spare uniform with me on shift. You never know what kind of bodily fluids you can get on your clothes during a medical emergency.) My current wife was made aware of my issues early in our relationship and was accepting. We even had diapers at home in case I found the need to wear or have been drinking. After that incident it work the very next night I wet the bed at home. So I started wear diapers again at night. Mattresses aren’t very cheap.

I made an appointment with my primary care and was referred to a urologist. The urologist did all these different tests and couldn’t find out why I was leaking. She ended up prescribing me with an OAB med to try and limit urine production at night. As for work I immediately put in for a position in the office setting and was awarded a 911 dispatch shift at nights.

So for the past year I’ve been diapered at night where ever I sleep. It wasn’t so bad until about 6 months ago when while doing CPR on a patient I completely wet myself in the ER. Everyone was so apologetic but meanwhile I was completely embarrassed. To make matters worse I was brought a pair of paper pants and a pull-up to wear by the ER staff, “Just in case.” When I got home from my shift I went to take my pull-up off and noticed it was quite wet and didn’t recall actually using it. I wrote it off as maybe I forgot and just peed it. So I changed out of my uniform and into regular clothes. While sitting on the couch watching tv my wife came in and told said, “Uh honey, You’re wet.” I reached down and sure enough I was soaked along with the couch. I went to the bathroom to change and was provided a diaper and sweatpants by my wife. I love this woman. She is so accepting of me and wouldn’t know what to do without her.

Anyways. I fought for months to keep from wearing during the day and would have frequent accidents. She wouldn’t say anything but I could tell she was getting frustrated. I didn’t want to wear a diaper all day at 42 years old. Then one night when working I completely wet myself while in dispatch. Being that our dispatch center is recorded I had to break down and tell my director about my accident. She was also very supportive and offered any help she could.

Another call to another urologist ended in a different test. This time a biofeedback was completed and during the test I started leaking at approx 68.2mls. This is way lower than the typical capacity of an adult of 2-400mls. As he couldn’t see any reason why I was still leaking. He thinks it was a birth defect and my bladder has atrophied so much that I’ve outgrown it. During an IV dye test and MRI he also noticed my sphincters don’t operate properly. I was given a diagnosis of Urinary Incontinence secondary to Bladder Atrophy and Intrinsic Sphincter Deficiency.

I am having a hard time accepting this especially with my career as I still work on ambulance from time to time and am a active volunteer firefighter for my community. Just know that each and everyone that I follow helps me accept this a little more. It makes me happy that at least there are people out there who enjoy diapers and help try to normalize something that is so taboo. Thank you each and everyone of you.

[phillydiaperguy]

When a boy wakes up in urine-soaked diapers, he won’t want to wake up any other way.

[bens-messy-diaperblog]

just had a second messing 😵‍💫🥵💩

i legit couldn't feel it coming, one second i was chilling in my bed, next thing i know, i was making a massive stinky in my pamp, it is SOOO good feeling, and it's beginning to move slowly to the front of my diaper 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[phillydiaperguy]

It’s wet Wednesday and I’ve wet my diapers.

[padded-sin]

Okay so step one is there’s no judgement on the rec room couch 🫣 what feels like my entire life story down below⬇️⬇️

👋 hi all, we’ve covered the basics here a bit already. I’m Madison, I’m incontinent, I’m looking for an outlet where I share my day to day to gain confidence and show all of you what my daily life looks like, adult diapers have saved me/my clothes/a bunch of furniture.

I’ve been incontinent for pretty much ever. It hasn’t always been this “bad” but it hasn’t always been this manageable either. What started as near nightly bedwetting and daily dribbles turned into where I’m at now over the course of years. At first I could hide and manage it with outfit changes and towels layered under sheets. As I got older the problem got worse. I was using heavy duty overnight pads, double layered in some instances just to make it through a school day and eventually work shift. I didn’t know what products were available and even if I did it’s not like I had unlimited funds to figure out what worked. So many times I’d tuck my leg underneath me to sit in a chair. Winter has always been my favorite. Between the layers and wet pant legs/boots it really hides any dampness. Or at least gives it an origination other than me. It got to the point though that I needed another solution. Pads weren’t cutting it and I was doing so much laundry I could hardly keep up, let alone explain the midday outfit changes. I tried all the traditional options. And Depends? Everyone knows they suck. I’m pretty sure a work requirement for the makers of depends should be that they have to use their own product in varying instances of *need* instead of what they must currently work off of, “have at least once thought about what urine is”. Not sure how those things have such a stronghold on the market. As long as I was: restricting my liquids, overusing alcohol to dehydrate myself for the next day, always knowing where the next bathroom is, keeping a change (or 2) with me, and using whatever subpar material to catch what was rapidly becoming more than leaks- I was free to live my life. Except none of that is very freeing so instead I kept social interactions to a minimum, turned down invitations from friends to the point my social circle shrank to almost nothing, entered a workforce that was known to be work from home even before c*vid (can I say that word here?), used grocery delivery before it was cool. Eventually I found the “medical” category of disposable undergarments. I started out using them overnights only at first telling myself my problem wasn’t so bad that I had to wear a diaper during the day. (😆denial) Slowly they became my normal. Still self conscious- the size, the noise, the smell? Could people tell? They’re definitely looking at me! They know! All thoughts racing around my head every time I set foot out of the house. I still try out different brands and styles to see if anything works better than others. I have my tried and true which I’m sure you’ve been noticing. Different things work better for out instead of home and I don’t show too much of that yet. I try to wear my baggiest clothes, long shirts, sweatshirts tied around my waist when the season will allow. I’m still not looking to show this off or try to make people notice it, I’m just no longer uncomfortable taking up the space I exist in. I still need to time my outings and bring a change except now it’s more looking for a private spot and a spare diaper in the hidden part of my purse. I still restrict my liquids so I can stretch my time that I can go without a change but I no longer avoid just living like I did before. I’m still a homebody but I think even without this I’d lean this way.

Overall I’d say reactions from people were pretty negative. Growing up it was certainly frowned upon and….shamed? I wasn’t so much punished for it but I wasn’t made to feel good about it either. Any traditional solutions that were tried-and failed- were met with, well sometimes all it takes is time. It’s something that even the late bloomers “grow out of” but I always question if we do or if we just get better at managing our lives around it. Luckily I have no siblings so no one to tattle or share a room with while I was growing up trying to deal with it myself. Later on relationships were… tough. I’d take the beginnings very slow, meticulously timing dates, waiting all day to drink half a glass of water during the date, lots of bathroom options to sneak away… intimacy was okay eventually but sleepovers were out of the question. I could handle late nights or early departures making sure to never get so comfortable I’d actually fall asleep and risk making a mess somewhere. Then when a real relationship with trust was formed with prior partners I had a whole new can of worms to deal with. Thoughts about how this other person knows about my vulnerability. The relationship would run its course and I’d be afraid to leave because what if they told someone? What if rumors started about me? How many people would they tell about my well-kept secret? I’d hang in there long enough that separating was their idea so at least they wouldn’t be mad at me for breaking their heart and tell people my secret. My current relationship has brought me to terms with being more comfortable. Both with myself and everything I’ve got going on. It’s no longer a big deal to go to the grocery store when I need something I forgot on my weekly order. An invite out with friends isn’t met with an excuse as to why I can’t make it, or have to leave early. I don’t feel like I’m wearing potato sacks instead of clothes even if I’m not wearing the most form fitting items, I trust them to be honest about what looks good while still being discreet. It’s a very open subject between us both in the day-to-day and intimately. This isn’t something that we got into as a “want”, it’s just part of my daily(&nightly) needs. They’re supportive of me and sometimes it carries over into other aspects as a matter of convenience instead of desire. I don’t want to go too far into that because I don’t feel like it fits the scope of what I’ve been building here. For the first time I feel like I’m not less of a person because of this, I’m just me and lovable regardless.

This wall of text is long enough for today. I know I’m probably leaving lots out that I just don’t think about anymore, or just choose not to think about. As always I don’t mind answering questions as long as they’re respectful and truly coming from a place of inquisitiveness.

💕 much love, Madison.

[finsubbybedwetter]

Good afternoon, please have a seat. I am an administration officer acting under the authority of the Male Reproductive Rights Reform Act. You are here today to receive official notice that your MRRRA standing has been lowered to Restricted/Developmentally-impaired in response to the recent update in your medical history.

Please confirm for the record that you recently reported a bedwetting episode to you doctor. Thank you. I presume that you were not aware that male adult bedwetting has recently been reclassified as a prohibitive developmental impairment. Yes, we are aware that you only reported a single incident. However, as your medical records indicate that you experienced frequent bedwetting throughout your teens, we consider this episode to be indicative of relapse into chronic, habitual bedwetting, which is grounds for immediate corrective action.

You have been enrolled into the Adult General Urinary Incontinence Correction Program at a male remedial facility. More commonly referred to informally as the toilet training program. Yes, we understand that you have no history of full incontinence, but as bedwetting was only recently recognized as a prohibitive condition, we do not currently have a remedial program more specific to your needs. Also, studies have shown that daytime wetting is disproportionately common and often under-reported in bedwetters. We believe this program will be a good fit for you.

You will undergo corrective therapy and continuous assessment over a six week period. The corrective component of the program consists of hypnotherapy and severe negative reinforcement. You will be diapered at all times during your stay at the facility, and fitted with a moisture-sensing alarm to ensure accurate record keeping of wetting incidents for assessment and disciplinary purposes. I believe you had some experience with this kind of alarm in your teens so this should be quite familiar to you. Yes, you will be diapered at all times, not only for bed. Please understand that program rules do not permit us to make any exceptions for your case.

Bathroom visits will be restricted to a fixed schedule and fluid intake will be managed to ensure that you receive an accurate assessment. In order to keep our assessment false positive rate within MRRRA guidelines, the bathroom schedule and fluid intake minimums have been tuned to be challenging for an adult male with average bladder control and extremely challenging for impaired individuals such as yourself. We have also found that stressing program participants in this way boosts the efficacy of the negative reinforcement component of the program.

At the conclusion of the program, your assessment results will be reviewed by committee and you will be prescribed assessment outcomes. Outcomes vary widely. The more severe outcomes include permanent revocation of reproductive rights, castration, gender reassignment, and in instances involving developmental impairment such as yours, revocation of legal adulthood.

Should you receive a favorable assessment, your standing will be lifted to Qualified-unrestricted/Developmentally-impaired. Yes that's correct - your diagnosis as an adult bedwetter is permanent and thus will be reflected in your public record regardless of assessment result. A favorable assessment only indicates that you are not currently experiencing symptoms. Also, please be aware that current and future employers and sexual partners, if any, will be notified of your condition. Though, having seen your file it looks like you won't need worry about that second part..

That concludes this proceeding. When you leave this office you will be escorted to the facility for induction. Your assessment period has already begun. I hope I don't have to tell you that any non-compliance will reflect extremely poorly.

Alright, now that that's done and we're off the record, I can finally be honest with you. You're fucked. I've sent dozens of pissy-pants virgins just like you through this program, and you know what? You losers always come out more pathetic than you went in. Right now you're just a bedwetter, but in six weeks time you're going to be a stuttering, subservient, diaper-dependent sissy. You want my advice? Don't fight it. Forget about "favorable assessment". Forget about ever losing your virginity. Think of this as six weeks to adjust to your new life.

[bens-messy-diaperblog]

just had a blowout with my boyfriend 😖😫😵‍💫

was chilling with my bf when i had some very bad cramps hit, and i just pushed it all out into my diaper. my god it's SO messy i love it 😵‍💫😵‍💫😖😖😫😫